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post 1683221693 05-23-2023, 01:12 AM
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A lot of men feel this way

There's just no incentive to do anything

Housing is unaffordable
Wife/family no longer exists
Job market is saturated

A lot of men are looking to chaos and have nothing to lose
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Originally Posted By TOUCHEDbyMany⏩
A lot of men feel this way

There's just no incentive to do anything

Housing is unaffordable
Wife/family no longer exists
Job market is saturated

A lot of men are looking to chaos and have nothing to lose
This, the problems have gone far beyond "incels".

Looking at the latest stats, it's absolutely crazy.

And it is a societal problem, not some fringe issue.
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There are three types of incels.

The first is the ethnic who is angry that the white wimmenz want nothing to do with him. So he gets angry at society, because the mainstream media has convinced him that we are living in a liberal utopian paradise rather than a liberal dystopia. All the interracial relationships you see on TV and in porn are not a reflection on general reality, at least not with the kind of women you really want. You want access to those women, you better be an athlete or artist. Its not happening, and its not womens fault that they are not attracted to you.

The second is the very online loser who spends his days playing vidya and watching porn. This useless sack of chit usually never played sports as a kid, never really had any physical chores and he is utterly consumed by consumer culture. He has few friends too. Some of them will dig their way out of the hole, but a lot wont. These guys are the often the hardcore red pill/mgtow/failed pickup artist retard types. Buddy, why is a traditional woman going to settle for you when you do not have any traits at all that make you a suitable partner? They either go hardcore red pill or hardcore blue pill where they turn into simps and orbiters.

The third type is the average guy who has kept himself in some sort of shape but he is not a superstar. These kinds of guys would make good husbands, would be loyal, decent fathers and generally good community members. These are the guys I have sympathy for and these are the guys that society is failing. Younger women overlook these guys all the time or take them for granted, when this is what the 6's and 7's should have been settling down with and pumping out a few kids.

Society is not going to change overnight. Its headed off a cliff, they are not walking back the civil rights movement boys. Next stage is collapse. Either make the most of it, or pack your bags and phuck off somewhere else like your ancestors did.
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At least you got rid of the BLM thing. So,how many woman have you approached in the last 30 days?
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
hoards of disaffected men have no reason to uphold society
I agree...

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post 1683225333 05-23-2023, 04:31 AM
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Originally Posted By ExPatriot⏩
I agree...

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Yea euthanize 40% of men, that won't immediately collapse society
post 1683225353 05-23-2023, 04:32 AM
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Originally Posted By 129iq⏩
At least you got rid of the BLM thing. So,how many woman have you approached in the last 30 days?
why would I bother at this point when I already know its guaranteed rejection from over a decade of experience and results ?
post 1683225413 05-23-2023, 04:34 AM
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Originally Posted By Rebel012⏩
This.

OP, you need to rot and just stfu or work your ass off to get pussy. It's not fair that some dudes have to work that hard, but it's life. Believe me, I've been there.
"Its life " is a lazy excuse to avoid addressing the issue. " u can't get a house a good job or a wife, that's life son" isn't going to work. At that point the social contract is broken
post 1683225433 05-23-2023, 04:37 AM
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Originally Posted By TOUCHEDbyMany⏩
A lot of men feel this way

There's just no incentive to do anything

Housing is unaffordable
Wife/family no longer exists
Job market is saturated

A lot of men are looking to chaos and have nothing to lose
In real life, the guy i know who's most worried about this isn't even an incel. He's been in a relationship since college but he sees everything going on and is very worried about where this leads.

The amount of people who apparently believe its nbd are absolutely retarded. America is a violent volatile country with mass shootings that are unthinkable in other first world places.

If this continues we won't survive
post 1683225483 05-23-2023, 04:39 AM
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Originally Posted By koreannoodles77⏩
Lol go ahead and try.

Someone will put a hole in your garden gnome lookin ass quick enough.

Your anarchist wet dream looks alot better in your head, trust me
Yea tell that to the 2020 rioters. They all got shot right? Oh, no they burned down cities fir days with zero consequences. Lol if you don't think incels with nothing to lose will do even more damage and including more murder and violence.
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
I'm no incel but I wouldn't be surprised if some men start revolting. Luckily there's scholars like Richard Reeves and Tommy J Curry that talk about the plight of young boys and men.

There are men that look at the issue with passivity though and imo are complicit to the issues at hand so they have to deal with them too
Scott Galloway is another good one who is sounding the alarm on all this.

People aren't listening and the consequences will be dire.

