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post 1666962683 08-29-2022, 01:32 PM
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Originally Posted By Achilles87⏩
A terrorist kidnaps your family and says you have a month to have sex with a girl or your family dies.

Wat do?
he doesnt have any family, he's incel
post 1666962723 08-29-2022, 01:33 PM
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Originally Posted By BigNik78⏩
Are you open to misc helping you?
What are you saying to girls on dating apps?
Pic of haircut might help.
Do you work in a public setting?
Are you willing to date 4 or 5/10's?

You look like you already have the build, generally you just need to be the best looking available guy in their immediate orbit but idk how it is where you are.
At this stage, no.
When I was using dating apps, I was just using general non-creepy openers and trying to sound interested. Never got too far into convos though.
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Hypothetically, yes 5/10 would be an option if there was a connection
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post 1666962803 08-29-2022, 01:35 PM
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Originally Posted By ****inator⏩
And no it's not your looks OP, go out in any city and you'll see ugly guys with cute gf's.
ahhh the strawman myth. No. You dont see this. The vast majority of men are with someone the same or objectively worse.

Very very rarely do you ever see an ugly guy with A GIRL, let alone a cute one.

Please stop with this bullchit misc.
post 1666962853 08-29-2022, 01:36 PM
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Originally Posted By piramparam⏩
Why?

What can be so scary about it
Have you ever gotten drunk? That makes game come naturally
Hell, sober sex is for kids anyway.
Originally Posted By kingmanaverage⏩
You seriously haven't kissed a sloot even once?
Not even once, never come close, as weird as that sounds.
Originally Posted By Achilles87⏩
A terrorist kidnaps your family and says you have a month to have sex with a girl or your family dies.

Wat do?
If my family's lives were at stake, then I would do a lot more than have sex with a hooker....and the girl in question would HAVE to be someone who was getting paid for it.
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post 1666962903 08-29-2022, 01:36 PM
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first off happy birthday mate

I'm wondering, what field do you work in? have you never had anything escalate a bit with a female co-worker?

anyway I'd say even at 40 it's definitely not too late, you just gotta want it enough to start working on getting some poontang, you might think that women will pick up on your inexperience but they're more easily fooled than you'd think if you have some confidence backing your actions (and a couple pints in your system hehe)

like a few miscers already noted, the first step (besides building up that inner confidence) is to get into more regular situations where there's women who you could interact with (at this age the first thing that pops to mind would be a work party or casual drinks after work type stuff at the office, hence why I asked)
post 1666962923 08-29-2022, 01:37 PM
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Originally Posted By maori-rap⏩
At this stage, no.
When I was using dating apps, I was just using general non-creepy openers and trying to sound interested. Never got too far into convos though.
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Hypothetically, yes 5/10 would be an option if there was a connection
connection? 5? Bruh 40 yr old virgin you should literally smash whatever is willing at least once.
post 1666963533 08-29-2022, 01:44 PM
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Originally Posted By piramparam⏩
Why?

What can be so scary about it
Have you ever gotten drunk? That makes game come naturally
Hell, sober sex is for kids anyway.
I don't and never have drunk alcohol. Which doesn't help I know. I have separate reasons for not drinking the lightning water.
Originally Posted By Rebel012⏩
What do you think differentiates the way you deal with your life situation vs others who self-identify as incels and blame society, women, and dating culture for all their problems? What prevented you from going down that destructive rabbit hole?
I don't blame anyone or anything else for my circumstance. I don't feel like I am being wronged and there is some injustice at play. These days I am just grateful for what I DO have.
Originally Posted By Voidgaze⏩
Is this you OP?

Bro, you definitely can pull some sloots, SRS.

Holy fuk, I can't believe this.


I genuinely hope you find a woman one day.
That was me in around April 2015...I am lighter than that now, but still fairly "big".
Originally Posted By Basiliskboy⏩
How many times have you actually gone out to bars or clubs in the last 40 years?

It is impossible to be a virgin or kissless if you’re actually trying.. there’s to many desperate HTC women out here.

Whatever the case just save yourself for marriage at this point. Your options are pretty dried up unless you’re willing to marry a single mom. That is if you’re really not an incel and have a successful career money, you could marry a girl a bit younger maybe 28 the youngest.

