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Thread: I stand up for friends wedding then 2 weeks later get bill for purchased suit, wut do

post 1450364513 06-29-2016, 06:50 PM
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Dude what are you complaining about? You know how much puzzy you're going to get with those lobster socks? He's doing you a favor
post 1450368903 06-29-2016, 07:19 PM
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He is a real hothead, never backing down from the smallest thing. As soon as I say anything it'll likely cascade into friend-ending territory.

My plan is to send him an email calmly stating that this is not right, there was no discussion at all, and to hit me with a 500$ bill afterwards is seriously messed up.

Then I wait to see what he says, he likely rages out, then I take it from there, perhaps mail suit back and gameover on the friendship.
post 1450394533 06-29-2016, 10:14 PM
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Originally Posted By corvade⏩
not sure about your financial situation or how many suits you have

he may be a shady fuk but there is no way out without this getting messy

the way he writes his emails and the way you make him out to be (stingy).. it appears as if he will not shy from retaliation

it is not worth losing a "friend" who will one day be of help to you

Afterall, he is a lawyer.

You can express your discontent civily in your email, but just fukin pay the man because he is a lawyer and he is your "friend" for now
fuk that noise....you think this guy would take OP's case pro-bono? I'd take that 500 and pay for a lawyer once or twice. In fact I'd take that 500 to fight the $500 suit.
post 1450395343 06-29-2016, 10:22 PM
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This is wither a troll thread or OP is a pussy.

He gets you dress socks, like this? Or are something special Google is not showing me?



And a pocket square. You've given him $200 cash for his gift and you're even entertaining the idea of negotiating. Tell him to suck your dick and ask for a good address to return the suit.
post 1450395723 06-29-2016, 10:26 PM
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[QUOTE=American Psycho post_id=1450395343]This is wither a troll thread or OP is a pussy.

He gets you dress socks, like this? Or are something special Google is not showing me?

[Img]http://www.tiesplanet.com/images/hot-sox-lobster-navy-blue-mens-novelty-socks-p8102-18621_zoom.jpg[/mg]

And a pocket square. You've given him $200 cash for his gift and you're even entertaining the idea of negotiating. Tell him to suck your dick and ask for a good address to return the suit.[/QUOTE]Here
[QUOTE=amikaelmorris post_id=1450344623][URL=http://www.jcrew.com/mens_category/socks/socks/PRDOVR~46485/46485.jsp]http://www.jcrew.com/mens_category/s...6485/46485.jsp[/URL]

$28....... what a guy

sorry forgot 20% off so he spent like 20 bucks on you[/QUOTE]
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post 1450396783 06-29-2016, 10:36 PM
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Originally Posted By BigRangs⏩
Here
Lulz take a dump in one, return the suit in person and smack him with the sock.
post 1450399163 06-29-2016, 11:00 PM
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Originally Posted By KMadigan777⏩
He is a real hothead, never backing down from the smallest thing. As soon as I say anything it'll likely cascade into friend-ending territory.

My plan is to send him an email calmly stating that this is not right, there was no discussion at all, and to hit me with a 500$ bill afterwards is seriously messed up.

Then I wait to see what he says, he likely rages out, then I take it from there, perhaps mail suit back and gameover on the friendship.
OP you are such a pussy. Say NO I am not paying for it and DON't. What kind of a man cant even stick up for himself? Grow some balls.
post 1450400123 06-29-2016, 11:10 PM
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I'd probably pay minus my $200 gift and then not invite him to my wedding if I had one.
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post 1450402323 06-29-2016, 11:30 PM
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It's been a full day just fukking email him already u puss
post 1450402543 06-29-2016, 11:32 PM
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Originally Posted By whitepaper⏩
Charge him for your wedding gift.


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lol this
post 1450406383 06-30-2016, 12:19 AM
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Did you talk to any of the other groomsmen to see if they knew about this before

From the way you describe him I don't know why you are even friends with him

Or make a 528 dollar donation in his name to some charity to spite him.
post 1450409053 06-30-2016, 12:54 AM
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Give suit to a bum, delete email, never speak to him again
post 1450436083 06-30-2016, 07:46 AM
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Email away bros. Thanks for help, I am sure I'll have a classic response from him.

