08-18-2024, 09:27 AM
#91
Originally Posted By conics⏩
Older dudes who hang around frats are major losers man
I’m in trivia it led to nothing
I got something out of it I was joining a frat so had friends and lots of them
And even now I know them
Maybe they will take me back or another frat
Also Ik ur saying there will be a diff but when I was with them I didn’t notice any and neither did they
I got something out of it I was joining a frat so had friends and lots of them
And even now I know them
Maybe they will take me back or another frat
Also Ik ur saying there will be a diff but when I was with them I didn’t notice any and neither did they
Grow up already
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08-18-2024, 09:29 AM
#92
Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
And do what
Older dudes who hang around frats are major losers man
Grow up already
Grow up already
The adult life is boring
Idk y this is bad
Even if not in frat should have easier time making friends
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08-18-2024, 09:34 AM
#93
Originally Posted By conics⏩
You got nothing out of it cause you don't sound anymore fulfilled as a person after getting what you "wanted". Even now you "know" them? Why aren't you hanging out with them now instead of complaining about how boring life is. You're still the same person dude. What you're looking for comes from within…not from having paid college frat douche friends lol
I’m in trivia it led to nothing
I got something out of it I was joining a frat so had friends and lots of them
And even now I know them
Maybe they will take me back or another frat
Also Ik ur saying there will be a diff but when I was with them I didn’t notice any and neither did they
I got something out of it I was joining a frat so had friends and lots of them
And even now I know them
Maybe they will take me back or another frat
Also Ik ur saying there will be a diff but when I was with them I didn’t notice any and neither did they
You don't even have to live on campus. Just go to a nearby gym/yoga studio/etc there will be college girls there. If you're desperate for male validation (cringe) then join intramural sports. Rushing a frat without taking classes is next level stupidity please heed our warnings. Some of these kids have parents that'd be more relatable lmao what are you gonna do when they talk about having an iPad since they were 5 or don't remember waiting for the next episode of Dragonball Z after school? Smh
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08-18-2024, 09:35 AM
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if you wanted to go back to seek a degree I'd say this is a good move. my concern is that you will state that you "wasted your 30's" getting a partial degree over a decade or more. If you can denigrate your 20s, you might also disrespect your 30s. I like where your head is at in that you're making changes, but before you spend a ton of time and money i think you should decide if going back would serve you as well as say joining a sport team, a golf club, or just buying a new wardrobe and spend time at country clubs/night clubs.
08-18-2024, 09:39 AM
#95
this is a tad weird since youre not going to the school
i dont think going to a "college bar" is weird. but i think forcefully putting yourself in some of these situations is weird
if you were going to grad school or something it wouldn't be weird at all. instead of frat parties, though, id prob just try to go out to normal nights out there and see what happens. then id go to like the cafeteria and study or shoot pool and just interact with people and then see if you get invited. thats not really "going to a bar to try to "fit in" with the crowd". someone invited you out so it'd be a bit different
i dont think going to a "college bar" is weird. but i think forcefully putting yourself in some of these situations is weird
if you were going to grad school or something it wouldn't be weird at all. instead of frat parties, though, id prob just try to go out to normal nights out there and see what happens. then id go to like the cafeteria and study or shoot pool and just interact with people and then see if you get invited. thats not really "going to a bar to try to "fit in" with the crowd". someone invited you out so it'd be a bit different
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08-18-2024, 09:47 AM
#96
Originally Posted By bananastand11⏩
I'm not trying to be mean, but I agree.
I've read your rplies in this thread, you sound like a dead set mentally challenged autist.
Absolutely nothing in my response touched on 'you taking classes or being a student' - is this just your default response to replies in this thread autist?
So let me get this straight, you can take classes but not pay for them? How stupid are you, actually? Serious question.
Absolutely nothing in my response touched on 'you taking classes or being a student' - is this just your default response to replies in this thread autist?
