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I refuse to believe people over 21 lives with their parents
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Originally Posted By BetaThanU⏩
But at what cost? your youthI put 100k in the bank staying at my parents
Originally Posted By XXLAFLAME⏩
I'm sure my AVI is highly relevant in this discussion. Well i guess most people are deemed to be failures/low end of the chain.Came in expecting no avy leaving satisfied
Welcome to the real world OP most ppl don't move out until they are in their mid/late 20's nothing new or surprising
Welcome to the real world OP most ppl don't move out until they are in their mid/late 20's nothing new or surprising
06-29-2016, 03:31 AM
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I could imagine myself living with my parents if they were rich and had a large house, with my own section of the house.
That said that wasnt obviously my case.
I couldnt live with my parents simply because at some point I went insane living with them.
There is a point I think when you get too old, and you just want your own life, it becomes untenable.
That said that wasnt obviously my case.
I couldnt live with my parents simply because at some point I went insane living with them.
There is a point I think when you get too old, and you just want your own life, it becomes untenable.
06-29-2016, 03:34 AM
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06-29-2016, 07:13 AM
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would be simi retired if i stayd at home with my parents. saved my money and sold my car or didnt buy my car and bought a house instead... would have at least 2 houses by now...
I wish i just had someone tell me the right way as i never had an older or younger sibling.
cant go being a sad kunt but im just posting based on this topic.
pretty lucky tbh but times have changed, jobs, population and requirements making it harder.
Since we dont go to war anymore.. we dont know how to deal with this.
I wish i just had someone tell me the right way as i never had an older or younger sibling.
cant go being a sad kunt but im just posting based on this topic.
pretty lucky tbh but times have changed, jobs, population and requirements making it harder.
Since we dont go to war anymore.. we dont know how to deal with this.
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06-29-2016, 09:13 AM
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Originally Posted By thehypocrit⏩
I got a FT job working at a steel fabrication shop the summer after high school. I worked there for almost 9 years and we never went below 50 hrs a week, I started off making $6.25 and by the time I left I was making $13. This is in California mind you, **** has never been cheap here, me and my two best friends moved into a house in which our rent was $900 for a 2 bedroom. I went to school at night and yes it took me quite a while to finish but I did it on my own with minimum debt, I went to JC my first two years and a CSU the last 2. I graduated in 2009 because I never fully committed to just going to school, I always wanted to be on my own and have my own money to do whatever I wanted at any moment. My life has never been easy but I've never complained because it's the one I chose, I see my parents almost daily but it's not to make me food or wash my clothes, it's to enjoy their company as adults and my family.elaborate on what?
The fact that in your life time it was a lot easier to rent and be independent but you guys ****ed it up by destroying the economy..
Now you old ****s have the gawe to complain that people don't move out at 18? lol
The fact that in your life time it was a lot easier to rent and be independent but you guys ****ed it up by destroying the economy..
Now you old ****s have the gawe to complain that people don't move out at 18? lol
All I hear is "I'll save money" or "I need to be comfortable before I move out", it's that everyone gets a trophy mentality, life isn't always easy or "walk-in ready". Struggling is a good part of life, especially early on, it really does set you on the right path for the rest of your days.
06-29-2016, 09:33 AM
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Originally Posted By Woogiefied⏩
Yeah, then the question is when it enough? Get so use to being in that comfort zone, year after year, and relying on mommy and daddy...like I said I think there is a middle ground, but Im honestly surprised (even though its the Misc) at how many like 25+ are in this thread and seem to have absolutely 0 shame about being rotters at their parent's house. This is the same place where everyone and their brother is claiming to be CEOing, "Master race" and "lol at not making 100k by 25" types.I got a FT job working at a steel fabrication shop the summer after high school. I worked there for almost 9 years and we never went below 50 hrs a week, I started off making $6.25 and by the time I left I was making $13. This is in California mind you, **** has never been cheap here, me and my two best friends moved into a house in which our rent was $800 for a 2 bedroom. I went to school at night and yes it took me quite a while to finish but I did it on my own with minimum debt, I went to JC my first two years and a CSU the last 2. I graduated in 2009 because I never fully committed to just going to school, I always wanted to be on my own and have my own money to do whatever I wanted at any moment. My life has never been easy but I've never complained because it's the one I chose, I see my parents almost daily but it's not to make me food or wash my clothes, it's to enjoy their company as adults and my family.
All I hear is "I'll save money" or "I need to be comfortable before I move out", it's that everyone gets a trophy mentality, life isn't always easy or "walk-in ready". Struggling is a good part of life, especially early on, it really does set you on the right path for the rest of your days.
