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post 1665260003 07-30-2022, 06:40 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
What the hell are you talking about as easy to get as a house. what planet are you living on where buying a house is easy?

If I didnt do exactly what I did, when I did it, I would have been priced out easily. You're trolling or have a very poor understanding of what the housing market is like.
Brother more than a handful of homes. Relative to things in life.....buying a house is easy. All it takes is money. Which is something that is easy to make.
There are things money cant buy, like not making you 5'3 or curing stage 4 pancreatic cancer or in your case finding a mate. So in your world....you traded something easy to get for something impossible to get that you had.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
dont live in reality.
Sorry brah, but it is entirely because I spend the vast majority of my free time in the real world that I am here trying to get through to you. Every time I step outside, every time I meet strangers, the deluded online standards and beliefs are debunked. Yes some stuff said here can be observed to a lesser extent, but it’s mostly dogshit.

I admit I haven’t come across many individuals in your shoes (5’3, ethnic) often, but out of all the ones I have, a few of them were with average looking women that seemed like they would make good wives.
post 1665260093 07-30-2022, 06:41 PM
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Originally Posted By Voidgaze
Lots of irony here.

I get the strong vibe that you feel like you're the smartest person here, and that's precisely why you haven't learned anything.

YOU are choosing to actively engage in discussions with these people who "are deluded and don't live in reality".

You can't even accept the fact that you have tied a majority of your internal value to external things. ButWEdon't live in reality???



It's the same old song and dance with you. What is your objective when you start these discussions? Because I've yet to witness an outcome where you come to an understanding or vice versa.
I know for sure im not the smartest but I think I'm extremely objective and most people arent capable of thinking objectively with little emotion. I see things for what they are better than most people.

I didnt have an objective. Im just bored and stuck inside because I have covid and I was supposed to be a bachelor party and had to cancel and im extra depressed this weekend
post 1665260103 07-30-2022, 06:41 PM
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Originally Posted By eod8989
It's extremely risky to date in the workplace in 2022. If you have any kind of real job.
I think you missed that part where I stated he was literally borderline autistic. He was the shipping person at the local drug manufacturing company. She is an accountant.
post 1665260203 07-30-2022, 06:42 PM
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Originally Posted By Issobolic28
Lol ugly means different things to different people.

I'm sure you're not ugly to everyone.

Remember that ugly is the eye of the beholder.
I've seen his pics. Hes not ugly at all. Short? Yes. Ugly? No. He hot dealt a bad hand with the height but its his attitude that's his biggest enemy.

Women smell insecurities a mile away. Fake it till you make it. I've had friends that are truly ugly/fat and have success with women because of their attitude.
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post 1665260213 07-30-2022, 06:42 PM
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Originally Posted By donblaximus
Brother more than a handful of homes. Relative to things in life.....buying a house is easy. All it takes is money. Which is something that is easy to make.
There are things money cant buy, like not making you 5'3 or curing stage 4 pancreatic cancer or in your case finding a mate. So in your world....you traded something easy to get for something impossible to get that you had.
No, just no. If I didnt do what I did I was never going to own a house. you dont know what you're talking about. Even the house I bought is currently valued at a price I wouldnt be able to afford if I had to buy it today. Thats how fast prices went up. You're delusiional.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
I've been told by many people how ugly I am, my results in dating also reflect this.

the only people who ever tell me otherwise are people on the misc who've never seen my face
Well if you feel that bad about yourself, do something to your appearance: Haircut...new clothes....whatever to boost your confidence.
post 1665260343 07-30-2022, 06:43 PM
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Originally Posted By DrAlchemist
I admit I haven’t come across many individuals in your shoes (5’3, ethnic) often, but out of all the ones I have, a few of them were with average looking women that seemed like they would make good wives.
Sure, I'm not saying you never ever see it at all. I mean I've seen fat chicks with decent looking guys before too but those are exceptions to the rule.
post 1665260353 07-30-2022, 06:44 PM
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Originally Posted By monster0ultra
OP should just lower his standards and go for landwhales and/or retards.

Oh wait:




LOL
It's the internet. I can find a picture of anything I want as well



I'm back, bitches!
post 1665260423 07-30-2022, 06:44 PM
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Originally Posted By Issobolic28
Well if you feel that bad about yourself, do something to your appearance: Haircut...new clothes....whatever to boost your confidence.
The problem isnt my hair. Or clothes. The problem is height and fundamental face structure.
post 1665260563 07-30-2022, 06:46 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
Brah I've done the best I could up until now, but into my 30s this just isnt going to work anymore. Im fated to be alone and its just not the way to live and be happy. which is why people try so hard to not end up alone.

