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post 1459577373 08-27-2016, 02:59 PM
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Originally Posted By enzo818
I just downloaded it out of boredom a week ago and from what I've noticed it seems like there is definitely a formula for success. Still get girls hitting me up everyday even though i have all the "dont's" as far as pictures are concerned.




What kind of pics you use? None with friends or something?
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post 1459578513 08-27-2016, 03:09 PM
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I still occassionally get a 'Congrats new match' popup on my phone even though I haven't opened it for a while. Of course literally none of them ever msg first.
post 1459578663 08-27-2016, 03:10 PM
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Never had an issue with Tinder.
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post 1459578713 08-27-2016, 03:11 PM
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Depends. If you have a 'hook' I think it's still good. I'm not a chad at all, basically average attractiveness (decent in real life, invisible in clubs) but spent the summer in NYC as an Englishman and tried out tinder/bumble for the first time. My profile said English and there for the summer (i.e. I want to fuk).

Had lots of matches. Quite a lot of conversations, most of which were crucifyingly boring. A few dates, most of which were crucifyingly boring. Slayed once a week (range 6-8/10) for the first 6-7 weeks then got bored of it and settled into a couple of more regular arrangements. The top-tier girls (9-10/10) would only message when bored and it would be brief and really just there to encourage more validation.

I haven't tried here in the UK (deleted it when I left) but I reckon it would be much worse for me here because I don't have that 'hook' of being English and only temporarily in town.

[edit]: best experience was sitting on the riverbank near East Village with an 8/10 from Tinder who brought beer and weed with her and then came back to mine. We kept seeing each other for the whole time I was there about once or twice a week (it turned out she LOVED rough sex and was very submissive but also very shy about her preferences) and then on my last day she helped me pack and came to the airport with me and even gave me $20 to buy myself a couple of drinks because I'd run out of money lol. She was amazing.

*sigh*

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post 1459584733 08-27-2016, 04:00 PM
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo
Man, I'm matching with way more HBBs this time around. Mostly in the 28-32 range.
My settings are for women age 22-28.
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post 1459585223 08-27-2016, 04:05 PM
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Originally Posted By American
Campuses with Most Swiped Right Females

Florida State University
University of Miami
University of Mississippi
University of Colorado Boulder
University of Alabama
Colorado State University
Boise State University
Iowa State University
University of Arizona
University of Iowa


Well I'm conflating how entitled a girl is with most swiped... Obviously always a chance of finding a hole to fuk any given night anywhere in the country, but I've used tinder pretty heavy in the last year and can say the liberal hippy Colorado chicks are generally not as easy.
"Colorado chicks are generally not as easy..."

"Denver ranks as No. 1 most sexually active city in US."

You ugly
post 1459586223 08-27-2016, 04:15 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer
I feel like the 80/20 rule is now 90/10 or something. Two years ago I was getting several matches daily, now I'm lucky to get one.
I've been told I'm good looking by a few different sources (dated pretty girls etc.), but I'm definitely not top tier.

So it that the deal now, you gotta be a male model? Or are users just not active anymore?

I was messaging one girl, and then yesterday she sent me a 2 word response - pretty much "lol! blah". There is no fcukin way I'm responding to that sort of laziness.
Man... just go out and physically meet women. Very easy to tell if they are actually interested. As for the 2 word responses, get over that s##t. Not only are you wasting time talking to random girls through your phone, but now you're wasting time complaining that they're not interested in you. Guess what? If you meet people in the real world and don't hit it off, you tell em have a nice day and bounce. Way better than sitting and waiting for a girl to message you back.
post 1459587383 08-27-2016, 04:24 PM
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Originally Posted By zebraman12
"Colorado chicks are generally not as easy..."

"Denver ranks as No. 1 most sexually active city in US."

You ugly
If you look at the reasoning for why it is the most sexually active it really doesnt mean ****. Basically a lot of bitches are on birth control is what it looks like. That doesnt mean they are getting fuked. I do not think colorado women are hard. However I found the women in florida to be easier. The list says Jacksonville is the least sexually active. LOL
post 1459590403 08-27-2016, 04:50 PM
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Originally Posted By zebraman12
"Colorado chicks are generally not as easy..."

"Denver ranks as No. 1 most sexually active city in US."

You ugly
How do you know they're not talking about committed couples? What does that stat have to do with easy hookups?