Just go out and live life op.
I really haven't counted how many times I have been to bars and clubs over the decades...many...like 50+ times. That 50 sounds low to guys who get yucky each and every weekend, but it's not like I have never been to a bar and made an effort.
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post 1666963783 08-29-2022, 01:47 PM
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Originally Posted By tehgosu⏩
first off happy birthday mate

I'm wondering, what field do you work in? have you never had anything escalate a bit with a female co-worker?

anyway I'd say even at 40 it's definitely not too late, you just gotta want it enough to start working on getting some poontang, you might think that women will pick up on your inexperience but they're more easily fooled than you'd think if you have some confidence backing your actions (and a couple pints in your system hehe)

like a few miscers already noted, the first step (besides building up that inner confidence) is to get into more regular situations where there's women who you could interact with (at this age the first thing that pops to mind would be a work party or casual drinks after work type stuff at the office, hence why I asked)
Telecomms. Never had anything escalate with a female co-worker or had any show of interest over the years.
Cook the man some eggs!
post 1666963883 08-29-2022, 01:48 PM
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Originally Posted By maori-rap⏩
I don't and never have drunk alcohol. Which doesn't help I know. I have separate reasons for not drinking the lightning water.



I don't blame anyone or anything else for my circumstance. I don't feel like I am being wronged and there is some injustice at play. These days I am just grateful for what I DO have.



That was me in around April 2015...I am lighter than that now, but still fairly "big".



I really haven't counted how many times I have been to bars and clubs over the decades...many...like 50+ times. That 50 sounds low to guys who get yucky each and every weekend, but it's not like I have never been to a bar and made an effort.
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post 1666964173 08-29-2022, 01:53 PM
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At what age did you feel like this was going to be where your life was headed? Any event that might have made you feel like it wasn't worth putting the effort in to get into a relationship?
post 1666964543 08-29-2022, 01:58 PM
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Originally Posted By maori-rap⏩
That was me in around April 2015...I am lighter than that now, but still fairly "big".


Holy fuk that was you?

That huge, tough looking guy was you? Bro......BRO


Come on bro!
I'm back, bitches!
post 1666964763 08-29-2022, 02:02 PM
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Do you kind of have any sort of pride in being a virgin? Or how do you feel about it in general?

Do you ever want kids?

If an upper twenties - lower thirties woman were to be interested in you, and you liked her too, how much baggage would you be willing to accept?
post 1666964853 08-29-2022, 02:03 PM
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Originally Posted By maori-rap⏩
That was me in around April 2015...I am lighter than that now, but still fairly "big".
Damn do people IRL think you're a virgin or do they think you're getting laid regularly?
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post 1666964893 08-29-2022, 02:04 PM
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what do you do for work? do you live alone? how big is your house/apartment? do you have siblings?? pets??
post 1666965503 08-29-2022, 02:12 PM
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Originally Posted By maori-rap⏩
That was me in around April 2015...I am lighter than that now, but still fairly "big".
You're surrounded by women in that pic, you trollin us brah?
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post 1666966773 08-29-2022, 02:34 PM
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Originally Posted By maori-rap⏩
I don't and never have drunk alcohol. Which doesn't help I know. I have separate reasons for not drinking the lightning water.
Just curious but I’d be interested to know what those reasons are.

Also, kinda random, but how do you feel about swearing / using bad language? Are you comfortable with it?
post 1666967383 08-29-2022, 02:43 PM
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How do you just give up? I lost my virginity late, couldn't even stay hard LOL. It's been 5 years since that day, but I refuse to give up. Worse case scenario I'll just bang ugly chicks with tight bodies. I can't ignore sex, it's impossible to ignore those sweet sugar walls I've been missing out on in my teens and 20s.

If you aren't fat, there's really no excuse to not get laid. I don't get laid because I low confidence and I don't go out at all. It's hard finding women to meet.
post 1666967553 08-29-2022, 02:46 PM
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Originally Posted By iamdetermined⏩
Damn do people IRL think you're a virgin or do they think you're getting laid regularly?
He's far from ugly, I doubt people would suspect he's a virgin.
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post 1666968263 08-29-2022, 02:57 PM
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Originally Posted By FA*******⏩
6 foot with a decent physique? It's hard for me to thinksomesloot didn't throw OP a bone in the past.
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post 1666968273 08-29-2022, 02:57 PM
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You just need to lose your inhibitions really. I read you’re against alcohol, maybe try phenibut idk. But I guarantee you on a drunk (or something of the sort) night out you’d atleast get a nice makeout session with a girl from a bar/club, and that would probably lead to something else. You would eventually get good at it sober aswell, if you’re worried about spiraling into some sort of addiction.

But you don’t look interested in it anymore, as said by others you feel good in your comfort zone, which is a shame really. There are guys that would kill to be in your shoes and you squander it all just because of your inhibitions
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wow this is ridiculous, 6ft tall, not bad looking AT ALL, muscular dude, virgin at 40.

