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08-22-2024, 04:25 AM
#121
Originally Posted By hydraides⏩
Lmao she's cheating
call her few times everyday, every afternoon /evening
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08-22-2024, 04:26 AM
#122
It's over. No telling how many ropes he's already slung over her back.
08-22-2024, 04:45 AM
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It’s his turn now.
08-22-2024, 04:50 AM
#124
Would have to see a pic of the girlfriend to know for sure. If she's at all attractive guaranteed he's at least thinking about it.
Watch for texting - especially under a different name (girls like to have female names for guys they are cheating with in their phones) and anything like spending time with him outside the gym. There's lots of pretty obvious signs if you're not oblivious.
Watch for texting - especially under a different name (girls like to have female names for guys they are cheating with in their phones) and anything like spending time with him outside the gym. There's lots of pretty obvious signs if you're not oblivious.
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08-22-2024, 04:54 AM
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08-22-2024, 05:21 AM
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Lets say you were a personal trainer - or a real estate agent, or whatever -, and had a hot female as a client, you would expect her to trust you right?
Dude is just doing this job. Let them be. If he makes a pass at her, she will tell you. Until then, don't intervene.
Also, are you absoutely certain your girlfriend is so attractive that this dude would risk losing his job for inappropriate behaviour? Not to be an ass, but somehow i doubt that,
Dude is just doing this job. Let them be. If he makes a pass at her, she will tell you. Until then, don't intervene.
Also, are you absoutely certain your girlfriend is so attractive that this dude would risk losing his job for inappropriate behaviour? Not to be an ass, but somehow i doubt that,
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08-22-2024, 05:25 AM
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I would try talking to her. No way I would be okay with this.
Maybe you gota go NC if she doesnt listen.
Maybe you gota go NC if she doesnt listen.
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08-22-2024, 05:47 AM
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Op clearly you see the response from misc here. I know it’s hard to accept, believe me I just got dumped a few weeks ago and didn’t listen to the misc at first. You should leave her and go NC. It ll be hard but leave her from a position of strength.
Be honest here OP. She is doing other things that show she is losing respect for you too. It didn’t just start with the trainer. Can you share with us other things she is doing that are just off?
I can tell you, her claiming the trainer is gay and she ll stop soon sounds like bs. Is she lying to you now too??
Be honest here OP. She is doing other things that show she is losing respect for you too. It didn’t just start with the trainer. Can you share with us other things she is doing that are just off?
I can tell you, her claiming the trainer is gay and she ll stop soon sounds like bs. Is she lying to you now too??
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08-22-2024, 05:57 AM
#129
Originally Posted By Godfrd824⏩
This.
Tell her that, maybe don't tell her it undermines you, because that sounds beta. It's unfortunate that you even have to tell her at all, but now is the time to establish boundaries.
Also, there is absolutely zero need or reason for the trainer to actually put hands on her to help her stretch.
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08-22-2024, 05:57 AM
#130
If your girl had any respect for you she would have switched to a female PT or asked you to train her. You could try talking to her, because just maybe, she doesn’t realize that it’s disrespectful and won’t call you insecure so she can justify cheating.
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08-22-2024, 06:01 AM
#131
Lettuce be real tea for once.
Honestly Opie the misc was the last place you should of came looking for advice on this matter.. majority of the guys here aren't in relationships, have porn brain and spend a lot of time watching red pill podcasts. If you honestly don't trust her, leave her. You're only going to stress yourself out. Just tell her you don't trust her around other men and that should if your not going to do it, make her kill the relationship for you.
Honestly Opie the misc was the last place you should of came looking for advice on this matter.. majority of the guys here aren't in relationships, have porn brain and spend a lot of time watching red pill podcasts. If you honestly don't trust her, leave her. You're only going to stress yourself out. Just tell her you don't trust her around other men and that should if your not going to do it, make her kill the relationship for you.
08-22-2024, 06:05 AM
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Maybe I’m pessimistic, but I don’t believe you can trust women beyond a point. They are way too emotionally erratic in general.
If she’s in close proximity with an attractive (?) likable guy on a consistent basis, who’s to say an she won’t develop and emotional connection to him that could blossom into something more? First comes the harmless flirting, then the fantasies, then the lapse in your relationship, then..
If she’s in close proximity with an attractive (?) likable guy on a consistent basis, who’s to say an she won’t develop and emotional connection to him that could blossom into something more? First comes the harmless flirting, then the fantasies, then the lapse in your relationship, then..
08-22-2024, 06:09 AM
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08-22-2024, 06:12 AM
#134
Keep your option open bro. Its not the fact that she is using a trainer(that isnt a concern really), its the fact that she is dismissing your feelings. No respect means cheating or breakup around the corner.
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08-22-2024, 06:14 AM
#135
Originally Posted By hydraides⏩
Well I talked to her about it
She said nearly all PTs in gym are male (probably true from what I saw but maybe a few females there also)
And this PT was first one to sign her up for a trial so she said she went with him
She said he’s gay and has boyfriend (who knows if it’s true or if she’s lying though)
She also said she will stop sessions soon anyway because not enough money (but who also knows if true)
Now it feels like I’m micromanaging and controlling the relationship lol which is never good.
She said nearly all PTs in gym are male (probably true from what I saw but maybe a few females there also)
And this PT was first one to sign her up for a trial so she said she went with him
She said he’s gay and has boyfriend (who knows if it’s true or if she’s lying though)
She also said she will stop sessions soon anyway because not enough money (but who also knows if true)
Now it feels like I’m micromanaging and controlling the relationship lol which is never good.
Why do you not live with her after 3 years of being together?
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