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May is mental health month, coincidence ?
05-09-2019, 02:18 PM
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Originally Posted By DefensiveEnd896⏩
Ronaldo literally laid women to have his kids. So yeah, tons of rich guys do this. Some rich Chinese guy in California has 4 kids with different surrogate mothers.That's cause you are an immature idiot who probably thinks marriage is all about sex
05-09-2019, 02:27 PM
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She's just sent out the strongest Bat signal. Sharks gonna be popping up from the waters. Her DMs gonna be poppin with the grimiest cats spitting game. On some "hey bby gurl, don't trip, u still fine, u still beautiful, lemme holla at u real quick".
Pure and utter disrespect. Going on live TV talking about how you're fiending for other mans dinks. Steph out there busting his gut trying to win his playoffs and his succubus of a wife directing all kinds of unwanted attention at the worst possible time to him. She really went on live TV harping about wanting attention from other men.
Steph needs to set a plan in motion to divorce this vixen.
Pure and utter disrespect. Going on live TV talking about how you're fiending for other mans dinks. Steph out there busting his gut trying to win his playoffs and his succubus of a wife directing all kinds of unwanted attention at the worst possible time to him. She really went on live TV harping about wanting attention from other men.
Steph needs to set a plan in motion to divorce this vixen.
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Originally Posted By MajesticBeat⏩
such a brutal expensive option, but it may save his mind in the long runSteph needs to set a plan in motion to divorce this vixen.
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Originally Posted By AltarOfPlagues⏩
Bro after hearing that comment from her. I'd think it's 100% worth it. Phuck that noise. Bird wants to be free and do some exploring. Rekindle those days when she could reject brahs that were trying to holla at her. (cuz that's what females get off on nowadays too). Just lol at her irrelevant ass trying to compete with Steph. An accomplished future Hall of Famer worth multi millions. And you know what's worse. This brah Steph worships the ground she walks on, only for him to hear her say on a radio show that attention from other men matters more to her. And you know a lot of brahs respected their dynamic cuz they showed an appearance of a strong family unit. Husband and wife nomsayin. But now vultures gonna plot on her ass. And she invited it.such a brutal expensive option, but it may save his mind in the long run
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05-09-2019, 03:01 PM
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Lmao then she goes on Instagram and doubles down on it. That marriage is over. She’s probably already cheating
05-09-2019, 03:12 PM
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Originally Posted By ectobruh⏩
link??? OH HELL NO I NEED TO GET MY RAGE OUT!!! i had 2 mfs die this week?? Oh no i'm going tf in!!! GIMME DAT LINK BOIIIII
Ho Lee Phuck. She actually doesn't give a phuck and is standing by her words in her latest insta post talking about uplifting and empowering women to speak their mind etc etc, you know the usual sloot babble. Oh and don't read the comments. You will legit want to strap some fireworks on your feet and phuck off to Mars. A bunch of NPCs going "you go girl", "tell em girl", "yasss queen". 420K likes too.
Momma Curry needs to slap some sense in to Steph. ASAP.
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I don't think she's cheating. She just likes to be validated and still seen as attractive by other men. It's stupid bit whatever lol. Women seeking attention isn't new!
This reminds me of how much ignoring women is kryptonite to them lol.
This reminds me of how much ignoring women is kryptonite to them lol.
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05-09-2019, 03:45 PM
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[QUOTE=ectobruh post_id=1579779871]coming from a married woman...you can't make this up folks. Known her for about a decade.
[img]https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/attachment.php?attachmentid=9102061&d=1557438337[/img[/QUOTE]What's wrong with that bird brain you're conversing with?
"every human wants to feel desired" "if you don't get attention from the opposite sex". Isn't that what Steph given her and more or am I missing something here? And lettuce be real tea here for a minit. Dudes do give her attention and try to come on to her but it's the WRONG TYPE of dudes. Bums on some "Hey Ma, god is good today, how are you". She mentioned these IG model groupies and she can't compete looks wise. She wants those same high tier dudes thirsting after her. Not some accountant Javaris Lavaris Jamarison counting her notes at the bank.
She's just fiending for a train ran on her by the Rockets team and for Scottie Pippen to tickle her guts.
Oh and Derek Fisher lurking smelling blood.
[img]https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/attachment.php?attachmentid=9102061&d=1557438337[/img[/QUOTE]What's wrong with that bird brain you're conversing with?