I can make friends, I have good friends. I am not the person you've made me out to be in your head who nobody likes. the problem is because im 5'3 nobody ROMANTICALLy is interested. which should be obvious
Why not try to go to a country with a very short average height, like the Philippines?
post 1665260653 07-30-2022, 06:48 PM
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Originally Posted By BrightThru2014
Why not try to go to a country with a very short average height, like the Philippines?
Because moving to an entirely different country is a big big deal and I have family and friends and 5000 reasons that I wouldnt do that.

I also am black, those types of things work for WHITE GUYS. Black guys are not just desired in any random foreign country
post 1665260673 07-30-2022, 06:49 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
The problem isnt my hair. Or clothes. The problem is height and fundamental face structure.
You can't change your height. But you can change your body composition. Which will change your facial appearance. Get as ripped and as fit possible.

Being tall is only an advantage if you're in shape. No 6'4 guy is mogging anyone if he weighs 400lbs.
post 1665260813 07-30-2022, 06:50 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
No, just no. If I didnt do what I did I was never going to own a house. you dont know what you're talking about. Even the house I bought is currently valued at a price I wouldnt be able to afford if I had to buy it today. Thats how fast prices went up. You're delusiional.
Congrats on buying the last available house in America. Do you feel bad knowing that no one after you will be able to own a home after you?
I'm back, bitches!
post 1665260983 07-30-2022, 06:54 PM
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress
Congrats on buying the last available house in America. Do you feel bad knowing that no one after you will be able to own a home after you?
wtf I said ME. It was the only chance for ME. Other people have different situations with different resources etc.
post 1665261063 07-30-2022, 06:54 PM
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Originally Posted By Issobolic28
You can't change your height. But you can change your body composition. Which will change your facial appearance. Get as ripped and as fit possible.

Being tall is only an advantage if you're in shape. No 6'4 guy is mogging anyone if he weighs 400lbs.
I've been ripped and fit for most of my life. I was an athlete. It didnt fuking matter
post 1665261083 07-30-2022, 06:55 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
my personal hobbies are outdoors(running, walking biking), reading, videogames, playing pickleball, and football(watching, researching, betting)
Ok since your odds are low you need to expose yourself to women as much as possible.

Do your reading in a library, or in an outdoor place when the weather is nice. - something else you can look into are book clubs or whatever, and if there are no potential bros or women to date there, then drop it

Same with your football research/betting.

Social circle dating is still a thing so max that out.

Outdoor hobbies are good as they already put you outside. Again, look into cycling groups or whatever, if the demographic of people is within your age group

Ditch the video games for a while srs, waste of time when there are things you want to achieve (in your case, a GF)

Instead of video games, try new hobbies, preferably group ones. Very serious. Bounce from one to another until you truly find something that appeals to you. It will invigorate your dying passion and curiosity for life, believe me this will translate to your interactions with people, especially women. And who knows, you might legit find something that excites you

Make it a goal to approach one stranger per day and just have a normal chat with them. I suggest a random stranger because idk how comfortable you are approaching a cute girl(within your height range), but if you don’t mind the latter then go for that instead. Talking to a bunch of strangers will also spark an interest and appreciation for other humans

Baby steps, brah
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
wtf I said ME. It was the only chance for ME. Other people have different situations with different resources etc.
So why would you never have another opportunity again to buy a house for the next, idk, 40+ years of your life?
I'm back, bitches!
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
Sure, I'm not saying you never ever see it at all. I mean I've seen fat chicks with decent looking guys before too but those are exceptions to the rule.
Your odds aren’t good brother, I agree. But you should maximize them and still roll the dice.

I’m a 7, at most, on a good day, so my chances of bagging a young 9/10 aren’t great, but it doesn’t stop me from hitting on every single one I come across
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Is OP the dude that wins all those huge sports bets?
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Originally Posted By DrAlchemist
Ok since your odds are low you need to expose yourself to women as much as possible.

Do your reading in a library, or in an outdoor place when the weather is nice. - something else you can look into are book clubs or whatever, and if there are no potential bros or women to date there, then drop it

Same with your football research/betting. Social circle dating is still a thing so max that out.

