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Thread: Did I screw my best friend over?

post 1511460331 07-11-2017, 02:13 PM
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Originally Posted By WafflesBrah⏩
Wow you're a nasty snitch. Would never be friends with a snake like you. Negged you rat
From one New-Yorker to the next... F YOU.
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post 1511460751 07-11-2017, 02:17 PM
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Originally Posted By MarinoMike⏩
We're going to go grab a drink later at a bar and talk about this. I think I did a disservice to him even on here by painting him out to be worse than a Bond villain. But I still take a stance that he needs to be more truthful with these chicks - man to man.
Who put you in charge of the morality police? "It's my duty to protect these fair maidens!"

I'd bust a glass over your melon head if you brought me to a bar to explain to me how I need to manage my relationships.
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post 1511460761 07-11-2017, 02:17 PM
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I would have just said I don't know and to talk to him about it then peace'd out.
post 1511462421 07-11-2017, 02:32 PM
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your best bud seems like a cancer for the future and you seem like a weak minded male, SRS.
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post 1511462671 07-11-2017, 02:35 PM
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Whatever happened to bros before hos? You trying to bang the chick and willing to discard your "best friend" over a piece of ass?
post 1511463121 07-11-2017, 02:39 PM
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You asked.. I'll tell, you are a loser. You made this post, and bro...you are not a bro.you are a punk ass orbiter...cash me outside
post 1511463271 07-11-2017, 02:40 PM
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didnt read but yes you did screw him over
post 1511464551 07-11-2017, 02:52 PM
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Originally Posted By MarinoMike⏩
We're going to go grab a drink later at a bar and talk about this. I think I did a disservice to him even on here by painting him out to be worse than a Bond villain. But I still take a stance that he needs to be more truthful with these chicks - man to man.
You are so fukking stupid I can't believe it, would literally back hand you.
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post 1511465141 07-11-2017, 02:56 PM
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How good of friends are you with the girl? Was the last time you were friends with her 9 years ago? If so you don goofed.

If you been friends with her and him for the past 9 years then you probably should have handled it better. Like others said you should have just told her that she needed to take it up with him and you aren't getting into anything about their relationship.
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post 1511465781 07-11-2017, 03:02 PM
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You can't be friends with a woman to the same degree as a man. If you think your friendship to this woman to be so great that you would rat this dude out, then you do not think very highly of the guy. Basically, you and him aren't friends.
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post 1511467551 07-11-2017, 03:16 PM
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read entire thread (unfortunately)

commence the neg train on OP [srs]

your story has more holes in it than swiss cheese *******

you're not a ****in real bro

and you have no idea what the fukk a best friend really is, get fcked
post 1511471891 07-11-2017, 03:47 PM
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IMO your friend sounds like a d-bag for leading those girls on like that
post 1511475951 07-11-2017, 04:24 PM
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I will be cross referencing this thread in case any of you ever decide to make a thread titled "misc help, this girl cucked me"... then we will see who is two faced. Chances are over half y'all that negged me have already made such type posts.
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post 1511476431 07-11-2017, 04:28 PM
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Originally Posted By MarinoMike⏩
I will be cross referencing this thread in case any of you ever decide to make a thread titled "misc help, this girl cucked me"... then we will see who is two faced. Chances are over half y'all that negged me have already made such type posts.
wat?

what does a girl choosing to cheat/date other people have anything to do with you outing someone? In both situations the two-faced people are you and the girl. Not any of the posters here.

The only equivalent thread would be if a fellow miscer also ratted out his bro for seeing two girls at once to one of the involved, while said bro was not committed to either.
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post 1511476561 07-11-2017, 04:30 PM
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sounds like all three of them are ****s. they probably deserve each other. don't think you did anything wrong
your "friend" also sounds like a douche so no loss
you come at the king, you best not miss
post 1511479051 07-11-2017, 04:54 PM
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Your best friend is pretty immoral, and a terrible friend. He let you get involved in his 2-timing chit, which is a big no-no for friends. However, and you ratted him out. He's probably the worse one out of you 2 though.

The solution is to turn into a turbo-Chad to out Chad your friend. Try to sleep with the girl as she's on her rebound, then snag the other girl too. Then, try to snag other girls, and ultimately, every single female you know, especially the ugly ones, so you don't leave any for MISCers. You can do this bro, I believe in you.
post 1511480641 07-11-2017, 05:07 PM
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Betrayed your best friend for a damn woman because you were jealous, plain and simple.

You're a bitch and I hope dude pummels you...*******. What has happened to males? Dude went the route of 'I can't compete so I will just be the 'sweet' guy. Jesus you're a *******. Negged too.
post 1511482981 07-11-2017, 05:27 PM
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Originally Posted By Scrizzle⏩
Wow you're a fukcing *******.

Just say i don't know what he does. I'm not with him all the time. I dont keep track of his business.