Anyways yea Denver is easy mode, but girls will invite me to their place when it's a 3 hour drive... talking about northern CO college chicks from Boulder and CSU, they are extremely entitled. Look at this one for instance, not unusual behavior.


I had a lot of fun in SLC, it's similar to Denver... Boise is about the same as northern CO with the college chicks.
post 1459662893 08-28-2016, 08:53 AM
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Originally Posted By American
How do you know they're not talking about committed couples? What does that stat have to do with easy hookups?

Anyways yea Denver is easy mode, but girls will invite me to their place when it's a 3 hour drive... talking about northern CO college chicks from Boulder and CSU, they are extremely entitled. Look at this one for instance, not unusual behavior.


I had a lot of fun in SLC, it's similar to Denver... Boise is about the same as northern CO with the college chicks.
Please update when you actually go.

For the record, she looks like a solid 3/10.
post 1459663343 08-28-2016, 08:59 AM
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It's funny, if you put just one average picture in your profile you get ostracized like your Elephant man on there
post 1459663423 08-28-2016, 09:00 AM
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lmao brah it all depends on your pics and locations
and yes obviously on how you look

I made a tinder for chits and giggles and had legit hot af blonde blue eyed HBB's from LA calling me beautiful
Put my location to soho, Great Britain
Holeeee fuk
Legit would look away from my phone for a minute or two and have 10+ matches srs
funny thing is a lot of those chicks were model material too


Tinder is like an outlet for your business
What does a business need?
A selling point.
After that, you advertise yourself the best way possible.
Location, location, location.

No tinder brah is gonna get any matches if he lives in the boonies of wyoming except maybe his retarded cousin 60 miles away



But if you live in a really populated city idk what to say brah
post 1459664053 08-28-2016, 09:05 AM
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I'm in Singapore rn and it's lit, the choices aren't great though. Swipe left for like 5-10 min straight sometimes
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post 1459664643 08-28-2016, 09:11 AM
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Was reading that athletes use tinder and sometimes they don't mention that they are athletes because they don't want girls to only go for them because of status.

Imagine if you are like a lottery draft pick for the Knicks and use tinder, girls don't know who you are. One that means they don't follow sports or they are lying.
post 1459664893 08-28-2016, 09:13 AM
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Originally Posted By zebraman12
Please update when you actually go.

For the record, she looks like a solid 3/10.
GTFO. She's clearly several points higher than a 3/10.

Also...

Age: 46....

Nearly time for your afternoon siesta, grandpa? What kind of 46 year old talks like that, and is on a thread about Tinder?
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post 1459665453 08-28-2016, 09:18 AM
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Can confirm, if you're a white brah with aesthetics you will do well in Colorado!!!
post 1459666573 08-28-2016, 09:31 AM
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Location, location, location.


I was in Phoenix, matched with so many hot women that I didn't know what to do with myself. Come back to where I am now and absolutely nothing.


Also, don't blame women, blame men. I used to see this girl who models. She gets paid 200+ dollars to go sit at a pool for a couple hours so guys see her in a bikini and then pay some stupid cover charge to come into the pool party area. (srs) Anyway, I'd hang out with her and her phone would blow up 24/7. Her battery would die just because of the amount of messages she would get.

BZZZZZ
Hey, what can a guy do to get a blowjob from a girl like you?

^----That was a serious question one time

BZZZZZ
Hey, can I take you out to dinner?

BZZZZZ
Hey, what are you doing?

BZZZZZ
Hey, call me!

BZZZZZ
Hey, I followed you on IG and sent you a message, why don't you respond?

BZZZZZ
Hey sexy!




Thirsty guys are 95% of the problem with dating. They inflate egos like it's their job. It's absolutely disgusting. This girl I was seeing seemed to have a good head on her shoulders about it (good family) but after awhile that sort of thing gets to your head and your view of reality is altered in a negative way. She did some stupid **** and I pretty much stopped talking to her but I don't blame her, I blame all the stupid *******s who blow up her phone all day/night because they're desperate losers.
post 1459666983 08-28-2016, 09:35 AM
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Atleast you guys are getting something, I probably couldnt get sht. I want to upload pictures, but being FA I don't have many. All selfies won't do
post 1459667593 08-28-2016, 09:41 AM
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Originally Posted By AndYUKnowThis
Atleast you guys are getting something, I probably couldnt get sht. I want to upload pictures, but being FA I don't have many. All selfies won't do
Meh im not hideous and don't get any matches. I live in a small town with 6000 people.. yeh.. kinda nowhere land too. Could be why no matches.
post 1459668413 08-28-2016, 09:51 AM
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Anyone swipe in orange county? I get soulcrushing amounts of matches. Not even the asians and mexicans want me.
post 1459668743 08-28-2016, 09:56 AM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer
I haven't opened the app in ages. Feels like a chore, and I get depressed flicking through duck faces and classless sluts. I guess Tinder ain't for me.
I know that feeling man
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Originally Posted By J1992
Both but after re thinking things women don't get this inflated ego without legit good looking men settling to fk the average sub average women. Why would a average chick settle for an average or even above average dude when "hot" guys are hitting her up on the daily?

