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post 1642644203 07-11-2021, 07:54 PM
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Originally Posted By Ironmanlet
For what it is worth, even if you are not a tubby, you can still hate the way you look.

The thing is, people who care about the way they look, really care about the way they look.

Example, I only have a six pack instead of the the eight pack I have had most of my life. Not twink status either. 18 inch arms at 180 lbs/>12% bf etc.

Won’t take my shirt off in public. GD know I’m the best looking most fit person around, but in my mind I am fat piece of **** who should not even feel comfy leaving the house.

To a degree this could be related to psychological issues like narcissism and Adonis complex. But that doesn’t change the fact people who care about their appearance really really care about their appearance.

I will never ever be happy with the person I am. This includes physique, but also other mental and personality characteristics as well. (Discipline, integrity, selflessness).

This isn’t some type of self pity party or anything.

It just comes down to I am not the person I want to be, or the person I know I can be.

And in order to achieve that thing, I have to accept that, then make the changes.


I’m just using a lot of words to say I (and I’m confident a lot of other people here) will empathize with you in our personal dissatisfaction, regardless of what we have already achieve.

One foot in front of the other, one day at a time.

Slip, gotta start over.

The wonderful thing about staring over is we can do it anytime, as many times as we want.

And that is what we have to keep in mind.

No matter how far off our path we have gone, we can start over. We can start over every day, every hour, every moment.

Man what a gift. We don’t have to lay down and lick our wounds. We have the ability to just do what needs to be done. And if we miss that opportunity, literally in the very next second we will have another one.

We just have to grab one of them. Make progress, then if necessary grab another one.


Applies to OP and sobriety, oh man, did you have a drink today even though you wanted to quit?

-well, I already drank, might as well keep going.

-I know I just drank alcohol, but I can start over right now. I have that gift every second of every day.
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post 1642645023 07-11-2021, 08:12 PM
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Originally Posted By GaryRidgway
I basically just go to spots by myself. I'm pretty reserved. I can usually make friend if I go to a skatepark though.
man if i ever visited florida, I wouldn't want to skate any parks, street spots are really where its at(rarely get to skate street feels bad man). especially those low key lookin ones that you skate.


reconnect with an old filmer and lets see a part, need to see that 2021 footy
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post 1642645153 07-11-2021, 08:15 PM
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Originally Posted By insidemane
So many alcoholics on this site, I don’t get it
you chit on his life maybe you don't know it?

Hey Gary I'm going to get drunk and wahtever!


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post 1642645253 07-11-2021, 08:17 PM
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Originally Posted By ashin1
man if i ever visited florida, I wouldn't want to skate any parks, street spots are really where its at(rarely get to skate street feels bad man). especially those low key lookin ones that you skate.


reconnect with an old filmer and lets see a part, need to see that 2021 footy
The spots aren't as good as they look. I'm gonna film a new part, but It's gonna be all tripod. I'm not trying to make someone film me anyway.
post 1642645653 07-11-2021, 08:25 PM
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Originally Posted By GaryRidgway
The spots aren't as good as they look. I'm gonna film a new part, but It's gonna be all tripod. I'm not trying to make someone film me anyway.
Its the aesthetics for a street spot that does it for me hnnng

fuark yeah dem rogue clips
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post 1642645873 07-11-2021, 08:28 PM
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Originally Posted By Dontoewsmebro
I do don't drink and drive brotha please...
Yeah... I drink too many nights of the week. I do maintain my job and workout still 4+ times a week however.

Notice the harder days at work leads me to drink more (sure it's more than just this though)

Glad to drink at home 99% of the time.... stopped the drinking and driving **** years back
post 1642656603 07-12-2021, 01:50 AM
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post 1642657703 07-12-2021, 02:48 AM
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post 1642710143 07-12-2021, 06:25 PM
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Originally Posted By bananastand11
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Huh?