"every human wants to feel desired" "if you don't get attention from the opposite sex". Isn't that what Steph given her and more or am I missing something here? And lettuce be real tea here for a minit. Dudes do give her attention and try to come on to her but it's the WRONG TYPE of dudes. Bums on some "Hey Ma, god is good today, how are you". She mentioned these IG model groupies and she can't compete looks wise. She wants those same high tier dudes thirsting after her. Not some accountant Javaris Lavaris Jamarison counting her notes at the bank.
She's just fiending for a train ran on her by the Rockets team and for Scottie Pippen to tickle her guts.
Oh and Derek Fisher lurking smelling blood.
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05-09-2019, 04:06 PM
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Originally Posted By MajesticBeat⏩
Ho Lee Phuck. She actually doesn't give a phuck and is standing by her words in her latest insta post talking about uplifting and empowering women to speak their mind etc etc, you know the usual sloot babble. Oh and don't read the comments. You will legit want to strap some fireworks on your feet and phuck off to Mars. A bunch of NPCs going "you go girl", "tell em girl", "yasss queen". 420K likes too.
Momma Curry needs to slap some sense in to Steph. ASAP.
posted a quick rant lol I was that triggeredHo Lee Phuck. She actually doesn't give a phuck and is standing by her words in her latest insta post talking about uplifting and empowering women to speak their mind etc etc, you know the usual sloot babble. Oh and don't read the comments. You will legit want to strap some fireworks on your feet and phuck off to Mars. A bunch of NPCs going "you go girl", "tell em girl", "yasss queen". 420K likes too.
Momma Curry needs to slap some sense in to Steph. ASAP.
05-09-2019, 04:09 PM
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Ugly moon faced kunt wants more attention lmao. You can't make this stuff up. No one hollering at you because you're Steph Curry's wife. There is 0 point to doing it because they can't compete with him and out of respect. Her and Curry started dating in college so relatively early. This fat moon phased hoe never went through a hoe phase and deep down wants to get dicked down by other men. Don't be surprised in the near future when they divorce because she wants to "find" herself. These hoes ain't loyal.
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05-09-2019, 04:15 PM
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Originally Posted By ectobruh⏩
Women and men seek validation in different ways, but both seek validation.You're not missing sh*t. She has zero arguments
If you don't think watching your significant other have the opposite sex slip into their DMs on the regular will make you begin to experience insecurity, you're a liar.
Unfortunately, a lot of people have started really drinking from the depths of the MGTOW factory.The problem with fanaticism is fanaticism itself; it is an intense enthusiasm and uncritical devotion to a controversial matter. To make a sweeping blanket statement about anything the way that MGTOW tries to do, is typically, to make an erroneous statement. There are rarely times in which this is not the case.
That being said(and without justifying what was said), let's take a moment to really dig into what was said:
We'll start with two grade A facts that just arenotup for dispute.
>It is not up for debate that SC likely gets more p00nhanded to him on a silver platterthan the entirety of the misc.
>The new-new isalwaysinitially more attractive than theold.
>She stated that she getszeromale attention in comparison to SC.
>This means either (a) she is not actively searching, (b) she does not notice, (c) she is lying or (d) she gets male attention but not nearly at the same level as SC.
>I'm going to go with (d) being the most likely scenario.
>So if we bear that in mind, we're looking at ahugeSMV disparity, especially considering that she has gained weight.
>The circles that SC runs with likely containa disproportionate amount of gold digging, etc
>Being confronted with the reality that you have to continue to contend for your significant other EVEN after you've been with them for a very long time is a harsh reality that many people still do not know how to comprehend or deal with. She is learning this.
>Considering all of the above, the internalization that SC is of a significantly higher SMV is incredibly apparent.
>She has gained weight, and is worried that SC is going to realize that the new-new is getting thrown at him and he can jump on the chance at any time
>SCgenuinelycould dipset on her whenever, and probably be better off in her mind.
>The statement then becomes one (or all) of three things; (a) a vocalization of this insecurity (which it was explicitly stated to be), (b) a vocalization of the SMV disparity, (c) the insecurity manifesting as a desire to be shown that she is wanted as equally as SC
>She believes that if she was wanted as equally as SC, SC would want her more.
Unfortunately, the statement she intended to become a vocalization of this insecurity became a sort of "call to arms" because of the context. But I'm fairly certain that she does not understand it at this level of thinking.
The fact of the matter is this;attention and validation are integral to our self-esteem, and we often say or do things that are inappropriate to get them. And while she should not have said what she said, taking it at face value will never help you understand the opposite sex. In fact, taking something like this at absolute face value would likely contribute to the ever growing population of men that just do not seem to understand how to (a) keep a healthy relationship and (b) turn to other, less productive outlets.
