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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
cool. so then why did you come here specifically to misc if you think that? and then look for advice?Do you understand how math works? If i consider myself to be top 5%, that means 95% of men cant and wont be able to relate to my experiences. Ill say it again, i dont expect miscers to understand me, thatd be foolish. Im blessed, touched by God at birth srs.
or is there something else here?
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Originally Posted By propreffered7⏩
Sounds like he likes himself a lotcool. so then why did you come here specifically to misc if you think that? and then look for advice?
or is there something else here?
or is there something else here?
06-08-2022, 04:06 PM
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Originally Posted By propreffered7⏩
Because there are some intelligent and self aware people on the misc whom i believe to be able to give me some solid advice or their two cents, instead of just criticizing me or taking my experiences and stories as some personal attack to their persona.cool. so then why did you come here specifically to misc if you think that? and then look for advice?
or is there something else here?
or is there something else here?
We have had this discussion before. I think human beings arent monogamous. We claim to be on the surface, but we really arent. Take Tiger Woods for example, everyone criticized him for his affairs, then again nobody has 10 super models begging for their cock like Tiger did. Its just a situation that takes a little bit more of self awareness to understand, cant simply judge.
"The flowers bloom, then wither... The stars shine and one day become extinct. This earth, the sun, the galaxies and even the big universe, someday will be destroyed. Compared with that, the human life is only a blink, just a little time. In that short time - people are born, laugh, cry, fight, are injured, feel joy, sadness, hate someone, love someone. All in just a moment. And then, are embraced by the eternal sleep called death."
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Originally Posted By Evolutionary1⏩
Man i love myself. If you met me youd love me too (srs).Sounds like he likes himself a lot
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06-08-2022, 04:08 PM
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
Speak for yourself my dude.Difference is that a guy like that can exit the relationship and have a girl of similar value commit to him pretty much immediately.
Men are happy with just sex, women aren’t. .
Men are happy with just sex, women aren’t. .
I would never be married if all I was looking for was sex. Much easier to be single to do that.
You dont just drop a high quality girl and pick up another. As you said in your other post, they are rare breeds and dont come around too often.
06-08-2022, 04:09 PM
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Originally Posted By donblaximus⏩
Let me rephrase: Men are much happier with just sex than women are. Women need a relationship more than men do.Speak for yourself my dude.
I would never be married if all I was looking for was sex. Much easier to be single to do that.
You dont just drop a high quality girl and pick up another. As you said in your other post, they are rare breeds and dont come around too often.
I would never be married if all I was looking for was sex. Much easier to be single to do that.
You dont just drop a high quality girl and pick up another. As you said in your other post, they are rare breeds and dont come around too often.
A man that has sex with 10 beautiful women and is single will be much happier than a women in the same situation. Im speaking in general of course.
Im just comparing what a man and a woman have to lose when they leave a high value partner. Women have to lose way more IMO, and im not talking about money
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06-08-2022, 04:13 PM
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
Dude......you are playing both sides of the fence in this argument and its not a good look bro.Do you understand how math works? If i consider myself to be top 5%, that means 95% of men cant and wont be able to relate to my experiences. Ill say it again, i dont expect miscers to understand me, thatd be foolish. Im blessed, touched by God at birth srs.
06-08-2022, 04:15 PM
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
you're so up your own ass it isn't even funny. so people giving advice are only correct if they give you the form of advice you want right?Because there are some intelligent and self aware people on the misc whom i believe to be able to give me some solid advice or their two cents, instead of just criticizing me or taking my experiences and stories as some personal attack to their persona.
We have had this discussion before. I think human beings arent monogamous. We claim to be on the surface, but we really arent. Take Tiger Woods for example, everyone criticized him for his affairs, then again nobody has 10 super models begging for their cock like Tiger did. Its just a situation that takes a little bit more of self awareness to understand, cant simply judge.