All I hear is "I'll save money" or "I need to be comfortable before I move out", it's that everyone gets a trophy mentality, life isn't always easy or "walk-in ready". Struggling is a good part of life, especially early on, it really does set you on the right path for the rest of your days.
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At some point in a man's life being independent from your parents will be a top priority. you can still be independent and live with your parents but the perception from society will be that you are incapable of taking care of yourself. Everyone has a dirfferent situation everyone should do whats best for them.
Leave your ego at the door.
06-29-2016, 10:53 AM
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I don't know where are you located OP, but here in Holland it's fuking expensive to rent. To rent a small apartment not in the middle of nowhere will cost your 1000++ each month. I am not saying it's bad to live alone, but you have to agree it's a massive waste of money.
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before the age of 18 "i love my kid i will do anything for them they are the most important thing in my life"
after the age of 18 "fuk off idiot you are a leech you can support yourself now"
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06-29-2016, 11:04 AM
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For the brahs who are in their upper 20's and still live with their parents, at what age do you plan on moving out? I know I would feel bad if I had a decent job and was capable of moving out, but decided to just stay anyway because it saves me $700-$1000 a month. At some point your parents deserve to fuking get rid of you and be able to enjoy the fruits of their labor, not continue to take care of you because you just want to save money. Seems selfish to me.
This doesn't apply to every brah. If you're 19 and in school, whatever. But lol @ being a grown ass, independent adult, with a career, your own car, and parents for roommates.
inb4 b..bb...but I save more money! You'd also save money if you drove a 1989 Ford Festiva and had a flip phone too, but you wouldn't be proud of it right?
This doesn't apply to every brah. If you're 19 and in school, whatever. But lol @ being a grown ass, independent adult, with a career, your own car, and parents for roommates.
inb4 b..bb...but I save more money! You'd also save money if you drove a 1989 Ford Festiva and had a flip phone too, but you wouldn't be proud of it right?
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06-29-2016, 11:08 AM
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I have a mate who got kicked out of his folk's home at aged 18. He gets super passive-aggressive about this topic whenever it's brought up. Me? I'm comfortably at home with my parents at aged 20 - saving money while still in university, and in zero rush to leave this house. Sure, the freedom would be great, but I prefer the comfiness and financial saving in these times of high house prices.
edit - i'll add that I definitely have more respect for brahs who live on their own. It's a given that it takes that extra initiative to be completely independent as a young adult.
edit - i'll add that I definitely have more respect for brahs who live on their own. It's a given that it takes that extra initiative to be completely independent as a young adult.
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Originally Posted By JMath⏩
lol seriously.For the brahs who are in their upper 20's and still live with their parents, at what age do you plan on moving out? I know I would feel bad if I had a decent job and was capable of moving out, but decided to just stay anyway because it saves me $700-$1000 a month. At some point your parents deserve to fuking get rid of you and be able to enjoy the fruits of their labor, not continue to take care of you because you just want to save money. Seems selfish to me.
This doesn't apply to every brah. If you're 19 and in school, whatever. But lol @ being a grown ass, independent adult, with a career, your own car, and parents for roommates.
inb4 b..bb...but I save more money! You'd also save money if you drove a 1989 Ford Festiva and had a flip phone too, but you wouldn't be proud of it right?
This doesn't apply to every brah. If you're 19 and in school, whatever. But lol @ being a grown ass, independent adult, with a career, your own car, and parents for roommates.
inb4 b..bb...but I save more money! You'd also save money if you drove a 1989 Ford Festiva and had a flip phone too, but you wouldn't be proud of it right?
Yeah you save money. But you arent any different than a man-child. I understand temporarily moving back in for a specific financial goal. But many years in your 20's with the folks? means you spent over a third of your entire life as a dependent child. u wot m8?
06-29-2016, 11:11 AM
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Originally Posted By AreolaBorealis⏩
I love my mommybefore the age of 18 "i love my kid i will do anything for them they are the most important thing in my life"
after the age of 18 "fuk off idiot you are a leech you can support yourself now"
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06-29-2016, 11:16 AM
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Originally Posted By A6Ibra⏩
Lol'd at the games. "M-mum can you buy me overwatch?"22 and living with parents crew.
Saving 70% of my $32K for my future plans when I get married while right now, I'm using parent money to buy food, clothes, games, gas and so on. U MAD, OP?
Saving 70% of my $32K for my future plans when I get married while right now, I'm using parent money to buy food, clothes, games, gas and so on. U MAD, OP?
06-29-2016, 11:23 AM
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Originally Posted By A6Ibra⏩
inafter you cuck your parents into paying for you22 and living with parents crew.
