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Thread: Time to lay down and rot: Tinder study confirms 80/20 rule is real

post 1576106921 03-18-2019, 01:38 PM
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Fuk. I guess the only thing left to do is........go outside
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Just be top 20% it's not that hard
post 1576108131 03-18-2019, 01:57 PM
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Originally Posted By FA*******⏩
I've been seeing this exact same phuckin study trotted out since I started browsing in 2014, and people keep acting like it's something new and exciting. Chit is literally a misc meme at this point.

Lemme guess - next thread is going to be the Tinder messages from the brah with the chopped Nazi tattoo.
this. how are people still surprised that an app that so heavily emphasizes photos would favor more attractive people
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Can you imagine being a woman on grindr and tinder or whatever you call those dating sites? They probably get a chitton of thirsty ass miscers constantly bombarding them with love letters and "plz respond" messages. They love the attention but swipe the guy who resembles a Chad. Never forget that the reason why so many women are the way that they are is because men spoil the chit out of them and give them the time of day.
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Originally Posted By lockdev⏩
This. The average dude has no idea how to look or act attractive.

The main thing most dudes are lacking is personality.

For the others, height and partial baldness are the only thing that keeping them back.

If you're <6', lie on your profile and wear lifts. Boom, welcome to the top 20%.
If you're balding, shave it all.
If you have a weird alien skull, shave it anyway.
Wow the bluepill naive thinking is STRONG with this guy. I had to laugh at this.
post 1576113131 03-18-2019, 03:10 PM
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Originally Posted By DrWilliam⏩
Just be top 20% it's not that hard
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post 1576113451 03-18-2019, 03:14 PM
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Originally Posted By mlift11⏩
How does this site not seriously **** people’s head? It must. I went on here all the time in highschool. Overthought everything, negative outlook, psyched myself out and never got girls.

Then I stopped and was a normal guy for the last few years. What do u know, life was good and I got girls fine. Every girl over 6 is not even close to unattainable. This negative **** has to make people miserable.
Think about all the normal guys who don’t care about being alpha, don’t worry about pua and this and that, and get girls. Some people gotta relax and stop being so delusionally negative.
No disrespect to you, just realizing this about the forum overall. Maybe I should stop reading these threads again before it gets to my head lol. Just be a normal dude. Lift, be social. Maybe you’ll be in this coveted 20%
"GET" girls? Sounds pretty sexist. They are not objects or trophies.
post 1576114321 03-18-2019, 03:30 PM
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Originally Posted By ScramFranklin⏩
Monogamy and marriage were the greatest social constructs invented in order to keep a culture and civilization flourishing. Without them, women go to their base nature and most men won't pass on their genes; which in turn leads to them turning to hedonism to fill in the gap. Which is concerned with short term pleasure rather than long term investment (they don't have kids, why do they care what happens in the future?).

Sex and Culture by Unwin, and Sexual Utopia in Power by Devlin are great books on this and other similar ideas.
The sexual revolution in the west was mainly about plain janes rebelling against the pressure to marry beta incel providers while still young in favor of riding the cock carousel of chads until their 30s, when they're finally ready to settle down with beta bux. Just wait until your mid-30s bros, I'm sure most of you will take in a retired carousel rider with open arms.
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Originally Posted By dusky99⏩
"GET" girls? Sounds pretty sexist. They are not objects or trophies.
So true, so true. Great point. OP said a certain portion of men were "competing" for a certain portion of women. Thots
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post 1576130421 03-18-2019, 07:30 PM
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Counter productive as fuk to *work on yourself* to increase SMV. Working on yourself should be it's own merit.
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post 1576149591 03-19-2019, 04:45 AM
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Originally Posted By AquilaConfido⏩
I really like this, reps on recharge, so true.



Dude shut up, you're 6'3. Average guy is 5'9 / 5'10, it's a lot harder at that height.

Your height gives you a natural advantage, if you were 5'9 you'd get jack chit.





This thread has some good points. If you're not Tinder material (and you'll quickly know once you make a Tinder account, i.e. you won't get any matches), then your only other choice is to do it the old fashioned way and go out to bars / clubs and talk to women (or dating / singles events / meetups etc).


If you're not Tinder material and you're not approaching in real life, and you're not naturally that attractive, then there's more than a fair chance you won't reproduce, this world is pretty brutal and you have to give it everything you got.
It's not just about looking good. Plenty of guys on here made fake profiles with 10/10 Chad pics and still had no matches.

There some kind of algorithm that takes location, friends list on FBI and some other voodoo in determining if your profile is even shown to alot of girls
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post 1576150181 03-19-2019, 05:10 AM
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Originally Posted By Desimus20⏩
Does anyone else sometimes get depressed about the fact that they are not a "chad"

I mean, sure there are people worse off..but i see dudes at the gym who are 6ft + , tanned and have a physique.
While i'm 5'7 pale and receding.

MAkes me feel real **** knowing they can get girls easy/never have to worry about being ugly /no pussy..
yes.
the kind of sht im having to scrape off the bottom of the barrel on these dating sites makes me extremely depressed. I still have to work hard for those fat,uggo single moms too and still get rejected in the end.
and im only getting older and more uglier as time goes on.
Will never have sex with an attractive young girl in my life and most of the girls ive fooled around with werent hot enough to give me an erection. Sad
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Originally Posted By swoleyo⏩
It's not just about looking good. Plenty of guys on here made fake profiles with 10/10 Chad pics and still had no matches.

