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post 1615268191 09-01-2020, 10:58 AM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
These are irrelevant though, neither is why we married not what keeps our marriage strong.
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post 1615269451 09-01-2020, 11:10 AM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
You shouldn’t get married
This argument I never understood. Just because in certain countries divorce laws are ludicrous shouldn‘t mean you have to hand over all your financial assets to your spouse or otherwise marriage isn‘t for you.
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post 1615270211 09-01-2020, 11:17 AM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
You shouldn’t get married
If a girl really loves you she will sign the prenup and not care and vice versa if the women is the breadwinner. It's just a protective clause in case something ever goes really bad. In life nothing is guaranteed and people change all the time so I will never risk my assets I worked hard for as well as things my parents have in my name. As a guy or even women this shouldn't be a big problem. When a guy or girl uses the excuse" But you don't trust this relationship" or anything pertaining to that when bringing up prenup and you fall for it, you know that person will always have the power because if things goes south she or he will be able to gain the most from a divorce while the other suffers. Marriage is suppose to be about love and if it doesn't work out then be it, however the financial burden on the breadwinner if things don't work out just seems like non sense and isn't something i'll ever sign up for.
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post 1615271051 09-01-2020, 11:25 AM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
If you consider marriage a short term commitment that you will get out of then I don’t think you should marry

You work through issues you don’t give up

I don’t believe in divorce
I agree 100%. But how does anything in your post require handing over your assets? With this logic, if you want to assure you will never divorce, hire someone to kill both of you in that case. I‘m pretty sure you‘ll be able to work through all issues.

But srs, why is the person concerned about their assets in case of a divorce less prepared for a marriage than the person who feels entiteled to the other one‘s assets?
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post 1615271981 09-01-2020, 11:35 AM
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These threads are always a nice update to which miscers are angry and alone. Lots of you ITT.
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post 1615273191 09-01-2020, 11:45 AM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
Well as I mentioned I was the one who risked losing more, substantially more tbh although no family money so maybe that’s different

And it’s the concept of planning for the failure of something that I am committing to for the rest of my life.

If I felt that unsure I simply wouldn’t have married. It’s that simple.

I do not need to protect me and mine from the person I am pledging to stick with through thick and thin
I understand your argument but you can‘t prevent the planning for failure. This plan exists by default. In some countries, unfortunately this default turns a love marriage into a financial transaction.

Or to put it in another way, would you marry if you would be killed by default if you got divorced or would you sign a contract to prevent that? Shouldn‘t need to sign if you are so sure.
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post 1615274201 09-01-2020, 11:56 AM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
But I wouldn’t be attracted to someone who allows for failure in something that can only fail if he or I fail in our promise or commitment
So would you sign the contract to prevent your execution?
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post 1615275611 09-01-2020, 12:14 PM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
If I was worried that was an eventuality then I wouldn’t marry

If I would marry then the contract is redundant

If my partner wants to consider and plan for failure then I wouldn’t marry

Not sure I can make it clearer

You either choose to commit for life

Or you don’t

No hedging your bets
Everybody would sign a contract to not get killed in case of a divorce. I think you‘re alone on this one. But I admire your consistency.
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post 1615277861 09-01-2020, 12:34 PM
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It's funny how miscers are so concerned about their "assets" when most drive a leased 3 series bmw, are neck deep in student loans, and living in coffin apartments in a downtown metro area, spending the rest of their cash on sloths and bar tabs. Highly doubt the girl you would potentially marry is out for your "money". Just another delusional mindset keeping most of the misc in a forever 21 state of mind, while the rest of us live our lives as properly functioning adults. Id be willing to bet that married miscers as a whole have a much larger net worth than the paranoid forever single crowd.
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post 1615277941 09-01-2020, 12:35 PM
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some people's lives change when they get married and they want to do other shiet with their time. i bet you half of these "whipped" guys are just telling you they're whipped. in reality they don't want to awkwardly explain to you that their interests have changed.
post 1615279741 09-01-2020, 12:55 PM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
I suppose it’s the only faith I allow myself. Faith in the value of the person I chose and in my own tenacity

You’re asking people to bet against that
I‘m not asking anything, the bet is already there. The question is only if you accept the default conditions of the bet as randomly defined by the current jurisdiction of the country you happen to live in. If your faith dictates that, OK.
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post 1615283031 09-01-2020, 01:26 PM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb⏩
I dispute that

The bet is against yourself and your choice in a life partner

It’s not innocuous
In my country, I would have to sign a prenupnotto have separation of goods in case of divorce. So I wouldhaveto make plans for failure just to get to how marriage is legally defined in your country.
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post 1615316311 09-01-2020, 07:52 PM
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Originally Posted By gesten⏩
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