I dunno man, it's a bad thing to say but this one is different than many I have met over the past few months. By different I just mean personality wise. Physically she isn't a whole lot to write home about but she understands my humor 100% and we just have a great time. I've never had that much compatibility with someone else.



Nah man, I'm sure there will be something that happens that makes the thread continue. I was at this point with a girl very early in my last log and we are all the way here, so what does that tell you?



Just in the nick of time! Things were looking precarious there for a moment. I'm so relieved. She was like "oh, we're actually going to do it tonight?" and it made me laugh pretty hard.



I'm at that point, too. I just can't be bothered anymore. I know what I like and know rather quickly what I want. Most girls don't have the x factor I'm looking for and a lot of it becomes exhausting like what you're experiencing. I feel like my last few months are like your last few days tbh.

And yeah, I'm trying my best to be careful here. I mean, I'm not seeing her now for at least a week so that'll do... something for whatever it is we have going on, but I'm not the kind of dude to text her every day, anyway. I already know where I want things to go between us, however I'm still just trying to be the same guy I was before I met her. I'll be honest and say I have no interest in anyone else from Bumble/Tinder/real life or anything, though. I can't fight that. If I'm spending time with a woman at this point, it's with her or I'm doing other things. It's just a strange feeling I have only had a few times before. A good one, but dangerous, I'll agree.

Hoping for the best. So far, outside of my one failure, I'd say I've done a good job.

Man with good women you don't have to hold back and play all these games, like the one week thing. Actually, games works the opposite way and will reduce interest. Great job though man, I'm proud of you!

Hope everyone is good I got a lot of pages I missed here. Just got back from Nicaragua...a much poorer country than Brazil was and virtually no good looking women (health epidemic, lots of obesity, water is more money than soda...) Learned how to surf! super fun. Only good looking women were other travelling ones. Was good times!

Anyways i'll catch up on all your current places fellas! stay cool

Okay boys, just got home.

I had my first baseball game this afternoon with my team. We lost pretty badly, so not a good way to set the tone for the night.

I went to pick us up some sushi and I also bought her cat a little toy to occupy herself with. I got there and greeted her with a kiss. She had texted me before I got there to warn me that she was in a "pissy mood," which worried me because I expected her to be cold or distant or whatever after that qualifier. However, after getting there, everything was as it normally was. I bought too much sushi purposefully because she isn't too well-off financially and I wanted to make sure she had food for tomorrow.

So we sat around and watched a few episodes of Catfish and just talked about different things. She's very easy to make laugh, for sure. At a certain point she got up to go to the bathroom and I stood up and kept watching tv. She came back into the main room, I faced her, we just joked back and forth for a sec, and then I picked her up and carried her to the bed.

We went heavy on the foreplay and I could already tell that this time was gunna be different. Lots of making out and grinding and then I went down on her, which she seemed unsure about before I started. Once I started, she was mega wet. I didn't go until she came because she asked to get fuucked after a few minutes down there. She was tight as FUUCK, tighter than any girl before her. I struggled to even get it in at first, but eventually I got it in and it was on. We fuucked for probably 12-15 minutes and then she told me to finish wherever I want. I could have kept going but I was sweaty as fuuck. It was awesome.

After that, she invited me to take a shower with her and then we laid down and watched a little more television. After an hour or so she had to pack it in because she has a long day tomorrow, so I tucked her in and made sure to pet the cat before leaving. I told her I couldn't wait to see her again, which I usually do with girls I legit like after a meeting. She said some cute stuff, we kissed for a minute, and then I hit the road.

I don't want to date anyone else at this point. I am so relieved that things went well because for a few days, the limp dick thing was really eating at me. But now, I feel awesome. I am going to vacation in a few days but I caught serious feels now and I'm sorta looking forward to seeing her again more. I'm fuucked.

yess boiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii!!!!!!!!!!!

Yeah dude, it was really good. To be honest, I've had much better sex, but I think it's been a little while for her.

just went back and read brother....you salvaged it like the beauty you are!

I wouldn't be too worried...and ya, as you get older you start to realize it isn't always the best looking chicks that make you feel "good"


also, otaku, saw about that biatch...keep moving gangsta! head up

Yeah dude, definitely got my swagger back. Was a strange feeling I had for a few days, though. And yes, I definitely agree with that. When I was younger it was strictly hot girls all day. But now? I can watch a television show, make jokes, lay around, and just switch between serious and joking bull**** all day long and it's so much better, man. I can't think of a better feeling. It's just nice.

