i agree, out of the half dozen random sloots i smashed this year, it was only barely worth the hassle 1 time. but sex with main girl is consistently top notch.

it really depends on the quality of the girl and the connection.. and you're unlikely to connect with a quality girl on a one night stand

You can thank the invention of the birth control pill for that. However society does shift.

I was a teenager in the 80s and the scare of AIDS ended the sexual revolution, and we all pretty much had relationships. We were scared to death of AIDS as people were dying and we didn't know much about it, other than it could be transmitted via sex and intravenously. There wasn't much casual sex at all because of that fear.

Today people just assume HIV is a gay disease and don't even want to use condoms, and birth control is withdrawal or Plan B. Something else will shift behaviors back because Tinder is resulting in a huge increase in chlamydia and syphilis.

I feel you bro but I find flaws in everyone.


Really like the current the girl I'm seeing, but she had an abortion and I can't get past that.

I think maybe you have to have a certain level of narcissism or psychopathy in you. Yeah, the sex may suck... but people do it anyway.

Most of the girls I banged would get attached and start getting clingy or wanting something more, including one who was a stripper. But I'd maintain my position, get off on the attention, string them along, use them for sex and shut them down when they started wanting to do things like go out in public during the day on a relationship-type 'date'.

My experience has been that if I like a girl for relationship material, I know within 1-2 dates. It's a sort of subconscious feeling. I made things with my current gf serious after two dates.

If I don't feel it it's staying casual and I don't feel any odd thoughts about it and certainly not enough to create a thread about it.

relationship sex is the best, but its also fun screwing a girl you dont know very well because of the rush of getting with a girl the first time.

i've always wondered what motivates people to write essays like this for the misc lmao

I never bought any of that "size matters" crap until my junior year in college. I lived in the dorms with two roommates, David and John. David was a pretty ordinary looking guy, kinda quiet - but John was tall, lean, muscular and (according to him anyway) was hung like a bull. He used to joke about it a lot - even around my girlfriend, Amy. Amy was a sophomore and was petite, shy and somewhat quiet. I didn't like it when John would make his "big dick" comments and jokes around Amy, but she told me she didn't pay any attention to him and truth be told, she really couldn't stand John.

I have a 5.5" dick and with Amy being so petite, it always seemed to do the trick. I was only the third guy she'd ever been with and only her second boyfriend - maybe my guard was just down but who knows.

Anyway, one Friday night, Amy and I were hanging out in my dorm room drinking, smoking some weed and watching TV. David and John had both gone home for the weekend - or so we thought. At about 1AM (Amy and I were pretty toasted by then), John walked in. He'd ended up hanging out with some of his friends off campus and had decided to just drive home in the morning since his parents only lived about an hour and a half away.

He could see that Amy and I were both pretty hammered. He grabbed a beer and sat down and we smoked somem more weed with him. Amy was pretty drunk and started giving John ****. John seemed to get a kick out of it and I could see him kinda flirting with Amy. Then I noticed (and hoped that Amy wouldn't) that John wasn't wearing any underwear.

But Amy started massaging my dick through my jeans and being so ****ed up, I just laid my head back and enjoyed it - I couldn't believe she was doing that right in front of John! I heard John get up to pass Amy the joint we were smoking and I heard her gasp, long and deep and she suddenly stopped stroking my dick. I opened my eyes and saw John standing righ tin front of Amy with a HUGE ****ing bulge in his pants - just inches from her face. The room was so quiet you could have heard a pin drop.

He just stood there and I could feel her hand tremble and hear her breathing quicken. when she slowly looked up at him, almost in awe and respect, I could feel my heart start to pound in my chest. Then she softly whispered "ohhhhhhhhhhh" as she gingerly reached up to brush her finger tips across that massive knot in his pants. When she touched it, it throbbed - **** I could see it throb thorugh his pants - Amy just gasped again and looked up at him.