Problematically, she too, does not realize why she has said what she has said.
And if we bear that in mind, we must understand that there is a possibility that she gets exactly what she asked for. Whether or not she takes it and runs with it becomes the question.
05-09-2019, 06:27 PM
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Originally Posted By TypeNirvash⏩
I could agree with that. And could also could agree with your third to last paragraph about some men. Women need certain things and it's hard for us men to understand that.Women and men seek validation in different ways, but both seek validation.
If you don't think watching your significant other have the opposite sex slip into their DMs on the regular will make you begin to experience insecurity, you're a liar.
Unfortunately, a lot of people have started really drinking from the depths of the MGTOW factory.The problem with fanaticism is fanaticism itself; it is an intense enthusiasm and uncritical devotion to a controversial matter. To make a sweeping blanket statement about anything the way that MGTOW tries to do, is typically, to make an erroneous statement. There are rarely times in which this is not the case.
That being said(and without justifying what was said), let's take a moment to really dig into what was said:
We'll start with two grade A facts that just arenotup for dispute.
>It is not up for debate that SC likely gets more p00nhanded to him on a silver platterthan the entirety of the misc.
>The new-new isalwaysinitially more attractive than theold.
>She stated that she getszeromale attention in comparison to SC.
>This means either (a) she is not actively searching, (b) she does not notice, (c) she is lying or (d) she gets male attention but not nearly at the same level as SC.
>I'm going to go with (d) being the most likely scenario.
>So if we bear that in mind, we're looking at ahugeSMV disparity, especially considering that she has gained weight.
>The circles that SC runs with likely containa disproportionate amount of gold digging, etc
>Being confronted with the reality that you have to continue to contend for your significant other EVEN after you've been with them for a very long time is a harsh reality that many people still do not know how to comprehend or deal with. She is learning this.
>Considering all of the above, the internalization that SC is of a significantly higher SMV is incredibly apparent.
>She has gained weight, and is worried that SC is going to realize that the new-new is getting thrown at him and he can jump on the chance at any time
>SCgenuinelycould dipset on her whenever, and probably be better off in her mind.
>The statement then becomes one (or all) of three things; (a) a vocalization of this insecurity (which it was explicitly stated to be), (b) a vocalization of the SMV disparity, (c) the insecurity manifesting as a desire to be shown that she is wanted as equally as SC
>She believes that if she was wanted as equally as SC, SC would want her more.
Unfortunately, the statement she intended to become a vocalization of this insecurity became a sort of "call to arms" because of the context. But I'm fairly certain that she does not understand it at this level of thinking.
The fact of the matter is this;attention and validation are integral to our self-esteem, and we often say or do things that are inappropriate to get them. And while she should not have said what she said, taking it at face value will never help you understand the opposite sex. In fact, taking something like this at absolute face value would likely contribute to the ever growing population of men that just do not seem to understand how to (a) keep a healthy relationship and (b) turn to other, less productive outlets.
Problematically, she too, does not realize why she has said what she has said.
And if we bear that in mind, we must understand that there is a possibility that she gets exactly what she asked for. Whether or not she takes it and runs with it becomes the question.
If you don't think watching your significant other have the opposite sex slip into their DMs on the regular will make you begin to experience insecurity, you're a liar.
Unfortunately, a lot of people have started really drinking from the depths of the MGTOW factory.The problem with fanaticism is fanaticism itself; it is an intense enthusiasm and uncritical devotion to a controversial matter. To make a sweeping blanket statement about anything the way that MGTOW tries to do, is typically, to make an erroneous statement. There are rarely times in which this is not the case.
That being said(and without justifying what was said), let's take a moment to really dig into what was said:
We'll start with two grade A facts that just arenotup for dispute.
>It is not up for debate that SC likely gets more p00nhanded to him on a silver platterthan the entirety of the misc.
>The new-new isalwaysinitially more attractive than theold.
>She stated that she getszeromale attention in comparison to SC.
>This means either (a) she is not actively searching, (b) she does not notice, (c) she is lying or (d) she gets male attention but not nearly at the same level as SC.
>I'm going to go with (d) being the most likely scenario.
>So if we bear that in mind, we're looking at ahugeSMV disparity, especially considering that she has gained weight.
>The circles that SC runs with likely containa disproportionate amount of gold digging, etc
>Being confronted with the reality that you have to continue to contend for your significant other EVEN after you've been with them for a very long time is a harsh reality that many people still do not know how to comprehend or deal with. She is learning this.
