-girl I’m seeing we planned to eat dinner before going to a concert together
-she just texted me she just got off work and is going to eat dinner with her colleague instead

Idk why but this rustles my Jimmie’s pretty hard cause we had a plan and now we’re just going to the concert. Idc about the dinner it’s the fact she just changed her plans mid way. Should I be pissed? I was going to pay for the ticket but now I’m debating whether I should maker her pay for her own chit

wow crazy fking night boyos LMAO

-was still pissed and got drunk b4 i went to pick her up
-the concert was scheduled to start at 9 and she wasn't ready til 9:30
-when she came into the car we talked a bit and i was probing her questions regarding this "colleague"
-somthing seemed off and i'm usually pretty good at telling when people are lying, she was looking down the whole time talking about this colleague, said they were celebrating a colleague leaving for his last day of work today but she seemed pretty uncomfortable and kept rushing me to drive
-then i said "give me my cable back" (for a vape that I 'gave' to her last week after our last date)
-she went back into the house and when she came back she gave me a micro-USB cable instead of the usb-c cable i gave her. which is funny cause we even tested the usb-c cable i gave her back at my place cause she really needed a cord for her vape and it worked for her vape, yet she somehow forgets and gives me a micro-usb cable instead? (she's broke, but I knew immediately she was stealing my chit. and I am a huge gamer/gaming pc person so I know my phucking cables)
-immediately caught her lying and told her to GTFO the car, said very very calmly "please get out"
-she wouldn't GTFO the car and starts throwing a hissy fit and was in denial i was lying to her, she called the cops while in my car, trapping me in
-lied to the cops saying I threatened to kill her and "I" was the one holding her hostage in the car
-cops came, I told the truth, de-escalated the situation and we both went home. obv I didn't do anything illegal and she was frantically trying so hard to convince the cops i was some psychopath/sociopath that was trying to kill her. (thank jeeeesus the cops were men and understood my situation immediately and could tell she was bat chit crazy)

It all happened SO FAST but my initial plan was to probe her questions and see if she was lying about the 'dinner with colleague' in the first place. When I asked her she kept looking down and wouldn't give me eye contact, almost as if she was shameful (probably lying). My next immediate plan was to see if she was even faithful about the vape cord I gave her, so I kindly asked for it back. And when she came back into the car with the wrong cable I knew she was lying about everything.

During her tirade / mental breakdown on the phone w/ the cop (she was half talking chit to me/half talking to the cops) she admitted to me that the ex that physically assaulted to her recently apologized to her (idk why she said that or what led to her saying that). So what I think is really going on was she's been secretly seeing her ex that used to abuse the phuck out of her (and they're currently in court too). her IG stories have been a lot of 'dinner' pics with no people in it so I'm assuming she's been re-dating her ex cause girls have clingy issues with guys that used to abuse them is my guess. explains why she was looking down in the car and uncomfortable/shameful when I asked her about "colleague" cause she knows it's wrong to date an abusive ex and doesn't know wtf to do with her life.

After a heated argument and she calling the cops I sobered up real quick. Plus I’m Asian and cops treat me easily + good at handling situations w cops. She didn’t even know I was drunk

a bish that crazy to call the cops over nothing, imagine if I tried to kick her out forcefully? She'd use that against me and claim assault lmao

So she didn't trap you, that was a manipulative lie.

Based on everything you've said, sounds like it's time for you to get your act together and figure out how you got involved with someone just as crazy as you are.

After this chitshow you still don't post her pics?

Wait so you drove drunk and the police got called but they couldn’t smell the alcohol or realize you were drunk? Wot

Rule #1 - If a girl really wants to be with you, they'll act like it (no excuses).

Is the colleague a dude?

Not risking that, i've been phucked over by the misc before



Always keep a bottle of listerine in my car, never know when you're gonna need itand as I said before after the argument and the fact she called the cops I sobered up real quick. I wasn't drunk drunk maybe 6/10 and I can control it as well. Plus I'm asian so cops are super easy on me srs.

UPDATE:

Anyways after the dust had settled I texted her back to apologize about freaking out over the cable and accusing her of a liar (independent of what she did to call the cops on me, I still felt bad and wanted to apologize, other nasty things were said as well between us). She apologized back as well and her reasoning for the cops was her ex used to abuse the phuck out of her and she got put in a fight-or-flight mode. Perhaps my initial lashing out triggered some bad memories and she got anxious and called the cops - understandable, girls are extremely emotional. She's not as batchit crazy as I made her out to be - turned out she was abused by her parents/exes her whole life so she is still a bit crazy and she is seeing a therapist

Not risking that, i've been phucked over by the misc before



Always keep a bottle of listerine in my car, never know when you're gonna need itand as I said before after the argument and the fact she called the cops I sobered up real quick. I wasn't drunk drunk maybe 6/10 and I can control it as well. Plus I'm asian so cops are super easy on me srs.