Saving 80% of my salary ($32K) for my future plans when I get married (hopefully around 26 or 30 max) while right now, I'm using parent money to buy food, clothes, games, gas and so on. U MAD, OP?
Saving 80% of my salary ($32K) for my future plans when I get married (hopefully around 26 or 30 max) while right now, I'm using parent money to buy food, clothes, games, gas and so on. U MAD, OP?
inb4 your future wife cucks you out of the money you saved
inb4 you have to move back in with mom and dad
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06-29-2016, 11:42 AM
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Originally Posted By FunnyWeasel⏩
I graduated in 2010, heard the same ****. I thought the same **** too. "Ooh economys crashing, subprime crisis. Wages are low.. blah blah blah"Its called getting smart. Well newsflash, the apartment developers in my college town are selfish as fuk to begin with by monopolizing the surrounding areas near campus and so I'm forced to stay at home since they raised the prices in the same time frame.
Here's the scoop, I'll move out in 4 years because I'll save up a chit ton of money and live in the luxury condo that happened to get built next to a train track. Can you believe the absurdity? college students take out loans to pay for ever-increasing tuition and those developers, they built a damn luxury condo. who is gonna live there? I'll tell ya who, the students whose parents will pay for the condo. They are the same as me. 2021 its a lot different from 2002 buddy.
I'll struggle in my own way, dude. Not in the old ass way of moving out in the wrong time to make myself a man. Screw that. Its called wising up. Adapting to the environment.
Here's the scoop, I'll move out in 4 years because I'll save up a chit ton of money and live in the luxury condo that happened to get built next to a train track. Can you believe the absurdity? college students take out loans to pay for ever-increasing tuition and those developers, they built a damn luxury condo. who is gonna live there? I'll tell ya who, the students whose parents will pay for the condo. They are the same as me. 2021 its a lot different from 2002 buddy.
I'll struggle in my own way, dude. Not in the old ass way of moving out in the wrong time to make myself a man. Screw that. Its called wising up. Adapting to the environment.
The money that you save by living with your parents isn't worth the experience that you gain by living on your own. You lose so much development by not being independent. Frankly, living on your own probably makes you man enough to get higher paying jobs that more than make up the difference anyways.
But you're in college so cool
06-29-2016, 11:46 AM
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Chiming in on thread again...
For those who prefer to live at home with parents after university is done, I hope you realize that you are limiting your own self-growth and evolution srs
Independence and real-world responsibilities for yourself is key to growing and maturing as an individual
Living within the comfort and security of your parents limits you, my opinion srs
For those who prefer to live at home with parents after university is done, I hope you realize that you are limiting your own self-growth and evolution srs
Independence and real-world responsibilities for yourself is key to growing and maturing as an individual
Living within the comfort and security of your parents limits you, my opinion srs
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moved out at 26 and bought a house at 27.
Didn't enjoy living there for 5 years after getting my degree but 2009 was one of the worst years ever for a recent college grad to find a job. After I finally got a good job I spent a few years saving up for a house. The one year of apartment living was kind of a waste of money but I just couldn't stay at home any longer. I think I maybe have 2 friends who moved out of their parent's house before the age of 23.
If you can do it, do it but if you want to save for a house or are in school and don't want crippling debt there is no shame in living with your parents.
Didn't enjoy living there for 5 years after getting my degree but 2009 was one of the worst years ever for a recent college grad to find a job. After I finally got a good job I spent a few years saving up for a house. The one year of apartment living was kind of a waste of money but I just couldn't stay at home any longer. I think I maybe have 2 friends who moved out of their parent's house before the age of 23.
If you can do it, do it but if you want to save for a house or are in school and don't want crippling debt there is no shame in living with your parents.
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06-29-2016, 12:09 PM
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Living at home at 29 right now with my 3 year old. It's not particularly by choice. Ex-gf royally ****ed me over financially and a house fire two years ago didn't help matters. Credit cards crept up on me being the sole source of income then she started stealing money for drugs (yeah... I'm bitter) Moved back here in October and I can't ****ing stand it. It was bad enough staying there until I was 22 so I could pay for my school out of pocket and have no debt, there's no way in hell I'd be here if not for the spiraling pit of debt that I'm stuck in. I can't wait to get the hell out again.
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Moved out at 18 and have been moving in and out. I suck at life, sorry, can't stand on my own, so I currently live with my mom and have no plans to move out anytime soon.
But I do want to move out again, because I'm tired of having no vagina currently.
But I do want to move out again, because I'm tired of having no vagina currently.