I kept it civil, and told him it was lacking in class to be giving me an itemized bill post wedding for a suit we never discussed buying and what address I should send it back to as I was not keeping it.
post 1450442473 06-30-2016, 08:25 AM
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Yup. What he said !
post 1450479293 06-30-2016, 12:17 PM
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Nothing so far bros. I'll keep you updated.

My plan is the following when he writes back. Something along these lines:

"You know I really appreciated the convenient itemization of my costs, consider both:
My 200$ cash wedding gift
My sisters 200$ cash gift
as down payment on the suit I'll send you the 130$ so we can square up. Don't worry, I'll waive my ticket, hotel, car rental, food costs, and appearance cost due to lifelong friendship."

And never talk to the fuk again.
post 1450567263 06-30-2016, 10:00 PM
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Mail him the suit back and send him a bill for the shipping.
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Originally Posted By KMadigan777⏩
Nothing so far bros. I'll keep you updated.

My plan is the following when he writes back. Something along these lines:

"You know I really appreciated the convenient itemization of my costs, consider both:
My 200$ cash wedding gift
My sisters 200$ cash gift
as down payment on the suit I'll send you the 130$ so we can square up. Don't worry, I'll waive my ticket, hotel, car rental, food costs, and appearance cost due to lifelong friendship."

And never talk to the fuk again.
I wouldn't even suggest the $130. If he whines, tell him you would've never been in his wedding if you knew he would charge you for a suit AFTER the wedding WITHOUT telling you beforehand. If he doesn't understand that, he was never a true friend in the first place and you can tell him to go fukk himself.

This is some of the most autistic sheeit I've ever heard. He asks you to be in his wedding, gives you ****ty lobster socks, then itemizes a bill down to the dollar and asks you to pay him back for a suit he required you to wear. I can't even.
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Still nothing. Knowing him, he is preparing his 'case', and I'll be getting hit with the court appearance. Wish my luck bros.
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No contact from him at all, no email, no text/call. He definitely saw it, he's the type that isn't going down without something I am sure he is so mad that I will be served up with a lawsuit (srs) or he is gathering witnesses etc. Fuk him, really shows me what he really was about.
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why you didnt immediately delete this email and proceed to ignore him completely is beyond me.
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I'd just send him the suit back and tell him I want nothing more to do with him.

WTF is he doing? You came to his wedding, you did it for him, you don't owe him anything.
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Hey guys so here is the update almost a month later:

NOTHING from this guy. He evidently dropped me out of his life after I sent him a pretty hot email about how this was tactless, no prior discussion, and whats the return address. We used to talk a couple times a week so the silence is obvious.

He is the type that inevitably thinks its my fault that 'its only 500$, it was MY wedding and he expected me to buy him a suit? Wasn't he happy with his crab socks and lifelong friendship?'

He was in town last weekend and didn't hit me up, so this one is basically over. Suits me anyway, what a dik move on his part.
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Originally Posted By KMadigan777⏩
Hey guys so here is the update almost a month later:

NOTHING from this guy. He evidently dropped me out of his life after I sent him a pretty hot email about how this was tactless, no prior discussion, and whats the return address. We used to talk a couple times a week so the silence is obvious.

He is the type that inevitably thinks its my fault that 'its only 500$, it was MY wedding and he expected me to buy him a suit? Wasn't he happy with his crab socks and lifelong friendship?'

He was in town last weekend and didn't hit me up, so this one is basically over. Suits me anyway, what a dik move on his part.
Well you knew the guy was a piece of chit before, but now he's confirmed it by going NC. At least you let him know how you felt.
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Originally Posted By KMadigan777⏩
Here's the literal email I got from him:

"The suits were $550 each, but we were able to get 20% off the whole order, so they were $440, plus $5 tax for a total of $445. My brother picked up the shirts and ties for you guys, which were $83 a man.The lobster socks and pocket squares were my gift to you (in addition to lifelong friendship and the promise to stand with each of you when your time comes), so don't worry about those.

That shakes out to $528"

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