We have had this discussion before. I think human beings arent monogamous. We claim to be on the surface, but we really arent. Take Tiger Woods for example, everyone criticized him for his affairs, then again nobody has 10 super models begging for their cock like Tiger did. Its just a situation that takes a little bit more of self awareness to understand, cant simply judge.
your comments about self-awareness are pretty funny, and that's what my posts attempt at explaining. because if you answered my questions honestly i could prove it to you
i said it in my first comment
once again, your whole post is ironic. because i said you have ego problems and now im continuing to explain it and within that little nugget has to do with you lacking self-awareness, and when you lack self-awareness you're not privy to the problems you're creating. as ive pointed out, you create your own problems
so, again.. you say "biological urge" - the way you've defined it (ego point)- which you're talking about nutting. you say you "have to nut" in multiples. and i ask if its simply about nutting in and of itself, like if all you had to do was nut.. and one girl could make you nut. how is it simply about nutting? if it were solely about nutting and one girl could make you nut wouldn't that satisfy you're "need to nut"? so, obviously it's not just the nut.
then you would talk about sociality - and then my ego and validation points would be apt but you didn't answer honestly and it steered the conversation here
at the very least though.. i do want to point out you're wrong. and again are creating your own problems, but i do know it will fall on deaf ears as aforementioned "up your own azz" but c'est la vie
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Originally Posted By donblaximus⏩
Im just messing with him man. He always gets rustled at my posts for some reason. Still dont get how am im playing both sides, care to explain?Dude......you are playing both sides of the fence in this argument and its not a good look bro.
Edit: see post above lol.
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
Your mindset is off on this bro......and you are speaking with ego. If you step back and think about it.....if in fact you are with a HIGH VALUE FEMALE......the man has just as much to lose as she does.Let me rephrase: Men are much happier with just sex than women are. Women need a relationship more than men do.
A man that has sex with 10 beautiful women and is single will be much happier than a women in the same situation. Im speaking in general of course.
Im just comparing what a man and a woman have to lose when they leave a high value partner. Women have to lose way more IMO, and im not talking about money
A man that has sex with 10 beautiful women and is single will be much happier than a women in the same situation. Im speaking in general of course.
Im just comparing what a man and a woman have to lose when they leave a high value partner. Women have to lose way more IMO, and im not talking about money
On your comparison.......yes i agree.....men value the physical act of sex more than women. But I dont believe having sex with 10 chicks casually is better on the whole than being with one high value woman......when looking at things on the grand scheme of things and not just with your coock.
Yes, every man has urges (believe it or not.....even non top 5% guys). As I said, what defines you is whether you act upon those urges and in what circumstance. Not that hard and I dont think there is a clear cut right or wrong answer. If you F over someone.....then its clear up. If you are up front and honest about it....all good.
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Originally Posted By donblaximus⏩
Fookin thisIt would take a pretty crazy circumstance for me to crush my kid's world for a nut.
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
Yeah i see.....i figured you were probably stirring him up. All good.Im just messing with him man. He always gets rustled at my posts for some reason. Still dont get how am im playing both sides, care to explain?
Edit: see post above lol.
Edit: see post above lol.
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Originally Posted By donblaximus⏩
I never said having sex with multiple women is better than being in a relationship with one quality girl. I understand the advantages of the latter and how it will ultimately positively impact your life 100x more than just fuking a bunch of hotties. I get that.Your mindset is off on this bro......and you are speaking with ego. If you step back and think about it.....if in fact you are with a HIGH VALUE FEMALE......the man has just as much to lose as she does.
On your comparison.......yes i agree.....men value the physical act of sex more than women. But I dont believe having sex with 10 chicks casually is better on the whole than being with one high value woman......when looking at things on the grand scheme of things and not just with your coock.
Yes, every man has urges (believe it or not.....even non top 5% guys). As I said, what defines you is whether you act upon those urges and in what circumstance. Not that hard.
