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Thread: Divorced miscers, what is dating like?

post 1571324391 01-16-2019, 10:10 AM
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post 1571324811 01-16-2019, 10:16 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
I’m not delusional. I’m very well aware that I can’t have a srs relationship with a much younger guy. I am realistic about that. I don’t expect anything more from a younger guy than fwb.
As a chick, if you haven't been able to get a couple young dudes to hook up with you then that should tell you something right there. I know how females like yourself work tho, used to hook up with an older chick for like a month or two before she started getting weirdly clingy asking why I couldn't just come over and have sex and watch a late night movie. I'm like why TF am I gonna do that on a Fri/Sat when I can go out with my boys and have fun. Like being in a semi relationship right there.
post 1571325391 01-16-2019, 10:22 AM
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post 1571326291 01-16-2019, 10:34 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Well I guess I’m spoiled. I never dated anyone I was not attracted to. Never settled for anyone I felt meh about.

Always felt butterflies when kissing even in long term relationships. Was very attracted to my ex husband’s looks and still felt butterflies for him even at the end of the marriage.

So maybe the people who should be pitied are the ones who are not attracted to their partners’ looks and don’t feel butterflies when kissing.
Yes, you're definitely lucky in love.
post 1571327541 01-16-2019, 10:49 AM
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Originally Posted By Cass40⏩
I did recognize DLB and have told her via PM to stop posting under her alt. I like people being themselves. It's too weird otherwise.
Unaware, she's still around?
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post 1571330651 01-16-2019, 11:27 AM
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot⏩
You joined this forum long after DLB was long banned, iirc
Yes, but when I was accused of being her I looked for her posts and read some.
~ In a world where you can be anything, be kind ~
post 1571330961 01-16-2019, 11:31 AM
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Originally Posted By hoganrulz⏩
Unaware, she's still around?
You genuinely thought she was ever going to leave this place?
post 1571331251 01-16-2019, 11:34 AM
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Originally Posted By cookiefiend⏩
You genuinely thought she was ever going to leave this place?
Mind = blown

Is, miss no tv her second coming?
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post 1571331521 01-16-2019, 11:37 AM
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Originally Posted By hoganrulz⏩
Mind = blown

Is, miss no tv her second coming?
No. I don't have no TV, either btw. But I do watch British shows on Netflix.
post 1571331621 01-16-2019, 11:39 AM
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Originally Posted By Cass40⏩
No. I don't have no TV, either btw. But I do watch British shows on Netflix.
Pm me who it is then ****guette
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post 1571331781 01-16-2019, 11:40 AM
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post 1571332051 01-16-2019, 11:44 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
No and several miscers verified me when I started posting a few years ago.



Lilrabbithole maybe?
Lemme verify your bootyhole as well bb
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post 1571332121 01-16-2019, 11:44 AM
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post 1571332251 01-16-2019, 11:46 AM
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Originally Posted By hoganrulz⏩
Mind = blown

Is, miss no tv her second coming?
I don't know her latest incarnation for definite, she'll out herself eventually. I just know she'd never leave.
post 1571333591 01-16-2019, 12:01 PM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Yes, but when I was accused of being her I looked for her posts and read some.
You will never know the full story. You will never know the extent of the vacuous horror that is deadliftbrah

but it is funny when female miscers here start posting like her then try to rebuke the accusation with "but I'm not [insert something extremely specific DLB did] so therefore I can't be her!" Like katya had a few posts where she would talk about the young guys hitting on her and he is so well kept, makes 6 figures, knows how to treat a lady, Harvard grad, etc. etc. the whole nine yards.


...

brb but I never cheated on my husband like dlb didso therefore.....
post 1571333841 01-16-2019, 12:05 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
I know you’re being sarcastic but yes I was actually. Got my first bf when I was 17 in high school and was in love with him. After him had several other happy relationships. Then met my ex when I was 25 and married at 26.

Honestly never had problems with men or relationships until now. Just a different world dating at 40+.
I don't doubt that you had a happy love life up to and including your marriage. But it seems like you're stuck in the mentality of a 25 year old, looking for sexy young boys and whatnot, and finding older men (40+) boring and unattractive. There is a disconnect in your reality somewhere.

I assume you would still be attracted to your (older) husband if you 2 were still together today?
post 1571334691 01-16-2019, 12:18 PM
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot⏩
You will never know the full story. You will never know the extent of the vacuous horror that is deadliftbrah

but it is funny when female miscers here start posting like her then try to rebuke the accusation with "but I'm not [insert something extremely specific DLB did] so therefore I can't be her!" Like katya had a few posts where she would talk about the young guys hitting on her and he is so well kept, makes 6 figures, knows how to treat a lady, Harvard grad, etc. etc. the whole nine yards.


