Height and body is meme OP after fight club body there is no further increased attraction from developing sick body to women, only to men.





It's all about face and your dick size

height doesn't matter if you are taller than her
look at proudmanlet 5'6 and slay left and right thanks to his big dick

So OP I can relate to what you mean and I think some people may not admit it but the rejections of online dating, hell rejection in that sense can take a toll on your self-esteem and your overall self-worth. The funny thing is about dating and finding a partner is that it is completely illogical and based on arbitrary things. One girl may like you for one thing while a girl may get weirded out by a mole on your face or how you laugh. It is what it is. It really helps tonottake rejection personally but I know how hard that is especially if you let your mind wander.

If you sit and dwell on it you can think about past rejections and why they didn't work or why you felt you didn't deserve to be rejected. I was with my gf last week somewhere and saw a woman who I slept with for a month then started acting passive aggressive and blocked me. The fact that she did that to me infuriated me, but ultimately where would me dwelling on that help me in my quest to achieve happiness in my life with the right one? I instead moved on and let it go on. I'm enjoying my girlfriend and working on growing a relationship with her.

If you talk to women more you realize that they are human too and have their own set of problems, shortcomings, and failures. They're no better or worse than you dude.

If getting attention online boosts your mood, rejection understandably depresses you.

You need to find a way to put space between what people say about you and how you view yourself. If you identify with 100% of feedback about you, it's no wonder you'd feel miserable.

I think you guys are being unfairly harsh to OP. He just seems confused that he feels like his done everything right in life, however still struggles in dating. People seem to focussing on his use of the word ‘dare’, however he’s from Germany and has already admitted it translates bad.

^^^At least a few miscers are giving quality advice. OP seems to acknowledge that his feelings towards women are unhealthy and wants to change. These guys are right.

Will rep if I can.

EDIT: On R/C



This too.

I get so tired of misc psuedo alpha's claiming these problems don't exist for them and that OP is an incel, ******* etc. BUT they offer no REAL advice when the OP actually seems genuine.