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Thread: Is it possible to be content alone and incel?

post 1699820003 03-27-2024, 10:51 PM
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no. its one of those things youll have sour grapes forever. i think its better to acknowledge being butthurt about it instead of pretening to be fine.
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Originally Posted By DustinTheHuss⏩
You say that but I'm not sure if that's necessarily true.

You won't go for fat women so perhaps they don't want to go for someone they aren't attracted to. Why force yourself to have sex with some groce old dude?
If only there were some way to not be fat stfu
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Originally Posted By Basedbaby⏩
If only there were some way to not be fat stfu
It's harder for people over 50.

Not saying it's impossible. But it feels a million times harder than it was in my 20s, mostly because I have no energy now.
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Originally Posted By eod8989⏩
I don't know how anyone is communicating or having relationships. I get it that some people are just born into money and social status and stuff like that. But i don't get how the other 60-80% are having any success. It's gotten so bad lately that i don't even leave the house unless i wanna drive around or something. I've stopped all social activities. I don't know what the cheat code is and we are playing on Ninja Gaiden difficulty here.
Planning to some expirementation next week, will report back with findings.
post 1699821093 03-27-2024, 11:31 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Has anyone done it or done it? I''ve been trying and its just hard to sustain consistently.

I'm sure some people who have had their fair share of women can eventually be content without. But as an incel with barely any experience I'm starting to feel like its not even possible to be content like this.

And if thats the case im truly screwed as I've potentially got decades more life this way and I'd like to enjoy it.
Incel is the key word here and it implies that something is missing. So the answer is no. If you just meant celibate then the answer is yes.

One of the key tenets of a fulfilled life is positive relationships and that can be accomplished by having a healthy relationship with yourself.

However, if you are seeking a relationship with some other human but that is unfulfilled then you won't be completely happy.
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Originally Posted By usersignup2⏩
Incel is the key word here and it implies that something is missing. So the answer is no. If you just meant celibate then the answer is yes.

One of the key tenets of a fulfilled life is positive relationships and that can be accomplished by having a healthy relationship with yourself.

However, if you are seeking a relationship with some other human but that is unfulfilled then you won't be completely happy.
Happiness is an American myth and lie used to sell consumer goods. It's a fleeting thing. No one is "happy". Life is suffering and struggle. We should try to make it less miserable.To be "happy" in a world full of poverty, disease, and injustice is to be a sociopath. And that is what American civilization fundamentally is: a society founded on sociopathic values that dehumanize people. You're supposed to be miserable and mad. Because this system is manmade. It wasn't given by some divine being. It is imposed upon you by chitty people who seek to do chitty things out of greed and boredom.
post 1699821433 03-27-2024, 11:39 PM
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Originally Posted By uneducated⏩
Happiness is an American myth and lie used to sell consumer goods. It's a fleeting thing. No one is "happy". Life is suffering and struggle. We should try to make it less miserable.To be "happy" in a world full of poverty, disease, and injustice is to be a sociopath. And that is what American civilization fundamentally is: a society founded on sociopathic values that dehumanize people. You're supposed to be miserable and mad. Because this system is manmade. It wasn't given by some divine being. It is imposed upon you by chitty people who seek to do chitty things out of greed and boredom.
how do you know no one is "happy"? You've experienced the life experience of all 7-8 billion people on this planet?
post 1699821513 03-27-2024, 11:41 PM
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Originally Posted By 6gorillion⏩
how do you know no one is "happy"? You've experienced the life experience of all 7-8 billion people on this planet?
Have you ever met a happy person? People experience happiness. Just like they experience fear and doubt and anger. It isn't a permanent state of being or a goal in itself. Happiness is itself brought by stimuli. And your brain adapts to stimuli. If you keep pursuing happiness, this is isomorphic to greed. Nothing will satisfy you eventually, and you will keep chasing more highs because you will become accustomed to the experiences you already have.

Ever interacted with really young children? I remember a cousin visited us with his young 3 year old child. It was hot outside, so I turned on a fan. The kid was AMAZED by such a simple piece of technology. He ran around the room jumping with joy, excited at the idea of a fan. I am sure he was happy in that moment. I am sure that when he becomes a teenager, if someone turns on a fan, it will mean nothing to him. He will have adapted and gotten used to it.
post 1699821633 03-27-2024, 11:45 PM
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Originally Posted By uneducated⏩
Have you ever met a happy person? People experience happiness. Just like they experience fear and doubt and anger. It isn't a permanent state of being or a goal in itself.
idk man my friend that has supercars and a nice house and fks hot bimbo blondes every weekend seems pretty damn happy
post 1699821693 03-27-2024, 11:47 PM
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post 1699821713 03-27-2024, 11:48 PM
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Originally Posted By 6gorillion⏩
idk man my friend that has supercars and a nice house and fks hot bimbo blondes every weekend seems pretty damn happy
He SEEMS happy. Why do you think he is chasing so many different women and collecting so many cars? He wants more and more and MORE because his ape brain has adapted to what he has.

The pursuit of happiness is bullchit. We should pursue a better future for humanity. We should pursue a better understanding of this universe. We could hack our way into a state of happiness with drugs. It won't solve anything. An emotional state is not a fuking goal.

