Life literally gets better after 30, all of your issues are fixable if you take action to do so.

Yeah, but he was married at 19.

Exactly man ! It's all fixable.

Thx

Got some good legit advice this time srs

Oh, and stop thinking that if you see them posting positive chit on social media that it's actually positive. You're seeing the top 1% of their life.

Lol I wouldn't even say I'm depressed

And no dude I'm here to take action

I read bbmg thread.. they told him to start bar maxing

I actually started hitting downtown up again after not going for like 3 years man

Also the guy in this thread said start cold approaching

Gonna do that next srs . Just need to find my balls


It's not so much misery loves company as much as it's nice to know other people might have had similair experiences and you can learn from how they bounced back .


I'm happy with the advice I got

Exactly. I used to go on Instagram constantly but now I might only check here and there.. better that way

you're such a raging cuck. All you do is revolve your life around having a girlfriend and crying about it on this chitty forum.

And when you do have a girlfriend, you're such a beta about it. They treat you like chit and you sit around kissing their feet. Not to mention they're like 3/10 FOBs who barely speak english.

You're like the male incel version of silencespeaks.

I think you should seriously consider getting some bloodwork done. I think all that soy sauce your gook ex fed you has wrecked your hormones.

Focus on friends, family, hobbies seroius. Youll never be happy if only asian girls validate your existence.

Both of those girls turned out to be massive pricks in the end

The girl I dated all of 2022 ...I'm basically over her now. She stood for basically everything I'm not looking for in a girl besides the physical aspect

I haven't heard from the girl I lived with before her for a few months now

I always helped her and was loyal to her. The minute I didn't fit into her plans = completely ghosted

She shown she only considers herself , she is quite selfish .


Just to ghost someone that you have that much history with and leave them wondering

I tried taking a south American girl out and wasn't crazy about it...it went only 1 date.

My parents are great

Yet...here you are posting.

You sound delightfully well adjusted and stable. You must be fun at parties.

I know you hate it when I give you advice lol.....but here it goes anyways.

1 - Get off the misc or rarely come here. I enjoy reading your posts but it's not a healthy environment for you.

2 - Honestly get some actual therapy to really deal with your problems. You have a ton of resources thru your Union and work benefits.

3 -You need to get over your fetish for Oriental/Non white women. You are ruling out the majority of your dating pool. That is something should talk about in therapy.

4 - Are you religious? Join a Church....lots of single women there.

5 - Are there any clubs you can join about hobbies/hiking/coffee groups etc where you live?

6 - Get in shape. Exercise helps the mind and body.

7 - You are not that old. I didn't meet my wife til I was 32-33 and she was 22-23.


I have a soft spot for you because in a way you remind me of my son.


He is in the same boat as you but he lives in Victoria where its much harder to meet women I would guess. He has a Govt job like you and makes $80,000 a year with the defined pension plan you have also.
Has $100,000 in the bank but will never be able to afford to buy a house there. I am sure he would give a lot of that up to find the right person and start a family.

Time for a brutal black pill, I'm not gonna sugar coat it.
NO you can't turn it around. If you've reached that age and been unable to attract a woman for a LTR, there is something inherently wrong with your personality, looks or a combination of the two. You can't change your personality, you can pretend for a short time but not indefinitely. Thems the breaks I'm afraid. Some people have severe character flaws making them incompatible with practically everyone

its over

Thanks! Who said I hated your advice ? Hahah

All good advice. Yeah , I need to get over the fetish I have for asians. I tried a date with a south American girl, it didn't go to well ..but I'm going to try to expand my options.

I'll look into clubs. Lately been trying to organize basketball scrimmages with a few friends..that has been good cardio .

I'm in half decent shape but could be in better. I'll work on that.

I was raised catholic, still go to church in Christmas, Ester etc.

I'll try to limit my time on this site but it makes for a good read sometimes


My sister lives out in Victoria. Met a guy a few years ago and now has 2 kids.


I'm sure my time will come , just can't give up.

And like you said you met your wife at 32...there's still hope for me.

Good luck to your son too.

based

I'm not comlelty incapable ...I lived with a girl for 3 years in my mid 20s and had a girl I regularly dated all of 2022

Both done now...2023 just hasn't been a good year for that so far for me

Life is an adventure blueberrybrah, you gotta get out there and live it. You're stuck in a rut and need to do something that excites you, vacation, whatever. You're young, you'll find someone. I forget how old I was when I met my wife, probably 35ish and she's about 5 years older. Don't get so hung up on the **** the misc says. This place can ruin you with negativity if you let it all under the guise of this pill or that pill and how they are the ones being honest while everyone else is coping.

You can do anything blueberryboy. Believe it

Yeah man

People wanna fit everybody into a limiting box around here

Anything is possible


I gotta keep that in mind and keep a positive good attitude

100%

All starts with a belief

Absolutely wtf

One of the biggest misc slayers (slaydom) was out smashing prime puss on command @ 39

those threads were something else

EVERYTHING MATTERS

- looks
- finances
- social skils/cirlce etc.

everything.

Damn I remember that guy and miss him

He made it look so simple

How was he that good?! Being asian and 39?

Basically debunks what that race obsessed poster keeps going on about huh

in his case it's looks

tbh i've only ever seen girls simp over guys that are very good looking

you can be ugly and pull a hot chick for sure but it's gonna be alot more luck/work

lol hold my beer.

Its amazing how depressed or discouraged some of yall get from one year with no results.

Imagine your entire life being like this lol.

When I say most miscers would have roped themselves by now if in my shoes, this is why I truly believe that.

But the feeling of not being able to repeat is haunting me

I feel like I got lucky with that girl for 3 years.

The 2022 girl was a prick but lasted a full year


Just gotta keep swinging bbmcgee

All it takes is one...don't forget that

I'm bar maxing and gonna start cold approaching maxing dfs

Inb4 the FBI

Hell if 19 year old wanted to get down with me I'd take her lol

Nothing below 18 ofcourse

damn if you already have your own pad what are you sweating it for. keep grinding

you have another 10 years to find a chick and bust some nuts inside her to make some offspring. by then hopefully society would have moved awake from this woke BS.

you aren't thinking of the long game