Just got out of a relationship in February, and am loving life now. Didn't realize how much a woman kills your free time, I got out of shape, was spending too much money on nothing, etc. life is so much simpler and enjoyable without a woman ruining it. Don't get me wrong I still have my hookups and all, but having no desire to be in a steady relationship and be tied down is lovely. I laugh at dudes who are tied down with children, and hate on my life.

Lmao at this point it's like you just come here to get rustled.

The misc desperately needs the return of JANKY dead srs

These two statements do not go together. In top US city, you are looking at $4k plus for a gangster penthouse. Outside of the US, you can live slightly more cheaply.

That said, **** penthouses. I'm afraid of heights.

I for one, Agree with your statement and life choice. You only get one mom spend all the time you can with her. i would do the same, when she gets older. I rarely see her as it is. I'm doing what your doing now except i pay high rent and live alone, i'm going to school, i work two jobs, and i just go to the gym. Any free time is me time do to whatever the fuk i want to do. Its just not worth the physical and mental torture that these girls make you jump through just to get that pussay. I want to go to the gym, play games, have a girl come over and smash then have her leave. NO bullshiet. Peace and quiet. No drama. stress free

Focus on yourself, get a good career, new hobbies, make lifts, make gains, travel, be positive and live your life. if wifey happens to fall into your lab you will be at least be in a good place in your life with no baggage, money, aspirations and success!

More power to you, OP. I just don't understand how men don't want to do the one thing we're genetically programmed to do. Find a mate and smash her poosy. If it's working for you, keeping doing you, I guess, until the loneliness sets in.

I am in the same position as OP, but because it was an involuntary decision

I get what you are saying - but if you are in your mid - late twenties or early 30s there is NO REASON you should be lonely. It generally means you didn't make cool friends and are doing a poor job socially.

Now fast forward to 40 - 50 - 60 - 70 it would be mad lonely to not have a wife & kids to do **** with. Can always just find some lady who has kids from her first husband. prolly the best bet

Sounds to me like you were just choosing the wrong women OP. You obviously still like going out with friends and family.... and you said that you still like traveling... so it's not ALL about gym, work and video games for you.

When you're ready to get into a relationship again do yourself a favour and look past the puzzay to see what else is there. Find a level-headed chick with some common interests so interacting with her doesn't feel like getting a root canal.

Swearing off women altogether isn't the answer... finding the right one is.

OP said he's lost his sex drive.

If you have a strong sex drive and need actual sex then this won't be the GOAT lifestyle.

strong arbitrary opinion that being successful in life means having a wife and kids lol

gotta love this feminist propaganda

I have no insecurities, I am actually very confident, the only insecurities I have are related to bodybuilding and getting my pro card next year i.e. not enough lower lats or too big of a stomach. But when it comes to women, as I stated, I have been in a few LTR's, and hooked up with over 100 girls, I am tall, very good facial features, obviously I have a top 1% body if I compete and win bodybuilding physique shows, have a huge dink, a career where I make decent money, and no mental issues.

I also don't pick low quality women. The last three long term relationships I have been in were all very stable women in their mid 20's making more money than I do, living on their own, they pulled all their weight in the relationship and drove a good part of the time, paid for stuff, bought me gifts, wanted sex more than I did, werent crazy and didnt have mental issues or daddy issues. It has nothing to do with how I was picking women, it is just relationships in general and any bit of energy invested into women period that I have no interest in anymore.

I love the freedom way way way too much of looking at my phone when I want and not having to text someone good morning or good night or missing an important call, not having to listen to someone elses day and just go home, plop on the couch, and play games or watch a movie in peace EVERY DAY if I want, to not have to go through the fuking "where do you want to eat tonight?" " idk where do you want to eat" "well I would be fine with XX, xx, xx, or XX" "oh okay well im not in the mood for any of that"..... etc..... I dont have to deal with chit like coming home and there being dishes piled in the sink that arent mine and its a huge pet peeve of mine to cook/eat with a dirty kitchen, just normal **** like that ALLLLLLLL being remove from my life makes everyday 100x better.

Even casually dating women and picking up women takes energy, sure there are the random ones that you talk to for 20 minutes and they are ready to hook up and call their own uber after sex and you dont hear from them again, but like I said I have banged over 100 girls so thats not fun or exciting to me in the least, I also was in a 2 year relationship with a legit perfect girl who we regularly had sex 2+ times a day the whole relationship and were very in love so after that one night stands never held up anymore.