There will absolutely be revolt. I expect most of these men to just opt out of society but it doesn't take much for violence. Mass shootings are literally one guy at a time. Even small pockets of incels can do massive damage
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
"Its life " is a lazy excuse to avoid addressing the issue. " u can't get a house a good job or a wife, that's life son" isn't going to work. At that point the social contract is broken
This.

Also friendly reminder the biggest empires in history have been founded by young frustrated men

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Ra...e_Sabine_Women

Society ignoring and even laughing at issues concerning young men is the perfect formula for violent revolution. Luckily we have video games and other sh*t but that also won't work long term
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Never understand Incels... if you struggle with western women... Get a solid career (with decent earnings) get hookers and when you're ready get an Asian wife (Phillipines).

It's that simple. Why even play a game you can't win.

Although i'm sure that after you bang 10-20 hookers who are hotter than any of the women you see on dating apps your whole view on women/life will change.

I am tall, good looking and well built and even i find dating hard in western countries. If you're short, ugly or a 'runt'... you have no chance.
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Haven't read all the responses but OP have you considered all the posts you see from guys in relationships about sloots slooting, divorces, general relationship headaches? Even accounting for the exaggeration factor a bit, yeah relationships and sex are great but they come with their own issues. The grass isn't always greener.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Why should men like me not fuk up society? Why shouldn't we cause problems? What's in it for us
Fuk up society how? Like I said, you can't even get a woman to have sex with you. That's the simplest most natural thing, so I doubt you'll be able to do anything else.
When it comes your time to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled with the fear of death, so that when their time comes they weep and pray for a little more time to live their lives over again in a different way. Sing your death song and die like a hero going home.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
In real life, the guy i know who's most worried about this isn't even an incel. He's been in a relationship since college but he sees everything going on and is very worried about where this leads.

The amount of people who apparently believe its nbd are absolutely retarded. America is a violent volatile country with mass shootings that are unthinkable in other first world places.

If this continues we won't survive
This there is going to be some kind of uprising
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Originally Posted By Sevenlionz⏩
Improve ability with women and social skills in general by meeting tons of people and not giving a fuk what they think, as you move up the ladder in these other aspects people will be drawn heavily towards you

It’s literally that simple just not easy. To think like an incel is a trance. But it’s possible to overcome it
This is the truth here. Once you stop caring about what others think, a whole world of possibilities opens up.
When it comes your time to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled with the fear of death, so that when their time comes they weep and pray for a little more time to live their lives over again in a different way. Sing your death song and die like a hero going home.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Why should men like me not fuk up society? Why shouldn't we cause problems? What's in it for us
A) There aren’t enough of you to put a dent in society

B) You’re feckless. If you can’t even get a woman to like you, I seriously doubt you can upend society lol.

Look dude, I’m not trying to be harsh or mean. People try to give you advice and you shoot it down, so I’m just agreeing with you. You may just be ****ed. But society doesn’t owe you anything. You don’t deserve anything just because you exist.

Yes, it sucks for you probably more than I can imagine. But humble yourself a bit and stop acting so damn entitled.
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Originally Posted By bicmane102⏩
looks good brah. solid frame.

but you haven't had to live a day like someone like BBMG, so you couldn't possibly know what it's like to be in his shoes.
This is cope. I've been in his shoes. I was a manlet once. I'm still not white, so the one thing he could say is a negative about the way he looks is something everyone has had to deal with. I have seen literal midgets with attractive women.
When it comes your time to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled with the fear of death, so that when their time comes they weep and pray for a little more time to live their lives over again in a different way. Sing your death song and die like a hero going home.
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Originally Posted By RW2⏩
A) There aren’t enough of you to put a dent in society
Lol? Have you seen the latest stats?
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Yea euthanize 40% of men, that won't immediately collapse society
It won't. Look at yourself as an example. You don't have a job, you aren't providing anything of value. You're not even pleasant to look at. If you disappeared tomorrow even your parents would be relieved. The reality is that if things were as they were in the past, you would have been thrown off a cliff shortly after birth. You're like the hunchback guy in 300. You're not made to fit with society. And it's not your looks, it's your severe mental illness that's the biggest problem.
When it comes your time to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled with the fear of death, so that when their time comes they weep and pray for a little more time to live their lives over again in a different way. Sing your death song and die like a hero going home.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
We choose to lay down and rot: 'loser lol improve youself bro what fookin loser that gave up'

We improve ourselves bro:' LOL incel, tall white men only go fuk yourself manlet!'
back to rotting: 'lol losers'

Wtf does society expect incels to do? Go to work, be an obedient little wage slave while also being entirely unsatisfied with life?