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06-29-2016, 12:13 PM
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Originally Posted By quadfecta⏩
lolJust lol at rentcels trying to make themselves feel better for throwing away $1000 a month that could be saved by living at home
brb don't want to live with their own family
brb want to be independent
brb have to live with 1-3 roommates... strong independence (if not then brb living alone, what's the point when you work 50hrs a week and are barley home)
brb fall for media programming and believe that living with your own family is something negative... obviously "you know who" wants you out on your own, paying off a mortgage/rent, more property taxes, insurance, appliances, furniture, utilities, and all the other bs. Obviously they want to keep the wheels spinning in this hyper-consumerism society of America... turning in you into a slave cuck in order to pay everything off until the day you die.
but nah living with your own fckin family, usually your strongest relationship is something negative lmao
I fully understand moving out if your family sucks and dont get along, or if you have to move for work opportunities, but lmao at every other situation rentcels put themselves into.
06-29-2016, 12:16 PM
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Originally Posted By pwoL⏩
Word.lol
brb don't want to live with their own family
brb want to be independent
brb have to live with 1-3 roommates... strong independence (if not then brb living alone, what's the point when you work 50hrs a week and are barley home)
brb fall for media programming and believe that living with your own family is something negative... obviously "you know who" wants you out on your own, paying off a mortgage/rent, more property taxes, insurance, appliances, furniture, utilities, and all the other bs. Obviously they want to keep the wheels spinning in this hyper-consumerism society of America... turning in you into a slave cuck in order to pay everything off until the day you die.
but nah living with your own fckin family, usually your strongest relationship is something negative lmao
I fully understand moving out if your family sucks and dont get along, or if you have to move for work opportunities, but lmao at every other situation rentcels put themselves into.
brb don't want to live with their own family
brb want to be independent
brb have to live with 1-3 roommates... strong independence (if not then brb living alone, what's the point when you work 50hrs a week and are barley home)
brb fall for media programming and believe that living with your own family is something negative... obviously "you know who" wants you out on your own, paying off a mortgage/rent, more property taxes, insurance, appliances, furniture, utilities, and all the other bs. Obviously they want to keep the wheels spinning in this hyper-consumerism society of America... turning in you into a slave cuck in order to pay everything off until the day you die.
but nah living with your own fckin family, usually your strongest relationship is something negative lmao
I fully understand moving out if your family sucks and dont get along, or if you have to move for work opportunities, but lmao at every other situation rentcels put themselves into.
Inb4 stem vs trade threads gets replaced by this.
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I think a large part of it depends on a few things:
1) The size of the house. If your parents are living in a small house/apartment then even a small 1-bedroom place is going to be an upgrade. If on the other hand your parents have a big ass house it might not be so bad sticking around.
2) If you care about what others think, then your location/the culture there matters. I've only lived in two countries my whole life, England and Poland. Before I left England for Poland it was pretty rare for me to see anyone still living with their parents over the age of say 22-23. Here in Poland it seems like if you're born into a family that live in a small flat/apartment, then you get your ass outta there as soon as you can - but if your family actually have a nice house, sometimes 3+ generations all share the same house, so it's not rly stigmatised the same here. I think my neighbours house == 3 or 4 generations under the same roof.
3) What you're doing with your time there. You're going to be saving a huge amount living at your parents place in most cases - so use that to do something you wouldn't be able to do if you were renting. Save up for a house. Start a business. Do //something// to make use of the advantages you have - otherwise you're just wasting time you could have been independent earlier.
1) The size of the house. If your parents are living in a small house/apartment then even a small 1-bedroom place is going to be an upgrade. If on the other hand your parents have a big ass house it might not be so bad sticking around.
2) If you care about what others think, then your location/the culture there matters. I've only lived in two countries my whole life, England and Poland. Before I left England for Poland it was pretty rare for me to see anyone still living with their parents over the age of say 22-23. Here in Poland it seems like if you're born into a family that live in a small flat/apartment, then you get your ass outta there as soon as you can - but if your family actually have a nice house, sometimes 3+ generations all share the same house, so it's not rly stigmatised the same here. I think my neighbours house == 3 or 4 generations under the same roof.
3) What you're doing with your time there. You're going to be saving a huge amount living at your parents place in most cases - so use that to do something you wouldn't be able to do if you were renting. Save up for a house. Start a business. Do //something// to make use of the advantages you have - otherwise you're just wasting time you could have been independent earlier.
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I moved out at 19 and never returned home. I am definitely in the minority though. I had roommates where we would split rent and I always ended up paying like $350-$400 a month on rent. Honestly it was money well spent. I experienced a ton on my own. I laugh out loud at grown adults that have to answer to their parents. I used to bust my buddies balls all the time because he was like 25 and still had to ask mommy and daddy before he made any decisions.