"What?" John asked her and just kinda laughed. Amy did NOT laugh. Instead, she softly asked "can i see it?" John stopped laughing, looked at her very seriously and told her to take it out. Amy never even hesitated - or looked back at me for an "OK" - just just obeyed him and began to open his jeans. I coudl see her nipples rock hard under her t-shirt and I could tell she was practically panting.

She opened his jeans and his big thick dick just fell out...and he had NOT been kidding. That cock was strong, thick, heavy and muscular. The head was a big purple mushroom that sat on top of the thickest shaft i'd ever seen. He was semi-hard and was HUGE compared to me. Amy just gasped and kept whispering "ohmygod..ohmygod...ohmygod". When she wrapped her hand around it, her brow just knotted in disbelief and she almost laughed at how thick he was - her fingers couldn't even touch.

John just stood there watching my girlfriend worship his magnificent cock. Slowly shaking her head in disbelief, she two-fisted him - one hand next to the other...and there was STILL a few inches left - and he was getting rock hard, too.

Amy smiled and patted the couch next to her and John sat down, his cock standing straight up. Honestly he had to be almost 10" (judging from the size of Amy's hand). I opened my pants and took my own cock out. Amy took my cock in her left hand and John's in her right - but there was little doubt whose cock was getting more attention. She couldn't take her eyes off his cock and her hand only occasionally stroked my dick...but John's she pumped with long, purposeful strokes until she finally couldn't help herself any longer and knelt in front of him, kissing his cock and rubbing it against her soft pale skin.

She sucked his dick until SHE came - just from sucking him! I stroked the whole time until he pulled her toward him, peeled off her pants (she didnt even make the slightest attempt to stop him) and sat her on his lap, her back to his chest - the two of them right next to me. She just rolled her head back to kiss him as he squeezed her tits through her shirt. Her hands went down and pushed that big cock against her pussy and she groaned so loud when it touched her that I thought people outside would hear.

John's dick was so ****ing big that he easily penetrated her from behind with her sitting on his lap. She arched up so she could take as much of it as she could and they started to **** right there next to me. It shocked me how easily her petite little body accomodated that horse cock of his. John pounded her in positions that i physically CANNOT do for over an hour - I have no idea how many times she came - she was even in tears a few times (though she never once told him to stop).

He asked her if she was on the pill and when she said she was on the patch, he told her that he was going to cum inside of her to mark her - which only made her cum again! when he finally came, he had Amy on her back, her legs shaking violently as they both came together - and true to his word, John dumped his seed deep up inside my girlfriend's pussy right in front of me. But **** - he didn't even lose his damn hard on! They ****ed for about another 40 minutes and he came twice more. Amy was a wreck by the time we all went to bed.

I will never forget the look on her face - like she was afraid of him and in love with him all at once - the whole time they ****ed. She later told me that there were no words to describe it - it was incredible but even that didn't seem enough. To my knowledge they never ****ed again and Amy and I dated for about another year before we finally broke up. I always wondered if she ended up with him or some other big dick guy.

But one thing I know for sure - she NEVER ****ed me like she did John and the things she said about John - the way she looked at him - and the way she was around him after that night (almost shy and meek) convinced me that a big dick makes a difference.

Amy told me that she "HAD to respect him" even if she didn't like him...and that she almost felt like he "had a right to her". So there ya go.

Racing thoughts that subdue when you put them on paper (computer).

I don't know how someone lives like this and then bam just loses interest in the hunt and settles down with a woman has kids, etc.

From what I've seen of these men who were like this in their 20s, they end up on Ashley Madison.

Granted the women I had sex with casually were more into me than I was into them. That's probably why I was meh because I barely had to put forth effort. The sex was for my ego honestly.

My last ex I knew for a month and I recall us hanging out one night and I took her home with me. Over the next few weeks I had great sex with her. I knew her for two months and we used to work together though.

So casual sex is better when there's a dominance aspect...a chase and conquest. It stokes your Machismo..you've fought and won something. The less enjoyable encounters sound like you're just being served because you're the pretty one

Yes, this is true. It's all it is.

I've always felt and said it's just like chasing a drug high.

