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post 1625081763 12-10-2020, 08:28 AM
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She looks like a SJW crazy TDS Trump hater.

No thanks Jef.
post 1625082453 12-10-2020, 08:36 AM
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Any update?

it's probably been said a thousand times, but absolute pathetic game. Basically begging for a crumb of pu$$y. I'd be surprised if I found out you had ever been laid off this app.
post 1625083163 12-10-2020, 08:42 AM
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Originally Posted By JustTheDad⏩
The worst thing CherryPopinski said in the partial chat we saw was that he needed a goth girlfriend
You’re reading too much into snippets of a full conversation I was making a lighthearted joke because she dresses goth in a few of her pictures
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post 1625083233 12-10-2020, 08:43 AM
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Originally Posted By DBoyDaRealest⏩
Any update?

it's probably been said a thousand times, but absolute pathetic game. Basically begging for a crumb of pu$$y. I'd be surprised if I found out you had ever been laid off this app.
I texted to see when she was free about an hour and half after she told me she was in the middle of a movie.

No response, probably shouldn’t even waste my time texting her again.
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post 1625083373 12-10-2020, 08:44 AM
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Originally Posted By ImpressiveGainz⏩
The journey isn't diminished by hardship; that's what makes the end goal worthwhile.
This is a great quote. Will rep off spread.

Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
Context: I tried to date this girl off a different mobile app like over 2 years ago. I recently re-downloaded Tinder with obviously the same level of dismal success as before.

Randomly matched with her again without realizing it, didn't recognize her at first. She reached out and messaged me first, chances seem good thoughts?

Has my luck finally turned around?











She's cute OP...Your game on it's head isn't as bad as everyone is making it out to be. You have two issues...1. You're too honest. Stop oversharing. 2. You don't escalate. Think of it like your officer/ public interactions.Make a traffic stop, you don't have all day...You get the ID, write the ticket, send them on their way. Direct and to the point...That's how you should be treating these interactions with women. You want to get them out on a date. You don't have days/weeks to get that done. Introduce yourself, make small talk, work to close.

Women want action. Stretching out conversations/making plans automatically gives off "buddy" vibes. They will move onto the next guy who makes quick, decisive action.
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post 1625083553 12-10-2020, 08:45 AM
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Originally Posted By badbl00d⏩
This is a great quote. Will rep off spread.






She's cute OP...Your game on it's head isn't as bad as everyone is making it out to be. You have two issues...1. You're too honest. Stop oversharing. 2. You don't escalate. Think of it like your officer/ public interactions.Make a traffic stop, you don't have all day...You get the ID, write the ticket, send them on their way. Direct and to the point...That's how you should be treating these interactions with women. You want to get them out on a date. You don't have days/weeks to get that done. Introduce yourself, make small talk, work to close.

Women want action. Stretching out conversations/making plans automatically gives off "buddy" vibes. They will move onto the next guy who makes quick, decisive action.
Like I said I texted around 9:30PM last night and no response since
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post 1625083723 12-10-2020, 08:48 AM
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OP how old are you and how old is she?
post 1625084003 12-10-2020, 08:50 AM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
Like I said I texted around 9:30PM last night and no response since
sad reality is you're just another option of many to these women who are 'overwhelmed' with options on online dating.

she prob got another 50 matches since you messaged her so your novelty wore off, that's why it's best to expect nothing on online dating.

maybe try Hinge some ppl said thats better than Tinder
post 1625084133 12-10-2020, 08:53 AM
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Originally Posted By plebmaximus⏩
Where do I start...

- OP is trying to find a GF on tinder.

- OP tells the girl he doesn't get a lot of matches. I.e. he tells her he is desperate and other women don't desire him

- OP tells the girl he wants/needs a gothGF. You're still message on tinder and you're telling her you want her as a GF.

- OP is taking tinder way to serious. Zero flirting.

- OP wants facetime with sloots.


It might still work if she really likes you, but why would she go out with a guy that's not desirable by other women who is desperate to have a GF? (that's what you communicated to her).




Flirt a bit and stop selling yourself short. You don't know if you want her as a GF yet so don't be too keen. Try and see her out for a drink instead of wasting time on texts/facetime. Keep it short, fun, and simple.


You seem like a good man so good luck
U saved me a whole post. Spot on.

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post 1625084653 12-10-2020, 08:59 AM
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Originally Posted By TkHomie⏩
OP how old are you and how old is she?
Both 26
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post 1625084853 12-10-2020, 09:02 AM
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Sorry, but your texting and way you handled that is awful (I haven't read the thread, but I assume this already been stated repeatedly).

I don't see anything coming from this.
post 1625085133 12-10-2020, 09:05 AM
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Originally Posted By Polaris⏩
Sorry, but your texting and way you handled that is awful (I haven't read the thread, but I assume this already been stated repeatedly).

I don't see anything coming from this.
Me neither lol
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post 1625085763 12-10-2020, 09:10 AM
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you really need to work on your game, that whole exchange made me cringe hard
post 1625085913 12-10-2020, 09:12 AM
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If you don’t set up time/place for drinks or **** within 3 texts then I got some bad news for ya
post 1625087063 12-10-2020, 09:24 AM
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OP, everyone is telling you your texting game is ****, rightfully so. Got to change it up.

