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post 1663183173 06-20-2022, 03:40 PM
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Originally Posted By CulturalDecay
Bro, the world is too coddled.

Coddling people makes them weak.

Weak people make poor decisions

Poor decisions result in poor outcomes


If you haven't noticed by now, I respond to people as a football coach would, or a drill instructor. I do it on purpose - to piss them off, and get the motivated. Imagine where you must be in life if you are coming to this old-ass web forum complaining about your real-life outcomes....that's got to be pretty sad. So does a person like that, who's been coddled their entire life, need more coddling, or do they need a kick in the ass and a reality check? Clearly what they are doing isn't working.

Like brah, let's be objective here - was he whining? Yes. Does he have a loser mentality? Yes. Was he throwing a pity party? Yes.

So why are you complaining if those things are objectively true? Why are you trying to tone police? The language YOU just injected is the loaded language "Minimizing an individuals point of view or thoughts/feelings" LOL u wot m8? We all know that's the indoctrination language of the left - the purpose of that language is to make everything relativistic, to make sure there is no objective standards, no way to measure success or failure....that's precisely out of the book of relativism and equality of outcome. Loserthink.

There is no equality of outcome, we are all in a first world country, with every opportunity to succeed, if any obstacles get in your way, you have the freedom to push through and overcome.

Some people will be motivated by that kind of freedom and opportunity - those people RELISH that opportunity because they know they can compete.

Other people are discouraged by that and want to flatten the playing field because they THINK they can't compete.

Everyone needs to get humbled from time to time. You think I'm doing this to be punitive? I get enjoyment of pointing out where that dude is lacking? Or do you think maybe I'm giving him a gut check, telling him the truth, and opening his eyes to his negative thoughts so he can CHOOSE to persevere and overcome?

Stop assuming everyone is so weak.
Stop thinking all solutions are simple.
Stop assuming getting your ass handed to you doesn't make you stronger
Life is complex.
Fight through it and overcome.
This is for you.
Originally Posted By Voidgaze
You're allowed to think what you want. I shared my thoughts already.
post 1663183923 06-20-2022, 03:52 PM
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Originally Posted By CulturalDecay
Bro, the world is too coddled.

Coddling people makes them weak.

Weak people make poor decisions

Poor decisions result in poor outcomes


If you haven't noticed by now, I respond to people as a football coach would, or a drill instructor. I do it on purpose - to piss them off, and get the motivated. Imagine where you must be in life if you are coming to this old-ass web forum complaining about your real-life outcomes....that's got to be pretty sad. So does a person like that, who's been coddled their entire life, need more coddling, or do they need a kick in the ass and a reality check? Clearly what they are doing isn't working.

Like brah, let's be objective here - was he whining? Yes. Does he have a loser mentality? Yes. Was he throwing a pity party? Yes.

So why are you complaining if those things are objectively true? Why are you trying to tone police? The language YOU just injected is the loaded language "Minimizing an individuals point of view or thoughts/feelings" LOL u wot m8? We all know that's the indoctrination language of the left - the purpose of that language is to make everything relativistic, to make sure there is no objective standards, no way to measure success or failure....that's precisely out of the book of relativism and equality of outcome. Loserthink.

There is no equality of outcome, we are all in a first world country, with every opportunity to succeed, if any obstacles get in your way, you have the freedom to push through and overcome.

Some people will be motivated by that kind of freedom and opportunity - those people RELISH that opportunity because they know they can compete.

Other people are discouraged by that and want to flatten the playing field because they THINK they can't compete.

Everyone needs to get humbled from time to time. You think I'm doing this to be punitive? I get enjoyment of pointing out where that dude is lacking? Or do you think maybe I'm giving him a gut check, telling him the truth, and opening his eyes to his negative thoughts so he can CHOOSE to persevere and overcome?

Stop assuming everyone is so weak.
Stop thinking all solutions are simple.
Stop assuming getting your ass handed to you doesn't make you stronger
Life is complex.
Fight through it and overcome.
Im 100% with you bro. People from our generation and younger have grown used to being lied to and comforted instead of actually being helped and guided to more successful ways.

The former is a quick fix, the latter is a solution. I guess some people know this and still choose the former, but to each their own.
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post 1663184283 06-20-2022, 03:58 PM
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Originally Posted By DeadlyStriker
I tried Hinge again. Got like 2 matches the first 5 min. Both rockets. Sadly both were more stale than a saltine cracker from the 90s. Since then I have seen maybe 5 attractive females out of 1,000+ swipes.

I have stayed on hinge the whole week and have swiped a ton of times to see what this app has to offer and what is out there in terms of females.