I 100% guarantee this is not a cope, insecurities, or inexperience. It is 100% my choice based on all my experience and what has made me the happiest. Ive thought about it even if I met some 10/10 fitness girl who was smart, made good money, nurturing, not needy at all, loved working out as much as I do, very sexual, and completely trustworthy, I still wouldnt be interested because I want all my time to myself and I work better alone.

OP is alpha as fuk. Do whatever you feel is best homie.

Nothing wrong living with your parents if you both find the situation agreeable. Expanding on that note, taking care of aging parents isn't something that should be looked down upon as some female seemed to imply before. In several cultures today and in our own not too long ago, it was common to live in generational homes where everyone from grandfather to grand daughter lived together and took care of each other. These days we're all about career and making money. We're busy being cogs in a wheel so we send off our parents and grandparents to nursing homes where they can remain forgotten.

Finding a partner or starting a family is a personal choice and should not be based on societal norms. That goes for most things. I used to pursue a career I had no interest in because of pressure from parents, relatives and peers. I always thought when I was younger that success in life meant getting a good university degree and a well paying job. I thought that if I suffered through many years of hard study i'd get rewarded with some arbitrary happiness. Of course I slowly realized that wasn't the case at all. The people like me who studied hard in school were not and did not always become happier than the loud and rebellious kids. Engineers are not necessarily happier than carpenters. Married couples are not necessarily happier than singles. I used to hold a very authoritarian view of social norms until I realized the stupidity of it all. You don't really "need" to do anything here in life.

Enlightenment right here.

Brb trying men

OP is a misc legend. Rate/subscribe comment to his channel

lol oh geeesus why is everyone bashing the op for doing what HE wants?

brb its you
your mom must be proud
youre a failure


the man was not satisfied with was happening and took a stand. hes happier because of it. good for him.

repping on rc, good post. I am afraid I am heading into the same direction as you, OP. Will watch and see how it turns out for you.

Just broke up with gf recently, granted that she was a crazy and was an emotional, money, and time sinkhole. Dumping her was one of the decisions that I felt best about in my life, feels good being able to relate 110% to your post op.

Not to say I'm a woman hater now, but feels good to finally be free of that hellhole and to finally have time to myself and do what I want without having to always worry about taking her into account/feel like walking on eggshells around her and in turn having to deal with childish behavior/nagging

I am not a woman hater at all either. I just don't like a lot of feminine traits, but I dont hate on them for them or think less of them, I just dont want to spend my time with one or constantly have to deal with them in my personal life. I am attracted to females physically and only females but mentally I just don't clique. Not turning to dudes for the idiots who will assume thats what that means.

lmao this

such fuking bitterness from miscers that OP is happy doing something different from everyone else

brb OP doesnt have the same goals as me so he is a pathetic loser

says a lot about people here who have only one view of life and can't imagine there being a different way to live life

OP you sound happy bro, GJDM would have a workout with you/10

It astounds me that people do this so frequently without giving it any thought. I like lobsters and garlic sauce on kebabs. Do I walk around shoving lobster and hot sauce in peoples grill? How do you think they would react? Would they entertain me asking them why they don't want my left over exotic lobster shells?

People latch onto the same invisible script that's invaded everyones dormant minds and see the world through that narrow prism. People can respect a difference in musical tastes but let it be something important that matters like what you're doing in life and judge dredd comes out.

But then again that's why emotional maturity is so rare. People love parroting the 'common sense isn't common' BS idiom when in fact the issue is people can't imagine a world outside of their own make believe world. True sheep.

You can't teach these narrow mind cucks to be empathetic. They don't see past their front lawns.

lettuce be realistic here

opie has fuarked up his libido as a result of obvious...interventions...and is now settling into asexual monk mode

writing off women for greater happiness overall is a good decision in general, but in this case opie is an incel because his fuarked endocrine system is deciding this for him srs

Age : 35

Surprised libido is still part of your vocabulary at that age

That could also be the case when you've been around the block 100 times. This is a fact.... his pathways could be frayed. The journey within is all we have in this life time gumbo rat ball fish sir.

diamond cutter every morning. fukk 3x a day when time permits srs

lettuce be realistic here

you obviously just skipped from OP to page 5 without reading the part where I said I have had tons of blood work and doctors visits and nothing has been found to be irregular physiologically and my high test and regular estrogen point to the fact that I should have a very strong and high libido.

So no.,