The dynamic truly is warped online. Any time I'm with a chick in my league the attention received in terms of stares and mires is pretty equal, at times I even get more and the chick im with notices and either they get insecure and try and hold on tighter (as chicks stare more blatantly when you're with a female) or they full on just love it because it means more attention towards them . Either way it works in my favor banging them lol.

If a chick sees other women are fiending for you it just makes them want you even more, it's in their dna.

That's why I say real life is better than online. I mean say you mix every top tier attribute of a man, looks height, face, body =10/10 and a 5/10 chick will STILL get 3x more matches/messages etc lmao. Again you can still get laid online comfortably (before *******s say b-b-but I smash chicks on the regular online!!) My point is the level of ease between genders is extremely vast where as in real life, the playing field is more equal.
Bad thing about real life is, I literally have zero swag. The way I see it, If I manage to get something off bumble or tinder I'll atleast have confidence knowing they're attracted to me.


Maybe I need to start treating cold approaches like a video game; Starting off as a noob and then acutally becoming good. Got some days off at the end of this week, I can try going to the mall and talking to ones by themselves
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Originally Posted By AndYUKnowThis
Bad thing about real life is, I literally have zero swag. The way I see it, If I manage to get something off bumble or tinder I'll atleast have confidence knowing they're attracted to me.


Maybe I need to start treating cold approaches like a video game; Starting off as a noob and then acutally becoming good. Got some days off at the end of this week, I can try going to the mall and talking to ones by themselves
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Originally Posted By Ashfrolicious
GTFO. She's clearly several points higher than a 3/10.

Also...

Age: 46....

Nearly time for your afternoon siesta, grandpa? What kind of 46 year old talks like that, and is on a thread about Tinder?
You must believe everything you read on the internet clown.
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op is ugly as fuk i can confirm
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So this chick matched and msged me today. Immediately started asking me all these questions and if I was "normal." Made a few jokes and negged her a bit, because she was acting like anything, but normal. I was getting a serious crazy vibe from her. The she asks me my height and if I was liberal or conservative in the same question. I tell her "I'm 5'6 and it depends on the topic." She immediately unmatched me. I don't think it was my height because I'm pretty sure I've sen her profile on POF and she is only 5'1 and I think she is uber conservative and didn't like my "it depends" answer.

Thing is, she was completely average looking and probably the worst looking woman on my match list. Pretty sure I dodged a bullet.
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo
So this chick matched and msged me today. Immediately started asking me all these questions and if I was "normal." Made a few jokes and negged her a bit, because she was acting like anything, but normal. I was getting a serious crazy vibe from her. The she asks me my height and if I was liberal or conservative in the same question. I tell her "I'm 5'6 and it depends on the topic." She immediately unmatched me. I don't think it was my height because I'm pretty sure I've sen her profile on POF and she is only 5'1 and I think she is uber conservative and didn't like my "it depends" answer.

Thing is, she was completely average looking and probably the worst looking woman on my match list. Pretty sure I dodged a bullet.
lol are u srs?
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Originally Posted By pondus_levo
So this chick matched and msged me today. Immediately started asking me all these questions and if I was "normal." Made a few jokes and negged her a bit, because she was acting like anything, but normal. I was getting a serious crazy vibe from her. The she asks me my height and if I was liberal or conservative in the same question. I tell her "I'm 5'6 and it depends on the topic." She immediately unmatched me.I don't think it was my heightbecause I'm pretty sure I've sen her profile on POF and she is only 5'1 and I think she is uber conservative and didn't like my "it depends" answer.

Thing is, she was completely average looking and probably the worst looking woman on my match list. Pretty sure I dodged a bullet.
The cope is real
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All the chicks where I'm at want Country Boys/Frat Daddies.

But I'm doing decent for the chitty pics i got lmao
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