I have a house and two cars now. I was able to save easy.
The excuses in this thread amaze me. There is no amount meals cooked and laundry done that substitute being able to do whatever you want and to answer to no one.
I have a house and two cars now. I was able to save easy.
The excuses in this thread amaze me. There is no amount meals cooked and laundry done that substitute being able to do whatever you want and to answer to no one.
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Originally Posted By pwoL⏩
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brb don't want to live with their own family
brb want to be independent
brb have to live with 1-3 roommates... strong independence (if not then brb living alone, what's the point when you work 50hrs a week and are barley home)
brb fall for media programming and believe that living with your own family is something negative... obviously "you know who" wants you out on your own, paying off a mortgage/rent, more property taxes, insurance, appliances, furniture, utilities, and all the other bs. Obviously they want to keep the wheels spinning in this hyper-consumerism society of America... turning in you into a slave cuck in order to pay everything off until the day you die.
but nah living with your own fckin family, usually your strongest relationship is something negative lmao
I fully understand moving out if your family sucks and dont get along, or if you have to move for work opportunities, but lmao at every other situation rentcels put themselves into.
brb don't want to live with their own family
brb want to be independent
brb have to live with 1-3 roommates... strong independence (if not then brb living alone, what's the point when you work 50hrs a week and are barley home)
brb fall for media programming and believe that living with your own family is something negative... obviously "you know who" wants you out on your own, paying off a mortgage/rent, more property taxes, insurance, appliances, furniture, utilities, and all the other bs. Obviously they want to keep the wheels spinning in this hyper-consumerism society of America... turning in you into a slave cuck in order to pay everything off until the day you die.
but nah living with your own fckin family, usually your strongest relationship is something negative lmao
I fully understand moving out if your family sucks and dont get along, or if you have to move for work opportunities, but lmao at every other situation rentcels put themselves into.
Also brb doing all the laundry, cleaning, helping on the cooking bc parents are weak and old, and splitting the bills.
Also at price of youth...so men in the 50s and before had no youth? The American dream was to get a nice paying job, live with parents until you find nice girl and move out to a nice house and have kids under one salary while your wife took care of the kids. I swear everything went downhill after the 60s...morally and financially. Now family is shamed and being a cuck to the banks is glorified.
06-29-2016, 02:17 PM
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back in again on this thread some good responses on this page! the confidence and experience you gain will help you immensely if you are independent. Life is not about waiting for the perfect timing. I went to uni at 18, paid for everything myself. graduated and stayed around my college town for a couple more years. My whole family wanted me to come home but instead i started a pressure wash business, landscape lighting business, and hydraulic dolly business in addition to personal training. These are things i def would not have pursued if i was living comfortably at home.
at 23 I Moved to Huntington beach cali with my two best friends who had already moved here. Some of the best times of my life in that 3 bedroom townhouse, paid only 850 for my split of rent. I had no job when i came out here just bout 6k saved up. I grinded it out and made it work. started training at a golds, moved into management at 24. Fast forward 5 years and i am making over six figures running my own training business and gym living in newport coast, one of the most expensive and nicest places in the US. I dont think i would be where i am today if i stayed living with my parents. I wouldnt have the confidence in myself to put everything into my business and risk it all.
Like i said before take away your safety net and see what you are capable of on your own.
at 23 I Moved to Huntington beach cali with my two best friends who had already moved here. Some of the best times of my life in that 3 bedroom townhouse, paid only 850 for my split of rent. I had no job when i came out here just bout 6k saved up. I grinded it out and made it work. started training at a golds, moved into management at 24. Fast forward 5 years and i am making over six figures running my own training business and gym living in newport coast, one of the most expensive and nicest places in the US. I dont think i would be where i am today if i stayed living with my parents. I wouldnt have the confidence in myself to put everything into my business and risk it all.
Like i said before take away your safety net and see what you are capable of on your own.
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06-29-2016, 02:20 PM
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Originally Posted By Woogiefied⏩
I live in a different country than my parents, but I'm sorry if yours wanted to get rid of you as soon as possible. It must be traumatic living in such a household, but there's no need to start insulting people whose parents actually like they gave them birth and would like to keep them around, because they love them.Safe by spending your parents money? That's not safe, it's selfish. Brb my parents paid for me my entire life, what's another 10 years? Acting like your father doesn't want to see his son grow to be a man like he did, struggling is a part of life, a good part at that. It makes you appreciate the things you achieve even more, I can't even understand how some of you guys think mooching off your parents makes you any kind of adult, it's bizarre.
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