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Thread: Can you turn around being 29 , no kids , no gf/ crush ? Life alone ?

post 1688832943 08-23-2023, 01:24 PM
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I just hate when white men complain about life

Life is literally handed to you on a silver platter and yet you still complain. Fuk off
post 1688833083 08-23-2023, 01:27 PM
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Originally Posted By AWillis⏩
damn if you already have your own pad what are you sweating it for. keep grinding

you have another 10 years to find a chick and bust some nuts inside her to make some offspring. by then hopefully society would have moved awake from this woke BS.

you aren't thinking of the long game
Yeah man I bought the place last September.

I don't need a female to compensate financially and pay half the bills

Obviously if I were to have a family with kids I'd be looking at a bigger spot

But yeah I'm thru with wasting my time .


Just yesterday I was messaging a 25 year old who had 3 kids single mother...woke up today and thought like TF r u doing ?!


So hopefully something comes up


I was able to upgrade financial, I lived at home for 2 years before getting my own pad, but my dating game hasn't upgraded to follow suit yet
post 1688833243 08-23-2023, 01:29 PM
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Originally Posted By Muzzabpress⏩
I just hate when white men complain about life

Life is literally handed to you on a silver platter and yet you still complain. Fuk off
Bro if you were white you'd still be an incel


The problem with you...is that you blame literally all of your short commings on not being white


Do you know life still takes a great deal of thought, effort , finness regardless?


Just yesterday I was walking down the street I saw a 5'8 Indian man with an actual hot pajeta

Just fking cope if you can't pull an indian girl


That's like telling me I can't pull a white girl ( not that I want to )
post 1688833473 08-23-2023, 01:32 PM
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I didn't even meet my current girl until I was 32ish. I'm 36 now. I'd say she's a keeper.



Granted. At 29 I was whoremaxing and living fairly hedonistic. Riding MC, lifting, traveling 2x per year, smashin random tinder thots. Etc.
post 1688833503 08-23-2023, 01:34 PM
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Originally Posted By guest89⏩
I didn't even meet my current girl until I was 32ish. I'm 36 now. I'd say she's a keeper.



Granted. At 29 I was whoremaxing and living fairly hedonistic. Riding MC, lifting, traveling 2x per year, smashin random tinder thots. Etc.
I'm not into whores

Just doesn't seem worth it to me

I don't live that hedonistically

I just work...maybe smoke herb , lift , play basketball In my free time


But thank you bro ...us as men usually keep our value a lot longer than females
post 1688833633 08-23-2023, 01:36 PM
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Bro I'm 32 and in your situation.

The problem I have is that I can get women and have offers and prospects, and every coworker and their mother trying to set me up with women, but I have zero actual prospects for marriage material.

The difference is that I know I'll be okay and I look forward to my life genuinely. Does it suck? Sure sometimes. But then again you look around and see that it's not all sunshine and rainbows with anyone else so just focus on being better yourself in every area of life and one day you'll attract or find the right woman for you. You have to still try, but just not be afraid to reject or say no too.
post 1688833933 08-23-2023, 01:40 PM
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She really was the best man
* Rawdog crew * Creampie crew * Poverty crew *

Haven't worn a condom since middle school crew

* HTC crew *
post 1688834373 08-23-2023, 01:46 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
its over
Only for your sad ass. You seriously have more mood fluctuations than a 14 yo girl on her period. You say you're against therapy, but the best thing you can do is sit down with a solid male shrink once a week for about eight months.
post 1688834603 08-23-2023, 01:48 PM
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Originally Posted By DeadlyStriker⏩
Bro I'm 32 and in your situation.

The problem I have is that I can get women and have offers and prospects, and every coworker and their mother trying to set me up with women, but I have zero actual prospects for marriage material.

The difference is that I know I'll be okay and I look forward to my life genuinely. Does it suck? Sure sometimes. But then again you look around and see that it's not all sunshine and rainbows with anyone else so just focus on being better yourself in every area of life and one day you'll attract or find the right woman for you. You have to still try, but just not be afraid to reject or say no too.
I'll be 30 next month

Yep that's exactly it bro

It only sucks sometimes...depending on the mood you are in

And can be really easy to see the grass as greener on the other side


All we can do is focus on being better each day

But it's certainly not how I envisioned 30 being like, with absolutely no prospects for marriage or kids.
post 1688835443 08-23-2023, 01:57 PM
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
I'll be 30 next month

Yep that's exactly it bro

It only sucks sometimes...depending on the mood you are in

And can be really easy to see the grass as greener on the other side


All we can do is focus on being better each day

But it's certainly not how I envisioned 30 being like, with absolutely no prospects for marriage or kids.
Life never works out like you expect.

But envy is the thief of joy. Just be grateful for what you have and what is good in your life, work towards being better in every way, and enjoy life in the meantime. Usually something good happens when you least expect it.
post 1688836233 08-23-2023, 02:09 PM
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Dude I’m 43 and like that and even worse lost my job. Not sure it gets worse than this
post 1688837563 08-23-2023, 02:29 PM
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
But the feeling of not being able to repeat is haunting me

I feel like I got lucky with that girl for 3 years.

The 2022 girl was a prick but lasted a full year


Just gotta keep swinging bbmcgee

All it takes is one...don't forget that

I'm bar maxing and gonna start cold approaching maxing dfs
No it doesnt take one. Most people need a lot of dates and different women before finding the right one.