So let me get this straight, you can take classes but not pay for them? How stupid are you, actually? Serious question.
There's something wrong with OP's psychology. It makes no sense and lacks insight into humanity.
In addition, he keeps saying that all of his efforts to join groups "don't work" as if they should work. You don't show up someplace and "get friends" as you have to "make friends" which is something an autistic type will not understand.
Many autistic people have Antisocial Personality Disorder features but really they aren't but rather the autistic person is simple-minded and manipulative rather than maliciously manipulative.
The whole "going to college" thing seems like that to me.
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08-18-2024, 09:55 AM
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Originally Posted By conics⏩
When you say "I was in trivia and it led to nothing" that is odd.
I’m in trivia it led to nothing
I got something out of it I was joining a frat so had friends and lots of them
And even now I know them
Maybe they will take me back or another frat
Also Ik ur saying there will be a diff but when I was with them I didn’t notice any and neither did they
I got something out of it I was joining a frat so had friends and lots of them
And even now I know them
Maybe they will take me back or another frat
Also Ik ur saying there will be a diff but when I was with them I didn’t notice any and neither did they
It sounds like you're a robot who shows up at trivia and are programmed to think it's "fun" but then can't detect the "fun" happening.
When at trivia, or anything else, if you want to interact with people, you have to talk to them about what's going on, etc. You can't just sit there and expect to magnetically acquire friends.
That's not how life works.
In addition, like a robot, it sound like you are "selecting human activities" to attend while not actually caring about them. So, you weren't passionate about sports clubs, you don't love trivia, etc and you are just going to "acquire friends" when no one "programmed you" to know how to do that.
You honestly sound like you have some form of autism.
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08-18-2024, 09:55 AM
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Originally Posted By TheAdlerian⏩
Don’t understand what ur really saying
I'm not trying to be mean, but I agree.
There's something wrong with OP's psychology. It makes no sense and lacks insight into humanity.
In addition, he keeps saying that all of his efforts to join groups "don't work" as if they should work. You don't show up someplace and "get friends" as you have to "make friends" which is something an autistic type will not understand.
Many autistic people have Antisocial Personality Disorder features but really they aren't but rather the autistic person is simple-minded and manipulative rather than maliciously manipulative.
The whole "going to college" thing seems like that to me.
There's something wrong with OP's psychology. It makes no sense and lacks insight into humanity.
In addition, he keeps saying that all of his efforts to join groups "don't work" as if they should work. You don't show up someplace and "get friends" as you have to "make friends" which is something an autistic type will not understand.
Many autistic people have Antisocial Personality Disorder features but really they aren't but rather the autistic person is simple-minded and manipulative rather than maliciously manipulative.
The whole "going to college" thing seems like that to me.
Not trying to manipulate anyone
It’s just easier to make friends in college
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08-18-2024, 10:01 AM
#99
Originally Posted By conics⏩
They're saying as a 30 year old man you should be more mentally developed than 19 years old looking to party
Don’t understand what ur really saying
Not trying to manipulate anyone
It’s just easier to make friends in college
Not trying to manipulate anyone
It’s just easier to make friends in college
Time to find more mature interests and priorities in life
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08-18-2024, 10:03 AM
#100
Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
I’m not and I don’t want to be I find the adult life to be boring
They're saying as a 30 year old man you should be more mentally developed than 19 years old looking to party
Time to find more mature interests and priorities in life
Time to find more mature interests and priorities in life
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08-18-2024, 10:11 AM
#101
I've told you before but I'll mention it again…
Get some professional psychological help.
And yes, I know you think you are "fine" and have no issues, but that's not how it appears to me.
Get some professional psychological help.
And yes, I know you think you are "fine" and have no issues, but that's not how it appears to me.
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08-18-2024, 10:21 AM
#102
Originally Posted By conics⏩
You are.