If you can't handle that or are overly emotional then it'll probably bother you. I don't know what it's like for women though. Like I said, in my case they often end up attached or chasing a relationship.

tf is this gay smut

Being chased and seduced and having a man go over the top to get you is an aphrodisiac. Of course it's always so long as there is a base attraction there and he has a confidence, so he's acting on signals given by the girl ..but it's a fine line before tipping into creepy or scary which the naive or socially awkward don't get

Reading the misc there are so many "not fair" posts it feels like young men are striving to be the "woman" in society and in the relationship ..chase me, admire me, make the moves ...for a woman that would be a turn off IMO particularly the "traditional" woman so many say they are attracted to

Definitely depends on the girl

I LOL each time I hear someone say "pussy is pussy".... no. just no. obviously has never had a very attractive girl willing to do what ever they want for them

also I always face the "grass is greener on the other side", when i'm with one I wanna fk alot of other hoes and when i'm banging alot of hoes I wanna find one to stick with ....

Agreed. I'm surprised how many guys easily tip into creepy. For me it's often too easy though. Of course I get rejected, but if they're hooked at first I always end up feeling like I'm playing them, which I pretty much am.

The only time I genuinely respect a girl is the rare occasion that I feel a strong connection immediately, which happened with my current gf and thus made her my gf.

I didn't have casual sex tonight but I did get some casual numbers

Don't even care tbh it's all about the thrill of the chase

She's a product of the brainwashing that the american media has been conducting.
All the songs today are about women rubbing their thick ass triple milkshake booty all over 9 inch Alabama black snakes.
In the process guys like me have become disenfranchised. I'm not 9 inches.
I'm not even 6 inches. I'm 4.5 inches when fully erect and it's what God chose to give me so I am not ashamed.
But then again I am not into phat asses. A Nikki manaj bunghole would swallow my dink whole. Having an ass like that is not a natural or healthy look.
I prefer women like Taylor swift.
Miscers will call her a pancake ass but I like pancake ass because it suits by genitals better and would love to get a lap dance from her.

lol at chasing women all i do is chase checks

Disagree. The only time its a casual lay is when im exhausted because ive gymed in the morn, worked 10 hrs and i struggle to have the energy to bang hard. Every other time im pumping away and its awesome. For me dating a chick a bit and ****ing heightens the sexual chemistry between us, and its worked numerous times.
However i reckon when your in a LTR then complacency can become a problem and it can get boring

I used to bang this chick a yr ans a half ago maybe 3-6 times a week for a couple months and it was awesome because she was so ****ing sexy. I loved banging the **** out of her. Sex was amazing. She was so naughty and she loves how jack3d i was so it worked out well for both of us in the bedroom. Personality wise she was a real bitch unfortunately

I can agree to this. Matched with a Tinder girl today who is here for the Fourth of July weekend with her friends. Met her out in the city. Came back my place and smashed. No denying sex was good, the best I ever had. She was crazy in bed.

Later woke up and she had already left, Ubered away. Now I'm typing this in the dead of the night after finding she had gone. I don't know why her just leaving while I was sleeping made me so damn lonely. Wish thousand times I had a girlfriend instead.

Agree somewhat with title but not the reasons.

One word. Condoms. Ruins everything.

this is like saying you realize most pizza sucks

who cares

had pizza, was hungry.

Casual sex is a mixed bag. Depends on the girl. Some girls are awful in bed, and all looks...LMFAO what a quality girlThis... But the attractiveness has to be backed up by some level of sexual know how on her end...

Attraction however plays a dramatic role.

Well yeah....more connection, more intimacy. More oxycontin.

lol Knowing is not acting mate.

In fact awareness of that change when a relationship matures is more likely to stop you from acting like a stupid c*nt and throwing something worthwhile away.

<Longer monogamous relationship than most of the misc crew>.

yea, i learned that lesson a while back. For me casual sex is so useless i legit would rather jerk off no fraud

explain people lusting for side pussy when they already have a perfect wife...

im not talking about my self btw