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Thread: Is it possible to be content alone and incel?

post 1699830783 03-28-2024, 07:02 AM
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Originally Posted By donblaximus⏩
No. it is not possible. /thread?
then what incels supposed to do? just rope? whats the point of suffering through life just to be miserable regardless.
post 1699830863 03-28-2024, 07:04 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
then what incels supposed to do? just rope? whats the point of suffering through life just to be miserable regardless.
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post 1699830873 03-28-2024, 07:04 AM
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It's the same topic with you every time
post 1699831033 03-28-2024, 07:07 AM
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Originally Posted By usersignup2⏩
Incel is the key word here and it implies that something is missing. So the answer is no. If you just meant celibate then the answer is yes.

One of the key tenets of a fulfilled life is positive relationships and that can be accomplished by having a healthy relationship with yourself.

However, if you are seeking a relationship with some other human but that is unfulfilled then you won't be completely happy.
I think this is a tad delusional. We are social creatures. We get depressed and unhappy if we're alone for too long. We cant have relationships with ourselves man lets be honest. At some level, most human beings NEED other people.

Its this kind of myth that is making the loneliness crisis worse imo. Instead of people going out and looking for community they're getting told something is wrong with them if they arent fulfilled being alone constantly.

For autist retards who will try to twist what I said, my problem in particular is only with women. I dont have any issues getting friends generally. But I also have very little family.
post 1699831103 03-28-2024, 07:09 AM
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Originally Posted By Reserrection⏩
It's the same topic with you every time
No it isnt, but you're probably a retarded trumpcel who can barely read or understand any form of nuance so i wont bother explaining.
post 1699831143 03-28-2024, 07:11 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
then what incels supposed to do? just rope? whats the point of suffering through life just to be miserable regardless.
Feelings are relative. Im not sure anyone understands the exact point in life. I believe we have discussed many things an incel can focus on in the other 100 threads.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
No it isnt, but you're probably a retarded trumpcel who can barely read or understand any form of nuance so i wont bother explaining.
It's the same whiny attitude even if the topic is slightly different
post 1699831243 03-28-2024, 07:13 AM
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Originally Posted By Fang2⏩
OP you have to realize that sex isn't everything.
I would never say its EVERYTHING but its one of those things that if you dont have it it can cloud your mind all the time. It is our strongest human urge and desire. Its literally how our species survives.

If you havent dealt with chronic sexlessness, I dont think you understand what this is like.

And its not even just sex thats the problem, there's a more general need for the kind of love and intimacy you cant get in other relationships.
post 1699831313 03-28-2024, 07:14 AM
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Originally Posted By Reserrection⏩
It's the same whiny attitude even if the topic is slightly different
I've not whined about anything, but see whatever you want to see.
post 1699831373 03-28-2024, 07:15 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
I've not whined about anything, but see whatever you want to see.
Sure
post 1699831403 03-28-2024, 07:15 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
I would never say its EVERYTHING but its one of those things that if you dont have it it can cloud your mind all the time. It is our strongest human urge and desire. Its literally how our species survives.

If you havent dealt with chronic sexlessness, I dont think you understand what this is like.

And its not even just sex thats the problem, there's a more general need for the kind of love and intimacy you cant get in other relationships.
I think we are all in agreement. The reason why people say its the same thing with your post every time - people offer advice....and you arent willing to take any of it. I am not saying take it all. But take some of it.
You take none of it and are unwiling to do anything that could help your chances on the one thing you state you are lacking.

Extreme circumstances call for extreme measures.
post 1699831433 03-28-2024, 07:16 AM
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Originally Posted By donblaximus⏩
Feelings are relative. Im not sure anyone understands the exact point in life. I believe we have discussed many things an incel can focus on in the other 100 threads.
'Just play videogames bro!'. Yes, obviously by definition there are other things you can do with your life but I'm not literally talking about how to spend your time.

I'm talking about meaning, purpose, fulfillment etc

the next time life gets chitty, what is the reason to endure and push through? What is the motivation?

That is what I'm not seeing and if I dont have it the only answer will be the rope.
post 1699831513 03-28-2024, 07:18 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
I've not whined about anything, but see whatever you want to see.
You are essentially stating life is not worth living if you cant have female companionship. Maybe tot you thats a statement.....but to people receiving the same statements weekly it comes across as "whining" simply because it doesnt seem you have done anything since the last thread to try to change your situation.
post 1699831553 03-28-2024, 07:18 AM
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Originally Posted By donblaximus⏩
I think we are all in agreement. The reason why people say its the same thing with your post every time - people offer advice....and you arent willing to take any of it. I am not saying take it all. But take some of it.
You take none of it and are unwiling to do anything that could help your chances on the one thing you state you are lacking.
I am very open to ideas on how to cope effectively and have a life worth living despite being alone. I very very rarely get anyone seriously offering that. its 50% retards attacking me, 50% 'just be confident bro' retards.

