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post 1484670601 02-22-2017, 10:28 PM
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I've been in the same situation as you, girl went NC on me and found out she was dating someone else. At first you're like damn that sucks and then you're like good riddance srs
post 1484671291 02-22-2017, 10:37 PM
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Originally Posted By AshWar
I can't brah, that kunt will most likely ignore me again. And miscers all agree on just going NC. Although I'm pretty sure I'll text her in a few days because this **** fuking with me so much
It really is ****ing with you THAT much?

You should spend that time in the next few days (correction: few YEARS) and focus on not being such a goddamn pansy.
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post 1484671461 02-22-2017, 10:39 PM
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Originally Posted By Tomohokk
LOL not even close.

You do realize that most men are controlled by their penis right? Maybe 45% of men are beta, 50% of men are horndogs, 5% of men are the ones in control.

It actually turns a woman on when you don't wanna get in their pants right away. But it depends on the vibe you're giving out.
Disagree entirely..

Its about making them feel wanted

And then not clingy
post 1484671641 02-22-2017, 10:41 PM
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Originally Posted By Tomohokk
It really is ****ing with you THAT much?

You should spend that time in the next few days (correction: few YEARS) and focus on not being such a goddamn pansy.
Nah man I feel like I tend to overthink a lot of ****. Maybe I'm just overthinking this whole thing and we can work it out.. I wanna call her up and try to get through whats going on
post 1484674691 02-22-2017, 11:24 PM
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Originally Posted By AshWar
Nah man I feel like I tend to overthink a lot of ****. Maybe I'm just overthinking this whole thing and we can work it out.. I wanna call her up and try to get through whats going on
She either:
1. Thinks you aren't interested because you haven't even made a move to kiss her yet after 3 months.
2. Has lost attraction over time due to your complete lack of confidence and ability to take charge.

Most likely a bit of both, unless you told her you're attracted to her - in which case it's just (2).
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post 1484674941 02-22-2017, 11:29 PM
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was probably stringing along other dudes. maybe got back with an ex? maybe isn't over her ex? could be a million reasons dude.

my advice is to go NC.
Originally Posted By Luc1fer
She either:
1. Thinks you aren't interested because you haven't even made a move to kiss her yet after 3 months.
2. Has lost attraction over time due to your complete lack of confidence and ability to take charge.

Most likely a bit of both, unless you told her you're attracted to her - in which case it's just (2).
she's lost respect for OP too. OP you have to take charge man. should have kissed her the 2nd date in at least!!
post 1484675581 02-22-2017, 11:39 PM
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Grow a pair.
post 1484676431 02-22-2017, 11:57 PM
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Originally Posted By WafflesBrah
- been "dating" for 3 months
- Haven't made a move or even kissed her
- Met her off Tinder and claims she's "conservative"
- Surprised she went n/c


LOL Yikes
....wtf is this true?
post 1484678751 02-23-2017, 12:40 AM
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Originally Posted By RC2008
....wtf is this true?
yeah
post 1484679101 02-23-2017, 12:46 AM
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You hung out with her for 3 months and didnt try to kiss her what did you think was going to happen...that's all there is to it
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post 1484679161 02-23-2017, 12:47 AM
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How can someone be gay and not know it wtf
post 1484679351 02-23-2017, 12:50 AM
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fukking lol, sorry brah. she sensed you're a beta cuck and she moved on to Chad.
post 1484679741 02-23-2017, 12:59 AM
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Originally Posted By 8PointBuck
fukking lol, sorry brah. she sensed you're a beta cuck and she moved on to Chad.
Bro she was having fun and making plans until last week. I jokingly sent her a text hinting that I'm gonna tell her how I feel and she went NC. Think I've been friendzoned
post 1484680121 02-23-2017, 01:08 AM
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Originally Posted By AshWar
But thing is she was super interested like a week ago, messaging me long paragraphs and making plans to meet up all the time. Wtf happened suddenly, don't get it at all
It's the social media age boyo. Girls have what I call 'romantic impotence' which parallels porn-induced impotence. They get their dopamine rush off of guys gushing over them and giving them attention. So she liked you, then like a juicy fruit 5 seconds after chewing it lost its flavour and she wanted another piece. The same way guys jump from porn tab to porn tab.

That's the world we live in, try to get a girl who doesn't engage in that chit.
post 1484680351 02-23-2017, 01:13 AM
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She might have had a boyfriend and was looking to monkey branch. Dead srs.

Had this happen to me years ago. Was dating a girl for 2 months, we banged a few times, then she vanished.

