You can if you want.....if you're attracted to her, just set up a date and rendezvous at a point between you and her and have some fun. If she turns out to be too weird or crazy, just move on. Plus if you haven't been laid in 12 months, just go for it.

awww!!! <3 compassionate & empathetic, love it!

x2 on these good wishes...been MIA and feelin like I missed out on so many happenings but glad to see so many familiar faces <3


why not? seems to me the only hinderance is distance, but you have overcome that before...plus toronto is such a huge city, it's not exactly uncommon to be 20-45 minutes apart, even on transit.
you shouldgo.for.it.

Ahh guys, I'm going to DR in 4 days!!!! I CANNOT WAIT!!! Much needed vakay. Work is going so well with so many new developments & it's been such a busy last 2 months....I can't wait to get away to palm trees, sun and beaches.

Feel like I still have so much to catch up on ITT, but happy to see everyone is on the up & up

thanks brah...I got laid last 3 weeks ago. He just said that as a joke to put me down a bit. Old school guys in my line of work say demeaning ball breaking things constantly to see how you can bounce back from the harsh comments and pranks lol..but she probably believed it to be honest lol



thank you! I was going to ask where you've been! and Dominican is a blast! who you going with?

but she probably believed it to be honest lol

Oh I didn't read that right....my bad. Also so she ain't real photogenic isn't she?

lol prob, but you can clear that up pretty quickly, nomsayin

I'm going with my bf! Super excited cuz we have so much fun together & I love partying with him. Plus, I've never been to an all-inclusive, but he's been to a few so he'll be able to show me the ropes. Definitely amped

Your former co-worker is kind of a douche bag. You don't say something "he hasn't been laid in 6 months" and just put them on the spot like that.

"you have no game"

*sigh* My blood pressure literally went up from that.

So my girlfriend is going to be moving in with me come June. Was my suggestion, not hers. Currently she lives with one of her room mates from university, but her room mate is moving to a different area of town to rent a place with her boyfriend and my gf doesn't want to third wheel on that deal even though her room mate invited her to live there. She was looking to rent a place on her own which wouldn't allow her to save any money as she is in school full time and works near full time - while paying for her second degree as she goes to avoid student loans/debt. She currently lives in the downtown core area in an upscale apartment, she was looking to stay in the same area but simply wouldn't be able to afford the high prices on her own so she was going to come across the harbor where I live looking for a 1 bedroom apt. I told her if she was going to move to this side she might as well move in with me, as it would allow her to save more money for her tuition/internship without worrying about the high cost of living having her own place as she stresses out about finances often.

Told her to throw me 50% of my rent and save the rest of her money, don't care about splitting other bills, food, etc as I can easily afford my place on my own and still save all kinds of money (will be here for another year, two max before I buy a house). She confirmed if it was what I really wanted as she doesn't want to overstep or think she wants me to take her in and I said yes. We've been together a year and change, get along ridiculously well and have both said this is the easiest, stress free relationship we've ever been in.

Looking forward to it as we don't get to spend a ton of time together as is, given we both work shift work/long hours and generally opposite shifts. Going to set up her bed etc in my spare room in case one of us needs to sleep while the other is up/about as we both work days/nights so we can go about our business without waking each other. If we're on the same sleep schedule obviously we'll sleep together. Going to take a little adjustment as I'm used to living the 'bachelor' life. We'll see how it goes, boyos.

So my girlfriend is going to be moving in with me come June. Was my suggestion, not hers. Currently she lives with one of her room mates from university, but her room mate is moving to a different area of town to rent a place with her boyfriend and my gf doesn't want to third wheel on that deal even though her room mate invited her to live there. She was looking to rent a place on her own which wouldn't allow her to save any money as she is in school full time and works near full time - while paying for her second degree as she goes to avoid student loans/debt. She currently lives in the downtown core area in an upscale apartment, she was looking to stay in the same area but simply wouldn't be able to afford the high prices on her own so she was going to come across the harbor where I live looking for a 1 bedroom apt. I told her if she was going to move to this side she might as well move in with me, as it would allow her to save more money for her tuition/internship without worrying about the high cost of living having her own place as she stresses out about finances often.

Told her to throw me 50% of my rent and save the rest of her money, don't care about splitting other bills, food, etc as I can easily afford my place on my own and still save all kinds of money (will be here for another year, two max before I buy a house). She confirmed if it was what I really wanted as she doesn't want to overstep or think she wants me to take her in and I said yes. We've been together a year and change, get along ridiculously well and have both said this is the easiest, stress free relationship we've ever been in.

