problem is peoplle are ugly and most hold double standard llike a male wouldnt settle for a 5/10 when hes 4/10 himself and vise versa.

and many of them are anti social / have anxiety because they never were popular in the first place talking to people all the time so it becomes very very difficullt for them to make an approach, its the fear of being rejected, its the lack of confidence for them to know what to say without stuttering.

You're assuming men and women go by the same logic, they don't.

Females have a hive mentality, and would rather share a man with high sexual market value than settle for an average or below average man - that's while they're still at their peak, they will drastically lower their standards as they lose glow.

Just enter social situations without any goal other than to enjoy it and you'll be surprised where that will lead you.

Whenever I go out and talk to girls, they are blown away by the fact that I'm single. My ex broke up with me like 5 months ago and I'm still reeling hard. I go out to bars with friends and I just mind my own business. Girls will come up and talk to me and I'll feel obligated to respond back. I'm a 6'3" 25 year old Mechanical Engineer making good money and in relatively good shape. I have an awesome personality and enjoy high intellect conversations/arguments more than anything. Girls have been throwing themselves at me to the point where it's so blatantly obvious which ones are genuine, and which ones are fake. The fake girls will essentially talk about how good you are and try to get with you. The real girls will not even care about what you do and will have a conversation about something else.

If I meet a girl who is smarter than me, I'm pretty much in love.

ok, what about people who've been doing that and are still virgins.

Nothing has ever happened for me randomly from just being social. Only got lucky once off tinder, which is obviously a deliberate effort