About 6 months later, out of curiosity, I looked her up on ******** and she had posted a pic of her boyfriend and a "Happy 2nd Anniversary to us!"

Sloots that vanish without a word are doing you a disservice in the short-term, but a huge favor in the long-term.
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post 1484680721 02-23-2017, 01:20 AM
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opie you got ghosted bud

smash an escort and move on
post 1484680891 02-23-2017, 01:23 AM
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Originally Posted By lockdev
She might have had a boyfriend and was looking to monkey branch. Dead srs.

Had this happen to me years ago. Was dating a girl for 2 months, we banged a few times, then she vanished.

About 6 months later, out of curiosity, I looked her up on ******** and she had posted a pic of her boyfriend and a "Happy 2nd Anniversary to us!"

Sloots that vanish without a word are doing you a disservice in the short-term, but a huge favor in the long-term.
She had an ex that she deleted from her social media, and he's gone back to his country. She hasn't seen in in a year
post 1484697071 02-23-2017, 07:04 AM
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Originally Posted By AshWar
Tinder :/
Originally Posted By MitchellPhil
OP still aint said whether he smashed or nah, don't lie bruh, did you or not? it's no shame if you didnt, but it will explain the situation better
Originally Posted By AshWar
I didn't brah,she's way too conservative and I'm pretty sure she'd have freaked the **** out if I made any move. Was just playing it safe and she seemed to be interested as well
post 1484698331 02-23-2017, 07:19 AM
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Originally Posted By CptClean
OP did you at least kiss this girl?
Originally Posted By AshWar
I didn't (srs)



Ho lee chit it keeps getting worse as I read this thread!!!!
post 1484699421 02-23-2017, 07:34 AM
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Remember OP from before, he's actually a level headed poster and not some FA miscer. Roll bread
post 1484702791 02-23-2017, 08:08 AM
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Originally Posted By MitchellPhil
inb4 the inevitable

measly reps for aware
post 1484715831 02-23-2017, 10:01 AM
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Originally Posted By PovertyChinBrah
Remember OP from before, he's actually a level headed poster and not some FA miscer. Roll bread
100% no troll
post 1484716031 02-23-2017, 10:03 AM
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Lmao wait you never smashed??

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post 1484716961 02-23-2017, 10:09 AM
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How do you see a girl for 3 months and not even kiss her? Can you explain why op? Did you even try?
post 1484717181 02-23-2017, 10:11 AM
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OP, in the future you have to at leasttryto smash. If she really is a good girl and she declines your advances and makes you wait, that's fine. Girls love that dynamic - you trying to dominate them and them resisting up until they stop resisting and submit to you. The whole thing turns them on and builds up their attraction to you.

But you can't just not try. Nothing good comes from that - either they feel undesired or they think you're beta. Not making a move out of "respect" or w/e will backfire every time. All girls, on a biological level, want to be dominated by an alpha. Never let any film/media/person tell you differently.
post 1484719531 02-23-2017, 10:30 AM
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Can't trust these bitches
Fuk these bitches
These bitches can't do chit for me
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post 1484719601 02-23-2017, 10:30 AM
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Originally Posted By legalscholar
OP, in the future you have to at leasttryto smash. If she really is a good girl and she declines your advances and makes you wait, that's fine. Girls love that dynamic - you trying to dominate them and them resisting up until they stop resisting and submit to you. The whole thing turns them on and builds up their attraction to you.

But you can't just not try. Nothing good comes from that - either they feel undesired or they think you're beta. Not making a move out of "respect" or w/e will backfire every time. All girls, on a biological level, want to be dominated by an alpha. Never let any film/media/person tell you differently.
Learned my lesson brah. You think there's any way to salvage this though?
post 1484720581 02-23-2017, 10:40 AM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer
She either:
1. Thinks you aren't interested because you haven't even made a move to kiss her yet after 3 months.
2. Has lost attraction over time due to your complete lack of confidence and ability to take charge.

Most likely a bit of both, unless you told her you're attracted to her - in which case it's just (2).
Gonna be honest OP, this is probably true too. You mentioned you are cool with playing hard to get with her too, but that can turn a woman off and unless she is infatuated with you from the beginning, completely lose interest, even if you do everything right.
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post 1484723211 02-23-2017, 11:02 AM
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Originally Posted By AshWar
Learned my lesson brah. You think there's any way to salvage this though?
The only way you can salvage this is if you literally grab her by the pussy
post 1484724061 02-23-2017, 11:10 AM
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Originally Posted By HoustonMiscer
Can't trust these bitches
Fuk these bitches
These bitches can't do chit for me
Preach bhai
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