Advice on coping with loss?

Death, financial?

edit:^ good point. I'm assuming death

There's no easy way. Take the time you need to take, but don't let yourself get buried under the weight of the loss for too long. At some point, you have to make the conscious decision to continue living your life because grieving will not change the circumstances.

Also I thought you had me blocked. We're all going to make it, if we want to make it. If you suffered a loss, then I wish you the best of luck handling it. & most of all I hope that you can get back up and keep writing the book of your own story (no homo)

Death (suicides), relationships, estrangement from family, material, pets... I got a good couple instances of each

and I did have you blocked until recently, don't even remember why it was I blocked you years back but I figure people deserve a second chance I dunno (https://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showt...post1517862671)

If you havn't completed the grieving cycle it will gnaw on you until you lay it all to rest. You asking this question proves just that. Suicides are case by case in my opinion, just know that justifying it in your mind will only make things darker. Relationships come and go. Family: it takes two to tango. Many people leave their families behind because they become too toxic. Material wealth will all burn once you die. Pets are not immortal, get another one. I lost two very close pets already and the third one has turned out to be a mixture of the previous twoYou need to move on brah, the sun will come up tomorrow and set tomorrow, where will you be?

good stuff

would i know if i was a psychopath?? sometimes i think im a psychopath then other times i think im a normal human

Those voices in your head? Yea those are present in all of us. Basic, sinful human nature. Revels in the disgusting. Hates the pure. Sometimes they are spiritual as well. Write them down and remind yourself that those thoughts only lead to destruction. You are not a psychopath. Perhaps you over-analyze everything in life and now that mentality exists in other aspects and in other parts of your subconsciousness...

why do you think that?

How do I get over the fact my oneitis is probably getting rammed by another guy ?

How can I stop the faps?

They sell some homeopathic stuff called elderberry/sambucol.cut down my flu from a week to 3/4 days. You have to start it asap when you start getting something though.


Oh.. and op should I change my behavior when I'm around certain people to make them like me? I feel this is being so fake (and idk if I could do it anyways)

There is a reason dual personality disorder exists. Moreover, you cannot keep one consistant; you will blunder and the other personality will shine through and ruin everything you've tried to mask, and probably freak some people out. Instead try and change yourself if you feel necessary. Perhaps you are with the wrong crowd who do not appreciate you for who you are, or you are looking to greener pastures which inherently do not exist.

No, not everyone is going to like you, and there is nothing wrong with that. You should however be able to converse with everyone. So if you feel that that's something that you can't do, then I would work on it. Also maybe take a good look at how you think you're perceived. Just being the person that is always positive goes a long way. I'm sure if you were able to let your guard down you would be fine.do or do not. There is no try. (srs)

I'm getting something... hold on...




No miscers that actually need help will post ITT.

^The cards don't lie

Whats the best book/advice for smashing a lot of girls?

How do you recommend getting sloots in community college? Basically I have 2 classes every day in none of them any one of them anybody socializes.
Also do you recommend getting into MMA, do you recommend any other hobbies? I already o lifting running and been getting into reading recently. 17 btw 18 in a few days

Need some serious advice in regards to life choices (26 yrs, UK).

Just finished my second degree in a specialised course which will set me off for a life in the NHS doing the same thing, definitely longed out university to avoid the real world. The problem is the max I can ever earn in this career is around £40-50k, which isn't that great in the long run. The advantages are I can easily take career breaks, and its a 9-5 job Monday-Friday. Also, jobs open in different countries like Australia and New Zeland, as they are desperate for people doing my career so thats a big advantage for me.

Thing is I don't fully enjoy it but I don't really enjoy anything work related so I might as well do something that earns me decent money in the long run. Should I just start a career in a field where I can work up the company to earn big bucks as all my friends are earning £35k+ already, one is a Doctor one works in London so i'm falling way behind. I don't really feel passionate about any work related things, only things I feel passionate about is the gym and games (I know this is common). But my family and friends say I should go into the career ive studied for as I put an extra 4 years work into it. But once I start in the career I feel like i'll be there a long time.

Any thoughts?