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post 1554002811 06-16-2018, 08:00 PM
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Originally Posted By Micii⏩
i think there are steps you can take before getting herpes to get more mature and serious...
True but stuff happened. Found out a friend of mine was a toxic sociopath with a hidden hatred for women. Known him for 7 years. went through an abusive relationship. fell for another guy but he went back to his fiance. that **** hurt. had some guy spread rumors about me to everyone he knew. (he kinda stopped after I dated his friend)

Then I thought about my past, about my bad experiences and guys who've hurt me etc. Then I just decided that I didn't want to live that way anymore. So I reached out to guys I had been with in the past and established a friendship thing, no sex. Then I came across some dalai lama quotes.

I actually abstained for some months. Met a guy I liked a ****load, has sex two times, once unprotected. decided to collect my results, found out I have the disease. Told the guy the next day.

So I'd say I've grown a bit.
“With realization of one's own potential and self-confidence in one's ability, one can build a better world."
post 1554002951 06-16-2018, 08:02 PM
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
True but stuff happened. Found out a friend of mine was a toxic sociopath with a hidden hatred for women. Known him for 7 years. went through an abusive relationship. fell for another guy but he went back to his fiance. that **** hurt. had some guy spread rumors about me to everyone he knew. (he kinda stopped after I dated his friend)

Then I thought about my past, about my bad experiences and guys who've hurt me etc. Then I just decided that I didn't want to live that way anymore. So I reached out to guys I had been with in the past and established a friendship thing, no sex. Then I came across some dalai lama quotes.

I actually abstained for some months. Met a guy I liked a ****load, has sex two times, once unprotected. decided to collect my results, found out I have the disease. Told the guy the next day.

So I'd say I've grown a bit.
yikes
post 1554031931 06-17-2018, 09:42 AM
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Originally Posted By jay283⏩
Thank you so much. Its a bit reassuring but I'm still scared. I can't help but think any guy I end up with can do better. It's risky.
Nah. Don't let this define who you are. If you do get overwhelmed, I suggest going to an animal shelter. You can really learn a lot. No matter the circumstances, animals are happy just to be alive and breathing.
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post 1554032571 06-17-2018, 09:55 AM
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I think they have dating sites for people with the herp so its not over. The last thing you should do is not tell anyone. I hung out with this girl that told me last minute right before we were about to bang and I said no.
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post 1554033971 06-17-2018, 10:21 AM
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Originally Posted By drvillain⏩
a guy with herpes is almost a dating death sentence. Count your blessings OP
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post 1554037861 06-17-2018, 11:21 AM
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Originally Posted By drvillain⏩
a guy with herpes is almost a dating death sentence. Count your blessings OP
How is it not also a death sentence for women? Do most men really want to be with a woman with Herpes?! I can't imagine they do.
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post 1554038101 06-17-2018, 11:26 AM
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You guys are acting like herpes is ****ing ebola or something lol.

If you've never had an outbreak on your lips, even though 90% of the population have hsv-1, you can be safe to say that you're one of the many people who just never suffer from outbreaks. wether you contract herpes or not, you shouldn't even worry too much if you've never had it break out on your lips.

Now let's assume you have a gf. She hasn't ever had cold sores, but there's a 90% chance she has hsv-1. shedding phases still occur which would allow the virus to spread to your genitalia. Will you refuse blowjobs without condoms for life? HSV is super common. Most people don't suffer from outbreaks and the few that do can minimize the outbreaks to 5-10 days a year where it's just a mild inconvenience.
post 1554038331 06-17-2018, 11:30 AM
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sux OP

most whores who gave raw blow jobs 1000's of guys and kissed them and never caught herpes
post 1554045341 06-17-2018, 01:33 PM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
How is it not also a death sentence for women? Do most men really want to be with a woman with Herpes?! I can't imagine they do.
A lot of men are weak when it comes to sex. All you have to do is give the "I take medicine and it rarely shows up" spiel, and SOME men will consider.
post 1554047791 06-17-2018, 02:17 PM
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This reminds me of the pirate copypasta where the real treasure was in the friendships they made
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post 1554048561 06-17-2018, 02:29 PM
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Originally Posted By SwiftRick⏩
Nah. Don't let this define who you are. If you do get overwhelmed, I suggest going to an animal shelter. You can really learn a lot. No matter the circumstances, animals are happy just to be alive and breathing.
True I like animals a ton
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post 1554048741 06-17-2018, 02:31 PM
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Originally Posted By jiujitsubro⏩
I think they have dating sites for people with the herp so its not over. The last thing you should do is not tell anyone. I hung out with this girl that told me last minute right before we were about to bang and I said no.
I usually do before I even hang out. I'm still not entirely comfortable with the idea of being intimate with this disease.
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post 1554048801 06-17-2018, 02:33 PM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
How is it not also a death sentence for women? Do most men really want to be with a woman with Herpes?! I can't imagine they do.
For sex yes. very few would want to seriously date.
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