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post 1559344821 08-21-2018, 03:09 PM
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Originally Posted By StrongFella⏩
1 - nope
2 - we work wildly different schedules
3 - her new job in law enforcement
4 - apparently she did, even though we fukked like rabbits
She became a cop?

Not surprised she cheated. I had a bro whose wife did a stint in the PED detail (hooker) and her sergeant walked in on her and another officer fukkin in their office

Soon as she became a cop it was game over bro.
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Originally Posted By StrongFella⏩
yep
Rough OP. Either way, best of luck you in your divorce brah.
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sorry to hear that op im only 21 and have only banged 15 sloots, only 3 of which where somewhat attractive so I have no advice for you


I can hold you though brah, tenderly (no homo)
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Originally Posted By dhawkeye1980⏩
She became a cop?

Not surprised she cheated. I had a bro whose wife did a stint in the PED detail (hooker) and her sergeant walked in on her and another officer fukkin in their office

Soon as she became a cop it was game over bro.
Yea its frustrating because this guy is just like me. The one difference is he works in la enforcement. Same hobbies, everything
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Sorry boyo

this always happens to anyone that gets married that early, always. Even to those who say "we are different".
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post 1559345271 08-21-2018, 03:13 PM
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Sucks OP but win one for the Misc in divorce court wouldya?
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post 1559345331 08-21-2018, 03:14 PM
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Originally Posted By sword_⏩
Man...the cracks show in the relationships when things are going south.

I was talking to a married woman at a friend's going away party. She has been married for 8 years with this man and they have two kids. I told her it is something I want eventually in my life. She spent a good bit of our time talking about her husband lacking ambition, having the same job since they've known each other, and her not being able to pursue her music career. I felt kind of bad. She was looking at me with these big eyes and I thought she was attractive.

I ended up exchanging contact info with her.The female friend she was with was saying that she should divorce her husband and find men like me out in the world (srs). I legit felt bad for the dude. Part of me could try and pursue this woman, but I don't want to contribute to the statistic of divorces, broken families, custody battles, etc. **** that.
Things always appear better on the exterior. She could leave her husband for some guy supposedly like you. Eight years and two kids later she'll be out griping about that guy to someone else


Long term relationships take a fukton of work. A lot of people opt out of the work and would rather just hop over the fence every time they see grass they think is greener
post 1559345471 08-21-2018, 03:15 PM
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Originally Posted By randombrah1⏩
Sorry boyo

this always happens to anyone that gets married that early, always. Even to those who say "we are different".
That's not 100% true. I know many couples who married young that are still going strong, after even a decade or 2.
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Originally Posted By dogorman7⏩
sorry to hear that op im only 21 and have only banged 15 sloots, only 3 of which where somewhat attractive so I have no advice for you


I can hold you though brah, tenderly(no homo)
Will take you up on that offer
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Originally Posted By HayZues
And this OP

Division of Property

Typically, adultery won’t influence a judge’s decision about the division of property. If an extramarital affair is unrelated to the economic condition of the marriage, then the adultery is not a proper factor for consideration.

However, if the adultery affected the married couple’s finances, it may become relevant. For example, if the cheating spouse spent thousands of dollars of marital assets to buy gifts for his or her lover, or to pay for expensive hotel rooms during the affair, a judge may take this into considering when dividing assets between the spouses.


https://www.charlesullman.com/provin...olina-divorce/

Call another lawyer. A real one this time.
Do you understand the difference between what constitutes as property, and what constitutes as alimony/child support/monetary payments?

fuks sake. this was already posted last page. just fukin read, then stop being such an obtuse motherfuker that you have to come in here and try to tell him how his laws work, which he's already discussed with a lawyer.

This thread is great for separating the upstanding, decent miscers, from the ones who belong in the reddit/4chan cesspool. Takes a real chitty type of person to come in here and laugh at a man who's been betrayed by the one person who wasn't supposed to, and try to talk down on him for it, rather than helping him rebuild what he's lost.
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Originally Posted By StrongFella⏩
Yea its frustrating because this guy is just like me. The one difference is he works in la enforcement. Same hobbies, everything
He is just the new flavor, guarantee she will fuk at least 5 guys at her dept if not more. Sorry boyo. Female cops are the biggest sloots
post 1559345911 08-21-2018, 03:19 PM
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Originally Posted By dhawkeye1980⏩
He is just the new flavor, guarantee she will fuk at least 5 guys at her dept if not more. Sorry boyo. Female cops are the biggest sloots
that's what I hear, unfortunately
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post 1559346051 08-21-2018, 03:21 PM
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Mirin OP.
You seem so calm dude. I'd honestly be having a fuking melt down - I don't think I could cope with that level of betrayal. I don't even want to think about what I would do in your position. srs.

Really sucks that there is a child in the picture too. Unfortunately, that selfish bitch ex wife of yours just decided to try and fuk up your child's life as well as yours. Divorce can really fuk up children. I pray that this does not have a lasting detrimental affect on your child.

There are quality women out there, just looks like you were manipulated into marrying a selfish whore. It's nothing to do with you, it's her problem. She is a degenerate pile of piss.
By the way does she come from a broken home herself?

