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post 1581250621 06-01-2019, 02:00 PM
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Originally Posted By AcetylCoA
Very sad to see what has happened to society. Men are rapidly disappearing from higher education. Depression and suicide rates are through the roof. A huge chunk of men are now way too low for any woman’s standards. Men in general are vilified in the media and constantly told that women are superior. How did things get so bad?
Being a man isn't enough qualification anymore.
And having a bar fight doesn't solve relationship problems.
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post 1581250851 06-01-2019, 02:04 PM
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Originally Posted By bobbydigitaloa
What don't you control? Be specific...
literally nothing besides your own actions and reactions.

You don't control the looks you were born with, your IQ, your height, your face, whether or not a woman finds you attractive, whether or not she will date or fuk you, your health.

Literally nothing in life except your actions and reactions
post 1581251101 06-01-2019, 02:10 PM
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Originally Posted By wincel
1) you don't control elementary particles
2) everything in this universe is made of elementary particles
3) you don't control anything in this universe -- you just think you do
what about work ethic? The work ethic people like Arnold Schwarzenegger had. What gave him that work ethic?
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post 1581251221 06-01-2019, 02:12 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
this.

yesterday at lunch with coworkers the chicks tried to say "I dont care about looks as long as he's funny". I said "well I'm funny but nobody ever dates me, why"? They literally had nothing to say after that lol.

its all super shallow nonsense
LOL. Typical woman with their virtue signalling but then can't respond when they get called out on it. Its okay though, can't put the blame on them it is just their nature.

The best one is the typical " I would date a short guy for sure " but then their bf is 6'2". LMAO @ woman.
post 1581251561 06-01-2019, 02:19 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
culturally we'd have to engineer society so that women can't revert to their extreme hypergamous nature.

I don't know how to reverse what has been done, but that's what it would it take. In the current environment where women have no reason to settle for low tier men, they won't.
What qualities/attributes does a low tier man and avg tier/middle tier man and elite tier man have?
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post 1581252151 06-01-2019, 02:30 PM
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Originally Posted By JtotheIzzo
what about work ethic? The work ethic people like Arnold Schwarzenegger had. What gave him that work ethic?
work ethic is something you can control(not even really because its heavily correlated with genetics)

but you can have a great work ethic and it still might not amount to anything. because you don't have control over actual results. hard work very often does not amount to anything
post 1581252261 06-01-2019, 02:32 PM
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Originally Posted By JtotheIzzo
What qualities/attributes does a low tier man and avg tier/middle tier man and elite tier man have?
for pure attraction/sex, its all looks.

for actual dating, its looks plus money.

these are the things that decides your tier.
post 1581252371 06-01-2019, 02:33 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
for pure attraction/sex, its all looks.

for actual dating, its looks plus money.

these are the things that decides your tier.
how much money do you need to have to be considered elite tier?
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post 1581252541 06-01-2019, 02:36 PM
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Originally Posted By JtotheIzzo
how much money do you need to have to be considered elite tier?
So general buckets would be low income, average/middle income, high income, and rich. Elite tier is like rich, but high income is just a solid income like low six figs.
post 1581252571 06-01-2019, 02:36 PM
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Fukking lmao @ you whining little pussy.
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My advice for a better life:

1) Ditch process foods, soy, gluten and other non-natural foods that mess with your gut microbiome!

2) Ditch (or partially ditch) social media. Constantly looking at other peoples life isn't good for you. Same with porn.

3) Become good at something. This will boost your self esteem. Don't give up till you're a pro.

4) Get back to simple masculine mentality. This whole Gillette modern feminist man is garbage. Be a good man, not some weird version promoted by global beta culture.
how can she neg... HOW CAN SHE NEG!!! HOW?!
post 1581252831 06-01-2019, 02:42 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
literally nothing besides your own actions and reactions.

You don't control the looks you were born with, your IQ, your height, your face, whether or not a woman finds you attractive, whether or not she will date or fuk you, your health.

Literally nothing in life except your actions and reactions
You may not directly control those things but you control the way you behave around those things. I will tell you that making excuses and bitching isn’t gettin the ladies wet.
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post 1581253081 06-01-2019, 02:50 PM
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Originally Posted By bobbydigitaloa
You may not directly control those things but you control the way you behave around those things. I will tell you that making excuses and bitching isn’t gettin the ladies wet.
Dude...... he is ****ing 5'2. You KNOW how important height is to woman. He also says he is confirmed to be ugly. How the **** can you even think you know 1% of how it feels to be in his shoes. He is speaking on these things based off years of life experience and you cant just invalidate all his life excperience and be like "oh just control the way you behave around those things." There is a ceiling to a mans life no matter what he does.