>Considering all of the above, the internalization that SC is of a significantly higher SMV is incredibly apparent.
>She has gained weight, and is worried that SC is going to realize that the new-new is getting thrown at him and he can jump on the chance at any time
>SCgenuinelycould dipset on her whenever, and probably be better off in her mind.
>The statement then becomes one (or all) of three things; (a) a vocalization of this insecurity (which it was explicitly stated to be), (b) a vocalization of the SMV disparity, (c) the insecurity manifesting as a desire to be shown that she is wanted as equally as SC
>She believes that if she was wanted as equally as SC, SC would want her more.
Unfortunately, the statement she intended to become a vocalization of this insecurity became a sort of "call to arms" because of the context. But I'm fairly certain that she does not understand it at this level of thinking.
The fact of the matter is this;attention and validation are integral to our self-esteem, and we often say or do things that are inappropriate to get them. And while she should not have said what she said, taking it at face value will never help you understand the opposite sex. In fact, taking something like this at absolute face value would likely contribute to the ever growing population of men that just do not seem to understand how to (a) keep a healthy relationship and (b) turn to other, less productive outlets.
Problematically, she too, does not realize why she has said what she has said.
And if we bear that in mind, we must understand that there is a possibility that she gets exactly what she asked for. Whether or not she takes it and runs with it becomes the question.
But you know what any partner needs in a relationship? Respect. I don't think she is a cheater. I think it's disrespectful. And disrespectful that she doubled down instead of realizing her mistake. Yes women are more emotional and think differently. But you don't need to spout off all your inner most thoughts just because you are given a platform to. Respect your relationship. Respect your spouse. Respect that you need to protect that relationship more than you need express your thoughts to others who don't give one fck about your relationship.
Notice how I said a partner needs respect in a relationship. Not just a man. You need to respect your woman too. But respect is everything to a man and a leader.
If she wants a high value, strong man worth a fck... well that's the kinda man you respect. You only get away with disrespecting spineless weak men. But some women want that.
Not good women though.
05-10-2019, 02:42 AM
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Originally Posted By MajesticBeat⏩
Ho Lee Phuck. She actually doesn't give a phuck and is standing by her words in her latest insta post talking about uplifting and empowering women to speak their mind etc etc, you know the usual sloot babble. Oh and don't read the comments. You will legit want to strap some fireworks on your feet and phuck off to Mars. A bunch of NPCs going "you go girl", "tell em girl", "yasss queen". 420K likes too.
Momma Curry needs to slap some sense in to Steph. ASAP.
yes, she spoke her mind, and we found out she's a total hoe.Ho Lee Phuck. She actually doesn't give a phuck and is standing by her words in her latest insta post talking about uplifting and empowering women to speak their mind etc etc, you know the usual sloot babble. Oh and don't read the comments. You will legit want to strap some fireworks on your feet and phuck off to Mars. A bunch of NPCs going "you go girl", "tell em girl", "yasss queen". 420K likes too.
Momma Curry needs to slap some sense in to Steph. ASAP.
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Originally Posted By TypeNirvash⏩
i agree with what you are saying here, i think she is stupid too. thats why currys mama pattin her on the hand like bish shut the fuk up.Unfortunately, the statement she intended to become a vocalization of this insecurity became a sort of "call to arms" because of the context. But I'm fairly certain that she does not understand it at this level of thinking.
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inb4 cheating, divorce and Steph losing 25 mill.
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Originally Posted By theeminemshow1⏩
surprising accurate number lolinb4 cheating, divorce and Steph losing 25 mill.
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Originally Posted By AltarOfPlagues⏩
Yeah I saw that; they all kind of had the same reaction and they all immediately knew she was about to say some chit that was gonna be dumb.i agree with what you are saying here, i think she is stupid too. thats why currys mama pattin her on the hand like bish shut the fuk up.
I did have a good lol @ that
Originally Posted By ectobruh⏩
Actually these sort of reactions are exactly why I post about this kind of stuff. I'm not going to imply that your line of thinking is wrong, because it isn't. Obviously what you want is to be in a relationship with a self-aware adult who does not play games--that's ideal. But if you can't find that, I see no reason to cozy up with somebody who is not self-aware.Lol at losing your sh*t over an app. If you're THAT weak and I have to police your thoughts all day forget it. She wants it from other men??? Cool go see other men. What else is she gonna want from other men?
And being single. I don't need bitches bait , games and bs fishing tactics in my life...Nor am I gonna be some stepping stone cause u can't keep your fukkin wife in check.NO ONE HAS TIME FOR THAT SH*T.