Best of luck with it anyway man and I wish you the best. Hope you can get custody of your child.
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post 1559346211 08-21-2018, 03:22 PM
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Originally Posted By SuperHercules⏩
How tall are you OP?
5'10"

my height has never been a problem lol

and before you say that's why, I'll have you know I have stolen a girl form several guys taller than me. This height thing is silly. I only see it as a problem on tinder/bumble. Even then I have been using both those recently and have had no problems
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post 1559346271 08-21-2018, 03:23 PM
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Originally Posted By Destor⏩
Things always appear better on the exterior. She could leave her husband for some guy supposedly like you. Eight years and two kids later she'll be out griping about that guy to someone else


Long term relationships take a fukton of work. A lot of people opt out of the work and would rather just hop over the fence every time they see grass they think is greener
Yeah they take a lot of work on BOTH sides. I felt bad how they were talking about the dude. She was telling me how had she known what she knew now she would have done stuff differently. My mother and stepfather for together for almost 25 years and literally separated by death. It wasn't easy between layoffs, moves, health issues, arguments, etc. I know it. They were there for each other for it and loved each other. I hope to God I can emulate that but man our generation is ME ME ME individualistic it sucks.
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Fuc reading 6 pages, but wasn't there any signs op?

Like her going to gym when she didn't before, buying sexy underwear, staying out late, going away for a night because of work, catching her lying about things?

Or were there no signs at all?
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the "unthinkable"??? lol..really? I think divorce is upwards of 60-70% now..so..its not a matter of "IF"..its "WHEN"..
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Originally Posted By dhawkeye1980⏩
He is just the new flavor, guarantee she will fuk at least 5 guys at her dept if not more. Sorry boyo. Female cops are the biggest sloots
Truth. Only women that work at hair salons are bigger sloots. Nurses are up there too.
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Originally Posted By doughnutking⏩
Fuc reading 6 pages, but wasn't there any signs op?

Like her going to gym when she didn't before, buying sexy underwear, staying out late, going away for a night because of work, catching her lying about things?

Or were there no signs at all?
a little bit, yes. started going to the tanning bed, buying more bras and panties. working out more. once she said she wanted a divorce then it was balls to the wal
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Originally Posted By Zackad⏩
This thread is great for separating the upstanding, decent miscers, from the ones who belong in the reddit/4chan cesspool. Takes a real chitty type of person to come in here and laugh at a man who's been betrayed by the one person who wasn't supposed to, and try to talk down on him for it, rather than helping him rebuild what he's lost.
Repped.

OP, not much advice, but I hate it for you and your kid. Stay strong.
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Originally Posted By mikieson⏩
the "unthinkable"??? lol..really? I think divorce is upwards of 60-70% now..so..its not a matter of "IF"..its "WHEN"..
its unthinkable when you are in the marriage and its going great. do you know from experience?
Originally Posted By Scarrdbutsmartr⏩
OP is a potato...The law in South Carolina states that the repercussions for adultery are an at fault divorce which basically means no alimony. OPs girl still going to hammer him with division of property, investments and a huge child support bill (including health insurance)...

https://www.divorcenet.com/resources...-carolina.html
I am in NC you moron. AND talked to a lawyer
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Originally Posted By Scarrdbutsmartr⏩
OP is a potato...The law in South Carolina states that the repercussions for adultery are an at fault divorce which basically means no alimony. OPs girl still going to hammer him with division of property, investments and a huge child support bill (including health insurance)...



https://www.divorcenet.com/resources...-carolina.html
It's almost like you didn't read the thread. How did you develop such an awesome skill?

You don't even have the right state, POTATO. lol
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Originally Posted By shmobin⏩
It's almost like you didn't read the thread. How did you develop such an awesome skill?

You don't even have the right state, POTATO. lol
He he...My reading comprehension is at zero today. I am that guy...


I will reppest thou and the OP for my stupidity.
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Originally Posted By MattBro95⏩
Mirin OP.
You seem so calm dude. I'd honestly be having a fuking melt down - I don't think I could cope with that level of betrayal.
With a kid in the picture, my mind would be gear shifting towards a new life chapter/plan immediately. What's done is done, time to move forward and set the best example for kid/s.

Feel for you OP, wish this wasn't a misc thread today.
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Originally Posted By Scarrdbutsmartr⏩
He he...My reading comprehension is at zero today. I am that guy...
Okay, well just so you know, he's covered all of that.
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in b4 OP's ex has a dirty lawyer and OP gets hit with a restraining order. then it's off to family court where the judge DGAF about the woman cheating anymore and she rakes you over the coals. Divorce is brutal, you are being naive if you think you won't be paying out BIGLY for this.
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LOL at how every single one of you are in here worrying about the costs of the divorce. I would genuinely be more worried about making sure I get to see my child as much as possible in OPs position.

If I had a choice between maximising money or maximising the amount of time spent with my own flesh and blood........ fuk the money.
Originally Posted By jeshelton⏩
With a kid in the picture, my mind would be gear shifting towards a new life chapter/plan immediately. What's done is done, time to move forward and set the best example for kid/s.

Feel for you OP, wish this wasn't a misc thread today.
Mirin you both then I guess. Never denied wisdom comes with age.
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Originally Posted By StrongFella⏩
a little bit, yes. started going to the tanning bed, buying more bras and panties. working out more. once she said she wanted a divorce then it was balls to the wal
So when was she banging him? Bringing him over on her days off while you were at work? Banging him in the work toilets / car park?
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Originally Posted By StrongFella⏩
its unthinkable when you are in the marriage and its going great. do you know from experience?



I am in NC you moron. AND talked to a lawyer
California has a system where there are no genders inputted, everything gets put in a calculator and spit out who pays what based on childs time together. My ex seems to think im going to pay 20-40% of my pay to her. Meanwhile i am just sitting her grinning because if i push it based on her making over 20k more a year than me she will have to pay me almost 500 a month

Plus she has to pay me 80-100k from the equity in the house
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