Don’t understand what ur really saying
Not trying to manipulate anyone
It’s just easier to make friends in college
Not trying to manipulate anyone
It’s just easier to make friends in college
You sound like the literal definition of a "Moron" which is someone who appears normal but really cannot understand how to function as an effective person.
For instance, in the thread, people keep telling you not to lie and act "weird" by pretending you are someone you are not.
That's them telling you not to be manipulative, then you claim you are not being manipulative.
That's moronic because it means you told us of this plan to manipulate people…but you don't understand what manipulation is.
I will tell you this, you are doomed to live a horrible and miserable life until you stop being arrogantly moronic. All of your comments and plans are stupid and weird.
You need to go to a mirror and say that to yourself.
You need to open your mind to the concept that your ideas and stupid and start following others.
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08-18-2024, 10:22 AM
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Originally Posted By alltrapbrah⏩
You are correct.
I've told you before but I'll mention it again…
Get some professional psychological help.
And yes, I know you think you are "fine" and have no issues, but that's not how it appears to me.
Get some professional psychological help.
And yes, I know you think you are "fine" and have no issues, but that's not how it appears to me.
This person needs to see a seasoned and well trained therapist.
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08-18-2024, 10:23 AM
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Originally Posted By TheAdlerian⏩
This
You are.
You sound like the literal definition of a "Moron" which is someone who appears normal but really cannot understand how to function as an effective person.
For instance, in the thread, people keep telling you not to lie and act "weird" by pretending you are someone you are not.
That's them telling you not to be manipulative, then you claim you are not being manipulative.
That's moronic because it means you told us of this plan to manipulate people…but you don't understand what manipulation is.
I will tell you this, you are doomed to live a horrible and miserable life until you stop being arrogantly moronic. All of your comments and plans are stupid and weird.
You need to go to a mirror and say that to yourself.
You need to open your mind to the concept that your ideas and stupid and start following others.
You sound like the literal definition of a "Moron" which is someone who appears normal but really cannot understand how to function as an effective person.
For instance, in the thread, people keep telling you not to lie and act "weird" by pretending you are someone you are not.
That's them telling you not to be manipulative, then you claim you are not being manipulative.
That's moronic because it means you told us of this plan to manipulate people…but you don't understand what manipulation is.
I will tell you this, you are doomed to live a horrible and miserable life until you stop being arrogantly moronic. All of your comments and plans are stupid and weird.
You need to go to a mirror and say that to yourself.
You need to open your mind to the concept that your ideas and stupid and start following others.
I cannot fathom why a 30 year old wants to live like a college student
There's a time and place for that but not at 30 fking years old
Grow up already
Inevitable gonna be that older creepy guy if he tries to go make friends with a bunch of 18-20~ year olds
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08-18-2024, 10:29 AM
#105
Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
Because I don’t want to do what society wants me to follow at 30 years old
This
I cannot fathom why a 30 year old wants to live like a college student
There's a time and place for that but not at 30 fking years old
Grow up already
Inevitable gonna be that older creepy guy if he tries to go make friends with a bunch of 18-20~ year olds
I cannot fathom why a 30 year old wants to live like a college student
There's a time and place for that but not at 30 fking years old
Grow up already
Inevitable gonna be that older creepy guy if he tries to go make friends with a bunch of 18-20~ year olds
I said I find the adult life to be boring
They didn’t notice last year or cared
I’m just cool look like I lift and ppl like me so y would they care about age
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08-18-2024, 10:32 AM
#106
Originally Posted By conics⏩
Too bad
Because I don’t want to do what society wants me to follow at 30 years old
I said I find the adult life to be boring
They didn’t notice last year or cared
I’m just cool look like I lift and ppl like me so y would they care about age
I said I find the adult life to be boring
They didn’t notice last year or cared
I’m just cool look like I lift and ppl like me so y would they care about age
You don't have the option of going back in time
If I were you, I would feel like a major retard trying to go back and hang with being 10 years my junior.. like I was mentally stagnant
There's a time where adult age becomes arbitrary..but it's long after college age
Those people are still learning and finding themselves.. at 30 + you are expected to be a mature developed adult…if you wanna actually be taken serious
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08-18-2024, 10:35 AM
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
What about the ppl my age and older That are actually in school there are 20k+ of them
Too bad
You don't have the option of going back in time
If I were you, I would feel like a major retard trying to go back and hang with being 10 years my junior.. like I was mentally stagnant
There's a time where adult age becomes arbitrary..but it's long after college age
Those people are still learning and finding themselves.. at 30 + you are expected to be a mature developed adult…if you wanna actually be taken serious
You don't have the option of going back in time
If I were you, I would feel like a major retard trying to go back and hang with being 10 years my junior.. like I was mentally stagnant
There's a time where adult age becomes arbitrary..but it's long after college age
Those people are still learning and finding themselves.. at 30 + you are expected to be a mature developed adult…if you wanna actually be taken serious
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08-18-2024, 10:39 AM
#108
Originally Posted By conics⏩
Who?