UPDATE:

Anyways after the dust had settled I texted her back to apologize about freaking out over the cable and accusing her of a liar (independent of what she did to call the cops on me, I still felt bad and wanted to apologize, other nasty things were said as well between us). She apologized back as well and her reasoning for the cops was her ex used to abuse the phuck out of her and she got put in a fight-or-flight mode. Perhaps my initial lashing out triggered some bad memories and she got anxious and called the cops - understandable, girls are extremely emotional. She's not as batchit crazy as I made her out to be - turned out she was abused by her parents/exes her whole life so she is still a bit crazy and she is seeing a therapist

Sounds like you downplayed your part boyo

Definitely NOT a roll bread guys. Listerine totally fools cops and this update is definitely NOT designed to rile us all up.

Not really I've been completely honest. As soon as I caught her "lying" (which she really wasn't) about the cable I just said very calmly "get out" while snapping my fingers. Rude? Yes. Disrespectful? Yes. Enough to warrant calling the cops on me? No. After that she started tripping and held me hostage in my own car and told them I was trying to "kill her" and stuff.

The cops asked her if I was drunk and she said no. Like I said (3x) I am good at controlling it... if you're asian you'd understand. They didn't even give me a breathalyzer test or examine me.

Yeah. Plus one i would of never went to pick her up, after she canceled on me like that. it's not like it was a sudden thing that happened. she probably knew weeks in advance. but than made you wait 30 minutes when the concert started at 9pm. by 8:30-40 ish i would of been at the concert already. than you freaked out over stupid cable.

Not risking that, i've been phucked over by the misc before



Always keep a bottle of listerine in my car, never know when you're gonna need itand as I said before after the argument and the fact she called the cops I sobered up real quick. I wasn't drunk drunk maybe 6/10 and I can control it as well. Plus I'm asian so cops are super easy on me srs.

UPDATE:

Anyways after the dust had settled I texted her back to apologize about freaking out over the cable and accusing her of a liar (independent of what she did to call the cops on me, I still felt bad and wanted to apologize, other nasty things were said as well between us). She apologized back as well and her reasoning for the cops was her ex used to abuse the phuck out of her and she got put in a fight-or-flight mode. Perhaps my initial lashing out triggered some bad memories and she got anxious and called the cops - understandable, girls are extremely emotional. She's not as batchit crazy as I made her out to be - turned out she was abused by her parents/exes her whole life so she is still a bit crazy and she is seeing a therapist

Not risking that, i've been phucked over by the misc before



Always keep a bottle of listerine in my car, never know when you're gonna need itand as I said before after the argument and the fact she called the cops I sobered up real quick. I wasn't drunk drunk maybe 6/10 and I can control it as well. Plus I'm asian so cops are super easy on me srs.

UPDATE:

Anyways after the dust had settled I texted her back to apologize about freaking out over the cable and accusing her of a liar (independent of what she did to call the cops on me, I still felt bad and wanted to apologize, other nasty things were said as well between us). She apologized back as well and her reasoning for the cops was her ex used to abuse the phuck out of her and she got put in a fight-or-flight mode. Perhaps my initial lashing out triggered some bad memories and she got anxious and called the cops - understandable, girls are extremely emotional. She's not as batchit crazy as I made her out to be - turned out she was abused by her parents/exes her whole life so she is still a bit crazy and she is seeing a therapist

Not risking that, i've been phucked over by the misc before



Always keep a bottle of listerine in my car, never know when you're gonna need itand as I said before after the argument and the fact she called the cops I sobered up real quick. I wasn't drunk drunk maybe 6/10 and I can control it as well. Plus I'm asian so cops are super easy on me srs.

UPDATE:

Anyways after the dust had settled I texted her back to apologize about freaking out over the cable and accusing her of a liar (independent of what she did to call the cops on me, I still felt bad and wanted to apologize, other nasty things were said as well between us). She apologized back as well and her reasoning for the cops was her ex used to abuse the phuck out of her and she got put in a fight-or-flight mode. Perhaps my initial lashing out triggered some bad memories and she got anxious and called the cops - understandable, girls are extremely emotional. She's not as batchit crazy as I made her out to be - turned out she was abused by her parents/exes her whole life so she is still a bit crazy and she is seeing a therapist

UPDATE:

Anyways after the dust had settled I texted her back to apologize about freaking out over the cable and accusing her of a liar(