What the actual fukk. That is insane, tbh I think this could be a troll post.

If it's not a troll post, then this just goes to show that looksmaxxing isn't gonna get you laid fr. confidencemaxxing is.
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Originally Posted By maori-rap⏩
That was me in around April 2015...I am lighter than that now, but still fairly "big".
It's not even your mass I'm talking about.

You are good looking, and those two females obviously wanted to be around you (unless they're related to you).

This is definitely a mental thing, I'm not saying that to belittle but I'm saying that there's still time to turn it around.
post 1666970563 08-29-2022, 03:42 PM
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Originally Posted By maori-rap⏩
I really haven't counted how many times I have been to bars and clubs over the decades...many...like 50+ times. That 50 sounds low to guys who get yucky each and every weekend, but it's not like I have never been to a bar and made an effort.
The fact you don’t drink explains it hasn’t happened with just anyone yet. It sounds like you don’t have game or rather you don’t know how to lead a situation to sex.

Also like others have mentioned here it doesn’t seem like you care that much. You would have defined found a way by now. Some 60 year old gilf would be better than nothing at this point.


I don’t think you care enough op the combination of never feeling a woman’s touch and possibly you wacking to tons of porn to compensate over the years has zapped your libido

I know you probably feel some sort of regret but it really isn’t as serious as society makes it out to be.

As others have already said stop identifying with being a 40yr old virgin. It literally means nothing. And your life won’t change much after it happens.
That anxiety is probably stifling you from jumping on opportunities where you could’ve had sex
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Happy birthday dude. Wish I could help, but you sound like a smart guy who maybe just has a mental block in this department, I hope you can get through it, everyone should take a shot at happiness.
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Originally Posted By Nicky161200⏩
wow this is ridiculous, 6ft tall, not bad looking AT ALL, muscular dude, virgin at 40.

What the actual fukk. That is insane, tbh I think this could be a troll post.

If it's not a troll post, then this just goes to show that looksmaxxing isn't gonna get you laid fr. confidencemaxxing is.
I'm just lookin at him towering over these women in bewilderment. That guy at say, 15-17% bodyfat with that face should theoretically be killing it. Imagine him posting that pic on some incel forum. They'd seethe with rage so hard that his life would likely be in danger.
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Originally Posted By iamdetermined⏩
I'd agree for college but I didn't think it was that uncommon to graduate high school as a virgin. Figured most guys don't gain confidence until their early 20s.

Location makes a difference. The 80/20 rule was very real in my high school. I went to high school with the type of girls you see on Fresh & Fit now...they'd be juniors bragging about dating 18-20 yr olds. The combination of that and being a scared teen lead to a few of us relatively normal guys graduating as virgins. We were in the minority though and definitely had chances we were too scared to make a move on.
1500 students in my HS in Dallas and I played sports. Nearly very guy I knew was getting poocy especially the black guys who ragged on anyone not getting laid. I mean even most of the linemen on the JV had GF's and were getting some kind of action...

On the weekends and big holidays, we'd head to big parties out in the country on hunting plots, build a big fire, camp, drink and fukk. My mind will be forever blown how a guy can't get fukked by some girl who is looks matched to them.

Maybe, I should just be thankful for what I have...
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post 1666973013 08-29-2022, 04:25 PM
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do you have the skitz?
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Pretty there are a lot of MISCers that never had sex with women without paying for it...
Everything I post is satire.
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Originally Posted By miscbro333⏩
Proof that your theory is bull****?
What's your main account, brah?
Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
It doesnt seem like OP really cares that much for one thing. If you simply dont care that much, it will be a lot easier to cope than guys who really want this.

But I dont fully agree with your original comment. You make it sound like "blaming" society/women/culture is wrong. But its the truth. Some of you want incels to pretend like they dont understand whats going on.

The fact is we have gotten priced out of dating and families by dating apps and feminism
They hated BBMG because he told the truth.

40% of 18-39 women claim they are no longer interested in sex or relationships, aka not interested in sex or relationships with a sub-Chad. That's gonna send a lot of beta males their own way.

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Originally Posted By FA*******⏩
What's your main account, brah?



They hated BBMG because he told the truth.

40% of 18-39 women claim they are no longer interested in sex or relationships, aka not interested in sex or relationships with a sub-Chad. That's gonna send a lot of beta males their own way.


Lol, it's 39% for women and 33% of men in that age group who say they're not looking. Doesn't imply what you think it does.

Also, strong confirmation of your theory given OP's situation.




Not serious.
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