GFs Dad wants her to break up with me

06-28-2017, 07:40 AM

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Originally Posted By TheLawDawg⏩

How's it going with the gf, OP? She start to get over it yet?

Thanks for checking in, brah.

It's okay. My girl is acting much more normal with me. But I dropped her home last night and her Dad came outside to give me the finger. So he is still upset for sure. Gonna give it a month or so.

06-28-2017, 08:23 AM

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Originally Posted By TheScapeGOAT⏩

Thanks for checking in, brah.

It's okay. My girl is acting much more normal with me. But I dropped her home last night and her Dad came outside to give me the finger. So he is still upset for sure. Gonna give it a month or so.

Cool - so when are you gunna grow up and learn to handle your alcohol? Don't give me the deflecting "You've never made a mistake excuse" - no chit sherlock ain't no one is perfect but that doesn't mean when we do fuk up there isn't consequences you twit. Learn when it's okay to get blackout chitface drunk and when it's not.

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08-04-2017, 12:39 PM

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Originally Posted By TheScapeGOAT⏩

Dun goofed hard. My GFs family threw a summer BBQ party at their house. They were serving all kinds of alcohol and I tend to keep going once I start. I blacked out at some point during the party and came to in my bed the next day. My GF left a note that said "call me." When I got her on the phone she told me that I got so drunk that I started pissing on the bonfire and horrified all her parents guests. I tried calling her father but he just told me to end it with his daughter and if I ever go to house he will knock me out and start pissing on me.

I'm still with my GF but I'm worried. I don't know what will happen. Surely he can't stay mad for ever? I'm thinking about letting some time pass and then ask him to grab a beer for a formal apology.

If you both really love each other - love will in time be placed above everything OP - even if the frostyness lasts between your and your GFs Dad

The best and only thing you can do is apologize for the events that day, may-be buy her Mother some nice Flowers/Choccies or Wine or a Plant is good that could appeal to both the Mother and Dad or a small Meal in a pub if your expenses can run to it!

I am not saying act smooth (though between us) I guess it can appear this way, bvut you need to get your GFs Mum on-side and then she goes to her Hubby "oh is'nt that a nice Plant/or nice bottle of Wine" etc and you have them on side then!!

08-04-2017, 12:43 PM

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Didn't read entire thread but as a father with a daughter (fml) I would have done the same thing your GFs dad did.

08-04-2017, 12:44 PM

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Post up on his roof and piss on him first when he walks out of his house.

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