What about the ppl my age and older That are actually in school there are 20k+ of them
Most people are done with masters by now bro
And if you happen to be one of those " mature " students returning for night classes etc…it's usually because the education is needed and not so they can mingle with a bunch of people 15 years younger …that's just a completely retarded take
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08-18-2024, 10:50 AM
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OP is probably on the maturity level of a child but I went to grad school at a major university at 28 and it was tough to be around undergrads. I came from an environment where we were wearing suits and was around MBAs, PhDs, etc
08-18-2024, 10:55 AM
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wait, your only goal to go back to college is to live like a college student?
dafuq?
when I was in college I didnt want to live like a college student at all
going back to uni for qualifications at 31 is absolutely reasonable but they need to be backed up by a reasonable plan of what/why in the context of your life
I legit went to uni because the jobs I was after wanted it, went to the best school I could, and my life in uni was basically a combination of trying to get the best grades as possible and "injecting myself" into situations where I can get some girls to pump SRS
anything else of college life sucked
imagine liking the idea of going to some stupid house party jfl
dafuq?
when I was in college I didnt want to live like a college student at all
going back to uni for qualifications at 31 is absolutely reasonable but they need to be backed up by a reasonable plan of what/why in the context of your life
I legit went to uni because the jobs I was after wanted it, went to the best school I could, and my life in uni was basically a combination of trying to get the best grades as possible and "injecting myself" into situations where I can get some girls to pump SRS
anything else of college life sucked
imagine liking the idea of going to some stupid house party jfl
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08-18-2024, 10:59 AM
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Originally Posted By conics⏩
Yes, you are a rebel!
Because I don’t want to do what society wants me to follow at 30 years old
I said I find the adult life to be boring
They didn’t notice last year or cared
I’m just cool look like I lift and ppl like me so y would they care about age
I said I find the adult life to be boring
They didn’t notice last year or cared
I’m just cool look like I lift and ppl like me so y would they care about age
Embrace that you want to lie and be an imposter to MAKE FRIENDS!
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08-18-2024, 11:00 AM
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Originally Posted By atgbrahsrs⏩
It’s better than sitting inside
wait, your only goal to go back to college is to live like a college student?
dafuq?
when I was in college I didnt want to live like a college student at all
going back to uni for qualifications at 31 is absolutely reasonable but they need to be backed up by a reasonable plan of what/why in the context of your life
I legit went to uni because the jobs I was after wanted it, went to the best school I could, and my life in uni was basically a combination of trying to get the best grades as possible and "injecting myself" into situations where I can get some girls to pump SRS
anything else of college life sucked
imagine liking the idea of going to some stupid house party jfl
dafuq?
when I was in college I didnt want to live like a college student at all
going back to uni for qualifications at 31 is absolutely reasonable but they need to be backed up by a reasonable plan of what/why in the context of your life
I legit went to uni because the jobs I was after wanted it, went to the best school I could, and my life in uni was basically a combination of trying to get the best grades as possible and "injecting myself" into situations where I can get some girls to pump SRS
anything else of college life sucked
imagine liking the idea of going to some stupid house party jfl
I look better now than in my early 20s
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08-18-2024, 11:17 AM
#113
OP just fukking do it it's your life. I was gonna give you chit but it seems like you never even had a party phase so this might be your way of filling that void. You'll realize it's pretty pointless and only makes sense when you're young and dumb but only you'll be able to see that once you go through it.