I'm the kind of incel who has to lock up the first one to give them the time of day because that might be the last chance
post 1688837773 08-23-2023, 02:31 PM
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Originally Posted By Rebel012⏩
Only for your sad ass. You seriously have more mood fluctuations than a 14 yo girl on her period. You say you're against therapy, but the best thing you can do is sit down with a solid male shrink once a week for about eight months.
What mood do you think I'm in? You just see what you want to see to fit your narrative of men.
post 1688837853 08-23-2023, 02:33 PM
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Originally Posted By DeadlyStriker⏩
Usually something good happens when you least expect it.
Havent expected anything for 15 years and still waiting. this is a really stupid saying IMO
post 1688838353 08-23-2023, 02:41 PM
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The older you get, the harder it is to lock down a woman without kids, ex-baby daddy, divorcee, etc. That's just life, son.

The good ones would be locked down already.

As anyone gets older, they are going to have baggage, so pepper thy angus for it. You'll have baggage, they'll have baggage... it's called life, and the more you live, the more baggage accumulates.

You ready for all that, OP?
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post 1688838533 08-23-2023, 02:43 PM
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nah, its over for you fam, srs
post 1688839233 08-23-2023, 02:57 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Havent expected anything for 15 years and still waiting. this is a really stupid saying IMO
I'm talking about people who actually try BBMG. So it wouldn't apply to you.
post 1688839373 08-23-2023, 03:00 PM
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Originally Posted By DeadlyStriker⏩
I'm talking about people who actually try BBMG. So it wouldn't apply to you.
Uh-oh. Here comes the vacaroo. lol.

BBMG has tried, probably harder than any miscer here.

ANd yah, fuk u all if you think I'm simping for bbmg. don't care. I feel for the boy.
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post 1688839453 08-23-2023, 03:02 PM
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Originally Posted By DeadlyStriker⏩
I'm talking about people who actually try BBMG. So it wouldn't apply to you.
......whatever. so tired of the fukin misc making chit up about me to maintain their narrative
post 1688839503 08-23-2023, 03:03 PM
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Originally Posted By Tuksonrider⏩
Uh-oh. Here comes the vacaroo. lol.

BBMG has tried, probably harder than any miscer here.

ANd yah, fuk u all if you think I'm simping for bbmg. don't care. I feel for the boy.
I'm just tired of them literally making chit up. I've explained my situation and I dont know why they need to completely make up an alternate reality.
post 1688839513 08-23-2023, 03:03 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
What mood do you think I'm in? You just see what you want to see to fit your narrative of men.
It's not my narrative of "men" dude, it's my impression of you based on dozens of doom and gloom posts, repetitive threads, and the fact that you can go from having a decent time out at bars to making a thread saying you want to rope a day later. And it's not a one time thing.
post 1688839563 08-23-2023, 03:04 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
I'm just tired of them literally making chit up. I've explained my situation and I dont know why they need to completely make up an alternate reality.
...because misc.

Literally the land of autists and retards.
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post 1688839573 08-23-2023, 03:04 PM
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Originally Posted By Tuksonrider⏩
The older you get, the harder it is to lock down a woman without kids, ex-baby daddy, divorcee, etc. That's just life, son.

The good ones would be locked down already.

As anyone gets older, they are going to have baggage, so pepper thy angus for it. You'll have baggage, they'll have baggage... it's called life, and the more you live, the more baggage accumulates.

You ready for all that, OP?
No I'm not

Fuuuuuuuuuuuarrrrrkkk
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
No I'm not

Fuuuuuuuuuuuarrrrrkkk
tours over, boyo
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a lot of my ~30 year old friends are dating ~23-25 year old girls.

its the guys who still go out a lot and put themselves out there though..
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Originally Posted By DeadlyStriker⏩
Life never works out like you expect.

But envy is the thief of joy. Just be grateful for what you have and what is good in your life, work towards being better in every way, and enjoy life in the meantime. Usually something good happens when you least expect it.
Yup

I gotta stop all this imaging what it would be like if we stayed together...and things like that

It's pointless now
post 1688839753 08-23-2023, 03:07 PM
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Originally Posted By bicmane102⏩
a lot of my ~30 year old friends are dating ~23-25 year old girls.

its the guys who still go out a lot and put themselves out there though..
I've just recently added bar maxing in

Man , if I could just get a decent mid 20s girl again
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Originally Posted By Tuksonrider⏩
tours over, boyo
So there's little chance of meeting someone a bit younger and having her relatively bagage free ?


But yeah I know what you mean was on fb dating yesterday messaging a 25 year with 3 kids

Woke up today thinking like wtf were u even thinking ? Lol
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
So there's little chance of meeting someone a bit younger and having her relatively bagage free ?


But yeah I know what you mean was on fb dating yesterday messaging a 25 year with 3 kids

Woke up today thinking like wtf were u even thinking ? Lol
ONLY 3?! Put a ring on it.

LOL. srs





not srs......








little srs.
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Originally Posted By Rebel012⏩
It's not my narrative of "men" dude, it's my impression of you based on dozens of doom and gloom posts, repetitive threads, and the fact that you can go from having a decent time out at bars to making a thread saying you want to rope a day later. And it's not a one time thing.
wtf does having a decent time out at the bar have to do with being depressed 1 week later about constant sexlessness and loneliness?

2 things can be true at once. i'm a human being. I can have a fun day today, and then tomorrow feel chitty about something.

I'm a human being you autist loser.
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