Outdoor hobbies are good as they already put you outside. Again, look into cycling groups or whatever, if the demographic of people is within your age group

Ditch the video games for a while srs, waste of time when there are things you want to achieve (in your case, a GF)

Instead of video games, try new hobbies, preferably group ones. Very serious. Bounce from one to another until you truly find something that appeals to you. It will invigorate your dying passion and curiosity for life, believe me this will translate to your interactions with people, especially women. And who knows, you might legit find something that excites you

Make it a goal to approach one stranger per day and just have a normal chat with them. I suggest a random stranger because idk how comfortable you are approaching a cute girl(within your height range), but if you don’t mind the latter then go for that instead. Talking to a bunch of strangers will also spark an interest and appreciation for other humans

Baby steps, brah
well those are the things I like to do alone in my own time. I have friends and do things in groups too with them but those things I mentioned are what I just like to do myself in my free time.
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress
So why would you never have another opportunity again to buy a house for the next, idk, 40+ years of your life?
because the prices rose to the point of unaffordability for me. like I mentioned, I would not be able to buy my current house now if I had to buy it today cause the prices rose so high so fast.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
Brah I've done the best I could up until now, but into my 30s this just isnt going to work anymore. Im fated to be alone and its just not the way to live and be happy. which is why people try so hard to not end up alone.

I can make friends, I have good friends. I am not the person you've made me out to be in your head who nobody likes. the problem is because im 5'3 nobody ROMANTICALLy is interested. which should be obvious
My buddies ex wife had a younger brother that was 5'3 iranian/mexican. His gf was 5'0 persian girl.

Do you go to church?
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Originally Posted By DrAlchemist
Your odds aren’t good brother, I agree. But you should maximize them and still roll the dice.

I’m a 7, at most, on a good day, so my chances of bagging a young 9/10 aren’t great, but it doesn’t stop me from hitting on every single one I come across
hitting on every single woman you come across? that's weird number 1, but especially someone like me doing that would be stupid. It would never, ever work because in that situation all they can really judge you on is looks.

The only thing that has ever worked is online because I could quite literally find the 1 in a million via swiping. But even that doesnt work anymore cause its only gotten more picky about height
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Originally Posted By Numba1Misker
srs?

ITS OVER OP

you are basically a midget
I have seen plenty of short Hispanic guys with some dime piece Latina's. If you play your height just like your age, just being a number, you'll do well. A smooth talking manlet compared to some 6 ft tall Neanderthal will win out.
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Originally Posted By DeadlyStriker
My buddies ex wife had a younger brother that was 5'3 iranian/mexican. His gf was 5'0 persian girl.

Do you go to church?
No church.

Cool for that guy, exceptions to every rule.
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If you wanna play your height to an advantage then move to a country or area where they don't place importance on height. Most average 6 ft American's would be "midgets" compared to most Northern European countries.
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Originally Posted By roosky11
If you wanna play your height to an advantage then move to a country or area where they don't place importance on height. Most average 6 ft American's would be "midgets" compared to most Northern European countries.
dude just casually suggesting to move to a new country outs yourself as a moron. Do you know how hard it is to do that, even if I for some reason wanted to move to an entirely new country where I dont have any family or friends or know the language etc etc etc, you cant just pick a country and move cause you feel like it.

and I'll say it again, that can work for WHITE GUYS. but black guys are not wanted around the world like that.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
hitting on every single woman you come across? that's weird number 1,
It’s a hyperbole, but when I’m out and about, if I see a pretty woman and I have a few minutes for a chat I will absolutely talk to her. This is absolutely not weird and what’s the worst that’s going to happen ?
Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
It would never, ever work because in that situation all they can really judge you on is looks.
It literally is the opposite of that. In person you can truly show your personality, confidence, charisma, humour, non verbal communication, etc.
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Try to feel happy for them, sometimes it can make you feel good to see their happiness. Not everyone gets married, you’re not a bad person because of it. I know a guy who’s 46 and makes $500,000 a year and isn’t married.

We’ll all be dead eventually so what does it matter? Just don’t cause harm to other people, and try your best to gain meaning through trying to help when you can.

That’s the only at I can rationalize not roping, other than being a coward who couldn’t do it.

God I sound like a fukin phaag
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