5 pages of nothing

fukn lit


this is why i misc

praise allah

aw yeah well it depends on the situation, there's no one-size-fits-all etc, but i'm just gettin from that text that things weren't wrapped up in a tidy way, or at least she feels that way, and unless she's a piece of chit if she wants an explanation i'll give her one

Just tell her you aren't interested? Clearly she has issues. Do you want to be held responsible for her making some irrational decision? Grow up

I finished reading through the thread, and I agree with the atypical miscer replies and think you did the right thing by responding to her OP. In your first post you'd said you all had been dating for a month prior, and then tried to she tried to rekindle it months later. The multi-month break in between makes me understand some think going NC is fine. However IMO if I have dated someone more than 3-4 dates and they haven't done anything bad, I feel they are more than a random acquaintance and deserve some real closure out of respect.

Not gonna beat a dead horse though, you've already messaged her so props. Milton!

Well guess I'm a bad guy cause I've gone NC on people in know have no chemistry with me

Yeah, crazy redheads are the worst in bed.

Even if you weren't feeling her, this is how the good ones get jaded and end up doing glute spreads trying to "compete" for attention.


Never go full Miscer. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

sounds like everyone wins on full miscer

Wut if you're only red in direct sunlight? Does that mean you're only chit in bed in the afternoon?

[QUOTE=Cass40 post_id=1523646221]Send her this:

Do I want to date you?

Yes [ ]

No [x ][/QUOTE]Perfect! Lets reschedule!

lolz Wow! That chick is cray.

But! I never ghost anyone. I'm always straight forward if I'm not interested. The only time I drop the convo is if I tell them I'm not interested and they continue texting over and over trying to convince me. Then I'll go NC.

^^ these two posts are perfect examples of chicks not being able to be funny

She's a bit nutty tbh but maybe she was just feeling lonely and thought...hmm..that drvillain is pretty hawt..maybe there's a chance still.

You're not funny either pooh bear.

^ avi makes it seem like you have a deliciously plump mound hnnnnnnnnnnnnnng

It's photoshopped.

^funny

^^ I could have you in stitches. No j dahmer

:'(

Yeah, I get it. In my early days of dating after divorce there was one guy that ghosted me. Saw him out a couple months later. Then after the new year I sent him a wall of text. Not as long as OP's girl though. I also didn't ask for a reply. Just wanted to clear the air. He texted me asking to see me months later. I agreed, we talked, he made it seem like he wanted to see each other again, then he ghosted me again. Just WTF?! lol (For the jackasses that are going to say he just wanted a piece of ass, we never had sex.)

That was years ago. Since then if someone wants to ghost me, I let them. Buh bye, don't let the door hit you in the ass. Like Silence Speaks says, it takes time to learn the subtleties of dating again after being married for a long time.

OP, did she respond?

yep, nothing noteworthy

Closure is good. I'm glad you responded to her and she was cool about it.

Awaits new thread in 1 month

"Hi DV, I was just wondering if your life had calmed down and we can start dating yet"

Lol @ thinking thats gonna be her last reply to you, halloween parties this weekend, 100% chance you gonna get drunk dialed/texted/facetimed

And by sketching you earlier I can see why too (full pink knight)

You just have to understand. Women think differently. I hope these tips help. (It’s not a bad thing)

It’s a hard fact to accept, but men have to accept it if you want companionship. There is psychology to how woman think, and you have to educate yourself. I couldn’t stop obsessing about a girl from the old neighborhood. We grew up together and I had a crush on her, and thought we should be together, coming from a common background. I thought about her for years while she moved on to other guys, and she got married and divorced. We had gone our separate ways.

Recently I tried to rekindle the relationship when I saw here single on FB. Here is my chance I said to myself. I did the whole liking her posts, sending messages, funny comments, etc…… but failed.
I thought if I was respectful, kind, romantic, humorous, and sentimental that would carry me through. Those qualities are important, but at the right time, in the right measure.
Finally I learned how to communicate in today’s world, and win here heart. Then I found these tips, and oh my gosh did I wake up. (I love you dad but I wish you gave me this advice growing up.)

7 Deadly “Texting” Mistakes

One of the most frustrating things is when you get a woman’s number (and she seems to be totally into you)
… But then after a few texts she seems to list interest, fizzle out, or go cold.
The natural reaction is to blame the woman. “She’s a flake…”
But if you do that, you could missing a giant ****** in YOUR GAME that is easier to fix than you think.
In fact, if you’re like most guys than you’re probably just making one (or a few) of these common ‘texting’ mistakes that will kill your chances with a girl.

