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post 1641455883 06-23-2021, 07:04 AM
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post 1641456183 06-23-2021, 07:13 AM
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Originally Posted By jamalfudge
Is this the justified pipe girl?
Holy **** good memory lmao. Not the same chick
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post 1641456213 06-23-2021, 07:14 AM
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Originally Posted By TheBrentmeister
Update and pic



"no wokkas m8, now on yer bike mike"


she will either immediately want you back or think you're mildy retarded
post 1641456243 06-23-2021, 07:15 AM
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Ask her if she wants to get coffee real while she is in town, and just catch up and talk about your time together, and see if there’s any potential for a future. She clearly cares about you OP






















Then don’t show up




















Then aware her current bf
post 1641456383 06-23-2021, 07:18 AM
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Lol just lol if you use 30 posts per page and post 99 is on page 4. It's supposed to be on page 2. Enjoy your clicking next page twice as often.
post 1641456503 06-23-2021, 07:20 AM
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keep NC and if you reply you a bitch srs
post 1641456513 06-23-2021, 07:21 AM
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Originally Posted By yewotm8
Lol just lol if you use 30 posts per page and post 99 is on page 4. It's supposed to be on page 2. Enjoy your clicking next page twice as often.
Lol my bad, I've updated the first post now.
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post 1641456653 06-23-2021, 07:24 AM
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She needs affirmation and validation constantly.

Also will be leaving the new boyfriend within 6 months.
post 1641456723 06-23-2021, 07:26 AM
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if you ignore it will eat her up inside and give you the ultimate power.
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post 1641456823 06-23-2021, 07:27 AM
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I've received these kinds of texts a million times. The best response is no response. No joke, no quip, no nothing. She assumes you're still thinking about her, and by not even acknowledging her presence, she'll realize that you legit do not care anymore and have forgotten about her, and that will eat away at her for a long time.

I had one of these texts like 5 years ago, and legit it spiraled into her sending me like million messages. Started off with the hey this reminds me of you, to her then getting increasingly angry I haven't responded, to her calling me a piece of chit, to saying I never even had a chance with her anyway, to then her apologizing, to then her asking my friend if I had a new number, to then asking my family if I was alright, to then her apologizing for everything and realizing the entire problem all along was her and not me, and that she'll never forget me and leave me alone now, and wishes me the best.

The misc taught me a few key rules in life, and no contact means no contact.
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post 1641457073 06-23-2021, 07:32 AM
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Originally Posted By JStrez
I've received these kinds of texts a million times. The best response is no response. No joke, no quip, no nothing. She assumes you're still thinking about her, and by not even acknowledging her presence, she'll realize that you legit do not care anymore and have forgotten about her, and that will eat away at her for a long time.

I had one of these texts like 5 years ago, and legit it spiraled into her sending me like million messages. Started off with the hey this reminds me of you, to her then getting increasingly angry I haven't responded, to her calling me a piece of chit, to saying I never even had a chance with her anyway, to then her apologizing, to then her asking my friend if I had a new number, to then asking my family if I was alright, to then her apologizing for everything and realizing the entire problem all along was her and not me, and that she'll never forget me and leave me alone now, and wishes me the best.

The misc taught me a few key rules in life, and no contact means no contact.
lol...we would all act that same way as your ex if it wasn't for the misc opening our eyes to the light
post 1641457183 06-23-2021, 07:34 AM
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Originally Posted By JStrez
I've received these kinds of texts a million times. The best response is no response. No joke, no quip, no nothing. She assumes you're still thinking about her, and by not even acknowledging her presence, she'll realize that you legit do not care anymore and have forgotten about her, and that will eat away at her for a long time.

I had one of these texts like 5 years ago, and legit it spiraled into her sending me like million messages. Started off with the hey this reminds me of you, to her then getting increasingly angry I haven't responded, to her calling me a piece of chit, to saying I never even had a chance with her anyway, to then her apologizing, to then her asking my friend if I had a new number, to then asking my family if I was alright, to then her apologizing for everything and realizing the entire problem all along was her and not me, and that she'll never forget me and leave me alone now, and wishes me the best.

