Based dad dropping pure unadulterated truth!

Repped for genuinely helping people out.

Read the OP and set it up properly. It's not really an open but it worked this time.

I'll put a different one tomorrow.

OP I got some measly reps if you're willing to help me here. Two scenarios:

1) What's your go-to reply to a girl who says, "You're so cute! I wanna adopt you."? We're both coworkers (restaurant environment) and she has a boyfriend. Her personality is very youthful and she has lots of energy. Very quickminded in her responses. Has a bit of a dirty sense of humor.

2) I work behind the bar counter and occasionally, females stand by and watch me mix their drinks. Sometimes they're attractive, sometimes not. I would love to know how you'd approach with the lines in this situation. Comment on their drink of choice? Maybe notice something in their clothing?

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Ok I'm going to be honest with you. One of my personal boundaries has always been nobody I work with and nobody I do business with so I'm slightly out of my element.

On a side note anytime a girl says I have a BF when you approach her IRL the response you should give is I don't care with a cocky grin.

Back to problem one. My on the spot response to that would be only if I get the bottom bunk and wink at her.

This should probably spark a response from her and you should be able to work a sexual innuendo from there. Does that help. If you give me more info I'll try to personalize it.

#2 Ok you're putting me in a tough spot again so I'll try to help.

You are in a very tricky spot hitting on customers. I would go very conservative there.

I would compliment something non sexual and move slightly to a comment about her physical appearance or personality.

For example. Wow those are really interesting/intricate earrings where'd you get them. Or that's a great color on you it really brings out your eyes. If she takes the bait a little tell her to write contact info down for you and hit her up after work.

I'm sorry boss. Because I've avoided coworkers and customers my whole life I'm a little out of my element. That's the best I have. If you give me more details I'll try.

Perhaps someone who has experience with coworkers will chime in and participate?

Best of luck to you.

Repping OP on sight.

Who cares if he is 47? Clearly this works for him. He's literally drowning in poosay and people still hating on him, LMAO.

Being direct is solid. Take notice, in the OP's first text, after she replied he left it and said nothing, then she double texted him that she was thinking about him. This is key, don't be annoying and clingy.

Can you give me some insight into her personality a bit please?

Altho you may be surprised it could be worth a try you can always recover from it. I'd hit her during the day with I just had the hottest thoughts about you.

But fellas the girl I'm with finally asked are you going to put your phone away and come to bed with me?

So I will be back in the morning. Anybody that wants help is welcome.

Any questions are fine including acts, techniques, sex club stories and what to expect, adventures. I'm an open book.

Mirin life brah. You are living my ideal life at your age, I want to have 1-2 children, stay with their mother until they reach a certain age, then just split with her and fuk sloots for the rest of my days.

PM'd you brah.

Bruh you remind me of my father in law, srs, I swear this fool got a new bitch every time I see him lmao

read the OP. Mirin. Can confirm this works

i dont care about this crap. In for what makes you think you're a sex god. And how to replicate.

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Oh lawd. Look, a 47 year old decent looking guy could literally copy and paste Jason Genova texts and get results if he is chasing desperate 40 year old women, like OP.

For you 20 something FA brahs, don't try this chit on women who still have glow. Srs. They will go NC on you at best, and at worst they will publicly shame you.

What ever happened to saying "Hi, how are you?" and scheduling a place to meet depending on if she said yes or no? Mfers on the misc think human interaction is some 4d chess chit.

This usually comes after. Talking sexually about what you want to do to them, how they drive you insane fantasizing about ****ing them etc, makes them cream their pants. This leads to "let's just skip drinks" scenarios. This is a standard conversation. It establishes or cements the 'relationship' as highly sexual.

What ever happen to falling in love with a ***** with a bus pass?!

Ok well there's a lot of things that makes me think this. One of the main things is all the feedback from women my whole life. Even 20 yrs after the last time I saw them or spoke to them they always mention the sex. Statements like in the last 25 yrs no man has known my body the way you do. To " You know, there are very few people in life who the moment you see them no matter how long it's been you want to have sex with them. You're that type of guy. To a bisexual GF asking you to teach her how to eat pussy like you because she wants to be able to put a girl in the state I put her.

Now yes just taking statements from past lovers could seem suspect I get that. But I was also in the swinging community for two years. In that community people actually write reviews of you the way people write reviews of hotels and restaurants. If I hadn't deleted all that I'd post screenshots. Plus I've performed live in front of enough groups with feedback.

So without going into it I have tons of feedback from multiple sources around the globe. I often will make a woman cum till she can't anymore and or often quicker than she's historically used to.