There some kind of algorithm that takes location, friends list on FBI and some other voodoo in determining if your profile is even shown to alot of girls
Absolute rubbish. Lots of people have done this experiment in London with a new gmail account and new ******** account on Tinder (so no friends added). They uploaded some pics of Chad and put location London and got tons of matches. Nothing to do with friends list or any other 'FBI' crap you talk of.

But this is irrelevant like I said before, if uploading the best pics of you doesn't get you matches on Tinder you just simply have to go out into the real world and talk to women, no other way.
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Originally Posted By DrWilliam⏩
Just be top 20% it's not that hard
Exactly. 100% of men can easily be in the top 20%. That logic works 459% of the time.
post 1576152161 03-19-2019, 06:11 AM
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Originally Posted By Muzzlrpress⏩
Fuk. I guess the only thing left to do is........go outside
NO dont go go outside, theres more to life than that, dont give up yet
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Originally Posted By Nicklol⏩
yes.
the kind of sht im having to scrape off the bottom of the barrel on these dating sites makes me extremely depressed. I still have to work hard for those fat,uggo single moms too and still get rejected in the end.
and im only getting older and more uglier as time goes on.
Will never have sex with an attractive young girl in my life and most of the girls ive fooled around with werent hot enough to give me an erection.Sad
Dude you can phuk a legit 9/10 asian for as low as $150 in some cases. Toronto has one of the best whore markets in NA, especially for asians.
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Originally Posted By Desimus20⏩
Does anyone else sometimes get depressed about the fact that they are not a "chad"

I mean, sure there are people worse off..but i see dudes at the gym who are 6ft + , tanned and have a physique.
While i'm 5'7 pale and receding.

MAkes me feel real **** knowing they can get girls easy/never have to worry about being ugly /no pussy..
Yeah. Ig doesn’t help. There’s a guy on my ig that lives in my city and he has 8k followers all of them are hot woman. He’s very good looking and basically gets to bang all 8-10’s in my city. He can pick and chose almost anyone he wants to bang. That life he has. Such a lucky guy.
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Originally Posted By Nicklol⏩
yes.
the kind of sht im having to scrape off the bottom of the barrel on these dating sites makes me extremely depressed. I still have to work hard for those fat,uggo single moms too and still get rejected in the end.
and im only getting older and more uglier as time goes on.
Will never have sex with an attractive young girl in my life and most of the girls ive fooled around with werent hot enough to give me an erection. Sad
Ah man, I'm in the exact same position as you, 100%.

Have banged over 40 girls from tinder now and none of them were what I wanted, but I just have to settle for what I can get. I feel so disheartened by it that it makes me not want to approach girls in real life who are more attractive because I feel I don't deserve them. Sucks
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Originally Posted By Dbowens⏩
2k tinder matches (never gold/pay) tbh and i delete it often.. def within the last year


all about location location location.. pics must be good quality outdoorsy eye appealing.. not trash selfies or pics with the fam





oh and irl im easily only like a 6-6.5/10

getting matches/dates is just about being better than the incels who dont even try or have too low iq to figure out matchmaking keys
This.
I have 1500 matches (obvisouly not all are 10/10 sluts.
and i consider myself pretty average.
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Some Asian girl on tinder wanted me to book a room at the Ritz Carlton... ..... ...... .. . . ... .
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Originally Posted By umadbroski⏩
This.
I have 1500 matches (obvisouly not all are 10/10 sluts.
and i consider myself pretty average.
Then you're not average.
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Bring in Tinder intro videos...for women to judge other stuff than just looks. Photos dont make most women excited like they make men do.
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I deleted Tinder last night, demographically speaking where I live it's just a cesspool.

I wasn't relying on Tinder for anything but it's mostly fake profiles these days
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Everyone should just LDAR...



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Originally Posted By dj10show⏩
Then you're not average.
"I get eye fuarked by 10/10 models everyday and I'm average. its all confidence breh"
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Matches are so dead for me. Haven’t had a single match on bumble in like a month. These apps are messed. Even huge whales I wouldn’t consider touching doesn’t match me.
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Originally Posted By umadbroski⏩
This.
I have 1500 matches (obvisouly not all are 10/10 sluts.
and i consider myself pretty average.
If you consider yourself average then, actual average guys must be 1/10 to you
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Originally Posted By jesb7826⏩
Yeah. Ig doesn’t help. There’s a guy on my ig that lives in my city and he has 8k followers all of them are hot woman. He’s very good looking and basically gets to bang all 8-10’s in my city. He can pick and chose almost anyone he wants to bang. That life he has. Such a lucky guy.
Hypergamy metastasized. We can thank the genius incel idiots who thought they were doing mankind a huge favor when they invented social media. Thanks Zuckercuck.
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Originally Posted By jesb7826⏩
Matches are so dead for me. Haven’t had a single match on bumble in like a month. These apps are messed. Even huge whales I wouldn’t consider touching doesn’t match me.
The executives of all these apps are cashing in on male desperation. Only way for your profile to even be shown to real females these days is to pay for boosts.
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