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Thread: I stand up for friends wedding then 2 weeks later get bill for purchased suit, wut do

post 1450260533 06-29-2016, 07:13 AM
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Originally Posted By KMadigan777⏩
Here's the literal email I got from him:

"The suits were $550 each, but we were able to get 20% off the whole order, so they were $440, plus $5 tax for a total of $445. My brother picked up the shirts and ties for you guys, which were $83 a man. The lobster socks and pocket squares were my gift to you (in addition to lifelong friendship and the promise to stand with each of you when your time comes), so don't worry about those.

That shakes out to $528"

Man...
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post 1450261203 06-29-2016, 07:18 AM
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Write him a credit note invoice back so that he can use the $550 towards his suit at your wedding or something along those lines lolll
post 1450261383 06-29-2016, 07:20 AM
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Don't pay. If he wants the suit, give it back to him. He shouldn't get any money.
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post 1450261953 06-29-2016, 07:24 AM
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WTF is this? He should have mentioned this before hand, he may be wealthy and can just drop $500 on a suit like nothing, doesn't mean he should expect everyone else can.

Talk with the other guys who got suits, I doubt you're the only one pissed off by this. I personally wouldn't pay for it and you have no obligation to quite frankly.
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post 1450262163 06-29-2016, 07:26 AM
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what. a. *******.
"The lobster socks and pocket squares were my gift to you (in addition to lifelong friendship and the promise to stand with each of you when your time comes), so don't worry about those.

That shakes out to $528"
Would drop this douche like a hot coal, not pay him and not talk to him again. It's one thing if he was broke, but he's a DOJ lawyer...
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post 1450262213 06-29-2016, 07:27 AM
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i would send him the suit back.
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post 1450262553 06-29-2016, 07:30 AM
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The were 3 others, one is a guy I don't know, the other is a beta doormat that will just take it, and the last was his brother, in the breakdown email he lists everyone's charges (I get the 528, same with doormat) the other guy gets like 600 because he hasnt paid his share of the bachelor party 75~ yet, and his brother got charged like 150$.

Apparently he charged his own brother too.
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The worst part is his gift is a bill and 'lobster socks'.
post 1450263103 06-29-2016, 07:35 AM
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wtf is stand/stood up? If you're part of the groomsmen helping his ass, he needs to rent you a suit or buy you a suit if he wants to be fancy. The fuk charging you for his wedding. Charge his ass for your time by the hour.
post 1450263683 06-29-2016, 07:39 AM
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"Thelobster socksandpocket squaresweremy giftto you (in addition to lifelong friendshipand the promise to stand with each of you when your time comes), so don't worry about those.

Thatshakesout to $528"

Fukin lul at the cheek of this guy.
Originally Posted By stilllmatic⏩
Send him a $528 bill for you appearing at his wedding.
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post 1450264123 06-29-2016, 07:43 AM
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Have sex with his wife in the suit & film it for him.
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Originally Posted By KMadigan777⏩
The were 3 others, one is a guy I don't know, the other is a beta doormat that will just take it, and the last was his brother, in the breakdown email he lists everyone's charges (I get the 528, same with doormat) the other guy gets like 600 because he hasnt paid his share of the bachelor party 75~ yet, and his brother got charged like 150$.

Apparently he charged his own brother too.
He is actually giving invoices even for his bachelors party like he is some sort of compay? LOL. Just lol.

I have to ask, how and why did you ever become friends with this guy? Are you short of friends?

I don't get it.

I told you the email to write earlier.

Do it.
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why did the guy getting married have to organize his own bachelor party? the groom's party is supposed to organize and pay for it, not the guy himself sending out invoices after LMAO. Either way him sending you a bill is pretty fuking scummy, return it.
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post 1450265593 06-29-2016, 07:55 AM
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Yeah, I'd tell him to pound sand.

I rented tux's for my groomsman. I'd feel like a complete douche expecting them to pay for anything.
post 1450265653 06-29-2016, 07:55 AM
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that's when you re evaluate your level of 'friendship' and probably lower this down the scale!
post 1450266723 06-29-2016, 08:02 AM
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i'm getting married and i'd never do this to my groomsmen. i'm buying my tux for myself, but trying to figure out the best looking and most affordable options for my friends so they don't have to fork over too much money. and i'll run everything by them as well. it's just being considerate. unless my friends were all wealthy as ****, i wouldn't do something like this and even then i'd ask everyone up front if they wanted to buy suits.
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Originally Posted By cookiefiend⏩
I'd just give him the suit back. If you're not going to use it anyway, the he can have what he's paid for, since there's no way I'd be paying if I wasnt told in advance.
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post 1450268343 06-29-2016, 08:14 AM
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Originally Posted By KMadigan777⏩
Before I drop something big, does it at all change anything if perhaps he asked one of the guys and thought that was sufficient for all of us? Or maybe sent an email or something about 'I want you guys to buy suits, tell me if this is a problem?'