08-18-2024, 11:18 AM
#114
Originally Posted By TheAdlerian⏩
Ya because everyone gave up and is rotting or working but why would I want that
Yes, you are a rebel!
Embrace that you want to lie and be an imposter to MAKE FRIENDS!
You are the only one doing this innovative new thing…you are a giant.
Embrace that you want to lie and be an imposter to MAKE FRIENDS!
You are the only one doing this innovative new thing…you are a giant.
Got my entire life to do that dude
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08-18-2024, 11:30 AM
#115
Originally Posted By TheM⏩
I don’t like partying I did a bit of it last year it was boring af
OP just fukking do it it's your life. I was gonna give you chit but it seems like you never even had a party phase so this might be your way of filling that void. You'll realize it's pretty pointless and only makes sense when you're young and dumb but only you'll be able to see that once you go through it.
I just want friends to talk chill with and lift with and maybe go out with
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08-18-2024, 12:50 PM
#116
I think you’re conflating meeting a lot of people with making friends. In college, you meet a lot of people, but you make few, if any, real friends. Most people’s lasting friendships have been around since childhood—just saying.
I saw your Reddit threads. Yes, you’ve made several threads on the same topic there as you have here. Notably, both the Reddit community and this one are united in telling you that this is a bad idea.
Frankly, I think your plan is ludicrous. Going to college but not taking any, or maybe just a single course, will alienate you from others there, and combined with your much older age, it will only make things harder.
I think you know this, and these threads are the product of the rational part of your mind screaming that this is a bad idea. If you were fully committed to this plan, you would have already applied and wouldn’t have made these threads.
I saw your Reddit threads. Yes, you’ve made several threads on the same topic there as you have here. Notably, both the Reddit community and this one are united in telling you that this is a bad idea.
Frankly, I think your plan is ludicrous. Going to college but not taking any, or maybe just a single course, will alienate you from others there, and combined with your much older age, it will only make things harder.
I think you know this, and these threads are the product of the rational part of your mind screaming that this is a bad idea. If you were fully committed to this plan, you would have already applied and wouldn’t have made these threads.
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08-18-2024, 01:30 PM
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Originally Posted By johnsorrow⏩
But is it better than doing nothing?
I think you’re conflating meeting a lot of people with making friends. In college, you meet a lot of people, but you make few, if any, real friends. Most people’s lasting friendships have been around since childhood—just saying.
I saw your Reddit threads. Yes, you’ve made several threads on the same topic there as you have here. Notably, both the Reddit community and this one are united in telling you that this is a bad idea.
Frankly, I think your plan is ludicrous. Going to college but not taking any, or maybe just a single course, will alienate you from others there, and combined with your much older age, it will only make things harder.
I think you know this, and these threads are the product of the rational part of your mind screaming that this is a bad idea. If you were fully committed to this plan, you would have already applied and wouldn’t have made these threads.
I saw your Reddit threads. Yes, you’ve made several threads on the same topic there as you have here. Notably, both the Reddit community and this one are united in telling you that this is a bad idea.
Frankly, I think your plan is ludicrous. Going to college but not taking any, or maybe just a single course, will alienate you from others there, and combined with your much older age, it will only make things harder.
I think you know this, and these threads are the product of the rational part of your mind screaming that this is a bad idea. If you were fully committed to this plan, you would have already applied and wouldn’t have made these threads.
