Regarding the oven situation: i turned on the oven light, but she was the last one to take the food out of the oven. WHY WHY would that be on my mind? why would I be tracking that? secondly, I didn't even take a bite out of my food yet... i didnt even have a CHANCE to clean up and tidy up the area. then, it turns into phrasing questions like... "hmm... you know, you have a habit of starting things but not finishing them. do you think you have a problem with not finishing things you start?"...


there's way more **** in the OP that I left out which I was unhappy in the relationship in the first place. i just always had doubts in the back of my head.

I have insecurities that certain men like Brad Pitt, Ronaldo, Leonardo, all the guys you see on TV and social media... have 1000s of women wanting to have sex with them in any all sorts of different way. I asked myself and wondered... hmm... would any woman hesitate to give those guys oral sex? Why should I fee less than and 2nd place in my own relationship? Shouldn't I feel like king and royalty? Granted, I communicated I might not be deserving that since I myself am withholding my love and not loving someone fully. Also, my sex drive really isn't that high or needy. Sex was like once a week sometimes even less. Even in those moments of infrequency, I couldn't get what I wanted and be fulfilled? Not like I was demanding it everyday. overall, i dont blame the sex part on her. i visibly was withholding my love. cant expect her to be 100% submissive

Of course, I did not want to be the burden and look after all of the house chores. It was just a bunch of fights piled onto each other about her tone and delivery.

- I accidentially dropped the dog gate to let the dog out to potty (I didn't want to stress the dog out by giving her eye drops BEFORE she pottied). Gf disagreed, and the dog had already ran downstairs... it took all of 60 seconds to get the dog back upstairs (no big deal right?). "Do you ever use your brain sometimes?" she says. she makes a fuss that I made her late to her appointment... how?? it was literally 60 seconds the dog ran downstairs

- I was tracking a package delivery for her. I was downstairs listening for it. The delivery got missed, no one was there to sign for it. She comes down crying and saying she can't count on me for anything. I told her that I was listening for it the entire time. Turns out... our doorbell was broken.

- One time the garage door was left opened. She says to me... "you know what? **** you". I was like dude, obviously I didn't mean to left the door open. My stuff got exposed and was at risk too. I didn't purposely leave it open. Tells me "I'm clueless". Turns out... my garage got accidentially programmed to our neighbor's padlock. Our neighbor was accidentially opening/closing my garage...

- Her words... "by the time I've blown up on you", it's never really the moment at hand but rather multiple occasions leading up to it.

Two things.

It sounds as if you are a pretty insecure person....which for a girl is a big turn off.

And 2 it sounds as if you had a pretty toxic relationship. Therefore this is probably for the best.

Two things.

It sounds as if you are a pretty insecure person....which for a girl is a big turn off.

And 2 it sounds as if you had a pretty toxic relationship. Therefore this is probably for the best.