Yes and if you had all the time in the world since you have no social life (and you are intelligent) being a multi millionaire is EASY
But guess what? That still isnt enough. That alone wont do it. Sorry bro.

I am Nigerian, so you got that right.

But I've always known I was unattractive and I was going to be alone pretty much no matter what I do.

I did think maybe having a good job and some money would help but when that proved false I moved on and went NEET.

The just world bullchit you try say 'you're negative thats why its your fault' is bullchit because online dating results have nothing to do with attitude, its raw attractiveness.

That's because she's a Jaded out 50 something year old divorcee who is beyond the point of forming a normal relationship

When you start citing SS is when you know you're losing all credibility

they are so hell fuking bent on denying the obvious its baffling. Why is it so hard to say something so obvious.

Ugly 2/10 midget cant get a gf and they swear its because of his attitude. Like why? We all know the truth , stop lying. Why do you even feel the need to lie about this.

Look I stepped away from forum for years working my plan as well. As you are aware anything worth a damn will take many years.
Not all of us are denying the situation. They are just offering alternatives to what you could be doing and how you could be seeing the world. Believe it or not….the tall good looking white dude has his own set of problems to deal with.

Being a multi millionaire is never easy. Because it likely requires owning a successful business and the vast majority of business fail or never make anyone that rich.

We gotta stop with this delusional nonsense.

With the same negative attitude? Nope.

Bingo.

Oko bro, let me lay this down for you. I am not saying being short and ugly is your fault. Have a chit attitude is definitely partly your fault (partly circumstance I will give it to you)
But I can be assured if you were worth $20M, your dating life would be different. And I am not talking about banging hot sloots from the club, but I can almost guarantee you would have people in your network lined up to connect you with females. I see it a lot. Now are all the guys I see doing that self proclaimed ugly black midgets (not my words but yours)…..no but they definitely would be getting ZERO if they didnt have that bank account and more importantly, the attitude to amass that bank account.

First sentence: "More than 60 percent of young men are single, nearly twice the rate of unattached young women."

Assuming roughly equal total numbers of young men and young women, how is that even possible unless (i) young women are mostly dating men who don't qualify as "young" men or (ii) young men and young women are not self-reporting their relationship status in the same way (e.g., a guy with a FWB says he's single but the FWB believes they're in some sort of relationship that doesn't make her "single")? I suppose the very unlikely third possibility is an enormous number of lesbians among young women. The article actually goes on to touch on these points, noting that 1/5 of Gen Z identifies as "queer" (just LOL) and that young women are more likely than young men to be dating older partners.

The article also notes:

Only half of single men are actively seeking relationships or even casual dates, according to Pew. That figure is declining.

“You have to think that the pandemic had an impact on some of those numbers,” said Fred Rabinowitz, a psychologist and professor at the University of Redlands who studies masculinity.

Young men “are watching a lot of social media, they’re watching a lot of porn, and I think they’re getting a lot of their needs met without having to go out. And I think that’s starting to be a habit.”

Plainly there is a lot more at play than girls rejecting everyone who isn't Chad. Partly, they're doing what they've always done and partnered up with somewhat older guys, and there appear to be many more loser young guys than ever before (addicted to porn, video games, social media, etc., and living as man-children in a way that was largely impossible in earlier times). An example from the article: "Social circles have been shrinking for men and women, especially since the pandemic, but men struggle more. Thirty years ago, 55 percent of men reported having six or more close friends. By 2021, that share had slipped to 27 percent."

You are the one with zero real world experience.
I didnt say becoming a multi millionaire is easy (without any other data). I said if you were intelligent and had all the time in the world. Then YES…100% its easy.
I mentor a kid that I hooked up to a buddy's firm. Has an undergraduate degree. nothing else. Driven, intelligent, high EQ, personable, good networking skills and hard working. Clears $250k a year 2 years out of undergrad and know plenty more like him that do in tech.

Many intelligent hard working people in tech clear $300k in sales. It takes intelligence and hard work with some EQ.
I would agree making multi millions a year isnt easy. Thats where it typically takes a business and risk. But amassing a few mill. Easy if you are intelligent and hard working.

Who said it was your attitude alone? But you cant fix ugly and short (to any moveable degree) and your attitude sure as hell isnt helping.

There are many different ways to get to a negative attitude bro.

Yea most women think the exact same way. They would rather be single than with the vast majority of men.

Not saying its easy but possible for sure.

If I wasnt so unattractive and damned to a life of loneliness I would have a different attitude.

Fix your fukking attitude. Period. I dont care you are. Try to improve in every way you can and be a good human.

The point is your chit attitude is making it worse.

Yea I agree with if I was very rich things would be different but I'm never going to be very rich so whats the point. If I was an NFL player things would be different too but its not happening.

its a weird deflection dude.

Oh, and do they also have no friends because they can't get laid, or do you suppose that may have something to do with the fact that they've self-isolated and have very poor social skills? You're completely delusional if you don't think there are tons of awkward nerd dudes out there who are totally happy in their world of video games, porn, and their "waifu" body pillow or whatever these dorks get up to that their probably absent or loser fathers should have beaten out of them long ago.

Well then the point is that attitude doesnt matter when you're fundamentals are so bad.

I'm not to the point where it even matters.

I understand that. Others have other challenges in life that bring them towards certain attitudes. Everyone struggles with their own demons. Here is some perspective i wrote to a friend that is expecting a baby boy this year. My kids are pretty much set for life if they remain smart fiscally.

My two sons since the age of 4 have participated in combat sports where they spar everyday. Most days its 2.5 to 3 hours a day. The mat never lies. They learn valuable lessons about losing with grace and winning humbly. They test their skills, test their theories, and they get outcome based feedback real time every day. Most kids growing up in the west are soft. They sit online and pontificate in theory instead of going out to the real world to feel what it really feels like. Most of these kids have never felt pressure. Most of these kids have not had to deal with any type of loss……nevermind real loss or hardship. My kids one day will undoubtably face hardship……so we try to recreate pressure and hardship every day so they can operate calmly under pressure and truth.

I am one of those guys, I love videogames in part cause they are a cope for what I cant get.

Those men who dont have friends give up socially because they cant get any puss*y. So they dont bother going out for friends either cause they dont care.

Why weird? Its your same attitude. Why have you already come tot he conclusion you will never be rich? Believe it or not many people I know that are worth 8 figures are not NFL athletes. They are either executives in corporate america or business owners. Some are in construction, lots offer different kinds of services…..isnt glamourous. Power washing services as an example.

lol you cant make 'being lonely sexless with no family' worse. that is as bad as it gets and nobody being honest is going to act positive about that situation.

Yes you can. You can with a chit attitude. It oozes in every post. On every subject.

Yea for sure. Years of grinding at a minimum. So if you started at 20 then you sitting pretty at say 35. I said…..overcoming your short ugly looks will take exponentially more of something else.
And who said grinding towards a goal = being miserable? You are completely speaking out of your butt or you are speaking from a place of clear incelism. If its the latter…..forget finding a woman…..just try to get to being normal first.

Women are rejecting most men and all chasing the same guys. Those guys 'date' multiple at once and thus multiple women claim to not being single despite all of them involved with only one man.

The men who are no longer trying have given up because the situation was so stacked against them. Then retards try to say 'but you arent trying' while ignoring the prior 10 years of rejection that man endured before he gave up.

Sure you can. Your parents (if still alive) could be murdered. You could develop cancer. You can lose a limb. There is plenty worse that could happen.

You are talking about sloots. Not all women are like that.