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post 1610388091 07-12-2020, 02:47 PM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
And again there may well be lifestages when physiological and life pressures make it less easy to “not be fat” particularly for women, although men also can struggle here

When you are no longer the centre of your own life but have competing priorities on your time, you should re read these posts

And yes some women sail through without any issues
If my wife stops giving a **** about what i expect from her, or if i stop giving a **** about what she expects of me, and either of us start throwing excuses like "psychological pressures" or whatever the hell... then **** is seriously going downhill.

Im not obtuse though, if my wife loses a leg and she gains weight the first year, **** thats to be expected. Marriage is about being there for your partner on the tough times too, not just the good ones. I feel like this goes without saying

However if im going to the gym often, watching what i eat, trying to stay attractive, doing good at work, and then coming home to a fat wife that cant stay away from the fridge and then blaming it on random bull****... then hell, we have a problem. If she doesnt care about me not being attracted to her, then thats a huge redflag.

We only have one life, im not about to waste her next to someone that couldnt give a **** about what i expect from her. Sure as hell wouldnt expect anyone to settle for me if i also dont give a **** about what she wants from me.

Some people put up with their significant others drinking themselves to sleep every night. Some people put up with their significant others getting fat and unattractive as fuk. Some people even put up with their spouses cheating on them. I sure as hell wont, and im looking for a wife that values herself enough to not put up with that **** either.
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
If my wife stops giving a **** about what i expect from her, or if i stop giving a **** about what she expects of me, and either of us start throwing excuses like "psychological pressures" or whatever the hell... then **** is seriously going downhill.

Im not obtuse though, if my wife loses a leg and she gains weight the first year, **** thats to be expected. Marriage is about being there for your partner on the tough times too, not just the good ones. I feel like this goes without saying

However if im going to the gym often, watching what i eat, trying to stay attractive, doing good at work, and then coming home to a fat wife that cant stay away from the fridge and then blaming it on random bull****... then hell, we have a problem. If she doesnt care about me not being attracted to her, then thats a huge redflag.

We only have one life, im not about to waste her next to someone that couldnt give a **** about what i expect from her. Sure as hell wouldnt expect anyone to settle for me if i also dont give a **** about what she wants from me.

Some people put up with their significant others drinking themselves to sleep every night. Some people put up with their significant others getting fat and unattractive as fuk. Some people even put up with their spouses cheating on them. I sure as hell wont, and im looking for a wife that values herself enough to not put up with that **** either.
You'll do fine boyo, you have a good face. Looking to settle down soon? Or still live it up with sloots?
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post 1610388931 07-12-2020, 02:57 PM
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Originally Posted By hoganrulz⏩
Hows the hunt for procreation going winny?
Not particularly well lmao.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Idk I never felt any need for revenge at all. Just thought well that’s it and the marriage is now over.

But in my case there were actually other good reasons for divorce too. Even if my ex had been loyal the marriage would still have ended for other reasons.
cuz ur a female

females historically were ok with being part of a harem for Chad...males fight to be the Chad...there's a difference
post 1610389421 07-12-2020, 03:03 PM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
I’m pretty sure you’re bright enough to know what a harem actually is, beyond the Hollywood reinvention
It has a meaning in anthropological terms...harem style mating where many women mated with single chads...and that is how most humans were
post 1610389511 07-12-2020, 03:05 PM
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Originally Posted By ScramFranklin⏩
You'll do fine boyo, you have a good face. Looking to settle down soon? Or still live it up with sloots?
I want to settle down. Had a crazy 2019 of being a mansloot and thats out of my system now, im ready for a traditional marriage now. Just need to find the one because theres no way im going to settle just to get married like most people do.

May take a while then lol.
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
I want to settle down. Had a crazy 2019 of being a mansloot and thats out of my system now, im ready for a traditional marriage now. Just need to find the one because theres no way im going to settle just to get married like most people do.