On your comparison.......yes i agree.....men value the physical act of sex more than women. But I dont believe having sex with 10 chicks casually is better on the whole than being with one high value woman......when looking at things on the grand scheme of things and not just with your coock.
Yes, every man has urges (believe it or not.....even non top 5% guys). As I said, what defines you is whether you act upon those urges and in what circumstance. Not that hard.
My dilemma is that i dont think i will choose just 1. Most men in my position do both, and im just finding out that i may not be as special and morally righteous as i thought i was before experiencing what i stated in the OP.
Maybe and hopefully that changes with kids. Or maybe you are right and i just havent found out a high value woman.
Have you never cheated on your woman? I know its a tough question, maybe DM if you feel more comfortable, would never share anything.
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Saw pic of girl and I didn’t look through the thread but I suppose there is no evidence of OPs story being true.
LMAO at a 50k IG girl deleting all SoMe after a month with a dude.
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Originally Posted By Ironmanlet⏩
or anyone for that matter, everI bet you could, maybe you just are not ready. Or not.
There are legitimate biological reasons why we feel this way.
you are not limited to being single or a cheater. There is some middle ground there. You just have to find like minded partners.
There are a lot of “free” people in this world and a lot of good looking females are in that community.
Don’t let society tell you you have to live a certain way man.Find the life you want and fuggin do it.
I just recommend brutal honesty with yourself and anyone you get involved with. If the truth results in you losing a thing, you never actually had that thing to begin with anyway.
Good job at posting pics. on r/c. take notes misc.
There are legitimate biological reasons why we feel this way.
you are not limited to being single or a cheater. There is some middle ground there. You just have to find like minded partners.
There are a lot of “free” people in this world and a lot of good looking females are in that community.
Don’t let society tell you you have to live a certain way man.Find the life you want and fuggin do it.
I just recommend brutal honesty with yourself and anyone you get involved with. If the truth results in you losing a thing, you never actually had that thing to begin with anyway.
Good job at posting pics. on r/c. take notes misc.
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Originally Posted By Brosnbroccoli⏩
hmmmSaw pic of girl and I didn’t look through the thread but I suppose there is no evidence of OPs story being true.
LMAO at a 50k IG girl deleting all SoMe after a month with a dude.
LMAO at a 50k IG girl deleting all SoMe after a month with a dude.
06-08-2022, 04:47 PM
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No idea why I'm taking on misc on this.
You cannot involve another woman and expect your family to flourish as much if you have children.
She absolutely needs to keep herself together. Perhaps you can confidentially sort yourself.
I know the supernatural stuff is false, but most of the social dynamics religions describe actually work.https://bibletalk.tv/top-10-ways-to-...-soul.amp.html
Try connecting to something like spiritual exercise to keep perspective
You cannot involve another woman and expect your family to flourish as much if you have children.
She absolutely needs to keep herself together. Perhaps you can confidentially sort yourself.
I know the supernatural stuff is false, but most of the social dynamics religions describe actually work.https://bibletalk.tv/top-10-ways-to-...-soul.amp.html
Try connecting to something like spiritual exercise to keep perspective
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Originally Posted By Brosnbroccoli⏩
Dont need some no-name miscer to believe me, so we are cool. Lol at posting evidence and making it even easier for haters/detectives. Never once have i posted anything personal or detailed in my misc years before, wont change after 15 years of miscing lolSaw pic of girl and I didn’t look through the thread but I suppose there is no evidence of OPs story being true.
LMAO at a 50k IG girl deleting all SoMe after a month with a dude.
LMAO at a 50k IG girl deleting all SoMe after a month with a dude.
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
You have a lot of convenient excuses.Dont need some no-name miscer to believe me, so we are cool. Lol at posting evidence and making it even easier for haters/detectives. Never once have i posted anything personal or detailed in my misc years before, wont change after 15 years of miscing lol
You seem to think other people think as highly of you as you do...