Of course I ignore those things and I dont ask for those things.
post 1699831613 03-28-2024, 07:19 AM
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You don't have to have a partner to validate your existence bro.
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post 1699831653 03-28-2024, 07:20 AM
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Originally Posted By donblaximus⏩
You are essentially stating life is not worth living if you cant have female companionship. Maybe tot you thats a statement.....but to people receiving the same statements weekly it comes across as "whining" simply because it doesnt seem you have done anything since the last thread to try to change your situation.
That isnt whining, that is an assessment of my situation based on living through it. This chit might not be worth it.

Also, as ive said 5 million fuking times the reality is my situation cannot be changed, all I can do is try to deal with it. thats reality whether you retards accept or not.
post 1699831673 03-28-2024, 07:20 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
'Just play videogames bro!'. Yes, obviously by definition there are other things you can do with your life but I'm not literally talking about how to spend your time.

I'm talking about meaning, purpose, fulfillment etc

the next time life gets chitty, what is the reason to endure and push through? What is the motivation?

That is what I'm not seeing and if I dont have it the only answer will be the rope.
Ahhh ok. Meaning, purpose fulfillment is a much deeper question than "how do I get women?"
I think (not certain) you need to be content with yourself in order for you to start to seek those answers.
post 1699831773 03-28-2024, 07:21 AM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
That isnt whining, that is an assessment of my situation based on living through it. This chit might not be worth it.

Also, as ive said 5 million fuking times the reality is my situation cannot be changed, all I can do is try to deal with it. thats reality whether you retards accept or not.
Stating the same thing over and over again
Name calling

Call it what you want but its whining to most people. And women cant stand men that are bvtchesso maybe we are on to something

See my first post in this thread. If the situation cannot be change (IE you arent willing to do what it takes) then /thread. It is what it is.
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Originally Posted By jmal2000⏩
You don't have to have a partner to validate your existence bro.
Its not about validation, its about actual quality of life. I'm not saying 'if I dont have this I'm a loser'.

I'm saying 'without this my life fuking sucks'.

Thats how it feels. And if I cant change how I feel about that, life stops making sense. its too hard to endure just to be miserable regardless.
post 1699831933 03-28-2024, 07:24 AM
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Originally Posted By donblaximus⏩
Ahhh ok. Meaning, purpose fulfillment is a much deeper question than "how do I get women?"
I think (not certain) you need to be content with yourself in order for you to start to seek those answers.
yea, I havent asked 'how do I get women' in like 5 years because I do not believe its possible. People shove that chit in my face and then get mad when I dont listen to them.

I'm content with myself as a person if thats what you mean. I am not content with myself as in content being alone. It just sucks too much.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
That isnt whining, that is an assessment of my situation based on living through it. This chit might not be worth it.

Also, as ive said 5 million fuking times the reality is my situation cannot be changed, all I can do is try to deal with it. thats reality whether you retards accept or not.
Then get a gf already

You aren't the only short man who ever lived
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
yea, I havent asked 'how do I get women' in like 5 years because I do not believe its possible. People shove that chit in my face and then get mad when I dont listen to them.

I'm content with myself as a person if thats what you mean. I am not content with myself as in content being alone. It just sucks too much.
We have already discussed that part. we both agreed it is not possible to be content being alone since humans are social creatures.
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Originally Posted By swordplay76⏩
Fuarking impossible unless monkmode
so massive self delusion is the only way.

yikes
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
Then get a gf already

You aren't the only short man who ever lived
if you're retarded enough to think thats possible, I wont stop you. I'll just ignore it.
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Originally Posted By donblaximus⏩
we both agreed it is not possible to be content being alone since humans are social creatures.
If its not possible to be content alone, I'm going to be alone, then.......just rot/rope. I dont see anything else that makes sense.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
Its not about validation, its about actual quality of life. I'm not saying 'if I dont have this I'm a loser'.

I'm saying 'without this my life fuking sucks'.

Thats how it feels. And if I cant change how I feel about that, life stops making sense. its too hard to endure just to be miserable regardless.
This may sound ridiculous, but you can draw inspiration from communists. They were utterly hopeless and found the will to survive and triumph.
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee⏩
If its not possible to be content alone, I'm going to be alone, then.......just rot/rope. I dont see anything else that makes sense.
You speak in circles. In your initial posts you state you have friends. You have some (albeit minimal) family. So you are not alone.....so its all good bro.
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I don't want kids. So I have no interest in any relationship. And you don't need kids to validate your god damn existence. We have too many people on this planet and it's catching up with us fast. It's going to get worse in all countries eventually.
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