The misc taught me a few key rules in life, and no contact means no contact.
Bullseye. I will say this is a lesson a lot of dudes need to learn firsthand themselves, but per usual misc is right


When you receive a text from an ex like this as others have said she’s sending feelers out there. But of course is to chicken **** to be direct because she’s a woman. A lot of dudes think “this is great! She wants to get back together!” When in reality the girl usually wants to see if she still has you on the hook. Women get off on that kind of power and affirmation. By you engaging in her, meeting up with her, seeing her again, etc you are just giving her more and more leverage



You might be able to get a bang out of it. But if you have ANY residual feelings remaining towards her (and we are human, it’s ok if you do) then you should no contact and shut that down quick. If you don’t have any residual feelings towards her than why waste time with sex or seeing her again?


NC is the way brothas
post 1641457253 06-23-2021, 07:36 AM
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tl:dr of her texts:

please respond
straight white male and proud

fat as fuk and disgust

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post 1641458103 06-23-2021, 07:52 AM
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i had an ex from 9 years ago reach out about 2 months ago. 9 freakin years of no contact and she texted me out of the blue to see how i was doing and whatever.

she was hot. also annoying.

i left her on read.
post 1641458203 06-23-2021, 07:54 AM
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Originally Posted By TheBrentmeister
Tempted. Is it too late?
will lol so hard if you do

but nah brah just stay nc
You guys, I'm seriously
post 1641459403 06-23-2021, 08:20 AM
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Stay NC, will russell jimmies more than any response
libs gonna lib
post 1641459713 06-23-2021, 08:25 AM
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Not responding AT ALL is the correct move here..............



but the a-hole in me would want to say something (knowing how you guys broke up) like..... "Still texting other guys while in a relationship I see" or "I see you haven't changed at all" or "Neat, I haven't thought of you at all until you just texted me"
post 1641459943 06-23-2021, 08:30 AM
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Originally Posted By kneeonbelly
She is sending out feelers to see if you are receptive to her coming back around in any context. Instead of working on her relationships, she monkey branches based off what you've described. if you do go back to her just understand that she'll do this again to you later on . if you use her for sex, at least make her struggle to get close to you again.

but
in my opinion, i think the best response is asking 'who is this'? women absolutely hate that - it establishes you removed her information from you life and she's irrelevant. when she responds with who she is just go no contact.
this is the most accurate assessment of the situation
post 1641460243 06-23-2021, 08:36 AM
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Asking who it is when it’s already probably clear based on the first two texts just makes you look stupid. Just ignore her.
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post 1641460293 06-23-2021, 08:37 AM
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Originally Posted By Retoaded
She needs affirmation and validation constantly.

Also will be leaving the new boyfriend within 6 months.
This. If she was *actually* happy....she would not be texting you. Period. End of story.

Side note, fukkin women i swear. Obviously *you* are mad or hurt cuz you didnt respawn.
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post 1641460403 06-23-2021, 08:39 AM
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Had a girl that was still stuck on her ex. It didn’t end well for her
post 1641460443 06-23-2021, 08:40 AM
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Do not reply. Do not give her your value.
post 1641460703 06-23-2021, 08:44 AM
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Under no circumstances should you reply to this pompus bish.

You hurt her and she ... like all bishes tried to turn it around.
STAY NC STAY NC STAY NC.

I do have one question:
1. But who was ass?
b. But who was milkers?
3. She ugly af, cuz
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post 1641461173 06-23-2021, 08:52 AM
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Obviously for OP's on well being he shouldn't respond, but for the misc. I think he should.

For the lulz

"I think about you sometimes too. Maybe all three of us could sit down for lunch"
Then while at lunch when the ex goes to the bathroom, ask new BF why she was texting you late at night telling you she was thinking about our old relationship while she was out with you, and then just leave.
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post 1641461303 06-23-2021, 08:54 AM
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Originally Posted By yewotm8
Lol just lol if you use 30 posts per page and post 99 is on page 4. It's supposed to be on page 2. Enjoy your clicking next page twice as often.
how?
post 1641461553 06-23-2021, 09:00 AM
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shes hung up on the dink
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post 1641461823 06-23-2021, 09:03 AM
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Originally Posted By jamalfudge
Is this the justified pipe girl?
This was one of my favorite threads in misc history
post 1641461903 06-23-2021, 09:06 AM
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In a similar situation I texted back "good luck"

And she lost her got dang mind
post 1641462083 06-23-2021, 09:10 AM
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Originally Posted By Cite
Had a girl that was still stuck on her ex. It didn’t end well for her
share the story. What happened?
post 1641462183 06-23-2021, 09:12 AM
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Originally Posted By SmashinYoungVag
This was one of my favorite threads in misc history
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