Do you want to get with her? Sounds like you do. Trying to play the "man she deserves". Now you and your "friend" are gonna fight over her and she'll want neither of your bitch asses. Get fukced idiot.
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post 1511483361 07-11-2017, 05:30 PM
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White knight cuckboy *******, some friend you are
post 1511483541 07-11-2017, 05:32 PM
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Originally Posted By MarinoMike⏩
I will be cross referencing this thread in case any of you ever decide to make a thread titled "misc help, this girl cucked me"... then we will see who is two faced. Chances are over half y'all that negged me have already made such type posts.
No worries, I don't snitch on best friends like a little snake in the grass.
post 1511485141 07-11-2017, 05:49 PM
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Best Friends are hard to come by. Just because he was sleeping with two women (two ex's at that) at the same time does not mean he's a bad person, get off your fukkin high horse. I have friends who I consider to be good people who have done the same.

You asked the misc if you goofed, and yeah you fukked up.

Wouldn't be friends with you/10
post 1511486061 07-11-2017, 06:05 PM
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honestly one of the most bitch made things you can do to a bro, simple player hating and jealousy.

negged
post 1511486081 07-11-2017, 06:05 PM
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Originally Posted By MarinoMike⏩
OKAY - so should I bring this up with him? Or what.
Lol, "should I tell my friend I did this?"

So you're completely against lying or staying out of the situation of your friend and the girl.. but you can't decide between being honest with your "best friend" and telling him what you said?

Do you see the irony in your logic here?

if you're pro-truth, you need to go tell your friend that you outed him to the girl. Your hesitation there suggests you're really in this for yourself, and not for "honesty" and "high standards" like you claim.
post 1511486581 07-11-2017, 06:11 PM
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Originally Posted By MarinoMike⏩
Doubt we'd make good friends anyways if you're the ones leading multiple chicks on. Not saying smashing more than one chick at a time is bad, but, if you're lying to their face about anything then that kinda makes you a P.O.S.
Came in to say this. Id feel like a fkn douche leading two girls on and putting a friend in this predicament. He played himself. That said, I probably would have gone the "you gotta talk to him" route but it's hard to say without being put on the spot. I surely wouldn't have lied. Is it wrong to date two women...not for me to answer...but to tell them both that he's exclusive is playing with fire and he got burnt.
Your schtick sucks and it screams insecurity.
post 1511487571 07-11-2017, 06:24 PM
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You're a ****ty friend with a ****ty person and you both deserve all the **** you get, you weak backboned pussy.
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post 1511487721 07-11-2017, 06:25 PM
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Strong friend, negged...
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I'm going to say this as plainly as I can.

She knows he's filling another girls hole, and it drives her mad with jealousy. So what does she do? She drives to his friends house for a "confirmation" so she can place all her jealousy issues on YOU being the one that "informed her".
You're a tool. If your friend calls you out, as he should, admit you cucked up and move on. I mean, if the drama he goes through leaches into your life and it bothers you enough that you don't give a fuk about covering for him, then it is what it is. It's best to just say "take it up with them." Every time. You're looking like captain cuck as it stands though.
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post 1511489371 07-11-2017, 06:44 PM
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Wow. Never read so many nice and thoughtful things about an OP before.

Starting to think misc may not be the place for me.
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post 1511490021 07-11-2017, 06:50 PM
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Originally Posted By FriendOfFrank⏩
I would have said, "You need to talk to him about this. I can't get involved"

She would have got the point and you wouldn't have broken bro-code so flagrantly
This would have been the best way of handling it. You dun goofd
post 1511490321 07-11-2017, 06:53 PM
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Originally Posted By MarinoMike⏩
Cannot logically think of how to cliff this - so I'll just write it out.

My best friend started dating this girl like 3 or 4 years ago. The girl was one of my friends I went to high school with roughly 9 years ago.

They break up around a year ago - and he starts banging his ex-ex-gf frequently. and then starts rekinding things with the most recent ex-gf.

He had been sleeping with these two girls frequently over the last year and lying to both of them saying that he's not seeing anyone else. So he's effectively leading both girls on as both of them still have very strong feelings for my best friend.

I have witnessed countless fights between all of them in the last year, and, countless times he's lied about all of it.

So now it gets good - yesterday, one of the girls comes over to my house. She is visibly in distress (crying etc). She is asking me if I knew where my best friend was, I told her that I didn't (mind you I knew he was out bowling with the other girl). And she then asked me if my best friend had been hanging out with the other girl, I said "yes, he does". and then she asked if the other girl ever stays over, and I told her that yes she had in fact.

This girl is a friend of mine, and I'm not going to lie. I care about her not getting lead on just as much as anyone else.

Did I goof? My best friend already asked me about all this and I didn't hide anything from him. He was pissed, but I think it's a disgusting thing he's doing by lying to both of them.

what would you have done?
Damn man you phucked him.

Bros before hoes *******.

Please hand in your man card.
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