Got back with an old FWB who just broke up with his girlfriend. 26 year old blonde surfer guy. We almost ran into his parents which would have been awkward.

18 orgasms, not bad for 5 months no sex.

My depression is 100% better and I felt that rush of cold air going to my brain for hours afterwards. Therapists can't figure that one out, but it only happens if I have sex with someone I'm attracted to and it's great sex.

Now I know I"m a sex addict. SEVERE depression 5 months no sex. When I did this 3 years ago I lasted 4 months and the same: nonstop brain fog and mistakes at work.

I'm surprised he was texting me the past few weeks pretty much daily, as he has girls on his social media, why WK an old geezer?

Yeah dude, definitely got my swagger back. Was a strange feeling I had for a few days, though. And yes, I definitely agree with that. When I was younger it was strictly hot girls all day. But now? I can watch a television show, make jokes, lay around, and just switch between serious and joking bull**** all day long and it's so much better, man. I can't think of a better feeling. It's just nice.

I dunno man, it's a bad thing to say but this one is different than many I have met over the past few months. By different I just mean personality wise. Physically she isn't a whole lot to write home about but she understands my humor 100% and we just have a great time. I've never had that much compatibility with someone else.

The white boys will gladly participate since they're all about gay jokes.

You should really join the military it'll open the doors to gay/innuendo joking...sadly most civilians give you that odd look when you say whats up handsome or stud. Was actually quite hard trying out a normal civilian job, I gave up and took up contracting so I could retain the lingo and certain way of life, and no I am not gay, it is just a form of bonding with your fellow brothers.

You should really join the military it'll open the doors to gay/innuendo joking...sadly most civilians give you that odd look when you say whats up handsome or stud. Was actually quite hard trying out a normal civilian job, I gave up and took up contracting so I could retain the lingo and certain way of life, and no I am not gay, it is just a form of bonding with your fellow brothers.

Curious, a big sticking point with other women was the fact that you do not want kids. What's different with this woman or have you just not talked about it yet?

Good to see you are still going Vick. My (awesome) relationship that you may remember me bringing up about 6 months ago has crashed and burned, suddenly, without warning. I will be following you again, hopefully it will get me out of the funk.

Funny thing is I did try to join the Army years ago but I got disqualified because the waiver for my eyes didn't go through. But besides that, I read up alot about the military and I know alot of you guys are about those gay joking life lol.

Oh we can bang out that eye issue brah

The return of the Young Buck Chaser

Giving into temptation.

You should really join the military it'll open the doors to gay/innuendo joking...sadly most civilians give you that odd look when you say whats up handsome or stud. Was actually quite hard trying out a normal civilian job, I gave up and took up contracting so I could retain the lingo and certain way of life, and no I am not gay, it is just a form of bonding with your fellow brothers.

^^^ maybe trying to join is like trying to get girls if you keep approaching and doing it over and over again they will eventually let you in.

How have you been in the hospital more times then I have when the (military) qualifications are super strict? I have tried joining several times even though the last few I knew they were going to say no.

Something happened that forced you to quit and go to normal work life?

I am actually a little jealous of you brahs, I know I will never get the opportunity to join and I will never out do my step grandpa who served 51 years. I have that feeling of never being good enough regardless of what you do. + in my area all of you get the cream of the crop girls.

Brah if you get disqualified from joining a branch, that's it....you're disqualified. You can't join. That's what the recruiter and people on military forums said. Plus you got back issues and mental issues, they ain't letting you in lol

the only reason they disqualified me from every branch is because I rely on medication to prevent me from having seizures.

I didn't have bad back issues when I was younger. Also mental issues? They won't let me in because I am down that I cannot get girls? I know a retired marine a year older then me who sucks with girls to lol. I don't think that part would hurt me to much.

Didn't you say you had a mental illness before?

That's good. One common trend I've been seeing with women my age w/out kids is that they didn't want kids when they were younger, but did when they got older, but their husbands kept giving them reasons why it wasn't a good time until It's was pretty much too late. It's pretty ****ed up because I can see how sad they are that they didn't have kids. These guys basically stole motherhood from them.

So just really make sure you are on the same page about never having kids and you don't be that guy where she thinks it could still happen.