You're not getting matches on Tinder probably because you have ****ty pictures, too. I'm just going to guess that from your dry texting game.
post 1625087073 12-10-2020, 09:24 AM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
Honestly I'm half expecting it, she ghosted me the first time. When we were talking last night she said it was because she "Had Issues" and shouldn't have been dating at the time. IDK she seems more receptive this time.
she had better options, they didn't work out, now she's back

I used to do that to girls all the time

you're coming off as a beta though so you'll be lucky to even smash this one
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post 1625087333 12-10-2020, 09:27 AM
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Originally Posted By xvicknumber7x⏩
you really need to work on your game, that whole exchange made me cringe hard
Game is for players which I am not
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post 1625087613 12-10-2020, 09:30 AM
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I could hear that girls pussy dry up from here.
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post 1625088153 12-10-2020, 09:36 AM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
Game is for players which I am not
That is a terrible attitude to have bruh. No one is asking you to be Rico Suave just don't tell a chick everything that's wrong with you during your first conversation
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post 1625088313 12-10-2020, 09:37 AM
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Still no text back?
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post 1625088473 12-10-2020, 09:39 AM
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Originally Posted By TBO1313⏩
That is a terrible attitude to have bruh. No one is asking you to be Rico Suave just don't tell a chick everything that's wrong with you during your first conversation
Lotta people complaining about my poor game. Not very many doing anything about it

You *******s actually gonna help me or just continue being an echo chamber
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post 1625088543 12-10-2020, 09:40 AM
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
Lotta people complaining about my poor game. Not very many doing anything about it

You *******s actually gonna help me or just continue being an echo chamber
For starters -

Stop with the emojis and "lol"s
Stop revealing so much information (ie "I was really into you" and the fact Tinder is working well for you)
Stop being so eager
Suggest something instead of asking permission (ie - "We should facetime", instead of "Can I facetime you?")
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I miss these type of threads.
Update us OP.
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Originally Posted By JustTheDad⏩
If you're a cop, you should be able to ask questions and more importantly, you should be able to listen.

That girl is getting tons of shallow attention. Try not to be just a slightly better looking and stable shallow guy.
Use your skills, and without prying, be interested. Not interesting. Interested.

Do you know what she does for work or what she studies in school? Do you know how many siblings she has, why she's watching a movie with her cousin? Did you respond that it's pretty nice that she has family close by enough that she can watch movies with them even during a pandemic when people can't travel? Did you ask if she was close with her cousin, how often she gets to see her... . You have a ton of opportunities to talk about real stuff based on that response that she's busy right now.

Don't blow it because a bunch of idiots on this board don't actually understand women. A little self deprecation is fine, if you ever talk about it again, you can point out that women have to be careful so it's hard to be a normal guy on Tinder. That's fair, but that's not the real topic.

I seldom reply to threads like this, but seriously, how did a cop miss that opening? You just got a chance to ask about her and her family and such without being creepy, and to tell her a little about yourself.

Good luck. She's lovely to look at, hopefully she's also smart, funny, and nice.
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Should I just invite her to my place Saturday night and see what she says?
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
Should I just invite her to my place Saturday night and see what she says?
Do you have some inside joke/meme or something you've already established rapport on? You mentioned scary movies, anything else?

You should lead off with that, exchange a couple of messages then invite her to something, IMO.

Girls aren't like men, and unless coming from a gigachad, they generally don't respond positively to direct, out of the blue invitations to a stranger's home.

Of course you can try direct at this point too.

Edit: it's good to be direct, but I don't think your first double text should be "do you want to come over saturday"
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Originally Posted By CherryPopinski⏩
Should I just invite her to my place Saturday night and see what she says?
Yes, you should do that. Nothing to lose at this point plus you've beaten around the bush long enough. Wait until later and see if she replies. If not, just double text. As Brad said, nothing to lose at this point. If she doesn't reply to the invitation then you go NC forever.
Originally Posted By LordBroly⏩
How long ago did you text her that she hasn't replied?You should invite her over to watch a horror movie, finger blast her and take it from there. But seriously, that should be the move after you've hung out once for coffee or a walk or something. It sounds like a mutual interest, plus you can show her your guitar skills when she comes over and impress her that way lol.
Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad⏩
At this point I’d honestly just double text her maybe tmw and give her a date/time/location and suggest you guys meet up - nothing to lose maybe besides a little bit of dignity with the double text, but who cares since you’ve already lost a lot of your dignity already with this one
post 1625095963 12-10-2020, 10:48 AM
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Originally Posted By ramimotemem⏩
Do you have some inside joke/meme or something you've already established rapport on? You mentioned scary movies, anything else?

You should lead off with that, exchange a couple of messages then invite her to something, IMO.

Girls aren't like men, and unless coming from a gigachad, they generally don't respond positively to direct, out of the blue invitations to a stranger's home.

Of course you can try direct at this point too.

Edit: it's good to be direct, but I don't think your first double text should be "do you want to come over saturday"
We both like Metal and Horror Movies, not sure how to work my way in especially cause she hasn’t responded since last night.
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