i already feel bad for dudes that will date you in the future

Girl I am chasing is a 9/10 doctor virgin lol. These are the females u dont find on dating apps. Sadly, I'm not good enough for her.

No on hinge there absolutely are girls worth having in big US cities. Competition for them is just soul crushing though. Dudes just cannot compete with the moggery, so the chicks now have more choices than we can even imagine

Nah my cousin married a guy when she was 33 and he was 42. Just had their first kid last year at 45 years old. All of my cousins married guys in their mid 30s besides him.

Again, just be a man of value. Being financially solid, and finding someone that wants kids right away is your golden ticket. You'll find someone if you really want to. Doesn't mean you have to settle either.

Financially solid means fuk all if not in top 10% of looks. That + that though is a winning combo

Unless of course you’re beta buxing yourself

To be in 10% of looks all you need to do is stay in shape and take care of your body. Especially in your 30s. If you do, you're probably top 5%.

Was on the beach today, and heard a group of college aged girls talking about all the guys they ****ed last year when I walked by.

Actually asked her to do 4 different things. Tried dinner but she was on her fitness diet so no eating out. Tried bring her to this zoo safari thing you drive through with animals wild and she said she'd have to bring her son instead. Asked her to go to a water park when it was 90 degrees out got an excuse for that. And even told her I'd come to her place to go for a walk. Doesn't get any simpler

That may be true in theory, but perhaps Instagram has skewed what that top 10% threshold is, especially for young guys. If that were all dudes needed to do I wouldn’t see so many in-shape but dyel FAs at the gyms I go to, or in shape guys embracing "HTC"

No hate just facts

WTF does HTC mean?

Used to mean "high test crew" and used to signify thick girls with nice hips/azz

Now it just signifies fat girls and dudes cope by calling them htc

Bro...

This.. does that paying for dinner sht actually still happen?
its 2020, were splitting the bill

unless its my gf
its funny
they want guys to be open or up front
but then use terms like soyboys for guys that will do just that.or if he talks about his ex just once (showing feelings) its a dealbreakerDont know if I should say cuz its kind of shallow
but not that sexually into her. Never was.
like I dont fantasize about her sexually
I find myself fantasizing about random pawgs I see or random white girls
the relationship stuff is cute though and nice to have someone "there"

Women are easily to manipulate if they trust you. At that point it's just sad to manipulate a weaker person who has empathy for you.Scarcity mentality - onto the next. Dudes who approach with an agenda usually fail. You need to come in with no ****s given - but most people on tinder already have an agenda anywayIt means fatGet rid of this type of thinking bro. Once you enjoy time alone, others will find you enjoyable to hang out with too

lmfao.. i mean it's one thing to have standards, it's another to write off so much stuff that you're ruling out 99% of the population

Society endorses and rewards slutty behavior. It basically force-feeds it to young girls, tells them to never settle down, sell their nudes, take half his sh!t, YAS QUEEN, etc. Meanwhile, culture socially engineers men to be less masculine. That's toxic! Stop mansplaining! Be more emotional, so we can laugh at your problems anyway!

Not only do women NATURALLY select mates whereas men audition, but dating apps and social media have taken it 100 steps further, rigging the algorithms to force men into paying monthly subscription fees just to collect a scant 8 matches a month, 7 of whom won't even answer. And this stark contrast to early-era online dating (dozens of matches every day) shows the companies are rigging sh!t against men. It's all for the $$$. If any of you used these apps in 2010 - 2014 era you'd know how easy it was to not only clean house, but just get matches. Compared to today it's like an oasis to a landfill.

Women definitely get treated like sex objects. Hell, they're brainwashed to objectify themselves for $5 subscription fees. But men are treated like scapegoats, punching bags, purses, and labor objects.Eat sh!t and then die! If she f$%^s the mailman, give her half your stuff, you pig!

I'm being Bill Burr over-the-top, sure......but am I really that far off?

Having a lot of partners isn't an excuse to go cold on someone though.