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brb but I never cheated on my husband like dlb didso therefore.....
Huh. I have a couple of other suspicions but never picked up on that
post 1571335751 01-16-2019, 12:30 PM
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post 1571336021 01-16-2019, 12:32 PM
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If DLB is reading this

Post pics of your wrinkly arse for science's sake
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post 1571336091 01-16-2019, 12:33 PM
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Originally Posted By hoganrulz⏩
If DLB is reading this

Post pics of your wrinkly arse for science's sake
Don't say that, I inadvertently got her to post pics and there was regret.
post 1571336221 01-16-2019, 12:36 PM
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Originally Posted By cookiefiend⏩
Don't say that, I inadvertently got her to post pics and there was regret.
I imagine her being a wrinkly ghoulish looking creature, can you recall to confirm?

Or is it too traumatic?
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post 1571336391 01-16-2019, 12:37 PM
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Originally Posted By hoganrulz⏩
I imagine her being a wrinkly ghoulish looking creature, can you recall to confirm?

Or is it too traumatic?
It's really bad. Serious.
post 1571337381 01-16-2019, 12:46 PM
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Originally Posted By skinnyfat88⏩
Nah. They see someone who is capable of taking care of a child/loves being a father, mature, and not allergic to monogamy.

I know their wheels spin and they don't say everything they think in their head but no woman has told me divorced by 30 w/ a child is a dealbreaker for them.
It would 100 percent be a deal breaker for me and most women in my social circle (upper class Catholics) but everyone is different.

I’d have a hard time taking a vow from someone divorced so very young seriously.

Plus where then are so many 20 something to early 30 something never married guys, it’s more trouble than it’s worth to weed through the divorced guys just yet.

Glad you found someone though.
Be patient like the mountain. And you will learn to be strong.

100% serious 50% of the time.
post 1571337391 01-16-2019, 12:46 PM
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot⏩
It's really bad. Serious.
Can confirm.
post 1571337471 01-16-2019, 12:47 PM
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OP I like you, and your Misses. You're VERY FUNNY GUY, but you're deep, and intelligent...rockin' bod! (no homo)

I Divorced 2015. Christmasfnatic is also divorced, though long before me. We actually helped each brother out, (I attempted to even), after our splits. (no homo)

Dating is hard. If you don't go out much IRL to meet singles, then you got to rely on women who you meet through mutual friends. or...the internet thing. I'd like to find the love of my life, my ex moved on within a year...I'm going to sound cucky here but the guy she moved on with is a very nice guy, he was a father before meeting her and he's actually been so good to her that if my daughter gets married. I'd want him to walk her down the aisle with me. (srs) We get along basically so I don't kill him for playing with one of my used sex toys. It's a confidence thing. I see threads on here stating being attractive when you're older is hard, or funny even. Try the opposite. You good looking dudes got nothing to complain about. You're above the average male in the world so enjoy date life ffs.
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DLB if youre reading this, plz don't post pics of your arse. Thank you.
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This is all OJ's fault
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post 1571337781 01-16-2019, 12:50 PM
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Originally Posted By hoganrulz⏩
DLB if youre reading this, plz don't post pics of your arse. Thank you.
Don't listen to him.

Post it!
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Yes of course. But we met when we were young and we grew older together, and I loved him very much. So that is different from starting out with dating at this age.

And I am not saying all 40+ men are unattractive. Just saying there are not many attractive single ones. And the small amount of attractive single older men also have the option of dating younger. So I might not even meet them (as Spade likes to point out).
Didn't mean to put you on blast, as I've said before you seem like a genuinely nice person. Hope things work our for you.
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Originally Posted By Cass40⏩
Don't listen to him.

Post it!
Pm yours bb
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This is all OJ's fault
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Originally Posted By Maylie⏩
It would 100 percent be a deal breaker for me and most women in my social circle (upper class Catholics) but everyone is different.

I’d have a hard time taking a vow from someone divorced so very young seriously.

Plus where then are so many 20 something to early 30 something never married guys, it’s more trouble than it’s worth to weed through the divorced guys just yet.

Glad you found someone though.
Yeah the old-school Catholic thought process is becoming more and more rare but to each their own.

If anyone viewed my situation as "baggage" though it would already be a no from me as far as longterm potential.
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