This is what I noticed

.....

1. Most women say the same fukking thing on their profiles. Travel, hikes, food. Literally copy and pasted for most women things like "I either text back right away or a week later. No inbetween hehehe."
2. Something called "love language." Every single one is "physical touch" and "words of affirmation." Wtf?
3. Either chicago area is 90% overweight and unhealthy, or this is just all women now besides a small select few
4. All women have the vaccinated symbol on their profile. So I guess every chick got vaccinated.
5. Half of them mention "irish goodbye." wtf is that? I'm 25% irish and never heard of that
6. All of the ones that are attractive and compatible to me are held hostage in the star tab. I have never come across any of them, and if I want to like their profile I have to pay money for a rose to send. Why would I send a rose? Do girls have a tab like that for guys?

These dating apps for guys are a complete money grab. I ran through so many chicks on there they keep sending me chicks I've already x'd and I haven't once come across a female that was ever in that star category. Basically all the ones I'd actually like. Oh hears another jewish liberal chick or a chinese autistic chick looking for a life partner, or a conservative catholic chick with septum piercings and a dog obsession.


If this is the general state of single women in this world then I might die alone and without kids. Every christian chick on their uses all their things to say how much they love jesus, and all of the women I come across seem unstable. I don't see this as much irl.

LOL at dating apps.I'm not even being picky.
thats your problem srs
not picky = algorithm thinks your a 5/10 and will show you 5/10s
post 1663238963 06-21-2022, 04:57 PM
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Originally Posted By jesb7826
I’m banned on every dating site. No idea why I keep getting reported. But banned on pof, tinder, and hinge. So I’m pretty sol for online dating. All I’m using is ******** dating and that’s been pretty useless.
Its cause they are all the same company, match.com, owns them all. They dont own bumble so try that
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post 1663239623 06-21-2022, 05:09 PM
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Originally Posted By Jessejame5
thats your problem srs
not picky = algorithm thinks your a 5/10 and will show you 5/10s
Is this really how it works? Srs.
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post 1663240753 06-21-2022, 05:31 PM
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze
You're a little too invested in this.
Yep.

Dudes who write 10 paragraph spazouts probably don't have a lot else to focus their attention on.
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post 1663240993 06-21-2022, 05:37 PM
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Originally Posted By redraider86
Is this really how it works? Srs.
No. Everyone ITT that has had similar experience on hinge was right. It was all the algorithm and being new to the app.

I am getting a ton of matches now and a lot more profiles similar to mine, and a lot more normal profiles.

AND LOL at the guys in here trying to dissect my life over a week on a faulty dating app as to why I'm not wanted by women.

I get miscers are all a bit weird and autistic, but some of you are extremely autistic. I'm talking to you cultural decay, condobrah, etc.

At no point was I whining. Pointing out insanity on an app is not whining. Download hinge and swipe for a week. Post it on here. You will see what I'm saying. You won't though.

But yes you're right. Non-avi miscers in their 30s and 40s are just HVM's and I'm just weak little beta boy that needs a gut check because I think women on an app shouldn't be the literal bottom percentage looks wise of women that the app was showing me. Did you even read the thread? No way you're this retarded.
post 1663241043 06-21-2022, 05:38 PM
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Originally Posted By redraider86
Is this really how it works? Srs.
Dating apps use an ELO type ranking system to try and determine if you're hot or not. If you swipe a bunch on girls, and they don't swipe back, the app thinks you're ugly. Then it pushes you to the bottom of the deck so it can feature the Chads women want to engage with (keeping them hooked on the app).

Resume spamming was a pretty successful job-hunting strategy for me, so after a couple failed weeks on Bumble, I downloaded an autoswipe bot to resume-spam women. Left it on overnight, had it swipe 20,000 women, and I got zero matches from it.

The problem was, the more the bot swiped unsuccessfully, the uglier Bumble thought I was, and the more it pushed me down in the rankings. It became a positive feedback loop, and that's by design. The apps want to punish bots and spammy desperados.
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post 1663271953 06-22-2022, 10:14 AM
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Originally Posted By redraider86
Is this really how it works? Srs.
I swipe all the 6 and unders and all land whales. like i swipe right maybe every 20/30 if that. yet still see them more groce ones than every
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post 1663272013 06-22-2022, 10:15 AM
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Didn't read, but I'm assuming that 99% of sloots are the same.
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post 1663272453 06-22-2022, 10:24 AM
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Originally Posted By CulturalDecay
Bro, the world is too coddled.

Coddling people makes them weak.

