I wouldn’t cheat unless my wife stops having sex with you. You have a right to cheat if she does. Ded fkn srs

A man with options is gonna cheat at some point u low t incel

It's just fking sex get over it

You know very well that I am a married millionaire in NYC. So why losers like you project their low standards and personal problems is beyond me.

Or do you enjoy being reminded of your place? Triggered since you're a cheater? Get help srs.

My guess is most people project their feelings onto others. I think most people have a conscience, but perhaps I'm wrong. Some people listen to it better than others, that's for sure.

I know I would feel guilty and I think most of the people around me would, too. I'd certainly try not to be involved romantically with someone who could cheat without guilt. That kind of goes without saying, but when I see the problems some people have in their relationships it's pretty obvious that values/morals weren't given nearly as much consideration as they should have been.

Never knew u were a millionaire never asked and don't care


And I'm not triggered, you can't relate so there's litterely a waste of time trying explain to you

You are the one that needs explaining to.

If you think that every married man who has options cheats, you're projecting. And you're not married, hence your need to learn more before speaking.

That projection is only done by folks coping. E.g., "if a man has options he cheats".

Factually incorrect. Or is every man in a committed relationship making 400k+ a cheater? Options aplenty in NYC, especially if you have money.

Women flock to this city hoping to marry a millionaire and have for decades.

I'm available wednesdays and Saturday nights for your wife to come by, brah. Wait, what?

"Coworker".

I know it is a Misc thing but you know me well enough by now breh.

Why would I cheat, on a woman I met when I was 30 and had rampaged around the world already before her?

I think some folks aren't cut out for monogamy so when they let down their guard like this colleague of mine did their world is shattered.

Oh, I agree, lots of people with options stay faithful.

To be more clear I was responding to SS wondering why people assume that cheaters will feel guilty. I think most (not all) people assume that others think like they think and have values that are similar to their own. I know I do it to a degree, and I even though I know I do it, it's hard not to. I think that's partly what got her in trouble with her ex husband. She wasn't capable of recognizing how different he thought versus how she thought.

in my past i did & got away but would never with my future partner. got to act how you want to be treated. lucky the girl doesn't have trauma based on my idiocrasy

I get your point. I don't "project" my values; I expect them. So my social circle is tight with people who hold the same value systems, even if we are spread over the USA and the world.

Just like a bad relationship I "sever" people from my life who don't share my values srs.

Isn't this the crux of it?

Sometimes I wonder why folks who cheat, e.g., this colleague of mine - why not go home and ask your partner to edge you off? Or are some folks not that open with their partners even after years?

Well that's my situation but I've met some married men who say that the wife doesn't have sex with them as much as they want, so they use that as a justification to cheat.

Like she'll only have it once a month so he goes on Bumble to cheat.

Your sin will find you out.

You can be sure of that.

You stopped having sex with your husband, or he stopped having sex with you (and that's why you justify cheating on him for...a decade +?)

Not in the business of cheating but...ignorance is bliss...

It's hard to stay faithful when the other person treats you like crap and you only don't end the relationship/marriage because you think you're strong enough for the both of you to make it work. I honestly still wish I had cheated on my first wife, who was a spoiled kunt that didn't deserve me. Out of any woman I ever was with she deserved it, as I was fuked in the head for awhile after her. I have so many stories about how awful she was it would make your head spin. I could have smashed our neighbor who became our roommate every single day and she would've been none the wiser. Hell, doing so probably would have given me the courage to end my misery a couple of year earlier than I did. Cheating on her would have done me some good at the time because I would've said it's over instead of carrying on a fruitless endeavor.

So under some circumstances like I was under (extreme, very unhappy) I can't fault a cheater. Even though I didn't cheat I couldn't blame someone under the same duress. Because I knew I had been faithful under circumstances no one would have blamed me for stepping out I later felt guilty but only so much when I finally did cheat on a few women. The first one I was with a chick for maybe 2 months, we dated for another 2 months afterward. That one I felt awful about because it was my first time cheating. The next time I didn't even feel guilt because I was a few months into a relationship I was already having second thoughts about. I cheated on her a few times with different women, didn't feel remorse as I discovered she was an alcoholic that had been hiding it well. Her problems overwhelmingly became my problems, plus she stole money from me (and took out bills in my name) so even now I don't feel bad about that one. I could go on, but I think ya get the point.

I have kids now so there's no way I would let myself slip. I've been contacted by former hookups who want to "meet up for a beer" or other pretenses. I know what that means and my wife is pretty awesome so I keep things in check. Every circumstance is different, so every circumstance needs to be evaluated differently as an outsider. There is no one way to view every circumstance. That's childish.

Anyway, OP's friend should reflect on why he paid a sloot to give him a handjob. If he feels guilty he's likely unhappy in his relationship and wants to give himself reasons to end it.

Dude you're so sensitive and insecure it's hilarious

True, this is why Liberals lose their $hit when they run into opposing viewpoints. It just doesn't occur to them that there is any way but the degen Lib way: Love, Cheat, Leave, Repeat.

new is exciting and fun. doesnt seem wrong when youre the one doing it but hurts if its done against you so i would never do it to a girl again. shameful of it but cant take it back

youre the first autistic girl so no one cares. every girl is autistic by nature but you found a way to be more autistic

sounds like he ft.knoxed his jimjams for when he finds out about her inev future betrayal srs

He keeps telling me his life story and I've never asked for it and I don't believe him either


He lame annoying and autistic wouldn't be surprised if hesa a virgin tbh

worst nightmare fuel