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post 1681969943 05-03-2023, 11:37 AM
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Originally Posted By Imnew1⏩
Honestly the best advice (and worst advice at the same time) is just meet somebody that you work with or network with. That's where somebody can be around you 8 hours a day and figure out if they like you instantly, or you grow on them, and the odds of either of you working there the next 5 years or more is slim to none. Maybe a chick you work with doesn't date co-workers but has a friend that she shows you that thinks you would be great with. That or through friends. Maybe they went to high school with or worked with some chick who wasn't into them, but you're out with a few of these friends and run into this girl and she still doesn't like your friend but finds you cute enough. Who knows. Maybe she has a midget fetish and has been dreaming of the day her ex-coworker was out with a guy like BBMG (I kid I kid).

Anything is better than swiping all day saying "pick me, pick me please" like idiots on dating apps.
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post 1681970433 05-03-2023, 11:44 AM
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Pulling in bars relies on both people having some level of social skills.

The reason that the older crowd find bars easier is that they grew up socialising in person and that is natural to them.

The younger crowd socialised on line and have stunted social skills, so uncomfortable guys are trying to pull uncomfortable women.

Practice make it easier as social skills improve, but the fact is that compared to 20 years ago, many young women think every guy who they meet in a bar is a potential rapist etc and are permanently defensive in that environment.
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post 1681970503 05-03-2023, 11:45 AM
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Originally Posted By J0hnWayne⏩
I’ve pulled triple digit sloots going to bars since I was like 15, I got plenty pics to prove it too

If you’re less than 7/10 it’s gonna be rough for you, that’s why lookmaxing is pivotal
This. And I found the more I didn't give a fuk, the more poosay would gravitate toward me. Just concentrate on having a good time and you'll find yourself in good, attractive company. Not every time of course. If you project off a hint of nervous energy, you're screwed. I met my wife in a bar, we have 3 kids now. Actually it was a club really, and it wasn't real busy.

Trivia night at a place is indeed an awful time to try pulling some ass. OP, go out more often. You'll feel more relaxed and that's key.
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post 1681970703 05-03-2023, 11:47 AM
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post 1681972253 05-03-2023, 12:10 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
man your average guys returns randomly approaching in settings that arent specifically for dating is going to be abysmal.

I think some of you are a bit divorced from reality about this.

The best thing an average guy can do is specific things where women are looking, basically apps/bars/clubs. Other than that, pray you just randomly bump into someone somewhere by chance like a store but its unlikely.

there's a reason for that stat that 63% of men are single.
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post 1681973333 05-03-2023, 12:27 PM
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I hate the excuse that the girl they like in in a group. Approach the group. Her friends have to like you anyways, or they'll co*kblock you. Start a conversation with the group, not just her. You can focus on her later.
post 1681978023 05-03-2023, 01:51 PM
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Originally Posted By Imnew1⏩
There's always ways. If you hear a group of girls speaking a foreign language near you walk up and say hey and that you were wondering what language they're speaking (even if it's obvious). I did that once and one of them came over and sat next to me to order a drink and chatted for 15 minutes or so.
Not a bad idea. Even better, learn a foreign language or two so you can surprise those girls by putting in that extra effort to chat. Also, you can understand some of what they are saying and gather intel first. 5D chess.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
this
Why do you come into every thread with your negative spin?

Yeah, you and a miscer named "FA*******" have never had success in a bar (or anywhere apparently). That doesn't translate to the "average man."
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Originally Posted By monster0ultra⏩
OP has a masters in electrical engineering. You have no idea how much work ethic and intelligence that takes. You would've flunked out of the weed out classes in undergrad from a combo of laziness and low IQ.

So it bugs TF out of me when lazy and stupid people who are far inferior to OP tell him that his problem is that he isn't putting in the work.
It's too bad HayZues isn't still around to see this.

You pretending to be anything other than an incel ****git yourself is what really "bugs TF out of me."
post 1681992473 05-03-2023, 05:55 PM
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Agree entirely. The reason to go to bars is to be part of the social scene. I was a regular at a couple bars over the last couple years, and can't really say I got laid a single time as a result. I'm sure I could have banged a couple of the bartenders, but honestly they kinda treat regulars as simps if you're in there hitting on them.

