Do you acknowledge that this is all purely your choice?

Cases like you will not be uncommon in 10-15 years.
You're 40 now means you were 20 in the early 2000s, a way different, more interactive time for everyone.

Are you aware of the fact many men in general specifically only talk to women to get into their pants ? There is no other intent. The mere start of a conversation with an attractive female is to have sex.

In todays day and age if you don't make the first advance as a man, you might as well completely forget about getting a girl.

My brother's generation is around 22 now and a significant % of them prefer playing Wizard games on the Computer and watching Twitch. They don't even pretend they care about women.
My generation thinks it must have to do with lower T levels. Crappy food, microplastics etc. Weak, fragile men with high E2 levels.

Japan has a serious problem because of this trend btw. They have huge chunks of the population isolated, jerking it to Anime. Millions of people.

lmfao OP is Brad/Chadlite. Just needs to lean out.

If serious:

OP seems normal in most ways and is a good looking guy (nohomo). I'm sure that women have given him the look across the room, at the store, etc and he was just too oblivious to notice.

Female coworkers have probably dropped the hints, but again he didn't notice or his mind told him that he must be reading it wrong.

That part is all ones mindset. If they believe that they aren't desirable, they will not see all the opportunities that they actually have. They will chalk a woman's flirtiness to them just being friendly.

I had an ex that was a late bloomer. Even when she graduated hs she looked like a kid and was kind of geeky/nerdy (cared more about grades than being social). She told me that she hated being in the hs locker room when most of the girls had developed breasts and curves and looked like women when she still felt like a child. That insecurity never left her completely. She blossomed in her mid twenties and modeled (real print model), but she could never realize or acknowledge when a guy was hitting on her, because she never saw herself as someone that a random guy would never try to approach. She would think that a guy going out of his way to do something nice for her was actually just a guy being nice, not the obvious that he was trying to hit on her or get her number.

I think that OP has the same thing, he's probably had quite a few chances with a woman but he didn't pick up the signals and seemed uninterested and the woman gave up. Like any skill or talent, that's not going to change overnight, but I do wish you luck and think most of us on here are supportive of you and believe that if you want it to change that it can.

Just don't treat them any different than you would just talking to a friend. Get to know each other and realize that there can be someone for everyone.

I may have missed it, but what is your social circle? Does work, Church, friends, etc have any activities or get togethers that allow you to mingle with women?

Also shows a lot of men aren’t looking.

OP proves you and BBMG wrong, he’s not a beta male, not ethnic, not short, no location problem etc.

Although he does lift and it hasn’t improved his results, so you do have that.

This is from 2019 - considering how **** is now, I wonder what the numbers are like today?

Like I said... there's a lot of brahs getting sent their own way.

It's Briffault's Law in action. The female, not the male, determines if a relationship takes place. If 40% of women don't want any boning, there's gonna be a lot of guys not doing any boning.

-----> escorts

Drop the pride and go for it u homo

Man the harpoons OP, you know what time it is.

What did you think of the movie 40 year ol virgin when it came out in 2005?

Did you think in 17 years you;d be that?

Hairline has been receding for a few years. Going bald at the back now.This is going to sound weird, but I knew that my life would be heading this way since childhood. Its almost impossible to fully explain to people who don't know me on a forum. I just KNEW that I wouldn't be getting gfs/getting married/have kids and never entertained prospects of that happening to me.I don't have pride in it, but not ashamed either as I haven't committed a crime or wronged anyone. I feel like I am in a minority, but not alone. I do feel a certain amount of pain if I really dwell on my circumstance...which I don't do that much anymore. I realize that I have missed out on fairly important youthful experiences in my late teens, 20s and 30s and that is time I can never get back. So THAT can be painful when I am reminded of it (like seeing young couples hand-in-hand).

Do not want kids at this stage. That door is basically closed, if it was ever open. Too much baggage after decades of what has basically been a lone-wolf lifestyle. I don't want the responsibility and worry.

Very hard to say given that said woman doesn't exist and you are describing feelings that I've never had.No-one cares or ever asks about my sex life. It's a no-go area for family and I'm not close enough to anyone else for them to ever ask.Work at home in Telecomms industry. 3 bedroomed house with back garden and double drive....in low market area where property is cheap. Siblings yes...two bros. No pets. Have lived alone for over 10 years.Both of those girls were work colleagues and both had bfs. We were just having a pic taken.I used to curse fairly openly in front of ppl my own age...but don't really curse at all now in front of anyone. Just seems ineloquent and unbecoming of me.

No, no schizophrenic tendenciesNo, as it isn't PURELY my choice (although at THIS stage it 90% is), and over years gone by it wasn't really my choice at all. Answering these questions is only a fraction of the story. Its a more complex situ then can ever be delved into with online forum members.I am leaner now. I will post a 2019 pic from that (very rare) party I may have mentioned.I didn't 100% KNOW I would be one, but knew that I was on course to be one. As I've said, I have previously made numerous attempts with females but no-one was in the least bit interested. It's not like I've just sat indoors bitching about what I've never even tried to get.

So you are a virgin at 40 years old, and you refuse to get any help. Even worse, you've convinced yourself it's okay to be a virgin at 40.

I'm sorry to say, but the future's not looking good for you, bro.

Are you attracted to asians? I guaranty most of them would be throwing themselves at you if you visited an asian country. You could also look into South America. Plenty of hbbs there that love white guys.

Depression levels?

Yeah bro you’re good looking you shouldn’t have an issue getting laid unless you legit only go for 10/10’s. Why don’t you just minority maxx? Asian sloots especially love white guys. Goto Thailand and you’ll be drowning in pussy.

SEAmaxx right now

This.

Go to south america, women will approach you serious. Dynamics are completely different there than in the west.

Glancing thru this thread, OP seems like a boring ****g0t with no edgyness based on his answers. Normie job, normie house, normie dog, normie clothes. Prob robotic as phuk when talking to sloots.

blows my mind ur a virgin, ur a good looking jacked brah nh

Wtf you look like a chad

I hope for your sake you're lying because if that really is you then you must have massive social interaction issues if you look like that and have had zero interaction with women. Like next level problems.

Aways assumed you were an islander given your username.

guys do tend to make a big deal out of it, more so to inflate their ego

a lot of guys put their self worth on how many girls they've banged hence why they always lie about numbers


but anyone who's fuked a lot of sloots knows it ain't all that

you watch porn growing up thinking sex is going to be like porn but a million times better which it definitely isn't, watching porn is actually more stimulating


having said all that i do think it's good for a guy's mental health to be getting laid regularly as you feel like you're missing out on something

Fas don't have any friends I've already mentioned this

They are introverts that just don't talk much or relate to ppl do they get isolated

I'm more curious as to what 40 yos even talk about all day. I've legit not heard an interesting convo since I was like 25 so what are you gonna even talk about if you're an oldcel?

OP, do you ever fantasize about having a gf? Forget sex, do you crave a female companion in your life, or you like your life the way it is?

What's even the point of this question? He clearly implied he's not happy with his life the way it is and is just coping at this point.

netflix

why virgin



if not have strange look!???????????????




have normal look

OP, you seem to be rationalising based on outcomes. E.g., you say that you're not getting laid, and therefore you must not be attractive.

Hypothetically, if you found out that the reason no guy/girl has helped you to get laid is that they're jealous of you, would this change your outlook? If you knew with certainty that you're very attractive to people, would your behaviour change?

Have you ever killed someone?