So all that combines for a lot of confidence. I could go on about accolades but I won't. But as I stated before if you don't believe you're the best going into a situation you can't be.

Again I've had enough honest discussions with women about sex over the years not just those I play with but sitting around talking to women at large swinger events and a lot of high partner count women have the same observations.

A couple are 1. Only about 10% of men are good in bed and only about 6% are great.

2. Just like women most guys have one thing they're good at. Might be PIV, might be oral, Might be digital manipulation etc. What I mean by that is that one thing they do is their bread and butter and everything else is just ok but because of their one thing it's still a good experience.

I'm one of the guys that's really good across the board. A 5 tool player in baseball.

So yes if I take off my confidence hat and step back sure there's guys that might do something better than me but in the overall there's going to be few.

Also if I'm going to be honest am I ever woman's perfect experience? Realistically no. Everybody has bad days. Doesn't matter who it is Tom Brady, Jack Nicholas etc but it doesn't change their overall perception of themselves. This is the biggest thing I'm trying to get across to everyone. Your mental strength. On top of bad days every now and then you're going to just have a mismatch. It has nothing to do with you and is more mathematical variance.

I can get more detailed with this if you like if you need more elaboration.

If you'd like me to discuss actual nuts and bolts about my style, techniques, specific things women have consistently commented on over the years no issue.

IMO OP is on target re:responsive desire and confidence.

Agree the competition for women that age isn't exactly tough. Actual POF text received by a single 40 something female that I know. Hope it was just trolling because, wow, so lame.

Lool. What these guys don't get is the majority of my sexual partners were from when I was 19 to 26. I was married at 27 and not divorced until 41.

These days yeah I have had partners from 22 to 60. But I don't just try to smash hordes and hordes of women at this point in my life.

I probably only sleep with 12 new women in a 12 month period.

But honestly the top 1% of women looks wise at any age are still quite selective. Their standards don't change much from when they were 20.

I have a question leoslayer1, when you started this out, when you were like 19/20, and you psyched yourself in front of your mirror before you went out to a nightclub etc saying you're the best etc, don't you feel you were being a bit inauthentic? Like, not really you? For example, almost like splitting into a different person, sort of like a Tyler Durden - Fight Club type, a lot of the PUA community encourages this kind of splitting but I don't like it. I feel I can do this stuff in front of the mirror, but I become a different person, I don't really feel authentic anymore, like, really me.

Don't you have that issue too?

No I don't have this issue. It's the same thing you teach people just getting into sales.

Now honestly I don't remember looking into a mirror personally I just suggested it because years ago I had to teach people that technique for something else.

I don't think it's inauthentic. Yes I look into the mirror and see a fat average looking guy with big ears. But the instant I'm talking to a woman I KNOW that I'm the sexiest man on the planet. I expect every woman to want to go out with me. Sure some women are too phukin stupid to realize they want to phuck me but that's their problem not mine 😉

BTW there is a difference between being sexy and being physically gorgeous.

Thanks dad

confidence goes a long way

I don't know what your approach was when you were younger and "slaying" women, but for younger brahs, sending graphic erotica to a 22 yr old sloot is a terrible idea unless the guy is in the top 1% of aesthetics or he already has an established relationship with the sloot.

And you may be right that the top 1% of women over 30 are still quite selective in a relative sense, but younger brahs should realize that these women's selection pool is substantially smaller than that of a 22 yr old female. As I said, if you are a male in your 40s who is single, has a decent job, is not overweight, and is not balding, you can literally use Jason Genova's text game and have success. The fact that you are slaying women at your age is a nothing. It is like shooting fish in a barrel. It is like beating up a 7 yr old. Any male with good hair genes can easily meet the other criteria that will give him access to the top 1% of women once he is in his 40s.

Cliffs for younger brahs:
-OPs advice is only relevant if you are in your 40s chasing other older women
-if you use OPs advice in situations outside of the scope of relevancy, it will not end well for you

E. L. James is that you?

You my man are limited by your own thought processes.

You really have no idea how off you are about older women. Chicks that were 9's and 10's in their 20's are super fng picky and because they are still hot they have guys from 20's to 80's still hitting on them.

Also I said this is for a woman you've developed some rapport with. I never said use it as an open.


Also tell me what's the worst that's going to happen? A girl will say no? Oh knows my life is over cause a girl said no.

So how exactly will it end badly?

In for this

Have you ever known someone in your personal life who grew up without their parents and still became successful?

Can you clarify please? Financially? Overall life wise?