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OP you feelin better today?
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post 1642712893 07-12-2021, 07:06 PM
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You don't have to drink again if you don't want to. Seriously. It sounds like you're living a nightmare and it usually progresses, but there is help and arguably a solution that I've seen so please ask for help if you'd like to stop. There's a lot of guys in the Alcoholics Anonymous thread that can probably point you in the right direction if you're interested. Be well and best of luck to you.
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post 1642713933 07-12-2021, 07:21 PM
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I’m sitting on the toilet drinking a beer. Had every intention of going to the gym tonight, but I only get motivated to do stuff when I drink. Fuak it. Tradie life, hate work, make money, still not happy, drink beer, get fat, die from heart attack.
post 1642714293 07-12-2021, 07:26 PM
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Originally Posted By Freedirt
I’m sitting on the toilet drinking a beer. Had every intention of going to the gym tonight, but I only get motivated to do stuff when I drink. Fuak it. Tradie life, hate work, make money, still not happy, drink beer, get fat, die from heart attack.
Ask Jesus to save you.
post 1642714553 07-12-2021, 07:31 PM
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Originally Posted By Freedirt
I’m sitting on the toilet drinking a beer. Had every intention of going to the gym tonight, but I only get motivated to do stuff when I drink. Fuak it. Tradie life, hate work, make money, still not happy, drink beer, get fat, die from heart attack.
Your problem is not becoming a project manager or some how advancing in the TRADIE hierarchy.

I would be suicide watch if I stood around and swung a hammer for 5 minutes a day and rotted on my phone on the job site SRS.
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post 1642714713 07-12-2021, 07:33 PM
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op if you're still as ripped as your pic who cares? drink away, being fat is probably worse than being active and getting trashed , we are all going to die anyway
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Originally Posted By BrosefMengele
Ask Jesus to save you.
He won’t answer my calls
Originally Posted By Realclout
Your problem is not becoming a project manager or some how advancing in the TRADIE hierarchy.

I would be suicide watch if I stood around and swung a hammer for 5 minutes a day and rotted on my phone on the job site SRS.
I’m an operator and make $100k a year. Shiit sucks brah all around.
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Originally Posted By Freedirt
He won’t answer my calls
I just prayed for you.
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Originally Posted By Freedirt
He won’t answer my calls



I’m an operator and make $100k a year. Shiit sucks brah all around.
Operator of what Heavy machinery...?!
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post 1642718453 07-12-2021, 08:23 PM
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Originally Posted By Freedirt
I’m sitting on the toilet drinking a beer. Had every intention of going to the gym tonight, but I only get motivated to do stuff when I drink. Fuak it. Tradie life, hate work, make money, still not happy, drink beer, get fat, die from heart attack.
try working a suicide at 530am then going home at 7am and having to work out so you can go to sleep at 10am and get up at 3pm

that was 6 years of my life, don't miss those days. Also why I think all states need to legalize weed, ive talked to police in states where its legal and their lives are SO much better because of it. Having a job where your adrenaline is on and off all day and you are dealing with suicides, wife beaters, scum of the earth, mentally ill people in crisis, hysterical people at trafficaccidents etc... and then you just have to go home and shut it off is tough. Lighting it up and getting high though right after a shift has been working wonders for stress and quality of life of police in legalized states.

I strongly think police and military suicides and alcoholism will drop dramatically as marijuana is legalized across the country. The issues they face are much more manageable with THC and CBD especially as opposed to alcohol.
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post 1642719623 07-12-2021, 08:38 PM
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I think it’s fine in moderation. At most once a week have a fe drinks but not get chitty. Drinking every night becomes too much of a habit. Then you feel like chit.
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Originally Posted By Jestbrah
try working a suicide at 530am then going home at 7am and having to work out so you can go to sleep at 10am and get up at 3pm

that was 6 years of my life, don't miss those days. Also why I think all states need to legalize weed, ive talked to police in states where its legal and their lives are SO much better because of it. Having a job where your adrenaline is on and off all day and you are dealing with suicides, wife beaters, scum of the earth, mentally ill people in crisis, hysterical people at trafficaccidents etc... and then you just have to go home and shut it off is tough. Lighting it up and getting high though right after a shift has been working wonders for stress and quality of life of police in legalized states.

I strongly think police and military suicides and alcoholism will drop dramatically as marijuana is legalized across the country. The issues they face are much more manageable with THC and CBD especially as opposed to alcohol.
it must feel awful to fook somebodies life up over weed as well.
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post 1642720713 07-12-2021, 08:53 PM
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Originally Posted By Realclout
it must feel awful to fook somebodies life up over weed as well.
most cops have not been doing that for a decade, only the few *******s who see things as black and white do that. For the past 10 years you could smoke a joint while talking to a cop in Austin and they wouldnt bat an eye.
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