Society better cum up with answer soon for what incels are supposed to be doing. otherwise its going to get bad. And no, not just japan where men opted out. because the key word of japan is those men OPT out. They see that the work and dating market isnt worth it and choose to be alone.

in the USA, men are working and doing things they're told will work and it doesnt. Much worse scenario that breeds anger and depression
Life is not inherently fair and we all unjustly get dealt at least a couple bad cards in life. You have 2 choices, keep crying and fist yourself or make the best out of the cards you've been dealt.
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it doesn't matter what you're supposed to do

all you ever do is go about in pity for yourself. all of you. that's all you'll keep doing until some group comes after you for real. then you might cry.
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Originally Posted By PimpinisEasy⏩
Never understand Incels... if you struggle with western women... Get a solid career (with decent earnings) get hookers and when you're ready get an Asian wife (Phillipines).

It's that simple. Why even play a game you can't win.

Although i'm sure that after you bang 10-20 hookers who are hotter than any of the women you see on dating apps your whole view on women/life will change.

I am tall, good looking and well built and even i find dating hard in western countries. If you're short, ugly or a 'runt'... you have no chance.
Not everyone is white. Asianmaxx is for white guys
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Originally Posted By Godfrd824⏩
Fuk up society how? Like I said, you can't even get a woman to have sex with you. That's the simplest most natural thing, so I doubt you'll be able to do anything else.
Constant mass shootings so nobody feels safe is a very real possibility
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Originally Posted By MrQuint⏩
Haven't read all the responses but OP have you considered all the posts you see from guys in relationships about sloots slooting, divorces, general relationship headaches? Even accounting for the exaggeration factor a bit, yeah relationships and sex are great but they come with their own issues. The grass isn't always greener.
The grass isnt always greener, but when it comes to men who can't even get laid and will live their entire lives alone, the grass is greener.

Which is why 95% of men who have a choice, choose to not be incels.
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Originally Posted By Sevenlionz⏩
The only way of escape is to improve your life in as many facets as possible towards the direction you want dead fckin srs. If the life you want is to pull lots of girls u must eliminate all remnants of victim mentally from your mind and work on yourself relentlessly like it’s life or death. Average will not cut it in todays world

Physique max to the absolute best you possibly can:




Moneymaxx hard by moving up your career, saving, investing, and starting businesses. The freedom and confidence that making 6 figures + and beyond is indescribable if you’re coming from much less $

Improve ability with women and social skills in general by meeting tons of people and not giving a fuk what they think, as you move up the ladder in these other aspects people will be drawn heavily towards you

It’s literally that simple just not easy. To think like an incel is a trance. But it’s possible to overcome it
Fuark you're a good looking mf (no homo if course).
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Originally Posted By RW2⏩
A) There aren’t enough of you to put a dent in society

B) You’re feckless. If you can’t even get a woman to like you, I seriously doubt you can upend society lol.

Look dude, I’m not trying to be harsh or mean. People try to give you advice and you shoot it down, so I’m just agreeing with you. You may just be ****ed. But society doesn’t owe you anything. You don’t deserve anything just because you exist.

Yes, it sucks for you probably more than I can imagine. But humble yourself a bit and stop acting so damn entitled.
It only takes one incel to do something awful as we've seen. Dont be naive. it doesnt take much for bad things to happens.

Society doesnt owe any individual person anything, but as a collective there is a social contract which says 'you will get access to certain basic quality of life because we know if too many of you dont you have no reason to not burn society down'.

If 50% of men were starving, do you think we'd have a society? No, because that many starving people will mean revolt. same thing here. Men that cant get laid and have no investment in the future have nothing to lose and they're angry.
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Originally Posted By Godfrd824⏩
It won't. Look at yourself as an example. You don't have a job, you aren't providing anything of value. You're not even pleasant to look at. If you disappeared tomorrow even your parents would be relieved. The reality is that if things were as they were in the past, you would have been thrown off a cliff shortly after birth. You're like the hunchback guy in 300. You're not made to fit with society. And it's not your looks, it's your severe mental illness that's the biggest problem.
tell me you dont know how society works without telling me. 40% of men disappearing overnight would crash everything.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
tell me you dont know how society works without telling me. 40% of men disappearing overnight would crash everything.
you're trying to be on a high horse talking to people about how society works when you can't even get a woman into bed with you
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