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post 1681200523 04-20-2023, 04:35 PM
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post 1681203393 04-20-2023, 05:21 PM
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I don't really know the context or details of what happened, but if you feel in your gut this was the right move for you despite the pain a breakup brings, then you did yourself and her a favor.

Caring for someone is recognizing when love isn't enough, recognizing when being together is more harmful to each other, and recognizing when to let go.

It hurts to lose the comfort and familiarity, but don't mourn the possibilities of a future that was never there (ei, you wanting to have kids with her or how perfect she would have been without her insecurities). In this moment, as she is now she was not a good match for you--I hope this creates an opportunity for something better to fill the space.

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post 1681203783 04-20-2023, 05:28 PM
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
Ive never posted pics of her lol, you have never seen her face.
If this was the girl with like 50K IG followers that you talked about a while ago when you were first getting together then you did post a pic of her body. I don't remember if her face was in it. Maybe the bottom of her face?
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post 1681213383 04-20-2023, 08:21 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
Why would you live together for a year without marriage.

Either you marry a girl or the relationship is nothing. There’s no in between.
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post 1681213763 04-20-2023, 08:32 PM
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post 1681216023 04-20-2023, 09:18 PM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
No you don't. You weren't in a relationship. You barely saw each other in a whole year. You were more off than on.
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post 1681216213 04-20-2023, 09:21 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
If you want kids you have to get married to have a traditional legitimate nuclear family.
I Got 1 Kid i Claim and other bastards but I never married no woman for them ?
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post 1681216253 04-20-2023, 09:22 PM
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
No you don't. You weren't in a relationship. You barely saw each other in a whole year. You were more off than on.
Stfu karen

Dont downplay the struggles of young men, chit is brutal out there
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
Never got married thank God. I guess I’ve dodged a bullet before already. Don’t remember if I was trolling or serious but that relationship taught me lots of things. Was a bitch back then not gonna lie.


Lol at the screenshot tho, not even I can find old posts or threads of mine. You Aristotelian?
Well you claimed you were married and that your marriage suffered from infertility issues so not sure why you would troll about that. Not really a laughing matter is it?

Hope you're better going forward.
post 1681216943 04-20-2023, 09:41 PM
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Originally Posted By LogicalLifts⏩
Well you claimed you were married and that your marriage suffered from infertility issues so not sure why you would troll about that. Not really a laughing matter is it?

Hope you're better going forward.
This is definitely Aristotelian
post 1681222383 04-21-2023, 12:13 AM
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Originally Posted By LogicalLifts⏩
Well you claimed you were married and that your marriage suffered from infertility issues so not sure why you would troll about that. Not really a laughing matter is it?

Hope you're better going forward.
I dont know Aristotelian, it was 2016, I’d have to know the context of the thread cus I don’t remember. I can tell you I’ve never been married nor tried to have kids with anyone tho. Which is irrelevant to the thread btw.

Night 2, have barely eaten anything in these past two days. Not gonna lie I’m using the lack of hunger as a tool to keep cutting tho, if imma be single I at least look my best
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post 1681223153 04-21-2023, 12:45 AM
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post 1681223213 04-21-2023, 12:50 AM
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post 1681223493 04-21-2023, 01:05 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
You’re too emotional op. You were not married to this girl, you didn’t have kids, you don’t have financial ties, it did not really mean anything. Lmao at not eating come on op.
One of the silliest posts I’ve ever seen you make. Just because there wasn’t a marriage title attached to it doesn’t mean it was insignificant. For all we know it could have been one of the most impactful relationships op ever has or ever will experience (unlikely but just making a point)
post 1681226783 04-21-2023, 04:51 AM
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
I dont know Aristotelian, it was 2016, I’d have to know the context of the thread cus I don’t remember. I can tell you I’ve never been married nor tried to have kids with anyone tho. Which is irrelevant to the thread btw.
You can't remember posting that you were married and trying to have kids? And since you posted that you were trolling? Huh.

It isn't irrelevant at all. You're here talking about relationships, and many of your posts focus on relationships. So interesting to hear that you seem to never have been married or had kids, now you say you never tried.
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OP, I hope you start to feel better soon. Breakups can be really difficult. It sounds like this is what was needed. Hopefully she fixes herself before getting into another relationship. Seems extremely strange that she was so paranoid but had never been cheated on.
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Stfu karen

Dont downplay the struggles of young men, chit is brutal out there
I don't care if he says he's sad that she ghosted him but he tries to make it out to be some serious relationship and it just wasn't. I've read his threads through that year of him talking about her.
Originally Posted By LogicalLifts⏩
You can't remember posting that you were married and trying to have kids? And since you posted that you were trolling? Huh.

It isn't irrelevant at all. You're here talking about relationships, and many of your posts focus on relationships. So interesting to hear that you seem to never have been married or had kids, now you say you never tried.
Seems like a very strange thing to troll about.
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post 1681231133 04-21-2023, 07:06 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
You’re too emotional op. You were not married to this girl, you didn’t have kids, you don’t have financial ties, it did not really mean anything. Lmao at not eating come on op.
Yea this is deff a dude, no sloot would say chit like this lmao ^
post 1681232153 04-21-2023, 07:35 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
It’s immature to make such a big deal about it when they were not married and not even compatible. It was basically just a random gf and he didn’t even try to marry her. Don’t cry when it ends then.

If you are serious about a girl then you marry her and start a family so it’s legitimate. If you keep it casual then don’t complain when it ends just move on.
Marriage isn't a prerequisite for heart break

What a dumb fking remark
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
OP, I hope you start to feel better soon. Breakups can be really difficult. It sounds like this is what was needed. Hopefully she fixes herself before getting into another relationship. Seems extremely strange that she was so paranoid but had never been cheated on.
It is strange, but i believe her when she says she never got cheated on or experienced any betrayal of any kind. It was 100% a low self steem/insecurity issue, which is crazy because she is young and beautiful. Hopefully she learns from this but thats her own journey now.
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