Hes ****N 5'2 in 2019 where a lot of woman purely judge a mans value by his height. HES FUKN 5'2 DUDE. And claims to be ugly.
post 1581253091 06-01-2019, 02:50 PM
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Originally Posted By bobbydigitaloa
You may not directly control those things but you control the way you behave around those things. I will tell you that making excuses and bitching isn’t gettin the ladies wet.
Thats what I said. you can control your actions and reactions, but thats it.

You can be the best you can be and still not get what you want in life.
post 1581253191 06-01-2019, 02:52 PM
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Originally Posted By samosajoe
Dude...... he is ****ing 5'2. You KNOW how important height is to woman. He also says he is confirmed to be ugly. How the **** can you even think you know 1% of how it feels to be in his shoes. He is speaking on these things based off years of life experience and you cant just invalidate all his life excperience and be like "oh just control the way you behave around those things."



Hes ****N 5'2 in 2019 where a lot of woman purely judge a mans value by his height. HES FUKN 5'2 DUDE. And claims to be ugly.
I don’t believe he is 5’2”. I have a friend that is that short and he is married and has kids. I’m tired of all the whining.
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post 1581253221 06-01-2019, 02:52 PM
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Originally Posted By JtotheIzzo
what about work ethic? The work ethic people like Arnold Schwarzenegger had. What gave him that work ethic?
You mean the most genetically gifted man in the past 100 years? He's your example?
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life is all luck boyos. You got dealt a shtty hand? Dealwithit.jpg cause people who got dealt a good hand won't know how to sympathize with you and will just tell you to stop making excuses.
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Originally Posted By IsLifeRealLife
life is all luck boyos. You got dealt a shtty hand? Dealwithit.jpg cause people who got dealt a good hand won't know how to sympathize with you and will just tell you to stop making excuses.
This is so true.
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suffering leads to toughness in some situations, some fall, some rise harder and thicker and solider and also tighter.
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Incels have already won this thread. What is the point of arguing when people are just going to refute the facts?
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Originally Posted By ErnieMccracken
You mean the most genetically gifted man in the past 100 years? He's your example?
Is work ethic based on genetics? If so, why was Arnold so hard working yet his family wasn't??
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Originally Posted By JtotheIzzo
what about work ethic? The work ethic people like Arnold Schwarzenegger had. What gave him that work ethic?
the elementary particles in his brain
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Originally Posted By wincel
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Originally Posted By samosajoe
This is so true.
Someone who's born with model tier looks into a rich family have a successful path laid out for them before they were even born. Their looks will get them validation from everyone that they meet, their social life will flourish because of the amount of interactions that they were able to receive. They will be even more successful as a result of their genes and the connections that they made with their huge social circle in addition to the education their rich family was able to provide for them.



You're born into a poor manlet family with sht looks? Lmao good luck bro. You'll have to work a million times harder than the trust fund kid and you won't EVER reach the same type of success and get the same type of love that they have received their whole life. All because you weren't born into the genes or family that they were able to.


My only advice is to not take life seriously. Its a joke, and everyone should treat it as such.
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Originally Posted By bobbydigitaloa
I don’t believe he is 5’2”. I have a friend that is that short and he is married and has kids. I’m tired of all the whining.
I know a fat chick married with kids! Weight doesn't matter at all! Any fat chick can do that!

I'm 5'3 and ugly af
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Originally Posted By JtotheIzzo
Is work ethic based on genetics? If so, why was Arnold so hard working yet his family wasn't??
He doesnt have a genetic twin so wtf is your point
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Originally Posted By samosajoe
Hes ****N 5'2 in 2019 where a lot of woman purely judge a mans value by his height. HES FUKN 5'2 DUDE. And claims to be ugly.
You’re not 5’2” though. What’s your excuse?
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approaching women is a bit different now too with the feminism/harassment alertness. Especially at work. I used to approach girls at work (not a srs job) without any issues, nowadays you don't know if some girl is going to take it the wrong way even if you approach in a gentle manner. Potential to ruin your entire career. Although sometimes it may work if you know the girl pretty well already
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Originally Posted By longfellowdeeds
approaching women is a bit different now too with the feminism/harassment alertness. Especially at work. I used to approach girls at work (not a srs job) without any issues, nowadays you don't know if some girl is going to take it the wrong way even if you approach in a gentle manner. Potential to ruin your entire career. Although sometimes it may work if you know the girl pretty well already
Happened at my work, but I saw it coming miles away. Older guy was overly flirty and touchy with the female associates, took just one report to get him fired. I feel bad for him because he never intended to be creepy, that was just his personality. Majority of the women didn't seem to mind, but all it takes is just one to have a problem with you. The girl who reported him was crazy too and ended up getting fired later for something else
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Approaching girls during daylight is basically harassment now. Only place you can get away with that stuff is maybe on a college campus or in the hood.

Also another thing i'd like to add is after a certain age (mid 20's), if a girl is single she likely has kids or is broken. The good ones get snatched up early. Girls in their mid-late 20's are the ones you will want though since they are likely out of the sloot phase.
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