I also want to eat at the dining hall
I don't check my CP, IDC about reps/negs
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08-18-2024, 01:40 PM
#118
Originally Posted By conics⏩
No, it’s actually worse. This is definitely not a solution to your problem, so you’ll end up wasting time and risking a deeper depression when you realize it was a mistake.
But is it better than doing nothing?
Seriously, it’s time to talk to someone. Your situation is common, so there’s definitely good advice available that a professional can tailor into a plan that works for you.
You know what will happen if you do not sort this out?
"Guys please help I'm 32 feeling lost please help"
"Seriously depressed I'm 33 panicking missed my 20s"
"Help me please I'm 34 nothing is changing everything sucks"
"35 is not too old to go back to college right?"
"Why does everyone say 36 is too old to make new friends?"
"Depressed can't do this anymore 37 and no friends, no gf"
Is this were you want to end up?
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08-18-2024, 01:42 PM
#119
Originally Posted By johnsorrow⏩
But what else can I do?
No, it’s actually worse. This is definitely not a solution to your problem, so you’ll end up wasting time and risking a deeper depression when you realize it was a mistake.
Seriously, it’s time to talk to someone. Your situation is common, so there’s definitely good advice available that a professional can tailor into a plan that works for you.
You know what will happen if you do not sort this out?
"Guys please help I'm 32 feeling lost please help"
"Seriously depressed I'm 33 panicking missed my 20s"
"Help me please I'm 34 nothing is changing everything sucks"
"35 is not too old to go back to college right?"
"Why does everyone say 36 is too old to make new friends?"
"Depressed can't do this anymore 37 and no friends, no gf"
Is this were you want to end up?
Seriously, it’s time to talk to someone. Your situation is common, so there’s definitely good advice available that a professional can tailor into a plan that works for you.
You know what will happen if you do not sort this out?
"Guys please help I'm 32 feeling lost please help"
"Seriously depressed I'm 33 panicking missed my 20s"
"Help me please I'm 34 nothing is changing everything sucks"
"35 is not too old to go back to college right?"
"Why does everyone say 36 is too old to make new friends?"
"Depressed can't do this anymore 37 and no friends, no gf"
Is this were you want to end up?
I’m already living in the city
How can I fix this and what can a professional do
Ik ur saying I’m wasting time but what else can I do
I don't check my CP, IDC about reps/negs
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08-18-2024, 02:06 PM
#120
Originally Posted By johnsorrow⏩
this. print out the above post and stick it on your refrigerator if you have to lol. and don't forget, you're also not the most financially versed/stable based on previous threads about car/dental… quitting your job and having no income to attend classes during the day isn't the smartest thing you can do
No, it’s actually worse. This is definitely not a solution to your problem, so you’ll end up wasting time and risking a deeper depression when you realize it was a mistake.
Seriously, it’s time to talk to someone. Your situation is common, so there’s definitely good advice available that a professional can tailor into a plan that works for you.
You know what will happen if you do not sort this out?
"Guys please help I'm 32 feeling lost please help"
"Seriously depressed I'm 33 panicking missed my 20s"
"Help me please I'm 34 nothing is changing everything sucks"
"35 is not too old to go back to college right?"
"Why does everyone say 36 is too old to make new friends?"
"Depressed can't do this anymore 37 and no friends, no gf"
Is this were you want to end up?
Seriously, it’s time to talk to someone. Your situation is common, so there’s definitely good advice available that a professional can tailor into a plan that works for you.
You know what will happen if you do not sort this out?
"Guys please help I'm 32 feeling lost please help"
"Seriously depressed I'm 33 panicking missed my 20s"
"Help me please I'm 34 nothing is changing everything sucks"
"35 is not too old to go back to college right?"
"Why does everyone say 36 is too old to make new friends?"
"Depressed can't do this anymore 37 and no friends, no gf"
Is this were you want to end up?
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