God man...500$ thats like a new gun or parts for my motorcycle.
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post 1450268683 06-29-2016, 08:17 AM
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Originally Posted By Dota2Brah⏩
you do realize that you can give him back the suit and refuse to pay him, right? or you can just throw the suit on his property and leave. anything that would mean not stealing...
its not stealing to begin with, it was a gift
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Originally Posted By Tresiel⏩
"Thelobster socksandpocket squaresweremy giftto you (in addition to lifelong friendshipand the promise to stand with each of you when your time comes), so don't worry about those.

Thatshakesout to $528"

Fukin lul at the cheek of this guy.



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lol'ing at the fact that the guy's "gift" is just sh*t he wanted OP to wear at the wedding, not even good sh*t
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this is america.

find a lawyer, sue him for emotional distress.
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OP i actually won't respond at all.

You are opening up a conversation that isn't needed. And that could be used against you in a court of law later down the road. Let him chase if he feels that strongly. You could perhaps respond to the second email but with him trying to get 500 bucks out of you before it was agreed, he can go fk himself. srs.
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Originally Posted By KMadigan777⏩
Before I drop something big, does it at all change anything if perhaps he asked one of the guys and thought that was sufficient for all of us? Or maybe sent an email or something about 'I want you guys to buy suits, tell me if this is a problem?'

God man...500$ thats like a new gun or parts for my motorcycle.
Yes that would make a difference
Originally Posted By Lawlstud⏩
There are always two sides to this story. I refuse to believe the dude purchased suits for all these guys then sent them bills and none of them knew nothing.

Not to mention OP mentioned nothing about the other grooms mans complaining about this chit. Have a feeling OP went along for a ride hoping it was free.
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Originally Posted By donblaximus⏩
Wtf? iT COMPLETELY changes the situation if an email was sent and you were aware prior. Then the responsibility is on you to either tell him to F off right then and there. If you didn't speak up, it means you were cool with it.
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Originally Posted By KMadigan777⏩
I just confirmed by going through my email, there wasn't anything I missed. The only thing said was 'I am picking out the suits we are going to wear for the wedding, they are awesome. *blah blah, go get measured, maybe we'll get pocket square etc* I am looking into the discounts we can get if we sign up for things like store credit cards. Bottom line it's a great suit you'll look good.'
" I am looking into the discounts we can get if we sign up for things like store credit cards."

He never said "I" he said "we", how did you not pick up on that and at least ask the question? It's shady as phuck asking your boys to pay for their suits but you should have asked him after seeing this email.
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Our wedding gift to him was to take charge of his renovations and complete it for him. He paid for all materials, we did the reno becausewe've all got trade backgrounds- it saved him around $8000-10,000 by us doing it over a 2 month period.
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Douchebag move on your friends part. Send the bill back to him.
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Originally Posted By jbball92⏩
Lol don't pay for it? He can't make you
He's a DOJ lawyer. If OP doesnt pay, I bet he gets arrested for kiddie porn charges he can't disprove.
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Originally Posted By KMadigan777⏩
I just confirmed by going through my email, there wasn't anything I missed. The only thing said was 'I am picking out the suits we are going to wear for the wedding, they are awesome. *blah blah, go get measured, maybe we'll get pocket square etc*I am looking into the discounts we can get if we sign upfor things like store credit cards. Bottom line it's a great suit you'll look good.'
trying to imply it there early on that the price will be split. this wasn't an after thought.
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if he didn't ask you to pay for the suit before hand send him the suit back and say sorry I misread the vibe bruh.
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Originally Posted By donblaximus⏩
Completely cheap. Id be more ashamed of the fact that you stood in his wedding without "truly" knowing the guy
why the F would you stand in a stranger's wedding?

All my groomsmen got
Custom suit paid
Hand tied bow tie
English Socks
A bottle of Johnny Walker Blue Label with a personally etched note on each
What are English socks? Srs. I'm English and have socks but never heardid of these so called English socks
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Originally Posted By Duckliver⏩
Uh no he should of told you all beforehand. The fuk kind of friends you have should tell him off and go nc.
Originally Posted By liftasaurus⏩
lol cowardly as **** emailing it to you and never mentioning it prior
Originally Posted By whitepaper⏩
Charge him for your wedding gift.


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all of these lmao

if he was planning on charging you, he should have mentioned it beforehand so you guys could agree on it or something else.

Should send him the bill for whatever wedding gift you got him
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