should of made her toss your salad. thas wut u do with those gutter bishes

I am starting to think the same.
I have been forcing myself to try to get laid by randoms because I don't want to commit to a girl after I met a really cool girl but she ended up not liking me. Haven't found anyone with nearly as much in common as I had with her since.

So I have been trying to just get laid by randoms. The problem is..I dont think I am a hookup guy at all.

I get way too much anxiety on the first date to perform and I think id get attached.

its kind of pointless that after the girl leaves, you start to get lonely again, lol

quality post op

casual sex is like... barely even sex

Casual sex is GOAT i love getting my ego stroked after we smash, they mire hard af

its still fun if the girl is hot. if shes fat or ugly then yea its a waste of time.

wont even lie i brought this 3/10 fattie over and when i busted i felt disgusted. would rather fap.

This. Yes casual sex sometimes sucks, you can chalk that up to bad chemistry, too much alcohol, or she is just plain unattractive. But fuk I have have some good lays, first time lays on a first night, and they have been fukking awesome. I went to work with an extra pep in my step, felt alpha as fuk, sniffing my finger all day n chit. There is something primal about having an HBB in your sights, locking on, and engaging HUNT mode. You start hitting on her, you successfully seduce, you pin her down, and fukk her gotdamn brains out and she is absolutely LOVING it. You have just owned her, you have just dominated her completely. She lays there exhausted, thoroughly worn out, and you are the motherfukking man.

I'll admit, most of the best sex I've had has been with FWBs. Girls I casually see to fuk. So we get to know each others bodies pretty well. And since it was all about the sex and convenience, I could just go over, start heavy making out, and then commence hardcore fukking. I would literally just turn my brain off and go completely primal and it was amazing. "Get. Fukking. Lost." like Don Jon says, my eyes would be almost shut, eyes rolled halfway back to my head, it was like being high on a drug. But I never liked it as much with legit GFs cause there were actual feelings involved, so when I was fukking, I felt half guilty that I didn't care about her as much. Half guilt = chit on my mind = sex ain't even as fun anymore.

Its fukked up, I do want to be a responsible married man one day, with a wife, great kids, raising a family. I definitely don't want to be an single old man. But I also want to slay women all the way into my late 30s- mid 40s. I wish I could live 2 lives simultaneously.

I have never dated a girl that I legit had real feelings for or was in love with (I am too closed off to allow myself to feel these feels). So maybe when I do experience this, I will agree with sword. But I legitimately just broke up with the hottest girl I have ever dated. Slim latina, naturally D Teds, old fashioned, smart, wifey ideal. And since we broke up, I am going out, swiping on tinder, making out with whales in bars, try to fukk everything that moves, and it is SO much more fun and exciting. When I was with my ex, I had poosy on demand, great poosy too, but I like to fukking hunt man, idk what it is. And I love variety. I enjoyed making out and fukking the last 4/10 whale over my 7.5/10 ex just because it was fukking NEW. I love sexy latinas, but I can't eat that chit every day. Right now, I'd like to sample some chubby PAWGs, or a petite Asian. Maybe another latina, but a tanner, more dark skinned one. I'm about to go work in a corporate office, I'd like to sample some college educated, lady suit wearing ho.

I'm not even getting high quality girls all the time, I deal with some real hambeasts and I prefer them over having 1 above average, good GF on the pill. And if I was getting legit 6/10+ girls on a regular basis, like some of you brahs do/claim? OMG there would be nothing you could do to sell me on the idea of a monogamy and marriage. I think I'm fukked in the head tho forreal, I hope I can heal myself so I can get married and have eyes only for my wife, cause all I want to do is fukk as much poosy as humanly possible, all different shapes, sizes, colors, ethnicity, backgrounds etc. variety is the spice of life, is my current motto.

The best sex is where all your chakras are open and you know how to recirculate energy and instead of cumming you redirect the energy up your spinal chord

You get on a higher then drug high for ages


The girl gets pissed that you dont cum and ignore her afterwards tho, you gotta chuck her out

Of course sex is better with a girl you are in love with but lets be cereal op, nobody said sex sucks with a girl you find very hot, yes having ons sex with average looking girls of course sucks.

Just curious what do they say after?

You hit the nail on the head bro. If you throw it all out on the table with intent the whole meet-up turns into the outline you structured the all the texts....

Also for E-Brag I am on tinder, bumble , and Okcupid and have been for about 8 months. I finally found one that is awsome in and out of the sack !

This post made me feel so much better... I am 30 and thought I had a problem. About 2 years ago I started having a problem keeping it hard unless she was super sexy and knows what she is doing physically and emotinaly to a T. I thought I had a legit problem until my most recent meet-up I actually felt like a teenage boy again going round after round. No more porn for me though boyos and I am truley focused on my health and well-being, Once you hit 30 **** becomes real life my friends .....

Possibly measured in T cell count if you're unlucky

Dam broseph you have trancended down the rabbit hole !! Near death or going through the stuggle wheather drugs, homlessnes or anything that is just ice-cold enough to allow you to see the faces of humanity through a realistic lense will change you. Most of the time for the worst but if you really get in tune with your emotions and your self as a whole, it's for the better. You can become majestic or god like in all honesty. Once you see the line and your ego you can refine your life , seperate it all and decide what you want. You can see everything so clear and understand love on the deepest of levels...I don't think its possible to exepeierecne life or actually live to the fullest unless you go through some type of majore hardship honestly.

This. But like OP said, there's no way I could go down on a random chick.

Agreed OP.