Already hard enough to stay focused on yourself. No one needs distractions and women's unwarranted self-esteem and attention problems fukking with my head.
Like.....Go see a fukkin shrink. It's your own self-imposed problems. Steph does too much already and now she wants him to magically go inside her head and rewire her.....
Fukk outta here
And being single. I don't need bitches bait , games and bs fishing tactics in my life...Nor am I gonna be some stepping stone cause u can't keep your fukkin wife in check.NO ONE HAS TIME FOR THAT SH*T.
Already hard enough to stay focused on yourself. No one needs distractions and women's unwarranted self-esteem and attention problems fukking with my head.
Like.....Go see a fukkin shrink. It's your own self-imposed problems. Steph does too much already and now she wants him to magically go inside her head and rewire her.....
Fukk outta here
We are the first few generations to actually begin marrying and/or dating by choice. Previously, marraige for love was not mainstream, and it's still a very new human development (in the grand spectrum of our human history).
Further, it has becomemuch easierto function your way through life without ever maturing or becoming self aware. We can now, more easily than ever, surround ourselves with people who share the same beliefs and literally never challenge our own system of thinking. This isincredibly dangerous.
So if we keep those things in mind, we begin to understand a handful of things about what we're supposed to look for when we meet somebody new.
I agree;there is no time to play games for a mature adult.
I can also confirm that there are mature women out there who do not play games.
Thing is, in order to be able to see emotional maturity, youhave to be emotionally mature yourself.In this case, it appears that SC's wife is definitely not emotionally mature;but she can become emotionally mature with the right guidance.
Now you can argue that you shouldn't have to do that for somebody you are in a relationship with, but that kind of thinking is the kind of thinking that prevents you from genuinely growing with somebody... And thusly, prevents you from creating a genuine connection that prevents these sort of things from being said in the first place.
Here's a great example of this phenomenon in a different context; you and I are on a soccer team. We have been practicing hard all season and play different positions but are both integral for team function. Our season has been tough, and we are close to our promotion game. Our team loses our next game. I get upset with my performance. I begin to feel like I'm not good enough to be on the team due to the fact that I fukked up and contributed to our loss. You notice this, because we have known each other for a little while. You take me aside during practice, and show me a drill that will help prevent that from happening again. I get better. We trust each other more. The next game happens, and the drill helps me make the game winning assist. I'm hyped because I did something good for the team, and you're hyped because you showed me how.
The same thing works in relationships.
And let's just put this out there; there is absolutely no way that you are so perfectly mentally mature that you wouldn't fuk with somebody's head either.This is absolutely not a dig at all, but your post reads like you genuinely believe that you are so sorted out that you can't risk somebody else not being sorted out...However, if you were completely sorted out, dealing with others who aren't would not fuk with your head.That being said, I still agree with the premise that you should strive to reduce as muchunecessary stressin your life as possible.
Originally Posted By Ntwadumela9⏩
I agree that it wasn't a respectful statement, because it was said in a sort of roundabout unintentionally malicious way and she should have had enough self-awareness not to say it.I could agree with that. And could also could agree with your third to last paragraph about some men. Women need certain things and it's hard for us men to understand that.
But you know what any partner needs in a relationship? Respect. I don't think she is a cheater. I think it's disrespectful. And disrespectful that she doubled down instead of realizing her mistake. Yes women are more emotional and think differently. But you don't need to spout off all your inner most thoughts just because you are given a platform to. Respect your relationship. Respect your spouse. Respect that you need to protect that relationship more than you need express your thoughts to others who don't give one fck about your relationship.
Notice how I said a partner needs respect in a relationship. Not just a man. You need to respect your woman too. But respect is everything to a man and a leader.
If she wants a high value, strong man worth a fck... well that's the kinda man you respect. You only get away with disrespecting spineless weak men. But some women want that.
Not good women though.
But you know what any partner needs in a relationship? Respect. I don't think she is a cheater. I think it's disrespectful. And disrespectful that she doubled down instead of realizing her mistake. Yes women are more emotional and think differently. But you don't need to spout off all your inner most thoughts just because you are given a platform to. Respect your relationship. Respect your spouse. Respect that you need to protect that relationship more than you need express your thoughts to others who don't give one fck about your relationship.
Notice how I said a partner needs respect in a relationship. Not just a man. You need to respect your woman too. But respect is everything to a man and a leader.
If she wants a high value, strong man worth a fck... well that's the kinda man you respect. You only get away with disrespecting spineless weak men. But some women want that.
Not good women though.
It's telling, but not in the way most people think it is.
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