Mistake #1: Confusing Responses for Attraction

Before you’ve had your first date with a girl, she won’t feel much of a connection to you. As unfortunate as it may be, you’re probably not the only guy texting her.
See, a common mistake most guys make when they’re texting a girl is that they mistake responses for attraction. Often when a guy is getting a response from a girl, he believes that he’s getting closer to getting her on a date or to seducing her.
The exact opposite is true!
The more texts you send before meeting up with girl means the less of a chance you have of actually meeting up with her! That’s right: even if a girl is RESPONDING to your texts, you’re not getting yourself ANY closer to actually getting her out on a date.
Instead, say more with less. Whenever you’re considering what to text a girl, see if you say it simpler, with less text. Most guys send pointless texts to women like, “How’s your day?” or “Enjoying the warm weather?” These texts DO NOT bring you ANY closer to a woman! They just beg for a response (which doesn’t mean anything).
To make sure you NEVER again waste texts on pointless chatter, ask yourself this golden question:
How is this text bringing this girl and I closer to a date?
If your answer is simply “to get her to know her better,” erase the text. It’s not going to help you.

Mistake #2: Not Conveying “Fun”

Here is the simple truth. When a woman gives you her number she is NOT signing a social contract to go out with you…
And until it seems FUN for her… she’s probably not going to bother meeting up with you.
So when you send boring texts that don’t display any personality or don’t elicit any emotions in her… in her mind you’re not worth the trouble of meeting up with.
Here are some signs you’re NOT being fun.
– Am I being stiff and formal “Hi. It was nice meeting you Friday”…. (too stiff. too formal)
– Am I putting pressure on her to keep the convo going?
– Am I badgering her with question?
Remember, every text you send should make you seem like the FUN OPTION. The escape from her boring day.

Mistake #3: Not Having a Texting Style

If you’re texting an attractive woman chances are you are NOT the only guy she is getting a text from today.
Hate to break it to you.
But between other guys pursuing her, ex boyfriends, co-workers, classmates, and so on… she’s got a lot of guys vying for her attention.
So if you want to stand out- your texts need to display your unique style and personality.
She should be able to know its a text from you just by reading it (even if the name was blocked)
What words, phrases, punctuation, or emoticons are uniquely yours?

Mistake #4 Having Long Text Conversations

Text conversations are NOT the same as actual conversations.
Texting should be the “Super cool” cliff notes of a normal conversations. Meaning leave out the formalities.
The longer the conversation the more chances to mess things up or run into awkward confusion.
Every time you pick up the phone… jump right into the good stuff. Start with anecdote. Start with a teasing nickname. Find a way to quickly spark an emotion and get her paying full attention to you.

Mistake #5: Going for the Meetup without Sparking Emotion

Here is another hard, cold fact. If you ask a woman to hang out, without first sparking and emotion.. she will almost always turn you down.
Why?
Because all of the positive emotions she felt when she was with you has dwindled.
And the thought of getting dressed up, and going to meet a guy she barely knows (and the potential you’ll turn out to be a creep or just akward) is not worth the effort.
Logically she can easily talk herself out of it.
Which is why you MUST engage her on an emotional level first.
It is MUCH easier to get a “yes” out of a woman once you’ve sparked a positive emotion.
The two best ways to do this are with flirting or humor.
Here’s an important concept: She is NOT going to remember all your good qualities. So it’s your JOB to remind her.

Mistake #6: Becoming too “Predictable”

Lets say that you’ve now succeeded in getting up a date with a girl. You may think you’re home free when it comes to texting, but there’s still some things you need to keep in mind to ensure you CONTINUE to see your girls.
First, you never want to fall into predictable patterns. Lots of guys use the same jokes, same questions, and same texts over and over. While it may be easier to fall into “complacency” with a woman you’re dating, don’t do it!
Instead, break things up with some spicy ever once in a while. Tell her you have a “surprise” to show her later. Tell her something reminded you of her, but don’t tell her what it is right away. Ask her to send you a funny picture of something (or send her a funny picture of something).
Keep her guessing what your text will be and you’ll keep her interested in you. Moreover, keeping the “spark” of a relationship alive is very important when it comes to creating a great sex life.
As long as you don’t become ultra predictable, you should have your girl texting YOU asking YOU when you’re available to hang out.

Mistake #7: Thinking She’s Different

I have stressed over and over again “Never tell a girl how you feel about her over text”…
Yet, day after day I get emails from students telling me a story about how they confessed their feelings to a girl over text…
And every time- they scare the girl away.
In your mind, you’re going to try to convince yourself that “She is different.”
Or that “It won’t work on her”
But the minute you tell yourself ‘she’s different’ you are on the road to losing her…
Guys continually do things like:
– Texting her too much
– Paying her gushing compliments over text
– Not asking her to hang out because you’re scared…
And time and time again they’ll face the same consequences as all the other guys have…
She’s not different. And if anytime you start thinking she is pull out this email and re-read it.
Ok…
So now that you know the big mistakes you need to avoid its time formulate a solid game plan.

I found how to get her to want me. Thanks goodness I found these tips to learn what a girl really wants. I wish I knew years ago. Check it out for yourself: Dating Tips! Good Luck! I hope you find your true love like I finally did.

terrible advice.

just tex them a picture of your dick

also **** you

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