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post 1513816661 07-29-2017, 12:50 PM
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Originally Posted By gainmusclefast⏩
She is actually living with her mom and still has this crazy debt. She just buys everything. 10+ Michael Kors purses. Like 30+ Victoria secret matching gym outfits. A 3k mac computer still sitting in the box 6 months later.
She could've paid the 20k off in 1 year on a 50k salary while living with her mom if she had listened to you and been more frugal. Now she's almost doubled it and wants to attach herself to your finances. Many states are community property states, meaning that if you buy a house or anything in your name she we get half if you marry her and then divorce.
Plus she's mentally ill and lazy. I know a few people, some in their 30s, some in the 40s who still have crazy spending habits like this... They also live with parents unless they attach themselves to a partner and burden them with the bills. People like this dont learn, people enable them so they never face bankruptcy or homelessness or any other consequences.

jeez just saw she's actually 120k in debt. There's no way you can marry her.
post 1513817011 07-29-2017, 12:53 PM
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Originally Posted By gainmusclefast⏩
So I made a thread about this before when she had around 20k debt. We were together 2 and a half years. She always asked me to get married and I would tell her not until you get that debt under control.

Now she has ramped it up to 32k. I finally broke up with her. She is begging me to take her back and says she is gonna fix it and get a second job on the side(she is an accountant and makes 50k a year).

I am also planning to join the Airforce at the end of the year. So the only way I could take her with me is if we get married. Which I am afraid to do because of her debt.

As of right now we aren't together and I am staying at my parents until I leave for the Airforce. Should I stay single? Thanks!

Other reasons to stay/go:
She is definitely bi polar
She is Crazy
She is madly in love with me
Head game is weak sauce
Is very lazy
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Hell yes you should stay single, go nc on that ridiculous human
post 1513817101 07-29-2017, 12:54 PM
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You must be trolling to not see where this is going.

Op gets back with ex and accidently knocks her up
Sl00t pressures him into marriage for military benefits
OP goes abroad to a 3rd world country while sl00t is swallowing nut from Chad and Tyrone in the same room as baby
Sl00t wants divorce and op is responsible for majority of child support and debt
OP goes mgtow
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post 1513817401 07-29-2017, 12:57 PM
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Originally Posted By gainmusclefast⏩
She would just buy everything she wants as far as clothes and what not. She likes to run marathons and would book flights and hotels and do trips several times a year. She was planning to do this Disney trip/cruise/run at the end of this year which would cost her 3k+ and if I went 2k+
So basically she buys things she wants but doesn't need, with money she doesn't have.





Ask yourself this. Are you willing to pay off her debts? If the answer is yes, then marry her and pay off her debts. If the answer is no, then ditch her and don't have anything to do with her.



If you think you'll be able to control her spending once you two are married and financially intertwined your delusional. Her spending will only increase. So if she has around 120K in debt right now (After adding the student loan) how comfortable are you knowing that if you don't pay off her debts you are financially fukked as well? If you stay with her, it won't just be her responsibility to pay for. And guess what. If you two do get married, then get divorced. You'll be responsible for paying out that debt if she doesn't.
post 1513817501 07-29-2017, 12:59 PM
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Originally Posted By TsarChasm⏩
You guys live at home? I live off 75k plus my wifes income and it doesn't seem like enough. Got around 15k total debt between both of us including student loans.
Add up stupid **** you're spending money on.

Literally LOL at having trouble living off $6K per month.

I go out for food and drinks twice a month, how about you?

How many unnecessary bills are you paying, etc?

**** I've lived off $500 a month while $400 of it was going towards my half of rent.

Now if I lived off $500 a month you really think I'd sweat living off several $1000/Mo.?

Just cause you earn more doesn't mean you have to spend more.
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post 1513817711 07-29-2017, 01:00 PM
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Originally Posted By MBisonSon⏩
Add up stupid **** you're spending money on.

Literally LOL at having trouble living off $6K per month.

I go out for food and drinks twice a month, how about you?

How many unnecessary bills are you paying, etc?

**** I've lived off $500 a month while $400 of it was going towards my half of rent.

Now if I lived off $500 a month you really think I'd sweat living off several $1000/Mo.?

Just cause you earn more doesn't mean you have to spend more.
They are probably trying to keep up with the Jones's.



Unless they live in NYC or LA or something like that they should be sitting pretty.



Average household income in America is like under 40K. Fukking lol @ a family that struggles to survive on an excess of 75K.
post 1513817761 07-29-2017, 01:01 PM
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Im not going to talk to you about fanancial management. Because by you asking this question, I can tell it would be a waste of time.

A man should be managing a woman's finances if planning to marry. And she should be okay with that. If not, she's not committed.

But the other reasons you mentioned is why you should be leaving.
post 1513817851 07-29-2017, 01:03 PM
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say ' babe its you, not me ' and leave
post 1513818111 07-29-2017, 01:05 PM
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My mom racked up about $100k. Probably more don't really know. My dad works like a dog to help her pay it off. Works 16+ hours a day. Is this what you want?
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post 1513818371 07-29-2017, 01:08 PM
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post 1513818621 07-29-2017, 01:11 PM
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I hope to honest God you do not look at this woman again, let alone think of fukcing marrying her. She's a complete loser and will ruin your life. A materialistic, dopey hoe such as her will eventually divorce you because it will be a ticket to get her finances back in order and live a decent life when she is 45+. And she will drain you of your finances during the marriage even if you don't think so.

Just do it. Kick her to the curb. She is completely useless. By marrying her you're essentially inheriting 50% of her debt. Only marry her if you are completely insane and don't give a fukc about your future.

God forbid you actually have a kid with her. Then you are really screwed. Because she will use that kid as leverage for you to pay for her new shiit AND pay off her debt. Or she will just use the family courts as an intermediary lol.

There is plenty of pussy for you to knock yourself out over. Stay single and just fukc 20 year old pussy on the side. Don't put your life on the line for a used up 33 year old loose cannon. This is what love does to people - makes them go fukcing blind.
post 1513819401 07-29-2017, 01:21 PM
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Originally Posted By idno⏩
My mom racked up about $100k. Probably more don't really know. My dad works like a dog to help her pay it off. Works 16+ hours a day. Is this what you want?
your dads a cuck
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post 1513819411 07-29-2017, 01:21 PM
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Make it work out mang.

She obviously can't handle money but money comes and goes and isn't that important in life. You should support her by trying to find ways to stop her spending addiction. I mean you already you put time in that relationship, why cut and run for 32k debt.
Kindness is all that matters in life
post 1513819451 07-29-2017, 01:22 PM
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post 1513819501 07-29-2017, 01:23 PM
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If she loved you OP she wouldn't have put possesions and spending money before you after you told her to get her act together. Are you now gonna turn around and put her before money?
post 1513819761 07-29-2017, 01:27 PM
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Originally Posted By Burgerbuger⏩
Make it work out mang.

She obviously can't handle money but money comes and goes and isn't that important in life. You should support her by trying to find ways to stop her spending addiction. I mean you already you put time in that relationship, why cut and run for 32k debt.
Lead by example and go and wife up a 33 year old hoe with a loose pussy who is worth -120k, cuck.
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It's the attitude to debt that matters, along with spending habits and it sounds like she resoundingly fails on both counts.

Regardless, if she's pretty she'll find a guy to marry and support her. Women know this. A bitter pill to swallow.

When I earned $45k (pre tax), I saved ~$16k per year.
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Originally Posted By idno⏩
My mom racked up about $100k. Probably more don't really know. My dad works like a dog to help her pay it off. Works 16+ hours a day. Is this what you want?
Fuk your mother.
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