Looking forward to it as we don't get to spend a ton of time together as is, given we both work shift work/long hours and generally opposite shifts. Going to set up her bed etc in my spare room in case one of us needs to sleep while the other is up/about as we both work days/nights so we can go about our business without waking each other. If we're on the same sleep schedule obviously we'll sleep together. Going to take a little adjustment as I'm used to living the 'bachelor' life. We'll see how it goes, boyos.

Sounds pretty different to my experience for sure, thanks for sharing and best of luck.

thumbs up...hope it continues smoothly for you fellow Cana-brah

Had to cancel a second date last minute today. Called her and explained and rescheduled for monday. Strike one already, or am i good? She didnt seem upset about it.

A month now. She is brunetter. B was blonde, and 20 year old was redhead.

But who was work

So either this girl herself likedme , but couldnt do anything since is she *drumroll* married. We will see what the friend says.

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After downloading bumble/tinder again with better pics, going on my third date tonight this week.

Girl 1:
met a 36 year old on tuesday as a spontaneous date. normally don't go for women that much older than me but she had a certain charm in the way she texted and she looked very cute for her age etc. one thing I noticed is that women >28 are so much better at communicating.

ended up grabbing drinks at her place, she is very cute, looks probably 30/31. we immediately vibe. I was feeling confident as phuck that night, probably because I had several other girls I had already been talking too from online. escalated no problem. ended up getting a ride back to her place. while we are talking she tells me she is corporate lawyer, go back to her place and its this 4,500 sq foot house that looks like it is straight out of home and garden magazine or something. phukking insane kitchen/deck/bar etc. looked it up on zillow and its 750K. she was more feminine and submissive /etc than typical "power" women I have met and had a great sense of class/culture.

ended up smashing like 4 times that night, got barely any sleep at all. Pretty much sure she wanted a young guy to phuck that night. have plans to meet again next week. she texts me almost every other day. I'm keeping it more chill now, per the advice from people on this forum.

Girl 2:
25 year old I met yesterday, immediately had an off-putting vibe to her. kept complaining about men on the date, crossed her arms. I left after 1 hour into it.

Girl 3:meeting another girl tonight, into working out a ton, dat ass. going to check out a place a few miles fromy place. literally set up a date after 2ish hours of texting.

Girl 4:suppose to meet next week sometime, she is an odd one because I get the impression she is pursuing me (gave me her number and winked), then tells me she thinks I'm very attractive (what the hell) and keeps texting me every other day. Yet, she seems to evade the meetup question in a weird way (said she was busy this week...then next week she said she will get back to me..but hasn't in over a day).

Girl 5: supposed to grab drinks next friday. been texting occasionally. she is more a "girl next door type". way more classy vibe. she is very busy with end of tax season work. it's too far away to tell if she will pull through, but I don't care because I have other options.


holy chit this is what it feels like to have options.

think I'm going to finally make it. Literally all I changed was my pictures.

my one worry is that I make look better in my pictures, and some girls may be off put when they meet me

lol prob, but you can clear that up pretty quickly, nomsayin

I'm going with my bf! Super excited cuz we have so much fun together & I love partying with him. Plus, I've never been to an all-inclusive, but he's been to a few so he'll be able to show me the ropes. Definitely amped

So my girlfriend is going to be moving in with me come June. Was my suggestion, not hers. Currently she lives with one of her room mates from university, but her room mate is moving to a different area of town to rent a place with her boyfriend and my gf doesn't want to third wheel on that deal even though her room mate invited her to live there. She was looking to rent a place on her own which wouldn't allow her to save any money as she is in school full time and works near full time - while paying for her second degree as she goes to avoid student loans/debt. She currently lives in the downtown core area in an upscale apartment, she was looking to stay in the same area but simply wouldn't be able to afford the high prices on her own so she was going to come across the harbor where I live looking for a 1 bedroom apt. I told her if she was going to move to this side she might as well move in with me, as it would allow her to save more money for her tuition/internship without worrying about the high cost of living having her own place as she stresses out about finances often.

Told her to throw me 50% of my rent and save the rest of her money, don't care about splitting other bills, food, etc as I can easily afford my place on my own and still save all kinds of money (will be here for another year, two max before I buy a house). She confirmed if it was what I really wanted as she doesn't want to overstep or think she wants me to take her in and I said yes. We've been together a year and change, get along ridiculously well and have both said this is the easiest, stress free relationship we've ever been in.

Looking forward to it as we don't get to spend a ton of time together as is, given we both work shift work/long hours and generally opposite shifts. Going to set up her bed etc in my spare room in case one of us needs to sleep while the other is up/about as we both work days/nights so we can go about our business without waking each other. If we're on the same sleep schedule obviously we'll sleep together. Going to take a little adjustment as I'm used to living the 'bachelor' life. We'll see how it goes, boyos.