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
Yeah lol, shes quite similar and very good looking IRL, looks like a doll. Shes still doing business in Mexico City so i doubt shes your gym girl lmaoNever said women approachen men was the norm, or that no other men has had my experiences. You are proyecting hard right now brah, just chill srs. Being top 5% of men is incredibly rare obviously, and i dont expect many miscers to relate with my experiences, if anyone else does, then for sure they agree or understand my ideas so even better.
lol def have similarities but dont think its her, her jaw is wider and her face longer, lips thinner and looks like shes carrying some baby fat on cheeks. Send me unedited pic.
Also how much $$?
lol def have similarities but dont think its her, her jaw is wider and her face longer, lips thinner and looks like shes carrying some baby fat on cheeks. Send me unedited pic.
Also how much $$?
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I was going to get off the net for the day but I've always liked you as a poster Ken so here it is:
- You can go the "open relationship" route, but that will not be in favor of the relationship lasting long. Still could go great but more likely to cause problems. Or it could be the answer and last a long time. Remember 100% communication is KEY along with many other rules you two should read up on if you decide to go through with this.
- You've claimed to have had allot of hot females, both of us have been blessed. We might be different though because when I found the "ones" (hot AND good personality/above average IQ) my desire to be promiscuous went down about 1 million fold (this was always after being with them for 6+ months till it happened). This also happened after I thought the whole idea of a relationship was a scam being hurt over and over learning much. It was three separate women for me personally that superseded the "desires" I had for other females. The rest of the girls over the years I cared about yes, but never did I want to be monogamous like when I was with the cool ones.
- I have never cheated but I got close to cheating on one of my girl's I truly had a connection with and it made me feel extreme shame/sadness/depression. Not worth it at all. Go look at porn instead, and even better yet watch it with your girl.
I would sleep on this at the very least so you can think about the outcome and how cool/hot this girl is which will be tough to top again I'd say given what you described. Although I think you're also in the honeymoon phase hard ATM bro so give it time and let it play out like I said before doing anything rash.
- You can go the "open relationship" route, but that will not be in favor of the relationship lasting long. Still could go great but more likely to cause problems. Or it could be the answer and last a long time. Remember 100% communication is KEY along with many other rules you two should read up on if you decide to go through with this.
- You've claimed to have had allot of hot females, both of us have been blessed. We might be different though because when I found the "ones" (hot AND good personality/above average IQ) my desire to be promiscuous went down about 1 million fold (this was always after being with them for 6+ months till it happened). This also happened after I thought the whole idea of a relationship was a scam being hurt over and over learning much. It was three separate women for me personally that superseded the "desires" I had for other females. The rest of the girls over the years I cared about yes, but never did I want to be monogamous like when I was with the cool ones.
- I have never cheated but I got close to cheating on one of my girl's I truly had a connection with and it made me feel extreme shame/sadness/depression. Not worth it at all. Go look at porn instead, and even better yet watch it with your girl.
I would sleep on this at the very least so you can think about the outcome and how cool/hot this girl is which will be tough to top again I'd say given what you described. Although I think you're also in the honeymoon phase hard ATM bro so give it time and let it play out like I said before doing anything rash.
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Originally Posted By Evolutionary1⏩
You have a lot of convenient excuses.
You seem to think other people think as highly of you as you do...
You seem to think other people think as highly of you as you do...

Originally Posted By Beast92⏩
Damn man, you must be living the life.Yeah lol, shes quite similar and very good looking IRL, looks like a doll. Shes still doing business in Mexico City so i doubt shes your gym girl lmao
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Yeah i doubt thats her but trust me, nothing surprises me at this point. The kind of **** ive seen or lived...