May take a while then lol.
so u went thru ur hoe phase and now u wan tto settle down

lmfao
post 1610389721 07-12-2020, 03:08 PM
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Wants kids.
Some kind of social life, not housewives drama. Schoolteacher or something.
Good genes for children and healthy.
No turbo baggage like single mother or widowed MIL.
No daddy issues / comes from a similar semi-elite pedigree.
No crazy social media.

Essentially not a psycho socially with genes I would want.
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
“Harem, properly refers to domestic spaces that are reserved for the women of the house in a Muslim family. This private space has been traditionally understood as serving the purposes of maintaining the modesty, privilege, and protection of women”
Are we really doing this?

https://www.nature.com/scitable/know...act%20a%20mate.
Harems
Another common type of polygyny is membership in a harem, a defended group of females associated with one male. Females may initially associate in a harem for group defense, or they may be herded together by a male. Males compete for control of the groups. Harems typically exhibit a dominance hierarchy among the females in the group.
Do not question me, female.
post 1610390161 07-12-2020, 03:13 PM
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Originally Posted By trancecel⏩
so u went thru ur hoe phase and now u wan tto settle down

lmfao
Yeah, i was in 2 LTR my whole life, didnt know what a one night stand or a fuk buddy was until last year when i was single for the first time since my highschool days. Now that i have experienced that, while it was fun and a good experience to have, i dont think thats a good life to live long term.
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
I want to settle down. Had a crazy 2019 of being a mansloot and thats out of my system now, im ready for a traditional marriage now. Just need to find the one because theres no way im going to settle just to get married like most people do.

May take a while then lol.
Good man. You'll find her. I don't plan on it until my mid to late 30's. Sometimes still feels late though.
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Originally Posted By ScramFranklin⏩
Good man. You'll find her. I don't plan on it until my mid to late 30's. Sometimes still feels late though.
I think its more about timing than whatever age you are. If you find the one, thats the one man. Go for it regardless of if you are 30 or 35.
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I want someone....I guess similar to myself:

-Family orientated
-Hardworking/motivated
-Relatively fit/active (after dating someone 6'1 225lbs...its reaaaaally nice having someone that big hold you)
-Enjoys outdoors (fishing, biking, hikes, throwing a football around or kicking a soccer ball around)
-Up for doing different activities or new things (openness)
-Not clingy...has their own stuff going on too
-Intelligent
-Flexibility
-Affectionate--I love kisses, cuddles and hugs
-Sense of humor. When I make jokes about amputated children, you better laugh. Or when we take the piss out of each other
-Be open sexually and have a moderate sex drive
-believes in teamwork and team effort even in a relationship
-Above all else, be a relatively good person with a generally positive attitude. Cant be with someone angry and negative all the time

Don't know if that's possible. This would be my unicorn in a perfect world.
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
Yeah, i was in 2 LTR my whole life, didnt know what a one night stand or a fuk buddy was until last year when i was single for the first time since my highschool days. Now that i have experienced that, while it was fun and a good experience to have, i dont think thats a good life to live long term.
I can't imagine how casual sex (using someone else as a masturbation device) could possibly make you feel good as a person in the long run. In my mind, you fuk someone because you want to be with them.
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Originally Posted By ZyraThornrise⏩
This is the only acceptable answer
Do you not feel pathetic doing such an obvious attention grab?
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Originally Posted By SlowHandClap⏩
Do you not feel pathetic doing such an obvious attention grab?
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We want you to be available whenever we call on you but Leave us alone when we are preoccupied. Be close by and ready to serve us, but don’t annoy us by talking to us or giving us any unsolicited affection.

Ignore our indiscretions, but you better live, breath, eat, and sleep nothing but undying love and attention for us.

Ignore my inappropriate text messages with other females, but you better forget other men are even alive.

I am above any and all critique from you, so never try to suggest I did something wrong. If I even get a feeling you did something that might have kind of sort of been insulting or disrespectful to me or our relationship, you better be prepared for hard and fast over emotional reactions.

Buy me all my favorite things for my birthday and to celebrate accomplishments, but don’t even mention it if i happen to forget yours (every single time). After all, I am providing for you. That is present enough.

