bro..
most men arent getting a match.. let alone a WIFE...

the video games and sex robots etc are the cope as a result of it. if they had a choice, theyd have a nice woman

An average man should be able to marry an average woman

The problem is that the average woman in the USA today is absolute garbage and not suitable to be a wife and/or a mother


As someone else had mentioned earlier in this thread, the average american woman is more similar to a cheap prostitute from 100 yrs ago(probably much fatter too) than a wife from 100 years ago






Whether people want to admit it or not, the #1 motivating factor for most men throughout history to get off his a$$ and achieve things has been a (good) woman and a family

As bad as the average woman is, most guys struggle even to get that much because of hypergamy.

Your last point is spot on. If you tell a generation of guys they won't ever get any puzzy or meaningful relationship, why the hell should he be a wage slave? He doesn't need that much to please himself

An average man should be able to marry an average woman

The problem is that the average woman in the USA today is absolute garbage and not suitable to be a wife and/or a mother


As someone else had mentioned earlier in this thread, the average american woman is more similar to a cheap prostitute from 100 yrs ago(probably much fatter too) than a wife from 100 years ago






Whether people want to admit it or not, the #1 motivating factor for most men throughout history to get off his a$$ and achieve things has been a (good) woman and a family

I feel bad for you because you clearly got a rough draw being a black turbomanlet but for any average guy it doesn't take much effort to be in the top 20%. It just takes even less effort to rot though lol.

This is such a loser mindset - plus I think you are missing the point.


What so many of the young men of the last 2 generations don't understand, is that when you focus ONLY on hedonistic pleasure, "YOLO" type thinking, you will ALWAYS be unfulfilled.

What you need to realize is, meaning in life comes from FIRST establishing yourself as a man, building yourself up, building your career (career, not JOB), and not just being 100% self-sustaining, but having EXCESS resources that you can eventually share with a woman/family. You MUST be in this position before you can be a leader....and for a woman to follow your authority. The vast majority of you don't even meet this most basic pre-requite and wonder why nobody takes you seriously. Hell just today I my lunch break I walked into a Philz coffee and a group of 4 girls (maybe 19-20 years old) hit on me, and then after they left another girl 18-19 years old hit on me....BOTH groups approached me, and I'm 39. Girls are thirsty AF for MEN who have their chit together, and who have a presence when they walk into a room. This isn't a brag, I already have a GF, and I have a side girl in Chicago....the point is to illustrate how thirsty girls 18-25years old are for actual, competent, men.

Once you've established yourself the purpose then becomes SERVING SOMETHING GREATER THAN YOURSELF. Living this fake flashy lifestyle you guys see all over Social Media is FAKE, the people who flex the most are completely fake....or they are SELLING you something.

Get yourself out of the house, get plugged into the community, do some charity work, volunteer on the weekends to referee kids sports, work the snack bar.....serve a cause greater than yourself. Then keep building up from there, network with other volunteers, go to city council meetings, rotary club meetings, you will meet local business leaders.....this is literally how you become a successful pillar of the community - you don't need to buy "self help books" or "how to be a millionaire" overnight get rich quick scheme nonsense. You build yourself up over years, you establish a good track record, good reputation, and you'll meet great people (including women) along the way.

So many great men have built this society, and shaped the future, some people call it "making a dent in the universe". This is what you need to do, have a purpose. What so many of you fail to understand.....is if you do this....you don't have to CHASE girls anymore....you should NEVER be chasing girls, you will simply come across them, girls are VERY AGGRESSIVE when they find a man attractive, they purposefully put themselves in close proximity to you, to be near you, so you notice them. The more you demonstrate you are a competent man, with skills, with drive, with structure, the more they want to be in your proximity. As always, this doesn't mean you can be some out-of-shape dork - you have to get your ass in the gym, be fit & healthy, dress well, etc. It's a marathon, not a sprint - you will develop all the "attractive" qualities if you do what I've outlined above. There are no shortcuts to life.

So, decide to do something with your life....or keep complaining and play video games pretending like you are "striking a blow against the system" by being a loser. Yeah....you sure showed them.

The bottom line is only 20% can be the top 20%. There will always be a significant chunk of men invisible to women by natute

Enjoy the decline boyos, enjoy it and don't take life too serious

We'll be rotting in the ground before you know it

who cares

Everyone will care when there's massive labor shortage because men don't see a reason to work.

Society can't function that way. Lol at people dismissing this ticking timebomb

Absolutely

It's something society wants to ignore, quite funny actually.

Worst thing that can happen, elephant in the room moment. Young men dropping out, making modern society unsustainable yet everyone pretends nothing is going on


Clown world boyos, clown world. Enjoy the show

Not to mention idle men with nothing to lose, tons of pent up frustration and energy, lead to crime, degeneracy, etc.

Why youre see so many riots, killings, beatings, violence, mass shootings. Only gonna get worse. So many men just clinging to sanity and law and order and just a step away from drifting into gangs, mass killings, etc. Honestly afraid for this society as things only get worse and worse. Actually only hope is that the feminization of men from the left actually dociles them enough that they just rot instead of kill/rob/steal

Not to mention idle men with nothing to lose, tons of pent up frustration and energy, lead to crime, degeneracy, etc.

Why youre see so many riots, killings, beatings, violence, mass shootings. Only gonna get worse. So many men just clinging to sanity and law and order and just a step away from drifting into gangs, mass killings, etc. Honestly afraid for this society as things only get worse and worse. Actually only hope is that the feminization of men from the left actually dociles them enough that they just rot instead of kill/rob/steal

Great point. Not even just that they'll be lazy and rot but also dangerous. And everyone will act surprised when they were warned beforehand. Fell on deaf ears

Men need to work PERIOD.

Problem is much deeper, even little boys aren't doing as good as they used to be. Something about modern society is not healthy for boys.

You've got it wrong, society needs to provide incentives for men to work...and only then will men work.

We aren't slaves

It’s pretty obvious what the problem is and any social scientist or evolutionary psychologist worth their salt could explain wtf is wrong.

Women are unhappy working, they’ve been sold a lie. Your million years of evolution built your whole body and neurochemistry to be caring and nurturing and a mother for the most part, yet you’re somehow suppose to be a provider now?

Men were meant to be providers and protectors, it’s ingrained in us. Literally the reason for testosterone, to rise to the top of the hierarchy so you can get more mating opportunities. The story of slaying the dragon is the hero’s journey, the masculine journey which has been around forever.

Destroy the foundation and suddenly people are surprise why people are behaving weird.

You've got it wrong, society needs to provide incentives for men to work...and only then will men work.

We aren't slaves

Also funny when an article appears about the problem of men dropping out...they want to stay politically correct, ignoring the real reasons.

Lmfao, many men of our generation will laugh when it comes crashing down

We do have incentives. Buying your own house, buying a car, being able to afford things you want and need. If we couldn't work we'd be living in our parent's basement under their rules.

Work = Freedom.