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post 1667366753 09-05-2022, 02:43 PM
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They aren't struggling to get laid, they just have unrealistic expectations, and ego issues.

They are only struggling to get laid by Instagram models, and actually think they deserve them because they have abs. Too late they realize they never developed a personality while they were developing their body. Then they become bitter and blame women for it. Their ego and rage is so high they think they the average plain Jane are beneath them, so they cope by telling themselves they'd rather not get laid than to smash anything below an 8.

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post 1667366813 09-05-2022, 02:44 PM
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Originally Posted By Tanerian
They aren't struggling to get laid, they just have unrealistic expectations, and ego issues.

They are only struggling to get laid by Instagram models, and actually think they deserve them because they have abs. Too late they realize they never developed a personality while they were developing their body. Then they become bitter and blame women for it. Their ego and rage is so high they think they the average plane Jane are beneath them, so they cope by telling themselves they'd rather not get laid than to smash anything below an 8.

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lol. if you have abs you shouldnt have to smash plane janes.
post 1667366883 09-05-2022, 02:45 PM
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Originally Posted By DontbeSwak
Am I the only person who finds online dating not too bad lol? Granted I only use bumble but I dont have any problem getting dates and have met some great girls.
this dude smashes plane janes smh
post 1667367243 09-05-2022, 02:50 PM
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Originally Posted By imbored21
lol. if you have abs you shouldnt have to smash plane janes.
Exhibit A folks.

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post 1667367383 09-05-2022, 02:52 PM
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Originally Posted By Tanerian
They aren't struggling to get laid, they just have unrealistic expectations, and ego issues.

They are only struggling to get laid by Instagram models, and actually think they deserve them because they have abs. Too late they realize they never developed a personality while they were developing their body. Then they become bitter and blame women for it. Their ego and rage is so high they think they the average plain Jane are beneath them, so they cope by telling themselves they'd rather not get laid than to smash anything below an 8.

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part of the problem is they inherently hate IG models and yet want to date them. Then when denied, it increases their hatred.
post 1667367673 09-05-2022, 02:57 PM
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Originally Posted By DeadlyStriker
A big part of it is women and social media. They're obsessed. They also don't have boundaries at it. My ex fwb for example would get so many messages on instagram from randoms, would have snapchats from so many guys, etc that it was actually mind blowing. She was having sex with me though, but at the same time was still entertaining all of it. You don't think chicks in actual relationships are doing this too? Most are. If the man even mentions to her to stop he is labeled insecure.

What happens is that most typical females have unlimited options and can drop a guy or be picky about a guy over something ridiculous. A lot men just don't want to deal with it.

When I downloaded hinge the other month I eventually got a lot of matches. But talking to them was like talking to a wall. Short basic texts with zero substance. I just removed them. A waste of time. How many do you think these chicks are talking to?

There are a plethora of reasons, but that is a major one I see.
Solid post.

As you know I've shared the same experience on Hinge, and not having your conversational effort matched gets tiring.

Another factor I wanted to mention is some of these men were/are missing a strong male figure in their life.

The shortcomings of parents can have a serious long term effect on a child and well into their adulthood.
post 1667367703 09-05-2022, 02:57 PM
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Originally Posted By Cleveland33
part of the problem is they inherently hate IG models and yet want to date them. Then when denied, it increases their hatred.
Or even if when they date them, it increases their hatred as well lol.
post 1667389543 09-05-2022, 10:20 PM
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Originally Posted By donblaximus
Ok maybe its the sign of the times. I assume its understood on hinge that you are not just there for a hookup?? I seem to believe there are a handful of miscers that go on hinge looking for casual hookups?

From my experience you dont find the high value women in close association with thoes kind of environments (real or online)
When I used to go to my mother's university reunion there was flocks of daughters there that were all either young professionals and/or heiresses to the family business. You wouldnt meet those girls at the strip club, dive bar, etc. You would run into them at a nice nightclub or lounge having drinks with friends and what not so is that like the analogy between tinder and hinge?
im starting to realize this more and more, breaking into these social circles is harder than any cold approach you could ever do srs. money is a given and doesn't impress these girls... how to fk do you date these girls if you didn't grow up with the same lifestyle?
post 1667395963 09-06-2022, 03:47 AM
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Originally Posted By Better
imagine actually believing this in 2022. holy chit it's not just sloots that are retarded now jfl

I can just see it now, tiblord ******* gets obvious sings of interest from a girl, approaches her (thinking he's cold approaching JFL) and lays his gAmE. Girl keeps him afloat giggling at everything autistic he says and basically does all the work keeping his retardedly boring conversation alive... cause she's physically attracted. And unless tiblord says something extremely autistic, she's still gonna be keen to see him again later. Tiblord walks away thinking his 5th grader wit and bland personality is 10/10 personality and charm and his gigachad gAmE got him another girl.

Nuclear holocaust legit sounds pretty good rn ong cause I legit refuse to believe people are this dum stoopid or dum huh in 2022.
Yeah 2022 and u still think anytime someone talks about "game" it's that PUA game chit from more than a decade ago...

Re-read that whole middle paragraph you wrote. just lol at a tard calling people retarded
post 1667396473 09-06-2022, 04:13 AM
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Originally Posted By JeenyusJr
Yeah 2022 and u still think anytime someone talks about "game" it's that PUA game chit from more than a decade ago...

Re-read that whole middle paragraph you wrote. just lol at a tard calling people retarded
stop the cap brb acting like social media is not swamped wtih "high value male" cringe shiet rn which is just repackaged pua boomer piece of turd. game still means the same chit it always did. an erroneous belief that you can create sexual attraction by saying words. stop sucking yourself off, you don't have "game" or charm or some special skills to take credit for. all of the girls that you smashed in your life did it purely due to being attracted to your physical looks.

the main reason why most dudes don't get laid is because they are either too short or too ugly, i.e. looks. anything other than that is pharmaceutical grade cope.
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post 1667396483 09-06-2022, 04:13 AM
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no idea. i get multiple pussy holes every week. not sure how brahs accept zero every week rip
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