This is my biggest issue with America really. The Soviets had a direction. Even the nazis had a direction. America has no mission. It simply wants to promote liberty and happiness. But that is stagnation and greed. That is not bettering humanity. America tangentially does this by promoting science and technology, but it isn't part of the core mission the way it was in the USSR. We don't have a core mission beyond letting people feel free to do whatever to try to be "happy". But that's not important in the grand scheme. Perhaps we should be unhappy and struggle for a purpose.
post 1699821873 03-27-2024, 11:52 PM
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Originally Posted By uneducated⏩
He SEEMS happy. Why do you think he is chasing so many different women and collecting so many cars?
c'mon wincel, cut out the cope bro.
post 1699822073 03-27-2024, 11:57 PM
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Originally Posted By 6gorillion⏩
c'mon wincel, cut out the cope bro.
Elon Musk is on antidepressants. Neither Bill Gates nor Bezos could save their marriages. Studies routinely show that wealthier countries have higher depression rates. And it's because of the sociopathic system.
post 1699822163 03-27-2024, 11:59 PM
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Originally Posted By uneducated⏩
Elon Musk is on antidepressants. Neither Bill Gates nor Bezos could save their marriages. Studies routinely show that wealthier countries have higher depression rates. And it's because of the sociopathic system.
fuk those kunts, those are just over achieving *******s that are so insanely genius level that their brains literally don't have the capacity to be happy. all they can think of is "money graph must go higher"
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Originally Posted By 6gorillion⏩
fuk those kunts, those are just over achieving *******s that are so insanely genius level that their brains literally don't have the capacity to be happy. all they can think of is "money graph must go higher"
It's simply normal for people to get used to their surroundings. They adapt to situations and become accustomed to things. We are biological machines.
post 1699822703 03-28-2024, 12:14 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
I want to make the most of my situation.
Does that involve not asking out women who are interested in you?

What you actually want is to have endless options. Be honest.
post 1699822813 03-28-2024, 12:19 AM
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Originally Posted By Rebel012⏩
Does that involve not asking out women who are interested in you?

What you actually want is to have endless options. Be honest.
He wants meaning. He thinks love will give him that meaning. He will be shocked to discover it will not.
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Is it possible? Yes.
Is it possible for op? Probably not
post 1699829253 03-28-2024, 06:15 AM
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Originally Posted By davik⏩
no. its one of those things youll have sour grapes forever. i think its better to acknowledge being butthurt about it instead of pretening to be fine.
You would never deny being butthurt. Nobody wants to be alone. But theres a difference between enjoying life anyway and being miserable
post 1699829293 03-28-2024, 06:16 AM
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Originally Posted By uneducated⏩
He wants meaning. He thinks love will give him that meaning. He will be shocked to discover it will not.
I will never discover anything cause I'll never experience it.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
You would never deny being butthurt. Nobody wants to be alone. But theres a difference between enjoying life anyway and being miserable
Did you read what I told you? I am probably the only person here with the lived experience to teach you how to get through this. I am telling you to find your purpose and will in the fight to liberate your people. You need to stop trying to conform to America and stop trying to live the American lie sold to you.
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Originally Posted By Rebel012⏩
Does that involve not asking out women who are interested in you?
if we're both interested sure, if only one of us is, no.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
I will never discover anything cause I'll never experience it.
Perhaps. Perhaps not. It's irrelevant to your existence. You can and should go on anyway and not squander your life here.
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Originally Posted By 6gorillion⏩
idk man my friend that has supercars and a nice house and fks hot bimbo blondes every weekend seems pretty damn happy
A lot of people are surprised when their totally happy friend ropes themselves
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Originally Posted By uneducated⏩
You can and should go on anyway and not squander your life here.
Yea I agree its just fuking hard obviously. Never in hell did I think I'd still be struggling with this chit in my 30s
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No. it is not possible. /thread?
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Originally Posted By usersignup2⏩
Incel is the key word here and it implies that something is missing. So the answer is no. If you just meant celibate then the answer is yes.

One of the key tenets of a fulfilled life is positive relationships and that can be accomplished by having a healthy relationship with yourself.

However, if you are seeking a relationship with some other human but that is unfulfilled then you won't be completely happy.
Glad to see not everyone here is a troll. Nice post.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Yea I agree its just fuking hard obviously. Never in hell did I think I'd still be struggling with this chit in my 30s
It is hard. And the road is long and painful. But like I said, it IS your burden to bear. Your parents have protected you from the reality of this world, but now you must take up the fight and take up the cause. The struggle to liberate your people is not even close to over. It has barely begun. And you will find meaning and purpose in that.
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Originally Posted By uneducated⏩
Have you ever met a happy person? People experience happiness. Just like they experience fear and doubt and anger. It isn't a permanent state of being or a goal in itself. Happiness is itself brought by stimuli. And your brain adapts to stimuli. If you keep pursuing happiness, this is isomorphic to greed. Nothing will satisfy you eventually, and you will keep chasing more highs because you will become accustomed to the experiences you already have.

Ever interacted with really young children? I remember a cousin visited us with his young 3 year old child. It was hot outside, so I turned on a fan. The kid was AMAZED by such a simple piece of technology. He ran around the room jumping with joy, excited at the idea of a fan. I am sure he was happy in that moment. I am sure that when he becomes a teenager, if someone turns on a fan, it will mean nothing to him. He will have adapted and gotten used to it.
Content is more of the baseline people are looking for. All feelings are fleeting. But at every point in time you are feeling something. So strive to feel peace, content, happiness, gratitude, etc. Ive found that putting myself in places that cause me to struggle (like you mentioned earlier) allows me to experience the other baseline. Struggle a lot for 1.5 hours........spend of the of the rest of your 10 hours awake feeling content or seeing things with gratitude.
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OP you have to realize that sex isn't everything.
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