It's not that sex with randoms can't be fun, of course it can. But it definitely sucks compared to relationship sex. If you're in a solid relationship with a person that you like and have good chemistry with then it's far better and more fun. I've been in year long relationships where the sex was just as good, heck even better, than it was in the beginning.

you would if the girl was really hot. The problem with this whole thread is that people are having ons with average looking chicks.

Thinking we give a chit how good either of us are in the sack when the point is to get laid and feel good. When you're in dem sugar walls, nothing else matters anymore at the moment, you get yours. It's all pink on the inside, brother.

This post made me smirk, kinda hit home with a few points you made. I think we're still young, I'm 27, and in my head I can't see myself settling anytime soon, but I'm sure there is someone out there and a character change that will eventually hit me to cause an abrupt change. Love the hunt/chase too, it's what makes it all so extraordinary. Variety is life, I love experiencing it all, I get your points man.Ding ding ding

First 6-12 months of a relationship is like a fken drug.
Sex several times a day

Casual Relation is still dating meaning there is some interest. Casual sex is pretty much meet and phuck. Interest=Intensity. Regardless if dating goes to full blown relationship or not. Sex has always been better for me with somone who had interest in me and I in them and I found myself respecting the person more.This is why I always say FWB's is bullchit. Fake relationship. It's retarded. Your either just phucking or your dating. Sorry brahs.

op have you read the book of 5 rings

I have not.

read it on your next flight

The Book of Five Rings (五輪書 Go Rin no Sho) is a text on kenjutsu and the martial arts in general, written by the swordsman Miyamoto Musashi circa 1645. There have been various translations made over the years, and it enjoys an audience considerably broader than only that of martial artists: for instance, some business leaders find its discussion of conflict and taking the advantage to be relevant to their work. The modern-day Hyōhō Niten Ichi-ryū employs it as a manual of technique and philosophy.

Musashi establishes a "no-nonsense" theme throughout the text. For instance, he repeatedly remarks that technical flourishes are excessive, and contrasts worrying about such things with the principle that all technique is simply a method of cutting down one's opponent. He also continually makes the point that the understandings expressed in the book are important for combat on any scale, whether a one-on-one duel or a massive battle. Descriptions of principles are often followed by admonitions to "investigate this thoroughly" through practice rather than trying to learn them by merely reading.


Miyamoto Musashi in his prime, wielding two bokken.
Musashi describes and advocates a two-sword fencing style (nitōjutsu): that is, wielding both katana and wakizashi, contrary to the more traditional method of wielding the katana two-handed. However, he only explicitly describes wielding two swords in a section on fighting against many adversaries. The stories of his many duels rarely refer to Musashi himself wielding two swords, although, since they are mostly oral traditions, their details may be inaccurate. Some suggest that Musashi's meaning was not so much wielding two swords "simultaneously", but rather acquiring the proficiency to (singly) wield either sword in either hand as the need arose.[citation needed] However, Musashi states within the volume that one should train with a long sword in each hand, thereby training the body and improving one's ability to use two blades simultaneously.

But why do people cheat? Why is the divorce rate so high? Not saying I don't believe op, but it just makes me question what's our purpose? Some guys go out and leave their wives in the house to fuk other sloots. Hell some dudes cheat in their 40s and 50s. Doesn't make sense

All I know is if I see an 8/10 with dat ass in public all I think about is impregnating

LOL I love this response. I wish you would post it in the Tinder thread

sword, I have to say that it depends on the person and how freaky they are when the mask comes off. Casual sex can be amazing under the influence as the guy gets really into pleasing the woman, and if the person turns into a FWB.

Otherwise if it's some stranger coming over from Tinder out of the blue at 6am, then it must be awkward and weird and no chemistry.

Like you said, she asked you to go down on her and you said no, so the sexual experience would be meh for her if she really likes it. A drunk dude into oral would turn into a piranha.

I fukking love casual sex. Brb banging a sloot out hard every weekend (or week, w/e) and then never talking again. No strings.

Of course I can't compare it to relationship sex seeing as I've never had a gf or girl I've really cared for so idk

It's true, and everyone knows this isn't the way people were meant to live. "Sexual liberation" has ruined society and we all know it. Imagine if you were young and married someone you dated for a long time and who your family approved of. Imagine if she had no sexual experience and wifed you at like age 18, and you proceeded to face the challenges of life together til death actually did you part. You'd go through warm phases and cold phases, but you'd stay together and grow together, and you'd be the only one she knew sexually, and she'd be the only one you knew sexually. Neither of you would cheat or divorce out of fear of death and strong social stigma. You would grow a strong, mature relationship, and you would have a bond stronger than any you see today. That's how humanity did it for thousands of years. There was probably a reason for that. I'm not saying sloots didn't sloot back in the day, but I'm saying it was a lot less common. Also, women didn't work or have any kind of financial independence, so they were not inclined to sloot lest they get thrown out on the street and/or killed. Yeah life was oppressive, but it was also stable. Womanizing Chads were despised, and often lynched unless they were super rich and powerful. Those guys always had mistresses.

Out of all my buddies from high school, only 3 had stable marriages that so far haven't ended in divorce. 2 of the marriages were high school sweethearts, and they were each others' firsts. The other was one of those Mormon arranged marriages, and they were also each others' firsts. These marriages have lasted 10+ years now. The other 2 marriages of people I know of fell apart after 3-5 years, and those were between more experienced people.

Let's be honest tho sloots are gonna sloot, and sloots were always cheating even under penalty of death.

1. You need to sleep with a variety of women to figure out what you actually like in a woman, not that many maybe 20.
2. Once the above is complete then you are totally right, hone in on and find the girl who ticks all your boxes from your previous experiences

But one without the other doesn't quite work

I get off everytime. Guaranteed. It's awesome. Why does that sucK?