But it is good to be a regular at bars so you have a place to bring girls. The bartenders will vouch for you. It's good social approval.
post 1681992583 05-03-2023, 05:56 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
it isnt perfectly fine for the kinds of guys struggling enough to be asking for help on the internet
So according to you, anyone who asks for dating advice is already doomed?

Strong logic.
post 1681995303 05-03-2023, 06:49 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
there's nothing pathetic about it, people do it all the time.

Brad Pitt wears a football jersey is getting the girl.

You retards are so desperate to avoid acknowledging the obvious truths. She doesnt care if you wear a jersey. She cares if you have a good face, money, height and a big dink
well if you acknowledge this why are you arguing and just accept that your fuked for life and focus on something else.im starting to think this is trolling at this point.make money if you can and do something you wanna do and stop complaining your never gonna get a girl.if you cant get the girl get something else.cause dwelling on it gets you no where.trust me i know better than anybody.quit bitching and move on.buy something nice or something.get a motorcycle.if that dont make you happy nothing will
post 1681995483 05-03-2023, 06:52 PM
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im not reading 4 pages of this. but only on the misc do you go to a SPORTS BAR during the NFL DRAFT to meet women.

every woman there was dragged there by their husband/bf who's in 20 fantasy football leagues.

when misc says go to bars we mean for karaoke night or something. not the fuking NFL DRAFT
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post 1682018903 05-04-2023, 07:01 AM
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Originally Posted By HockeyBacon18⏩
im not reading 4 pages of this. but only on the misc do you go to a SPORTS BAR during the NFL DRAFT to meet women.

every woman there was dragged there by their husband/bf who's in 20 fantasy football leagues.

when misc says go to bars we mean for karaoke night or something. not the fuking NFL DRAFT
Exactly this. When the Misc talks about meeting women out at bars, they are absolutely not talking about sports bars full of men on draft night. Find a place with live music, karaoke, etc.
post 1682019113 05-04-2023, 07:09 AM
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Originally Posted By bradlehman⏩
Exactly this. When the Misc talks about meeting women out at bars, they are absolutely not talking about sports bars full of men on draft night. Find a place with live music, karaoke, etc.
I made this mistake too, but OP did not go to a sports bar to meet women.

If you read the whole post, he only brings up the sports bar to contrast how friendly boomers are relative to the young'ns at the places age-appropriate sloots frequent. This of course makes good conversation with the sloots harder.
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Originally Posted By HockeyBacon18⏩
im not reading 4 pages of this. but only on the misc do you go to a SPORTS BAR during the NFL DRAFT to meet women.

every woman there was dragged there by their husband/bf who's in 20 fantasy football leagues.

when misc says go to bars we mean for karaoke night or something. not the fuking NFL DRAFT
A bar with live music is just like a club then. Women go in groups and dance with each other. You ain't pulling anything there.
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Originally Posted By HockeyBacon18⏩
im not reading 4 pages of this. but only on the misc do you go to a SPORTS BAR during the NFL DRAFT to meet women.

every woman there was dragged there by their husband/bf who's in 20 fantasy football leagues.

when misc says go to bars we mean for karaoke night or something. not the fuking NFL DRAFT
Karaoke bars are excellent

Of course you have to enjoy hearing people sing or participate to get the most out of it. Sports bars are more for hanging with the bros and enjoying the game.
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Originally Posted By FA*******⏩
There are literally zero female US citizens in my business department of about 100. I'm one of only 4 white guys period.

Work is unthinkably Pajeetmaxxed. Like I said earlier... however many Indian men you think I work with, I work with more. It is an absolute dating dead end.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
man your average guys returns randomly approaching in settings that arent specifically for dating is going to be abysmal.

I think some of you are a bit divorced from reality about this.

The best thing an average guy can do is specific things where women are looking, basically apps/bars/clubs. Other than that, pray you just randomly bump into someone somewhere by chance like a store but its unlikely.

there's a reason for that stat that 63% of men are single.
Adapt dummy. Dumb pickup lines don't work anymore. My name is ______, I thought you were cute isn't going to work. Life isn't an 80s movie. But, it's still very much possible to start conversations at stores.
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