You will probably have to masturbate secretly, as the only sex we would have is designed to physically benefit me, not you. Also, the idea of you getting off without me is exactly the same thing as cheating on me, so no masturbating.

I think this about covers it.

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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Doesn’t this position contradict your harem position.
I don't support harems. I'm just saying that style of mating was popular with humans in the past. Harem style mating isn't casual sex either. Men would pair bond with several women and raise and protect their offspring in one large family. It's common for many mammals to do this. I personally am highly monogamous (or fancy myself to be). I tend to get obsessed with one woman at a time, and can't really imagine being with others. I can certainly fap to others, but I'm generally fixated on only one at any given time. Can't imagine loving multiple women simultaneously, but I am sure it is possible for some. They've found a lot of pair bonding and chit has to do with oxytocin levels. Perhaps I am loyal, but also unable to pair bond, and that has contributed to my lack of relationships. Hard to say. Or maybe I just fancy myself as being loyal while actually being obsessive and controlling. Perhaps there isn't a shred of loyalty in me since I've never really been tested either.
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Originally Posted By trancecel⏩
I can't imagine how casual sex (using someone else as a masturbation device) could possibly make you feel good as a person in the long run.
you can come to terms mutually where you're both using each other...

i'd agree if one instance requires one to lead the other on in any way, or its premised/predicated on false lies.. it's pretty gay... but you want sex, she wants sex... no lying.. don't see anything wrong with it

i do think that typically there are forms of lying in these situations, im just saying that it's not always that way, and therefore not always bad
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
Why is irony sexy?
What don’t you understand about “no unsolicited affection”?










......

Okay, I am bored now, so I will allow you to give me attention. You may begin.


Edit: commercials are over, will you grab me a beer?
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Originally Posted By propreffered7⏩
you can come to terms mutually where you're both using each other...

i'd agree if one instance requires one to lead the other on in any way, or its premised/predicated on false lies.. it's pretty gay... but you want sex, she wants sex... no lying.. don't see anything wrong with it

i do think that typically there are forms of lying in these situations, im just saying that it's not always that way, and therefore not always bad
True. It's just kind of degrading. Even if both agree to it and have the same motivations, they probably feel cheapened afterwards. What was the point if it didn't mean anything? Just to bust a nut? Why not masturbate then?
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Originally Posted By HoustonMiscer⏩
I dont really have a list
She’s just gotta earn that ring?
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
Certainly not a Jada
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Originally Posted By trancecel⏩
What was the point if it didn't mean anything?
i think you're throwing your own feels on it. that's aight, i know where you are. i do think you should get over it, though. i think women are more hesitant with sex because of pregnancy implications
Just to bust a nut? Why not masturbate then?
as to why not masturbate.. feels better? idk, why masturbate? i think our bodies tell us to want it. seems to be a normal part of life, as in you should want it, and our bodies were designed that way

but i agree with you the whole charade, false game is stupid to me

edit: and btw, nowhere in the "our bodies were designed that way" did i say multiple people were implied
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Originally Posted By propreffered7⏩
i think you're throwing your own feels on it. that's aight, i know where you are. i do think you should get over it, though. i think women are more hesitant with sex because of pregnancy implications


as to why not masturbate.. feels better? idk, why masturbate? i think our bodies tell us to want it. seems to be a normal part of life, as in you should want it, and our bodies were designed that way

but i agree with you the whole charade, false game is stupid to me

edit: and btw, nowhere in the "our bodies were designed that way" did i say multiple people were implied
I used to crave casual sex a lot. At one point, I was ready to smash anything that moved just to lose it. I almost went to an escort. But I ended up buying a fleshlight, and it really hit the spot. I'm more interested in finding a wife/long term girlfriend. I don't really care about the sex aspect as the main thing now. Ofc I want to smash, but at this point, I may as well save it for the right person anyway. The fleshlight also gives you stamina so you won't be a 2 pump chump.
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