So my girlfriend is going to be moving in with me come June. Was my suggestion, not hers. Currently she lives with one of her room mates from university, but her room mate is moving to a different area of town to rent a place with her boyfriend and my gf doesn't want to third wheel on that deal even though her room mate invited her to live there. She was looking to rent a place on her own which wouldn't allow her to save any money as she is in school full time and works near full time - while paying for her second degree as she goes to avoid student loans/debt. She currently lives in the downtown core area in an upscale apartment, she was looking to stay in the same area but simply wouldn't be able to afford the high prices on her own so she was going to come across the harbor where I live looking for a 1 bedroom apt. I told her if she was going to move to this side she might as well move in with me, as it would allow her to save more money for her tuition/internship without worrying about the high cost of living having her own place as she stresses out about finances often.

Told her to throw me 50% of my rent and save the rest of her money, don't care about splitting other bills, food, etc as I can easily afford my place on my own and still save all kinds of money (will be here for another year, two max before I buy a house). She confirmed if it was what I really wanted as she doesn't want to overstep or think she wants me to take her in and I said yes. We've been together a year and change, get along ridiculously well and have both said this is the easiest, stress free relationship we've ever been in.

Looking forward to it as we don't get to spend a ton of time together as is, given we both work shift work/long hours and generally opposite shifts. Going to set up her bed etc in my spare room in case one of us needs to sleep while the other is up/about as we both work days/nights so we can go about our business without waking each other. If we're on the same sleep schedule obviously we'll sleep together. Going to take a little adjustment as I'm used to living the 'bachelor' life. We'll see how it goes, boyos.

LOL at 36 being old when I'm 45 and here everyone was betting that I would end up with you in Vegas. I guess I'm in old geezer grandma territory. At any rate, I've have suggested you go for older for years, so great job!!! Psycho is finally going to make it.

lol went on date last night with gym girl, wasn't really feeling it completely, but I'm not sure she was either, but I'd still give it a chance because I don't know her too well yet. gave her kiss at the end of night, ill text her this morning seeing if she wants to hang out again. then I get a message from 36 year saying she is wants to come over, end up smashing 2 more times lulz. She has a much much better personality/femininity about her than the other girls even if she is older, BUT, it just could be the other girls aren't so much into me. that side tends to come out if a girl is into a guy more...

How the fuk are you doing this....

Sounds pretty different to my experience for sure, thanks for sharing and best of luck.

Had an amazing weekend with my girl. Yesterday and today. Took her to a nice brunch today, chilled out for a bit, and spent some time to myself afterwards. Things have been off to an amazing start. We ran into girl B from earlier in the log together yesterday. Shiit was funny, my girl got somewhat terrirotial and made it known who costars in the Vick show now. I met a bunch of my girl's friends last night as well and I think I did a very good job.

Her friend had a birthday scavenger hunt for her bf and it had a lot of outgoing challenges in it. I handled a ton of them and seemingly endeared myself to her group of friends. It was a situation tailor made for my dumb ass. All in all, a perfect weekend. Can't wait to see what's next.

lol went on date last night with gym girl, wasn't really feeling it completely, but I'm not sure she was either, but I'd still give it a chance because I don't know her too well yet. gave her kiss at the end of night, ill text her this morning seeing if she wants to hang out again. then I get a message from 36 year saying she is wants to come over, end up smashing 2 more times lulz. She has a much much better personality/femininity about her than the other girls even if she is older, BUT, it just could be the other girls aren't so much into me. that side tends to come out if a girl is into a guy more...

36 is only 5 years older, it's not like you're doing 20 year age gaps like I used to. The only drawback is if you want children with her there are increased risks with age so if you were serious with her, you'd want to start trying ASAP.

If you get along and she's more feminine and the two of you have chemistry, then why not? Why deal with entitled women on Tinder if you find something mutually enjoyable?

I did "catch" her at the exact right timing. she had never really used tinder/bumble before and hopped on there, I was one of the first guys she messaged. the ones that are level headed tend to get picked up fast or quit online dating.

Glad you had fun with your girl and I bet B knew she fuked up by playing too many games....or maybe she didn't care?

Well, my gf and I were sitting in the front row of a powerlifting meet, where my girl's best friend was competing. B also happened to be competing in the same meet. She looked at us several times, walked by us about three feet away several times, and my girl said they kept catching eyes. Afterward, I took my girl, her friend and her bf out to a bar and B showed up there, too. At that point though I wasn't paying too much attention to her because I was having fun with the people I came with.

I think she was a bit surprised to see me however I didn't receive a text or anything from her so I guess she didn't care too much.

Now you mentioned you and your gf were the same age, who's the oldest in terms of months?