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Originally Posted By dopamine72⏩
Appreciate the advice. Yes i think im in the honeymoon phase which makes it even crazier, im having sex 2 or 3x daily, having good sex, and still looking at other girls and thinking about approaching them. Thats the whole reason behind making this thread, if im not happy at the start then how am i going to be happy in 10 years with stress, bills, sex not as exciting/frequent etc.I was going to get off the net for the day but I've always liked you as a poster Ken so here it is:
- You can go the "open relationship" route, but that will not be in favor of the relationship lasting long. Still could go great but more likely to cause problems. Or it could be the answer and last a long time. Remember 100% communication is KEY along with many other rules you two should read up on if you decide to go through with this.
- You've claimed to have had allot of hot females, both of us have been blessed. We might be different though because when I found the "ones" (hot AND good personality) my desire to be promiscuous went down about 1 million fold. Mind you this happened after I thought the whole idea of a relationship was a scam being hurt over and over learning much. It was three separate women for me personally that superseded the "desires" I had for other females.
- I have never cheated but I got close to cheating on one of my girl's I truly had a connection with and it made me feel extreme shame/sadness/depression. Not worth it at all. Go look at porn instead, and even better yet watch it with your girl.
I would sleep on this at the very least so you can think about the outcome and how cool/hot this girl is which will be tough to top again I'd say given what you described. Although I think you're also in the honeymoon phase hard ATM bro so give it time and let it play out like I said before doing anything rash.
- You can go the "open relationship" route, but that will not be in favor of the relationship lasting long. Still could go great but more likely to cause problems. Or it could be the answer and last a long time. Remember 100% communication is KEY along with many other rules you two should read up on if you decide to go through with this.
- You've claimed to have had allot of hot females, both of us have been blessed. We might be different though because when I found the "ones" (hot AND good personality) my desire to be promiscuous went down about 1 million fold. Mind you this happened after I thought the whole idea of a relationship was a scam being hurt over and over learning much. It was three separate women for me personally that superseded the "desires" I had for other females.
- I have never cheated but I got close to cheating on one of my girl's I truly had a connection with and it made me feel extreme shame/sadness/depression. Not worth it at all. Go look at porn instead, and even better yet watch it with your girl.
I would sleep on this at the very least so you can think about the outcome and how cool/hot this girl is which will be tough to top again I'd say given what you described. Although I think you're also in the honeymoon phase hard ATM bro so give it time and let it play out like I said before doing anything rash.
Dont think an open relationship is the answer. I wouldnt stay with a woman that even talks to other men. It may sound hypocritical but i legit believe men and women dont operate the same and cant be judged the same. Natural selection doesnt work 1 on 1, it wants the best genes, but i wont get into one of my long ass detailed rants about that ITT, lets just say i wouldnt accept a woman seeing other man.
You may be right about "finding the right one". Then again i could spend my entire life searching for something that wont come, its tough. Ive still got time tho, i think ill hit my SMV prime in about 3-5 years.
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thread title is incorrect. you said pics. you provide a single pic. you implied plural
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to make things right, you can post one more pic. then your title is accurate
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to make things right, you can post one more pic. then your title is accurate
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You're basically an idiot OP with likely some mental issues. Just being honest and giving it to you straight.
Here you have a girl you actually want, but don't make the necessary sacrifices for the relationship to work? Why is that? Seeking more validation? You need to look deep.
Yeah a few of us can get just about any girl in town, but at some point will you realize that a monogamous relationship is a good thing? And will you realize that spending your time pursuing random strange for thrills is a waste of time? Sex with someone you care about isn't even comparable with a random sloot that is likely disease ridden from riding the cock carousel all week and yet you find that attractive and worth pursuing?
At least try to make the relationship work. Spend more time pursuing a hobby together or something.
Here you have a girl you actually want, but don't make the necessary sacrifices for the relationship to work? Why is that? Seeking more validation? You need to look deep.
Yeah a few of us can get just about any girl in town, but at some point will you realize that a monogamous relationship is a good thing? And will you realize that spending your time pursuing random strange for thrills is a waste of time? Sex with someone you care about isn't even comparable with a random sloot that is likely disease ridden from riding the cock carousel all week and yet you find that attractive and worth pursuing?