Weak people make poor decisions

Poor decisions result in poor outcomes


If you haven't noticed by now, I respond to people as a football coach would, or a drill instructor. I do it on purpose - to piss them off, and get the motivated. Imagine where you must be in life if you are coming to this old-ass web forum complaining about your real-life outcomes....that's got to be pretty sad. So does a person like that, who's been coddled their entire life, need more coddling, or do they need a kick in the ass and a reality check? Clearly what they are doing isn't working.

Like brah, let's be objective here - was he whining? Yes. Does he have a loser mentality? Yes. Was he throwing a pity party? Yes.

So why are you complaining if those things are objectively true? Why are you trying to tone police? The language YOU just injected is the loaded language "Minimizing an individuals point of view or thoughts/feelings" LOL u wot m8? We all know that's the indoctrination language of the left - the purpose of that language is to make everything relativistic, to make sure there is no objective standards, no way to measure success or failure....that's precisely out of the book of relativism and equality of outcome. Loserthink.

There is no equality of outcome, we are all in a first world country, with every opportunity to succeed, if any obstacles get in your way, you have the freedom to push through and overcome.

Some people will be motivated by that kind of freedom and opportunity - those people RELISH that opportunity because they know they can compete.

Other people are discouraged by that and want to flatten the playing field because they THINK they can't compete.

Everyone needs to get humbled from time to time. You think I'm doing this to be punitive? I get enjoyment of pointing out where that dude is lacking? Or do you think maybe I'm giving him a gut check, telling him the truth, and opening his eyes to his negative thoughts so he can CHOOSE to persevere and overcome?

Stop assuming everyone is so weak.
Stop thinking all solutions are simple.
Stop assuming getting your ass handed to you doesn't make you stronger
Life is complex.
Fight through it and overcome.
Good stuff
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post 1663272493 06-22-2022, 10:25 AM
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Originally Posted By nothingshocking
she wanted to be dominated, not abused

anyway, she sent me unsolicited videos of her sticking chit in her ass including the handle of her hair brush

I realized there was something very wrong with her and went NC
Send her my way. Semi srs
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post 1663272663 06-22-2022, 10:28 AM
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Originally Posted By SamIAm1892
It is ran by this GQ *******:


It is mostly likely geared towards woke **** anyway.
I literally just uninstalled hinge after seeing that picture. Thanks

Srs
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post 1663273493 06-22-2022, 10:52 AM
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze
This is for you.
He makes a series of solid posts and you keep coming back with this gay chit. Are you willfully ignorant or are these concepts are above your grasp so you retort with irrelevant tangential criticisms?
post 1663273973 06-22-2022, 11:04 AM
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Originally Posted By PAU1
He makes a series of solid posts and you keep coming back with this gay chit. Are you willfully ignorant or are these concepts are above your grasp so you retort with irrelevant tangential criticisms?
Sigh.

My point is completely going over your head, but I think you just want to stir up shyt so I'm just going to stop you here.

His points would be excellent if he were using them in the correct context/situation. OP isn't some complaining incel who has never touched a woman, and he's actually one of the more normal users around here. But some of you just gloss over that and hop on the opportunity to start giving unsolicited advice as if he came here asking. It demonstrates a lack of attention and it really goes to show a lot of you only listen to respond rather than understand. Ya'll mock liberals for acting this way (I'm apolitical) and yet some of you here display the exact some attitude in discussions. I'm convinced some of you just read the thread title then respond based on that and your own assumptions. Lmao, in fact I'm going to test that theory.

Scroll up and look at OP's response. Feel free to disagree or deflect, but my point still stands. I mean yours does too, it's just that you're wrong
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Originally Posted By DeadlyStriker
Yup exactly. It's almost brutal going through it and seeing the same things from different chicks from different areas. They're 99% the same.

And like I said I got 2 matches by the two hottest chicks I've come across within the first 5 min. on the app. I also got like 10 likes quickly from other chicks. Since then it has been a desert. I mean nothing.

I did one "boost" thing as an experiment and got nothing until the last 10 min. Then I got like 15 likes by unattractive women until the boost ran out.

I want to do a video of me going through these profiles to show what I'm talking about.

Example of my first match within the first minute or so:






Tell me about it. Either way I'll stick to irl interactions. Completely different world for me. I was just trying this out again since Brad talks about all these rockets he finds on Hinge and I've only come across 3 total.
Maybe it's just got to with the location. I've had the opposite experience with you in regards to hinge Vs tinder. On tinder the only women who want to match me are either overweight or single moms.

I'm so far matching way higher quality chicks on hinge
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