Matter of fact, contemplating so many people is utterly a waste of time. You aren't doing anything constructive if you're juggling that many partners

I feel you man! This is the new reality. You gotta start asking girls out in person in your day to day situations. That’s the only way you’ll meet a good one. And when you meet one she might seem weird compared to the sluts your used to. But shes the one you invest your time into

I dont get why everyone is pissed at this girl.. her points are valid.

1- He's got no spine
2- Religion is important to some, politics (wouldn't be a deal breaker for me) to others I guess.
3- Men should lead.
4- This one should be half and half, but whoever asks the other person out should offer to pay.
5- Obviously
6- Ok
7- Leech and loser
8- Pill poppin animal? Probably unstable and/or weird.
9- Relationship w/ family is important in either partner
10- Damaged goods
11- Yeah, leave the ex's out of it

This bitch wants a dude with zero mental health issues while she posts on misc. See the problem?

Probably a ****post tbh. How could she be that unaware of her toxicity & narcissism? Scary

haha that not how dating was for me when I was single

You will die alone with cats

1. You’re shallow, I bet you would date mark zuckerberg soyboy
2. You think to highly of yourself, your worth, your intelligence, your personality most of all because you sound very stuck up and full of yourself
3. If my husband didn’t chase me we would have never dated, I wasn’t looking. And it was sweet how nervous he was on our first date and no he’s not a soyboy
4. I always offer to pay, irs polite but on the first couple dates I think it’s charming if they asked me out to pay for dinner. That said I’d never order anything expensive more on the lower end because I’m vegetarian it’s easy too
5. Chemistry I agree with
6. Also I agree with
7. If you date someone who’s a gentleman and not broke he’ll offer to pay. Being generous with money is not a bad thing. Donating to charities and helping others even if it has no benefit to you shows good character. As long as, your own personal needs, savings and family are taken care of. If a man wants to buy stupid stuff and can afford to, it really shouldn’t matter
8. I mean if it’s a true personality disorder or something like bipolar 1 refusing medication/help ya
9. I think 80 % of the population has this in some way. If it impacts daily life then there’s an issue but then again one must look at themselves humbly and see the skeletons in their own closet and have realistic fair things to ask of a partner
10. Unless you hate kids should not matter. If you love them then you will love their kids
11. I never minded if someone brought up their ex, as long as it wasn’t oh my ex loved this every other sentence or f that chick she cheated on me or screwed me over, she’s something degrading

I'm not pissed at her, it's her life and I wish everybody happiness regardless of if I think they have crazy standards.

But I think Guys who change everything about themselves (as if I'm gonna stop playing video games to impress some uppity Woman) and cater to Women's ideas on what is attractive are gigantic simps and extremely needy. Not to mention it's funny if they change all that chit about themselves and get rid of every rough edge, then find that she still isn't into them. I understand hating soyboys though, they should all be killed on principle.

I've also already met Women who are hot and accepted me despite not meeting every one of those things on the list (I play vidya, I'm not wealthy, I'm not paying for all her kunty **** and I have had mental health issues).. Women who don't have such retarded standards as her exist and they will easily steal her Guys, especially if he realizes she's gonna look down on him for every non-businessman-like trait under the sun.

She's basically borderline female MGTOW.

Met my wife when I was 38, she was 30. Had my first kid when I was 40. No reason to panic.

this is prime example of a broken female

We live in a time of hookup culture rather than dating each other - bro, it's literally not worth trying to pursue something serious right off the bat without first going through the stages of hooking up. In this day and age, that's how it goes unfortunately. Besides, sometimes you get given a chance, other times you don't, but don't let that kill off your hopes. You'll be fine bro, just give it some time, go through some dating apps and remember that a relationship isn't a big piece of your life, but rather a bonus that comes when you get your **** together and live life at a point that you're happy with yourself.

Hope this helps

Find a new one

Done pursuing women = done with women.

Either sack up and pursue or try men.

I didn't even bother reading her list until a few second ago, #4 is the one that that makes me lol - I don't think the most of the others are that bad.

Phuck #4 though, you don't have gold between your legs - and lol @ how women want "equality", but at the same time you have ones like this (and I'm not saying all women are) having a massive sense of entitlement when it comes to a man's money.