At least try to make the relationship work. Spend more time pursuing a hobby together or something.
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Originally Posted By _zman⏩
Sex with someone you care about isn't even comparable with a random sloot that is likely disease ridden from riding the cock carousel all week and yet you find that attractive?

"The flowers bloom, then wither... The stars shine and one day become extinct. This earth, the sun, the galaxies and even the big universe, someday will be destroyed. Compared with that, the human life is only a blink, just a little time. In that short time - people are born, laugh, cry, fight, are injured, feel joy, sadness, hate someone, love someone. All in just a moment. And then, are embraced by the eternal sleep called death."
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Edit - As homo as this thread is already ^^^^ There is LUST and there is MAKING LOVE
You CAN separate the two, they can be different and or they can be correlated. It depends on the type of person where things will lead.
OP is LUSTING hard
I was only talking about an open relationship with other girls no guys lol that's cucked. That was my bad I should have been specific its more of a normal thing here in Cali. Just make sure eye contact is with your girl and the focus is on her so she doesn't freak tf out.
The biggest risk in life is not taking a risk. Keep searching for the one if that is what your heart desires. If not then stop doing all of this if its not making you happy. You know my story about my fiance wrecking my life I believe, so I made things the way I know would make me happy and almost three years later no more feeling like offing myself lol
Also as far as being "Happy" that's more of an internal thing than an external one. But yes figure the fuk out what makes you happy and plan accordingly.
You might be going through some sort of insatiable sex craze right now, you drinking or anything else?
Definitely work on keeping balanced/stable.
You CAN separate the two, they can be different and or they can be correlated. It depends on the type of person where things will lead.
OP is LUSTING hard
Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
Grass is always greener my friend.Appreciate the advice. Yes i think im in the honeymoon phase which makes it even crazier, im having sex 2 or 3x daily, having good sex, and still looking at other girls and thinking about approaching them. Thats the whole reason behind making this thread, if im not happy at the start then how am i going to be happy in 10 years with stress, bills, sex not as exciting/frequent etc.
Dont think an open relationship is the answer. I wouldnt stay with a woman that even talks to other men. It may sound hypocritical but i legit believe men and women dont operate the same and cant be judged the same. Natural selection doesnt work 1 on 1, it wants the best genes, but i wont get into one of my long ass detailed rants about that ITT, lets just say i wouldnt accept a woman seeing other man.
You may be right about "finding the right one". Then again i could spend my entire life searching for something that wont come, its tough. Ive still got time tho, i think ill hit my SMV prime in about 3-5 years.
Dont think an open relationship is the answer. I wouldnt stay with a woman that even talks to other men. It may sound hypocritical but i legit believe men and women dont operate the same and cant be judged the same. Natural selection doesnt work 1 on 1, it wants the best genes, but i wont get into one of my long ass detailed rants about that ITT, lets just say i wouldnt accept a woman seeing other man.
You may be right about "finding the right one". Then again i could spend my entire life searching for something that wont come, its tough. Ive still got time tho, i think ill hit my SMV prime in about 3-5 years.
I was only talking about an open relationship with other girls no guys lol that's cucked. That was my bad I should have been specific its more of a normal thing here in Cali. Just make sure eye contact is with your girl and the focus is on her so she doesn't freak tf out.
The biggest risk in life is not taking a risk. Keep searching for the one if that is what your heart desires. If not then stop doing all of this if its not making you happy. You know my story about my fiance wrecking my life I believe, so I made things the way I know would make me happy and almost three years later no more feeling like offing myself lol
Also as far as being "Happy" that's more of an internal thing than an external one. But yes figure the fuk out what makes you happy and plan accordingly.
You might be going through some sort of insatiable sex craze right now, you drinking or anything else?
Definitely work on keeping balanced/stable.
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